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Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Gafferde: 9:17am On Oct 23, 2023
Women are surplus but ready men are scarce.

More men keep running away from relationships and marriages because of financial responsibilities and obligations. Many of them are waiting to make money, and afterwards pick any woman they like. You can't blame them.

Call them weak men. Call them insecure men. It doesn't and will never change the fact that society measures the seriousness of a suitor by his financial readiness and capability.

If you're a woman and you're already married or in a committed relationship, you don't know how blessed you are. You are really blessed. Be grateful to that man. Be grateful everyday for finding love. It's very difficult to experience real love from a man whom other women rejected because he was not financially up to standard.

Your marriage or relationship may be rocky at the moment, but always thank your creator for bringing him to you. Be grateful that he still loves you and he still sticks around.

Fight for what you both have and share. Protect your man and your intimacy. Pray for your man.

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by adesegun121(m): 9:23am On Oct 23, 2023
Naso

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Wujio: 9:24am On Oct 23, 2023
Because many women don't want to submit properly. You can't safely have them

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Nobody: 9:27am On Oct 23, 2023
Arrrrrrrh

Marriage keh? grin grin

I still get 7-8 years before I marry. As age no dey rob man, I go jejely take my time to choose the right woman. Marriage is not an accomplishment for men.

As a girl here, my advice to you, forget all this feminist shit or stup'id attitude women do to men. No woman, I repeat no woman can be complete without a family. No matter how rich or how many guys you sleep with to fulfill your sexual desires, that void will still be in there. Forget ladies like Tonto dike, they are empty sad loners displaying the charade strong women, we can still do kt

As a girl please respect men. Don't look down on men, be kind with your words and your dealings with men. You want to marry a man today be kind to all men. I pray as grow into this, you will not experience evil men that will want to destroy you!

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by safarilove(m): 9:32am On Oct 23, 2023
no be lie.. Another reason might also be the level of promiscuousness among the female gender..
abeg make una try dey hold una self..no be to dey sleep with any random man..
Look for a serious man and tie the knot with him..

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by DyingFetus: 10:02am On Oct 23, 2023
I rather stay single than marry a filthy whôre

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Slaveman343: 12:54pm On Oct 23, 2023
Many men want to marry. Speak for yourself only

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Slaveman343: 1:01pm On Oct 23, 2023
gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Marriage keh? grin grin

I still get 7-8 years before I marry. As age no dey rob man, I go jejely take my time to choose the right woman. Marriage is not an accomplishment for men.

As a girl here, my advice to you, forget all this feminist shit or stup'id attitude women do to men. No woman, I repeat no woman can be complete without a family. No matter how rich or how many guys you sleep with to fulfill your sexual desires, that void will still be in there. Forget ladies like Tonto dike, they are empty sad loners displaying the charade strong women, we can still do kt

As a girl please respect men. Don't look down on men, be kind with your words and your dealings with men. You want to marry a man today be kind to all men. I pray as grow into this, you will not experience evil men that will want to destroy you!
Too many disrespectful Nigerian men on the internet space today. I see them insulting women on Fb, Instagram, Twitter, Nairaland. Let's wait for the consequences of these careless utterances in a while. You want women to submit to this level of vileness. Always counseling women yet you are the most immoral.

I wash my hand off the nemesis coming upon most of you. God should see that I'm not part of this.

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Little21: 1:12pm On Oct 23, 2023
Slaveman343:
Too many disrespectful Nigerian men on the internet space today. I see them insulting women on Fb, Instagram, Twitter, Nairaland. Let's wait for the consequences of these careless utterances in a while. You want women to submit to this level of vileness. Always counseling women yet you are the most immoral.

I wash my hand off the nemesis coming upon most of you. God should see that I'm not part of this.
Just let them keep dreaming... They can never get married too the woman they are dreaming about. Cuz no woman of such attributes, will get married to the man that has no moral whatsoever.
Always insulting women wherever they are, yet they are looking for a woman. Pathetic lots!
Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Nice2023(m): 1:16pm On Oct 23, 2023
I just laugh here.

U guys are very funny. To think that this topic was meant to talk about why some folks refused to marry early and now,many of them have turned it against women.

Before u come for me,I am a man with three chdren and for all of u waiting to make big money before marriage. Don't worry I wish u guys the best in ur pursuits.

But stop disparaging and embarrassing women just because u don't have confident in ur yourselves nor respect ur sisters at home and u come up here to embarrass them online.

Marriage is not for broke men who can't feed themselves,even gamblers and cashless men will also come to talk about marriage. If u think u are a smart guy without money,first enter marriage and see how useless u will be in just a matter months.

Whether u want to marry later or u think age is just a number...no wahala but one thing is sure,u will always regret not marrying early...whether u are a macho man or flat chested man,u will see the consequences.

U can't marry at 50 and expect anyone to eulogise u. At that age,u will be buying pampers,staying late night to care for the baby or even carrying a new born when ur mates are nearing retirements(with due respect to those who had children late as a result of delay in child birth) and seeing their children graduating.

Last advice.

Allow men who matters dabble into marriage and leave out the chaff men to keep bragging about not marrying early as, time waits for no one.

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Slaveman343: 1:19pm On Oct 23, 2023
Little21:

Just let them keep dreaming... They can never get married too the woman they are dreaming about. Cuz no woman of such attributes, will get married to the man that has no moral whatsoever.
Always insulting women wherever they are, yet they are looking for a woman. Pathetic lots!
It's a shame really. When I see them, I wonder if I'm living in the wrong century because these are not men. Men build and repair their societies not tear down. How would insulting women day and night make them change? It would even harden them and at some point they won't care anymore.

Women are part of our society, and our home makers. What do we gain from emotionally abusing them forever. It's just a matter of time. And I'll be here to remind them of their actions.

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Wujio: 1:20pm On Oct 23, 2023
Slaveman343:
It's a shame really. When I see them, I wonder if I'm living in the wrong century because these are not men. Men build and repair their societies not tear down. How would insulting women day and night make them change? It would even harden them and at some point they won't care anymore.

Women are part of our society, and our home makers. What do we gain from emotionally abusing them forever. It's just a matter of time. And I'll be here to remind them of their actions.



Kkk
Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Wujio: 1:22pm On Oct 23, 2023
Nice2023:
I just laugh here.

U guys are very funny. To think that this topic was meant to talk about why some idiots refused to marry many of them have turned it against women.

Before u come for me,I am a man with three chdren and for all of u waiting to make big money before marriage. Don't worry I wish u guys the best in ur pursuits.

But stop disparaging and embarrassing women just because u don't have confident in ur yourself nor respect ur sisters at home and u come come up here to embarrass them online.

Marriage is not for broke men who can't feed themselves...gamblers and ten kobo men will also come to talk about marriage. If u think u are smart man without money,first enter marriage and see how useless u will be in just a matter months.

Whether u want to marry later and u think age is just a number...no wahala but one thing is sure,u will always regret not marrying earlier...whether u are macho man or flat chested man,u will see the consequences.

U can't marry at 50 and expect any one to eulogies u. At that age,u will be buying pampers,carrying a new born when ur mates are nearing retirements and seeing their children graduating.

Last advice.

Allow men who matters dabble into marriage and leave out the chaff men to keep bragging about not marrying early time waits for no one.




This is nothing but the voice, attitude and cbaracter of Pride. If by luck God settles you early and you miss out on the hardships many suffer doesnt make it a norm



You are too filled with pride. I read through your previous threads and notice you have a long history of not being able to manage your pride. Listen, if you dont tame this pride if will lead you to people who will kill you


You are an extremely unreasonable himan being. I fill sorry for you. Your mouth will lead to your untimely death. Before you use poor in defense, i earn ten digts per annum. Youre nothing but an arrogant,.empty human being

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Nice2023(m): 1:29pm On Oct 23, 2023
Wujio:





This is nothing but the voice, attitude and cbaracter of Pride. If by luck God settles you early and you miss out on the hardships many suffer doesnt make it a norm



You are too filled with pride. I read through your previous threads and notice you have a long history of not being able to manage your pride. Listen, if you dont tame this pride if will lead you to people who will kill you


You are an extremely unreasonable himan being. I fill sorry for you. Your mouth will lead to your untimely death. Before you use poor in defense, i earn ten digts per annum. Youre nothing but an arrogant,.empty human being



U are just pained for supporting those who are irresponsible like the OP. Wetin concern me with a wretched man like u.

I am not the cause of ur pain but I will not stand where foolish men like u gather to rubbish our women all because many of u are woman hater,beater and all sorts.

Well,I am extremely proud of myself because I walk my talk and stand by what I say often. I don't change what I stand for.

I came to deal with fools who disparage our women for no reason and i will keep doing so until u change ur stupid and backward mentality.

U are not happy with me,because u were begging for money randomly and I stood against it by calling u out, all of sudden I am now full of pride.



Rubbish

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Slaveman343: 1:34pm On Oct 23, 2023
Nice2023:
I just laugh here.

U guys are very funny. To think that this topic was meant to talk about why some isome folks refused to marry early and now,many of them have turned it against women.

Before u come for me,I am a man with three chdren and for all of u waiting to make big money before marriage. Don't worry I wish u guys the best in ur pursuits.

But stop disparaging and embarrassing women just because u don't have confident in ur yourself nor respect ur sisters at home and u come up here to embarrass them online.

Marriage is not for broke men who can't feed themselves,even gamblers and cashless men will also come to talk about marriage. If u think u are a smart guy without money,first enter marriage and see how useless u will be in just a matter months.

Whether u want to marry later and u think age is just a number...no wahala but one thing is sure,u will always regret not marrying early...whether u are a macho man or flat chested man,u will see the consequences.

U can't marry at 50 and expect anyone to eulogise u. At that age,u will be buying pampers,carrying a new born when ur mates are nearing retirements(with due respect to those had children late as a result delay in birth? and seeing their children graduating.

Last advice.

Allow men who matters dabble into marriage and leave out the chaff men to keep bragging about not marrying early as, time waits for no one.
They think they would be young forever so they stay on the internet idling away and the devil is using their jobless asses to break down the society. You want to get married and you are saying you have all the time. Keep deceiving yourself. The time you waste on the internet saying trash instead of being productive, you will never get it back.

If they like they should not double their hustle and start a family they can cater for. Marriage seems to be losing its appeal with the days, so I wonder who will marry an old bitter chauvinist. I hope they are planning to relocate to countries where there are functional systems for old people cos it's going to be a terrible experience here

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Wujio: 1:34pm On Oct 23, 2023
Nice2023:




U are just pained for supporting those who are irresponsible like the OP. Wetin concern me with a wretched man like u.

I am not the cause of ur pain but I will not stand where foolish men like u gather to rubbish our women all because many of u are woman hater,beater and all sorts.

Well,I am extremely proud of myself because I walk my talk and stand by what I say often. I don't change what I stand for.

I came to deal with fools who disparage our women for no reason and i will keep doing so until u change ur stupid and backward mentality.

U are not happy with me,because u were begging for money randomly and I stood against it by calling u out, all of sudden I am now full of pride.



Rubbish


It will never be well with you. That gour five shops in abuja and three plots of lands i have way more than it. But i dont bring myself to make every decision people are broke, i am rich


You are a useless human being. As i type i am in my factory, i dont make issues about life people are broke. Oga what have you have that people before you have never had. Have multi millionaires not become broke after having alot.

I watched how you went through over 20 pages to curse people you assumed you were better than un your stvpid milk thread. I ignored you then over and over but your stvpidness ought to be confronted. Who the hell are you to make.mockery of peoples conditions ..

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Nice2023(m): 1:39pm On Oct 23, 2023
Wujio:





This is nothing but the voice, attitude and cbaracter of Pride. If by luck God settles you early and you miss out on the hardships many suffer doesnt make it a norm



You are too filled with pride. I read through your previous threads and notice you have a long history of not being able to manage your pride. Listen, if you dont tame this pride if will lead you to people who will kill you


You are an extremely unreasonable himan being. I fill sorry for you. Your mouth will lead to your untimely death. Before you use poor in defense, i earn ten digts per annum. Youre nothing but an arrogant,.empty human being



Men who are still begging don't talk about marriage.

How would u even feed a woman when u are an online beggar...banbiala?

See him,talking like someone who has a job...jobless man without ambition talking against woman like he created them.

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Wujio: 1:40pm On Oct 23, 2023
Nice2023:




Men who are still begging don't talk about marriage.

How would u even feed a woman when u are an online beggar...banbiala?

See him,talking like someone who has a job...jobless man without ambition talking against woman like he created them.



Abeg make i face work. Nuisance
Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by ibechris(m): 1:49pm On Oct 23, 2023
Wujio:
Because many women don't want to submit properly. You can't safely have them


U wey dey sound like a primitive fellow.

Na woman u want abi na slave u wan marry. Many of u here don't have regards for mothers and here u are talking about women not wanting to submit properly how?

Do u have what it takes to care for a woman...do u even know what marriage is about...u think marriage is about careless talks like this?

See man,go home and restart your life and to crown it all,learn to respect women. Not all women will fall for cheap men like u and not all women will for rich men as well.

But in all,respect women but if u are looking for a slave,pls go for slave and don't turn the topic against women ok.

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Nice2023(m): 1:59pm On Oct 23, 2023
Wujio:




Abeg make i face work. Nuisance


After the fake work u will come back to beg.

Continue to fool around ok.
Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Nobody: 2:22pm On Oct 23, 2023
Women in this generation are completely bereft of humility and brains. Asides that, they are also highly materialistic. Why marry a woman then a few years later, she'll be cheating on you while digging a huge hole in your wallet?

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Jewessgratitud3: 3:06pm On Oct 23, 2023
See this one. Men yaapa but no money and the ones that have little change are afraid to share grin cheesy.

Anyways better they wait until they are financially ready and capable to go into it. No body is rushing them.

Ladies if you rush them na you go suffer am o. I'm telling y'all the honest truth.

Modified
Wait.. what did I just read?
Did you just say ladies should be grateful for being married? Why? As in.. I don't understand why they should be happy for agreeing to enter into a mutual union that she's equally going to contribute to...

If you check well, 70% of married women don't "feel blessed" hence are not happy because of what they are experiencing in marriage which is totally different from their expectations before they got married. Can you stop concluding and speaking for the married cos you know absolutely nothing about how they feel or what they are going through.

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Prechimakanaki: 4:22pm On Oct 23, 2023
He be like say the hunger no reach your side oh,na make u day ask this kind yeye question

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Little21: 4:24pm On Oct 23, 2023
Slaveman343:
It's a shame really. When I see them, I wonder if I'm living in the wrong century because these are not men. Men build and repair their societies not tear down. How would insulting women day and night make them change? It would even harden them and at some point they won't care anymore.

Women are part of our society, and our home makers. What do we gain from emotionally abusing them forever. It's just a matter of time. And I'll be here to remind them of their actions.
Just let them say whatever they want, "what goes around comes around". The wife most of them are gonna get married to, they are gonna regret it for the rest of their life.

@bolded. They aren't men, they are just a bunch of idiots, and sex starved fellows. That's the reason why, you will never see them talking about any other thing than, "how they slept with this", "how this is a virgin" , "how this is a slut", "how that is an evening news paper".

People like this that doesn't even value their women and you think they are men? Hell no!

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by almarthins(m): 4:55pm On Oct 23, 2023
Nice2023:
I just laugh here.

U guys are very funny. To think that this topic was meant to talk about why some folks refused to marry early and now,many of them have turned it against women.

Before u come for me,I am a man with three chdren and for all of u waiting to make big money before marriage. Don't worry I wish u guys the best in ur pursuits.

But stop disparaging and embarrassing women just because u don't have confident in ur yourselves nor respect ur sisters at home and u come up here to embarrass them online.

Marriage is not for broke men who can't feed themselves,even gamblers and cashless men will also come to talk about marriage. If u think u are a smart guy without money,first enter marriage and see how useless u will be in just a matter months.

Whether u want to marry later or u think age is just a number...no wahala but one thing is sure,u will always regret not marrying early...whether u are a macho man or flat chested man,u will see the consequences.

U can't marry at 50 and expect anyone to eulogise u. At that age,u will be buying pampers,staying late night to care for the baby or even carrying a new born when ur mates are nearing retirements(with due respect to those who had children late as a result delay in birth) and seeing their children graduating.

Last advice.

Allow men who matters dabble into marriage and leave out the chaff men to keep bragging about not marrying early as, time waits for no one.

Confidence or courage?

You dey call your fellow men chaff, wonderful!
I wish every body could be married but some people get better degree no job no Income and they don't even know how to do another thing, so u expect such people to have confidence to get married. Imagine you re not doing so well in life, would you have had 3 kids?
Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Gafferde: 5:19pm On Oct 23, 2023
grin cool
Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by BigYash: 5:29pm On Oct 23, 2023
Na girlfriends full everywhere(Fvck mates) , wife hard to find these days..
Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Yugoslavia247(m): 5:32pm On Oct 23, 2023
Nice2023:
I just laugh here.

U guys are very funny. To think that this topic was meant to talk about why some folks refused to marry early and now,many of them have turned it against women.

Before u come for me,I am a man with three chdren and for all of u waiting to make big money before marriage. Don't worry I wish u guys the best in ur pursuits.

But stop disparaging and embarrassing women just because u don't have confident in ur yourselves nor respect ur sisters at home and u come up here to embarrass them online.

Marriage is not for broke men who can't feed themselves,even gamblers and cashless men will also come to talk about marriage. If u think u are a smart guy without money,first enter marriage and see how useless u will be in just a matter months.

Whether u want to marry later or u think age is just a number...no wahala but one thing is sure,u will always regret not marrying early...whether u are a macho man or flat chested man,u will see the consequences.

U can't marry at 50 and expect anyone to eulogise u. At that age,u will be buying pampers,staying late night to care for the baby or even carrying a new born when ur mates are nearing retirements(with due respect to those who had children late as a result delay in birth) and seeing their children graduating.

Last advice.

Allow men who matters dabble into marriage and leave out the chaff men to keep bragging about not marrying early as, time waits for no one.

You are a transgender.
Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Quality20(m): 5:33pm On Oct 23, 2023
Who told u that? Are ppl not getting married every weekend in ur area
Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by kevwemike: 6:20pm On Oct 23, 2023
Bços 80% of women have been used by yahoo boys

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Nice2023(m): 6:23pm On Oct 23, 2023
Yugoslavia247:


You are a transgender.


This shows that u are inexperienced.

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Re: Why Men Of Nowadays Don't Want To Get Married. by Marynwachukwu21(f): 6:42pm On Oct 23, 2023
Gafferde:
Women are surplus but ready men are scarce.

More men keep running away from relationships and marriages because of financial responsibilities and obligations. Many of them are waiting to make money, and afterwards pick any woman they like. You can't blame them.

Call them weak men. Call them insecure men. It doesn't and will never change the fact that society measures the seriousness of a suitor by his financial readiness and capability.

If you're a woman and you're already married or in a committed relationship, you don't know how blessed you are. You are really blessed. Be grateful to that man. Be grateful everyday for finding love. It's very difficult to experience real love from a man whom other women rejected because he was not financially up to standard.

Your marriage or relationship may be rocky at the moment, but always thank your creator for bringing him to you. Be grateful that he still loves you and he still sticks around.

Fight for what you both have and share. Protect your man and your intimacy. Pray for your man.
I 💯love this quote.
Is true that men are scared of getting married nowadays because of what's happening in this new generation,also women are not ready to marry a man that is not financially stable due to how they were trained.
Not every woman are after money some are after love and someone that is brave and wise to know what's right and wrong.

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