| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Kobicove(m): 4:22pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
You don chop wetin dey hungry you since, now rest  10 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by OBIDIENTNAIJA: 4:23pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.
We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.
So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,
One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do? Since it was raw, go and do HIV test. And be ready to hear news like , I am pregnant for you. You just lose guard. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by rickleye: 4:24pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.
We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.
So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,
One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do? Ok - should I or should I not say . I ve decided not to share my similar story. What I will say is this… The crush wants to get married and sees you are potential target. Stay with your current gf - all you have mentioned about your crush is sex . You have not stated anything wrong with current GF. Let the crush gf know the relationship. You have a gf and she can only be a side kick . 6 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Elsueno: 4:26pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
I am really superise people allow women other than thier wives or very close relatives to sleep over in thier house....I WOULD NEVER DO THAT..One of d few reasons I still can't keep a girlfriend sef 3 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Nobody: 4:26pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Any sex topic they'll rush and gather there
Brostitutes 😂 1 Like |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Tobest94: 4:27pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Just save the date you had sex with her cos you’ll need it when she tells you she’s pregnant. 6 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by silvoclaira: 4:28pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
honour7:
Why would he not phuck her, all that is remaining to do is to collect
multiple times them block her, who get cargo From his statement, you can read he is already thinking of leaving his girlfriend for this oldie pvssy that is not even serious with him. She will use him and throw him like a piece of rubbish. The gee is a simp. No balls. 6 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Hakeem66: 4:28pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
As an elder who have seen it all and also overcame such temptation at past. I supported all the replies here, they all spoke well.
My young man, becareful next time if you are not already trapped with this. 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by phemmyfour: 4:28pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.
We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.
So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,
One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do? She's using you. Don't allow your emotions consume you. Use your brain and make the right decision. When She's done satisfying her sexual fantasy with you, she ll move on and you ll be heartbroken once more 3 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Styluss: 4:30pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
She visited solely for reconciliation and sex as a way to hook you down, sadly, you fell for it! Don't disappoint someone who has never wronged you! stick with your original loyal gf. Ashewo oshiii StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do? 4 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by obinna58(m): 4:30pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Simp |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by patorial(m): 4:31pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
The school you attended no try, I wonder what happened to your comprehension. Guy calm down reason am. You shouldn't be surprised you had sex with a pregnant girl. Don't act surprised if she had a game on you. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by shinealight(m): 4:37pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
That is what is meant by Hell on Earth! You now have to wash your inner robes clean…nobody can help you do it. If you eventually succeed in this, perhaps you would resolve never to burden yourself again in such a way…else you might fall into a deeper Hell. Good luck!  1 Like |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by RPG2020(m): 4:44pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Spoiled brat 😔 |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by mariahAngel(f): 4:46pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
The school you attended no try, I wonder what happened to your comprehension. What nonsense comprehension are you talking about? What is there not to easily comprehend? He asked a straightforward question; did you use protection or not? Better answer his question for your own good. 5 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by blackmarya(f): 4:52pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.
We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.
So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,
One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do? Are you sure this girl isn't pregnant and needs someone to pin it on. Just thinking tho It's better you tell ur babe everything before she will find out herself. |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by DaddyJapan(m): 4:53pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do? Take the experience of coitus with that old flame to the grave and say nothing to break your current girlfriend's heart. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Erums(m): 4:53pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
wereeeeeeeeh StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.
We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.
So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,
One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do? |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by REALretep(m): 4:55pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.
We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.
So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,
One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do? Your crush don crush you shaa.
Her plan went well as planned.
You have become a pencil in her hand.
Sex is not for children but you won't hear. Why on earth will you lie on the same bed with a girl you crush on, live in the same house with her alone, and she freely exposes her unclothedness before you, and you are here claiming you had zeroed out the thought of anything happening between the two of you. Who are you deceiving?
Stay away from premarital sex before it destroys you
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| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by MuMuOnBail: 4:55pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Na wa ooo Why are guys of this tiktok generation so weak?  Why have they thrown away the fundamental skill of chopping this our sisters and cleaning our mouth? She came for knacking and you have given it to her, let her go and search for other dicks in peace. But if she miss her period go for DNA test. You are truely a weak man. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Bribri: 4:55pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
You sha don nack am. nack am again. then step back make you brain reset to see well. 4 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by SweetDipBenny(m): 4:57pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.
We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.
So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,
One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do? I can't help u bro. Only u know wat u want. But whatever choice u make, always think about urself first.. |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by spiSeyi: 4:57pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
The school you attended no try, I wonder what happened to your comprehension. Bro nah true talk dem dey yan you  , free s*x from a Nigerian babe is a red flag . Watch your back man something is looming 5 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by spiSeyi: 4:58pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Ballzproblem2:
she have seen that you are doing well now that's why she wants a relationship with you, when will simps learn Agba🫡! but if we tell am, he go talk say we no go school bcs we nor fit comprehend his epistle evening newspaper 📰 don work penalty for this SIMPle man 3 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by rigarmortis: 5:00pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Hope you used condom |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Chetas81(m): 5:00pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
Lol it's imagination? I have chats to prove it, just keep mute if you have nothing to say sir. nothing to learn from rubbish and stupid idea |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by spiSeyi: 5:00pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
The OP mumu nor too much, the babe nor reason your matter when u no get money and when she is still a fresh wine. 1 She told him to his face he was a weak man and he proved her right after 10yrs by allowing her to spend a night at his place, and dig her borehole. 2 He fell for an evening newspaper 📰 mind game, come to think of it that the babe rejected him when she was still a fresh wine because he was a poor boy and came back after God don pick his call. She used OP has a retirement planYou would have made a lot of sense by letting her know that she can't spend a night in your place because you now have a partner . Never give any b!tch that ignore you when you are nobody a second chance. Evening newspaper don win another SIMPle Above all, OP is a pvssy nigga, he is a mumu man 5 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by MOGPman(m): 5:03pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
She was the first girl I ever had amorous feelings for, I was in secondary school then, I asked her out with all the courage my being could muster, and she turned me down, we stayed friends for over 10years, I would try to move on, and it would work for a while and all the feelings will come back all over again especially when I see her, I don't see her often as she lives in another state.
We both did well for ourselves, I concentrated on making myself a better guy, worked hard to make something of myself, she did the same, and over the years we were just friends and I went ahead and dated only 4 girls, I don't womanize, I realized I always looked for her in every girl I dated, and I mostly dated girls that looked like her, I have been lucky with love in the sense that all the girls I dated loved me, I'm currently in a relationship with a decent girl too.
So fast forward to last week, she came visiting all of a sudden, haven't seen her for over two years and here she is, we connected and spent time like best friends, shared and talked about our lives and joked about how she put me in friend zone in the past, throughout her stay she stayed in my apartment, we slept in same bed and everything yet nothing happened, she kept talking about how I am a good guy that most guys will sleep with a girl that come under their roof, sometimes she would change her clothes in my presence and I won't make any move, she said being a good guy was what she hated about me back then, that she thought I was weak, and now that she's matured she sees that quality differently now, I didn't read meaning to any of this as I have zeroed out the thought of anything happening between us for years until she started doing strange things, like kissing me without warning, cuddling at night and pressing me to her Bossom etc,
One night she did that and I got aroused, I lost control and we got intimate, it was intense, but before we could have actual sex I came to my senses and made her stop, it was super awkward, we didn't talk about it because she has a partner and I do too, I thought we'd just pretend nothing happened and move on so we wouldn't sabotage our relationships, then the next day we were alone at home in my living room, she wore my Tshirt with undies and we were binge watching movies, suddenly she started kissing and touching me, and I lost it again and this time we had passionate sex, she left the next day, and ever since then I've been confused and guilt ridden, she told me it was a mistake she rejected me in the past that we can still start something if I want, that she is ready to be with me, but I wasn't buying it, I am confused because a part of me feel something fishy is up, and the other part wanted her but I don't know how to tell my girlfriend nor do I want to hurt my girlfriend, I don't love her like I loved this old time crush of mine, but she is a loyal girlfriend and I can't look her in the eyes since the sex thing happened, and every nerve in my body is telling me to confess and ask for forgiveness or keep quiet and move on with my life, what do I do? After you don knack finish you come dey ask us wetin you go do abi? |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Segzy19: 5:06pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
Bro, let it go please.
There are some secrets we will take to our graves or never confess to the affected person. If it so disturbs your peace of mind, confess it to God and also find someone else to confess to (not your fiancée o)... that may give you some relief from the guilt...
Stick to your girlfriend, please. . Especially if she has been true to you ..
Ensure that she also sticks to her guy and gets married. Once she is married, at least she will be off your radar...
Don't trust ladies when they behave like this, especially Nigerian ladies. They always have one hidden agenda or the other...
Just hope that she isn't pinning any pregnancy on you incase you didn't use condom.
Life is Life. These things happen but then we just have to stick to the focus and move on...
We all have our fair share of these flings... Na make God help man 2 Likes |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by MOGPman(m): 5:07pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
advanceDNA:
Hope u didn't skin dive??
She said she saw u as a weak guy ..... meaning, she came with that same impression.
.. U sure say she no carry belle come fvck u for house, expecting to nail u with it.....as per weak guy that u are naaaa. ...
Btw ..if u tell her u are not interested in the relationship ..baba she go show u pepper... So use ur brain E be like say you be baba for the game o, tuale! |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by OGHENAOGIE(m): 5:07pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
StylesX:
I'm actually 50+, oya rest why Ina story de hit front page and our own node enta front page abi na form form story |
| Re: I Had Sex With My Childhood Crush, Now I Am Confused & Filled With Guilt by Expanse2020(m): 5:09pm On Oct 03, 2023 |
My bro
What you want in the biginning you have got it.
The game is over.
That girl got something up her sleeve just free her.
Say no to the relationship..
Don't let konji mislead you again |
