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Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by victooman: 2:58pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
Emmanuel909090:l am done with u,, Audio billionaire,, Nairaland Dangote,, all of u are always rich on Nairaland u, have this and this who are we going to call to confirm? who we go ask,, Use some of your wealth to get common sense because u skip it,, you don't badge into a post u have no common experience with and start attacking the poster with insult,, it shows how low of a fool u are... Did u train yourself in the university? can u in your miserable life have the gut to train and found yourself in school from the age of 19yrs till u graduate? can u build a business with 50k to 700k within a space of 2yrs despite the heavy financial demand coming from a family of six? can u ? one thing with fools like u who had their foundation perfectly laid down for them is that u think u are better than everyone,, the little change u are bragging about here is still someone peanut money so shut the fvck up... l can bet my whole life u are exaggerating things here to make urself look richer 3 Likes |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Kobojunkie: 3:03pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
OvertheTop:Me, insult? Read what I wrote carefully. I rather call a spade a spade. You decide if you will be insulted by my honesty or not. 2. About this being of my opinion, well, none of what I have posted is an opinion. Children are referred to as dependents for the main reason that they are meant to the responsibility of those who are guardians to them. The Law is clear on this. So ideas that seek to turn even that which is established and accepted on its head ought to be frowned upon particularly since they seek to take advantage of the weak. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Emmanuel909090: 3:16pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
victooman: You called me audio billionaire and the same time saying my family laid down everything for me. I guess you can count how much of a fool you are. 50k to 700k in 2years and you feel you have arrived, your entire wealth added with that of your dad can't even sponsor a vacation outside the shores of this country. Male fool, listen, you can only get better in life, when you take those responsibility as a reason to work hard and think of better ideas, or get a skill, if not, your children will call you irresponsible some day, with your comfortable Pos business. Mark my words. Ode 1 Like |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by DaytonaAries(f): 3:38pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
Emmanuel909090: Why are you foul- mouthed though. If you can't take care of the kids you gave birth to and you expect your other kids to pick up for you, then you are irresponsible. An innocent man won't give birth to a kid, he can't take care of. Op said he carried the burden of going to university. So, why can't he call his father irresponsible. Call a spade what it is and leave sentiments. If you aren't financially capable, don't pop out kids then. You can't blame the government for everything. 'Done his best' and he can't find a way to hustle for 10k for his daughter's school fees. He didn't even send his son to school and you claim he is innocent and someone who is trying to help out how he can, when he doesn't have to for his younger sibling is 'useless'. Do you have any sense of reasoning. Are you so dumbstruck in your delusions that you can't see that the man doesn't want to be responsible for his own kids. See how you are ranting and forming at the mouth like you are the Op's dad. If you don't want a child to call his father irresponsible, then the dad should take up responsibility. So just because he fathered someone, he gets a pass from his son calling "irresponsible". Continue playing. My prayer for you is that you don't become a deadbeat and expect your kids to take care of their own siblings for you. Audio Millionaire 5 Likes |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Mall: 4:00pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
DaytonaAries: I believe that it is worthwhile to take out medical insurance in advance, which will be able to provide you with illnesses that you are not able to provide. Plus, I hear there's insurance in Florida. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Bora54: 4:04pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
Mall: Absolutely right, you need to get insurance beforehand, especially at that age, I know a health insurance Florida that provides their services completely free of charge, you could ask them for help. My brother also needed their service and it was a good thing he did, because three months later he broke his arm. Insurance covered the treatment. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Mall: 4:06pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
Bora54:Thank you very much, you have helped me a lot. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by OLAPROSPER4(m): 6:38pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
victooman: While I think I understand your plight, I think you have erred in referring to your father as irresponsible. From your write up, you have an idea of what life entails. He may be lacking in his responsibility or may not measure up to what you believe a father should be, yet it's not in your place to label him such. The elders have a saying, "a child who says his father isn't successful, he is also on the path of fatherhood". My advice to you would be to do the best you can when you can. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Emmanuel909090: 8:02pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
DaytonaAries: It's now so obvious that you inherited your level of stupidity from your parents. You are blaming the man, because he is not financially capable enough, and you feel the government messing the whole system is doing enough. Devil punish you scrupture, because you don't pass for a living thing as you are a certified dead beat bastard goat. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Kobojunkie: 8:15pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
OLAPROSPER4:Ever heard of the term "Contradictions"? 1 Like |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by DaytonaAries(f): 8:27pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
Emmanuel909090: You foul and uncouth fellow. It seems you don't know how to reason past your sentimental riddled brain. And it seems you are taking personal objections to factual points. The man is a parent and as a parent, you need to send your child to school. If you don't have the money to send your children to school, then why bother to have kids. Simple. When you know you are not financially capable and you have kids, who do you expect to take care of your child for you? The government is very terrible but as a parent you alone has to take that responsibility of training your child to school. Your logic is thwarted and if you think I am stupid, then your brain is non-existent. Don't quote me again. Unless your brain has had a recharge. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Puss360(f): 11:11pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
emmabest2000:Lol... what will happen if he calls him irresponsible? With the look of things, is the father not irresponsible? Or is it because he can father a son, that automatically means he can't be irresponsible? Call a spade a spade don't sugarcoat it |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by victooman: 11:36pm On Oct 04, 2023 |
Emmanuel909090:You just dont have sense l can bet u are not more than 25yrs,, 2 Likes |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Emmanuel909090: 5:10am On Oct 05, 2023 |
victooman: If the way you reason is what you call sense, then we really need to feed your expired brain to the dogs, rubbish. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Emmanuel909090: 5:17am On Oct 05, 2023 |
DaytonaAries: Who are you trying to explain all this to? Me? Get out with your smelly mouth and rotten pus sy. Dwarf of a being. Ranting like a mad dog. I will say it again, this OP is a standard fool, and you are not left out. Abandoned pillock |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by DaytonaAries(f): 6:34am On Oct 05, 2023 |
Emmanuel909090: Who is ranting between the both of us. You have even been quoting the Op up and down and foaming at the mouth. Another potential irresponsible father on the loose. Imagine the toxic waste coming out of that thing you call a mouth and you think you aren't a fool. Better go and hustle so you can take care of your own kids and not expect your other children should do the job for you. This is the last time I will trade words with an ignorant uncouth thing such as yourself. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Emmanuel909090: 7:22am On Oct 05, 2023 |
DaytonaAries: You are so foolish, that even a fool thinks you are a foolish fool. Listen, and listen good, don't be as useless as your father towards your siblings, if you can afford helping them please do and don't let them suffer in mystery because you think, it's a must responsibility for your useless parents. This is one reason I jealous the Igbos |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by gunners160(m): 9:39am On Oct 08, 2023 |
Emmanuel909090:It is obvious you have nothing and people who brag a lot have nothing. The truth is never shame a man's hustle if you are not feeding him. Yes, he is into POS, did he beg you for money? Just as someone rightly pointed out, you seems to be a product of bad parenting. Let me shock you, the last born staying with me here, my dad still pays his school fees. In fact recently they increased their school fees to 150k , my dad paid.... In fact I even called it 200k for my dad so that he will use the extra 50k to buy clothes and shoes for himself. My dad as never for a day collected 5 naira from me even though I am working, all I do is send him yam, beans and fish just to say thank you ..... In fact he won't even think about telling me about money becos he has his own money . Yes we are not rich but we are comfortable. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Emmanuel909090: 1:57pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
gunners160: You just made it obvious that your father raised a miserable tout for a son. Him calling his father names because he asked for his support is normal. I said it earlier your father raised a useless thing, you are proud to tell me that all you have done to appreciate your dads effort in buying him beans and plantain. God forbid having an animal like you as a son. Fool go and make a transfer to your dad, show him you can be useful. Even otedola will appreciate it even much more than all he has when his child gifts him money. Anyways you are not different from the OP, I guess you can proudly call your father names, used rusted idiot. Yes His hustle is useless, he is complaining that his father is always complaining, yet he has started complaining like his father and you call what he is doing a good hustle. You are a negative fool. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by victooman: 11:06pm On Oct 09, 2023 |
Emmanuel909090:please and please we should all ignore this bastard,, Go and father the children u can't take care of and expect your child to carter for them na untimely death go visit you.. Lazy mofo like you,,,see how you are passionately supporting nonsense,, even after talking to my father today he sees more than enough reason to brazen up but u olodo,, beg beg fool thinks it is a normal thing. . God will punish your useless life the day u start mounting pressure on your son to feed your lazy ass, Dont go and look for something doing be here on Nairaland 24/ 7 replying every message that comes to you.. for the fact that you think the word Irresponsible is an insult shows How daft of a fool you are.. useless stupid ugly mofo |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Emmanuel909090: 3:08pm On Oct 10, 2023 |
victooman: Hahahaha, e pain you? Hahahaha. Firstly, I'm a proactive person, so if 100 persons quote me I will respond to all. I multi take, my emails means a lot to me, this is just to tell you the kind of job I do. Funny enough I already have more than enough to take care of myself and family, even if I decide not to work from today. But you must have to work everyday to buy you parents beans and plantain. You are a proud illegitimate fool. You are already crying, because of beans and plantain I wonder how you will complain the day a useless antelope like you gifts your father ordinary 200k. On behalf of your father you are are a useless thing. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by victooman: 7:50pm On Oct 10, 2023 |
Emmanuel909090:This shows you only read to reply you don't digest anything just spitting out nonsense to make your self feel Good check the person you are quoting before talking about plantain abd beans.. You are just a retarded fool,, and why are u so eager to show how wealthy you are? empty drum like u, Dont just father children u can't take care of and heap all the responsibility on ur child , God will punish if u dare that,, see how u spend all ur life on Nairaland tomorrow u emotionally blackmail ur innocent child to start carrying ur problem work now u wont go and find something keep blabbing and keep lying to yourself on Nairaland,, idiot |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Emmanuel909090: 8:56pm On Oct 10, 2023 |
victooman: If you ever read to understand, you should have realized you are not even good enough to be used as a tissue paper for cleaning poo. You are a living dead, bet me, you will be buried soon. Just save your useless income and the beans and plantain money so your family can afford a coffin. Frozen maggot. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by dbestuncle: 7:18am On Oct 14, 2023 |
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Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Ezekiel2122(m): 5:36pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Actually, I don't know how you're trained...but the way I'm trained, my parents don't present themselves to me as God, but as human which might also go wrong at times and that you may call their attention to.. |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Kobojunkie: 5:51pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Ezekiel2122:Storyland! |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Ezekiel2122(m): 6:33pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Toh, that's the difference between us... And reason we can never said the same thing |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Kobojunkie: 6:33pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Ezekiel2122:Storyland! |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by deniguy05: 7:51pm On Nov 15, 2023 |
victooman: I see why you don't have 25k. you are just a rude nitwit. you should work on yourself man. your family business should be your decisions. if your dad kpoof. who go handle am. try get sense |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by victooman: 11:56pm On Nov 15, 2023 |
deniguy05:Give birth to children u can't fend for and expect that when u kpoof they will take care of them,, God will punish u even in ur grave,, l dont have 25k and that is why l didn't bring children into this world.. my fathers children are his responsibility and not mine ,u should also raise ur lazy azz and accept this truth so that u wont end up as a burden to the children that didn't ask u to bring them in to this world 2 Likes |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by deniguy05: 3:06pm On Jan 16 |
victooman: Social mediaπππ go make u talk to who you no fit stand for their front. Right now hotel weh i dy for weeks na 35k per day. U dy complain about 25k. Day play with your life and be insulting your future helpers. Nitwit weh him papa born to come sufferππππ.suffer go follownyou go grave |
Re: How Do l Handle My Irresponsible Father!! by Ubanz: 11:32pm On May 02 |
Kobojunkie: Maybe you are talking from a first hand experience. |
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