Emmanuel909090:



To me, you are very irresponsible to call your father an irresponsible man.

You are a grown man now, why are you not responsible enough to do all what your father failed to do, fool.

You are even doing POS

Okpetruth:
Is that you called you own father irresponsible just because he has no money? Haba!!! This is too much for the father that begat you. Does not having money amount to irresponsibility? Your turn will come. You even went to university and you still complaining over what? You should be ashamed of yourself. Maybe it's after suffering over your upbringing yet nothing to show that makes him abandon others. University education na garri,I drop out three times.

deniguy05:


you finished university and you used the words (with no any job) in a sentence smh

Leave him for God. What else do you wanna do? If accidentally anything wrong happens to the man now, they'll say it was you who killed him. Just keep talking to him in a calm way since he's your father. Don't forget to stand in the gap for him too. I mean, intercessory prayers.
He's your only father, last last. Good luck

Ezekiel2122:
Sorry about that, but if I may ask, did he has and doesn't want to give or has none at all?
He's working and still complaining to have nothing or not working at all?
Though, being irresponsible has no other word than that but it's always a good ideal to analyze problems from grassroot and find solution.
If he's working and still complaining, a review of financial status is highly required by calling all the family together and have a discussion and if he has no work, I think getting one will help.... My opinion though...

victooman:
you are a bigger fool? is it my responsibility to take care of children of my father children? when l have my own kids they wont pass through this pressure? l wont bring kids that will come to this world to fend for themselves l rather not marry than take such a route,, if u like go and harbour children u can't fend ur children will call u this name either directly or indirectly..
Did u know what it means to literally carry yourself through University and after managing to graduate the little u are making u literally use all of them to Carter for unending demand..
if u have not been in people shoes just keep quiet u fool

Abi1985:
Your father is not irresponsible but is poor. Please know the difference, may God continue to help your father

chosky2589:
Bro calm down and understand with him, I'm in this shoe with you!

DJInfluence:
and some can be classified as sperm donors only.

kennethesan:
It is well. Let me quickly correct you there. Pls don't ever address your father as being irresponsible even if he acts as one, it shouldn't come out of your mouth pls. You see, no Father is outrightly irresponsible. The way we are wired, we are designed to fend for our families. However, when forces beyond his control makes that impossible he malfunctions like a computer infected with a virus.Pls understand this and pray for Dad.

didymario7:

Dear victooman
I will send you the 10k to complete her registration. Kindly let me know how I can reach you. Thanks

Kriss216:
What's the essence of struggling to attend to school when you can just get an Oluwole certificate and become the president of Nigeria.

AlphaHakimi:
■ OP answer these questions honestly
1) Does your father spend his money on Drinking and smoking/drugs?
2) Does your father womanize?
3) Is he hardworking?
4) Does he provide anytime he has the money?
5) Does he gamble away any money he makes?
If he does not engage in any of those negative vices I mentioned, then the truth is that he doesn't truly have money.
Don't kill your father before his time.
Also, your mother's job is not just to pop out children. She should be very involved in training them too. Don't heap all the responsibilities on the man. You have done your best by providing part of the money.
Shalom.

Elidrisy20:
You thank God say your papa dey alive, many no get the chance to see their popsi

Justfavourme:
For openly calling your biological father irresponsible, it shows you yourself you are irresponsible. How dare you come to social media to downgrade your father..

Sonnobax15:

It is well bro...

Sometimes when I look at my dad,I only wonder how he managed to do it....As in,how he managed to take care of my brothers and I after the death of my mom despite being jobless..............There was never a time we went hungry...We were even privileged to attend one of the best private school in town...Tho there were challenges along the line but it really helped shaped us into being what and who we are becoming....



Op, it's never been easy...........But trust me, there's no wicked father anywhere who would fold his hands and watch his children lack when he has the ability to solve their problem....

May we become fathers and not only fathers but the type that will be able to provide eveey basic need of our wards and our parents and every loved one 🙏

victooman:
Since l was born, since l got to know my father it has been one complain to the other..
There was never anytime he have money or have the financial strength to Carry out any family responsibility .
After struggling to finish University with no any job l started Pos business were l am managing myself,, the constant demand is killing my business ..
Today my mother called me that my sister is about to be enrolled into secondary school and the total amount for registration is 25k, l called my dad and told him that l will try raising 15k and they should complete the remaining 10k, he started complaining on how he doesn't have money and haven't eaten since yesterday,, in fact l am tired dear Nairalanders,

Kobojunkie:
Hogwash lies you were fed by the ignorant ones who came before you. The story below goes to show how untrue that lie you were fed can be.
Man who killed his father and mother, escaped prison

kevwemike:
bros how far mk I send asa head burn for here lol

Kobojunkie:
***yawn***

kevwemike:
Smile God bless you sir

Kriss216:
What's the essence of struggling to attend to school when you can just get an Oluwole certificate and become the president of Nigeria.

Kriss216:
What's the essence of struggling to attend to school when you can just get an Oluwole certificate and become the president of Nigeria.

gabazin080:
i understand your pain but you shouldn't sound this way to your dad. my father is worse than yours. i never collected 1kobo as school fee from him while growing up and almost replaced him as father on my wedding day but I will not call him out on social media.
just give your sister the 15k and tell her to go meet your parents to balance up. nothing concern you again

DaytonaAries:





Let's leave sentiments. The man is irresponsible. Google that. You shouldn't give birth to kids, you can't take care of. That is irresponsiblity. The young man is struggling for himself and he has to take care of his siblings when the father is still alive.


Just fathering children alone, does not make you 'responsible' on that fact. Take care of the kids you give birth to, if you don't want your kids to call you "irresponsible". I assure you, no child wants to call their parent, that. But, it is what it is.


Op, give your sister the 15k and leave it at that. You have done your best. Let her parents do the rest.

Kobojunkie:
Dey there dey fool yourself! A father who cannot provide for the children he voluntarily squirted out of his loins into this world is a deadbeat father, whether he has a sob story or not. Stop consoling yourselves with silly reasoning in your foolishness. If you have kids that you are unable to provide for, you are no less a looser of a father than those who womanize, etc.

With the world the way it is today and the competition as strong, no one should be having kids unless he is absolutely sure he can provide them all they need to succeed.

AlphaHakimi:
■ Whatever makes you sleep well at night.

Sonnobax15:


Amen oooooooooo.
On the flip side, I can bet that the OP Na Benin person or generally South South guy. I saw all kinds of rubbish withy colleagues of South South origin, esp when you dey abroad.
I be like , guyz; una wan make dem kill you with billing ni

May we become fathers and not only fathers but the type that will be able to provide eveey basic need of our wards and our parents and every loved one 🙏

Kobojunkie:
Yeah, Nigerias leaders are to blame for you all boinking and having more kids than you know you are able to fend for. Clap for yourself!

dododawa1:
calm down