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My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 7:11pm On Oct 25, 2023
This is a true story people 100%

An unsaved number called me today and to be honest I was skeptical about picking the call because I don’t usually pick calls from unsaved number
So I texted the number and I asked “who is this”
The number quickly replied “it’s frank”

Now for context frank is a very good friend of mine young Igbo boy from anambra we went to the same secondary school and university together so we were kinda close since we grew up in the same environment here in Lagos, he was my go to person and I was his too the friendship was strong and it was good to have a frank in my life, soft spoken, kind and jovial person.

I immediately called back “ah ah franko franko how you dey naaaaaaaa” you could here the joy in my voice I was just shouting anyhow “ baba calm down I’m okay no dey shout” he replied laughing
We got talking laughing and reminiscing over old times and old memories, it was fun really to catch up on old times as friends and all until I asked him
“Ah ah frank this one that you’re calling with a Nigerian number does that mean you’re back” I followed with another question “how about your wife and kid na?” I could tell I immediately struck a nerve because he kept quiet for a few moments and you could tell he was hesitant to talk at first but then he told me his story and what he told me was spine chilling

I always knew frank had aspirations to leave this country right from our uni days “no be me and you go stay this country” he once told me, I knew it wasn’t going to be a problem for him because he was studying elect/elect plus he is very good at coding so I’m would be a good pick for any foreign country to have him
After service frank got one girl like that he was dating her name is Chioma at least the girl na spec and things were moving good for frank albeit slowly
Soon after they got married and had a kid and I couldn’t be more happier for them

Shortly after the 2019 election when GMB won his second term, frank quiclky applied for visa for himself and his family and since he had good skills he was selected I think it was tier one visa.
Like I said earlier frank was someone that had planned his life already and how he wanted to have a million dollar before 40, kids, a house and a loving family it was a good plan Ngl
Going to the uk was a dream come true for frank at least he accomplished 40% of his life long dream but going to the uk would prove to be a costly mistake for this young man
Frank got a job for a tech company there as an engineer plus he was doing side tech programming jobs on the side so he was raking in good money for him and his family which consisted of his wife and his baby girl who was born in Nigeria plus a son they would later have there

Everything was going well for this young man until suddenly his “beautiful loving and caring wife” he said he noticed some changes from his wife that he didn’t really take serious not knowing fire was on the mountain

About a year after they relocated he noticed some attitude his own wife was exhibiting
All of a sudden she wouldn’t cook for him anymore she left the master bedroom to the kids room to sleep, no form of intimacy or sex with his wife
She wouldn’t greet him anymore or ask about his day or stuff like that to show that he cared but it would only get darker from there
He called his wife to have a heart to heart discussion about thier relationship
He was asking what he did or where did he go wrong to try and mend the relationship because he couldn’t understand why his wife was behaving this way
He asked if she was bored because she was a stay at home mom( she couldn’t get a job because I think it’s sociology that she studied in uni and tbh who would hire someone with a sociology degree)
“What did I do wrong, where have I wronged you tell me I can change” “are you depressed” “are you feeling alone” “do I need to cut back on my working hours” so many questions he asked his loving wife and the only reply he got was “nothing” or “fine”
Soon after nothing changed and he decided to call her elder brother back in Nigeria to complain about his sister's behavior that would be his undoing because soon after his wife started giving him serious negative attitude she would go out to parties and not come back until late at night and if he asked she would ask “why are you policing me” or just ignore him and go to the kids room to sleep
From loving couples to complete strangers
Now this is where the story gets darker
He was at work one day when suddenly MET police came to pick him up and read him his name rights he said at first he thought it was a prank or a joke the humiliation he felt when he was escorted out the lobby in handcuffs while everybody was looking at him and whispering

He got to the police station and brought into interrogations room only to hear that his own wife accused him of domestic violence and rape
His ears rang for good 5 minutes before he started crying like real Tears oh the man was seriously weeping
Of course he denied the allegations whilst crying The investigators felt so moved that they actually left him there to finish crying before they could continue their interrogation
They took his statements, swabbed him and took scans for his fingerprints and stuff like that

He posted bail to appear at a different date and he was told not to return to his house cause the wife already had a restraining order I think, he had to book a motel and was living out of there the company he worked for terminated his contract and sacked him after the brouhaha so he was feeding solely from his side gigs and savings
Next thing you know the wife served him divorce papers to appear in court
He said he couldn’t call her because she may use the call as evidence if he shouted at her thereby proving that he is actually abusive and such
Frank was sobbing at this point and I really felt for him
He hired a lawyer plus a PI to help him fight back this allegation in conjunction with the met police

His redemption was that the police and his lawyers actually believed his story

They confiscated his wife’s phone and brought her for interrogation too
She had a pretty good rehearsed story, but like good investigators the story had cracks and was leaky
They pressured her the more but she was just weaving and floating before the truth came out

What had actually happened was that like twitter girls will say “ I outgrew him”
The freedom of the country got to her, so she sought ways to help get rid of her husband
She found a community online where it was just girls who wanted to “outgrow” their husbands in the uk
They were like 2k plus in the group
So she enlisted the help of one baddie who told her the quicker route to be if the husband would hit her than she could file for divorce all this because she has white male toasters and Was already sleeping with one
Well her plan backfired
They tracked and brought this Nigerian lady to the station and she immediately confessed about their plot
The plan was to get frank to confront his wife even in any aggressive manner any conversation they would have she would put her phone on record and shout at the man thinking maybe he would beat her up
They tracked and brought the white boyfriend too for questioning
And he affirmed the story also saying they’ve Been seeing and sleeping together for over 6 months plus

They all were charged with conspiracy while the wife got about 7 charges plus child endangerment

The good news is that the court after hearing the testimony both from the baddie and the white guy and met police and the pi
Granted the divorce gave customary custody to frank
He was feeling better now talking to me
He brought the kids back to Nigeria and he’s considering Staying in Nigeria permanently
The Ex wife is now running from pillar to post for feeding and accommodation as most of the friends she made deserted her after they heard what she did
The white guy wouldn’t take her back same as the baddie
Her elder brother and her family won’t talk to her
She has been begging for money to book return flight back to Nigeria but nobody is keen on helping her…….
Frank is getting back to his normal self although with reservations

We promised to link up later in the weekend to gist and laugh drink some beers and Oder chicken
I ended the call and I noticed we talked for over 2 hours
And That’s the story of my good friend frank

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Nobody: 7:21pm On Oct 25, 2023
@FreestuffNG,

Good for Frank. You got a nice story!
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Iambro(m): 8:06pm On Oct 25, 2023
If this is real I'm happy for frank

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Pupanchy(m): 8:26pm On Oct 25, 2023
God never leave his own people and please tell Frank to be prayerfully this time around, l learnt something from this so far and it was indeed touching cos l wonder if those truth was not reveal, how would the life of that man be by now ?

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 8:31pm On Oct 25, 2023
Iambro:
If this is real I'm happy for frank
Very real my brother

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Dracking(m): 8:37pm On Oct 25, 2023
Happy for him.
See how the us..el$$ gal want to destroy his life(House wife for that matter oo).
Again, the dude was wise. Imagine if he made that call.
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 8:38pm On Oct 25, 2023
Pupanchy:
God never leave his own people and please tell Frank to be prayerfully this time around, l learnt something from this so far and it was indeed touching cos l wonder if those truth was not reveal, how would the life of that man be by now ?
the plan was to get him arrested and deported while his wife inherit his property there and move in with the whitey
This baddie I’m telling you about is very well known according to him on twitter she hooks up Nigerian girls with British men or foreigners
The luck he had was the lawyer because the lawyer settles this kinds of cases all the time
It’s always the same story : Nigerian girl divorces her Nigerian guy then she starts to sleep with with men

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Ballzproblemm: 8:46pm On Oct 25, 2023
There's nothing really chilly here ,this happens to many ignorant conservative Nigeria men who carried their wife abroad not knowing the law favors women there a lot.


At least he got his kids , that's the main Koko

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 8:50pm On Oct 25, 2023
Ballzproblemm:
There's nothing really chilly here ,this happens to many ignorant conservative Nigeria men who carried their wife abroad not knowing the law favors women there a lot.


At least he got his kids , that's the main Koko
This is plain wickedness sir
Nothing you can tell me
First you deny your husband peace then you make him lose his job accuse him of rape and domestic violence when he hasn’t done anything to you
And all for what
White men with small peepee

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Ballzproblemm: 8:55pm On Oct 25, 2023
BOSSkesh:

This is plain wickedness sir
Nothing you can tell me
First you deny your husband peace then you make him lose his job accuse him of rape and domestic violence when he hasn’t done anything to you
And all for what
White men with small peepee

hence why it's not advisable to carry her abroad with you,then again somebody will service her down here,omo.

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 9:01pm On Oct 25, 2023
Ballzproblemm:


hence why it's not advisable to carry her abroad with you,then again somebody will service her down here,omo.
You have no argument sir she’s supposed to be My wife not my headache you’re think it’s about location it’s not
She could have easily done that to him here in Nigeria maybe even poisoned him
Location is not the matter Mindset is

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Ballzproblemm: 9:04pm On Oct 25, 2023
BOSSkesh:

You have no argument sir she’s supposed to be My wife not my headache you’re think it’s about location it’s not
She could have easily done that to him here in Nigeria maybe even poisoned him
Location is not the matter Mindset is
na una wey sabi ,use head follow woman.


na your wife no me say she go get access to everything, taking any woman abroad now is a stupid risk.

He should have gone there as a single male , hustle come back and settle down make una they use common sense.
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Magnoliaa(f): 9:10pm On Oct 25, 2023
This is super stoooooooryyyyyy
A life of strife and sorrow
It's a su---per stoo--rrryyyyy of good food and houses

Where the fishes drownnnnnn or even die of thirstttt
It's a super story, super story... Super story ehhhhh.

It's a super story!

Super story ... from the stables of Wale Adenuga Productions...


grin grin

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Streetmovement(m): 9:10pm On Oct 25, 2023
Wotoporiously cool speaking

Thank God for Frank cool
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Magnoliaa(f): 9:17pm On Oct 25, 2023
BOSSkesh:
the plan was to get him arrested and deported while his wife inherit his property there and move in with the whitey
This baddie I’m telling you about is very well known according to him on twitter she hooks up Nigerian girls with British men or foreigners
The luck he had was the lawyer because the lawyer settles this kinds of cases all the time
It’s always the same story : Nigerian girl divorces her Nigerian guy then she starts to sleep with with men

Baddie una.

Watin be her name/handle? E nor tell you? cheesy
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Magnoliaa(f): 9:23pm On Oct 25, 2023
BOSSkesh:
It’s always the same story : Nigerian girl divorces her Nigerian guy then she starts to sleep with with men

Na the koko of your point be this: make women out to be mindless promiscuous implicating people backed by Western laws.

Asin, your story has for pointers all of the Internet relationship lingos and talking points.

You people will literally create misandry and then victimise yourselves just to paint women bad. And of course, as the low-hanging fruit of a tactic it is, the emotional testerical gender will swallow it up with no atom of critical thought.

Your yeye dey smell. 🤣

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 9:32pm On Oct 25, 2023
Magnoliaa:
This is super stoooooooryyyyyy
A life of strife and sorrow
It's a su---per stoo--rrryyyyy of good food and houses

Where the fishes drownnnnnn or even die of thirstttt
It's a super story, super story... Super story ehhhhh.

It's a super story!

Super story ... from the stables of Wale Adenuga Productions...


grin grin
This is not a female or woman bashing thread not like that I didn’t bring this topic here to insult women
The Koko here is people can switch up on you if they feel hurting you will give them better opportunities

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 9:37pm On Oct 25, 2023
DestinedForGrea:

Just because a person says "Guys, this is a true story, 100%" doesn't necessarily make it true. It's just reverse psychology.

This is absolutely a super story.

Alafishafasorrowwww..

“What did I do wrong, where have I wronged you tell me I can change” “are you depressed” “are you feeling alone” “do I need to cut back on my working hours” so many questions he asked his loving wife and the only reply he got was “nothing” or “fine”.


So a person was narrating his experience to you, and he was quoting to you the exact words he said to her, and her exact responses? How na?
Like I said it’s very true this is a man I’ve known since sec school and lying with his name won’t do me any good he’s come back to Nigeria now to see if he can resettle back here he can’t fully leave the uk because the court only granted him temporary or customary custody not full custody.the quote you highlighted was narrated from third person to first person I.e it’s what he told me I used as first person you really need to be literate to understand
No be everything be film trick my sister

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by SeeWahala: 9:38pm On Oct 25, 2023
BOSSkesh:

This is not a female or woman bashing thread not like that I didn’t bring this topic here to insult women
The Koko here is people can switch up on you if they feel hurting you will give them better opportunities

All these ones wey you dey talk no be the koko

Oga, where should I check for my own free sturvs angry
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 9:40pm On Oct 25, 2023
Magnoliaa:


Baddie una.

Watin be her name/handle? E nor tell you? cheesy
What concern me with her handle or what she does with her life
What he told me is that they have a group on Facebook or twitter or so
Nigerian women actively looking for ways to divorce their husbands with minimal casualty
Maybe they get to keep the house and kids
Idk but it sounds real to me with all the stories we’ve been hearing about our people abroad no??

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 9:43pm On Oct 25, 2023
Ballzproblemm:
na una wey sabi ,use head follow woman.


na your wife no me say she go get access to everything, taking any woman abroad now is a stupid risk.

He should have gone there as a single male , hustle come back and settle down make una they use common sense.
Does it stop the lady from doing the same thing to him?
Stories dey oh my brother stories dey
If I talk Wetin I don hear about our abroad married couples haaaa I fit write novel oh
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Houseofglam7(f): 10:06pm On Oct 25, 2023
Damn
Sad 😔
Heard this before tho.
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 10:12pm On Oct 25, 2023
This was their wedding picture
I’m just happy franko is happy again
Enough said
Peace to all
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Rossycares(f): 10:52pm On Oct 25, 2023
I pray God keep exposing them one after d other.b4 u tk dat Ur girl friend/ wife outside d country biko hv a rethink, tk any member of Ur family first cause my gender are nt smiling this days...family first !!cause when d going gets tough as a guy/man dat Ur wife might be no where to found, Nd guess what? U will still fall bk to Ur family, ONE LOVE!!!

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Magnoliaa(f): 8:03am On Oct 26, 2023
BOSSkesh:
What concern me with her handle or what she does with her life

You gave many instances and specific interactions and an elaborate narration only for you to end up saying this one doesn't concern you?

I am not asking you to mind the business she does with her life, but that that bit is, this whole bit is the only detail about your story by which its truthfulness can be tested.

Shey you still have Frank's number and you're still in contact with him? Tell him to give you a name since, as you said, 'she's a popular influencer baddie' on Twitter.

Ask him for the name of this group. I'm sure he should remember the details of something that affected him so much, even to the point of narrating everything down to a T.

Shebi the case went to court? He should revisit his case file or ask the police for the detail again if he has forgotten.
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Magnoliaa(f): 8:04am On Oct 26, 2023
BOSSkesh:
This was their wedding picture
I’m just happy franko is happy again
Enough said
Peace to all

And this proves what exactly, lmao?
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Magnoliaa(f): 8:08am On Oct 26, 2023
BOSSkesh:
This is not a female or woman bashing thread not like that I didn’t bring this topic here to insult women

If you didn't, you'd give a substantive proof of your claims.

You have said the 'mastermind' is a popular person on Twitter. Give up her name if you feel like protecting the identity of your friend.
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 8:13am On Oct 26, 2023
Magnoliaa:


You gave many instances and specific interactions and an elaborate narration only for you to end up saying this one doesn't concern you?

I am not asking you to mind the business she does with her life, but that that bit is, this whole bit is the only detail about your story by which its truthfulness can be tested.

Shey you still have Frank's number and you're still in contact with him? Tell him to give you a name since, as you said, 'she's a popular influencer baddie' on Twitter.

Ask him for the name of this group. I'm sure he should remember the details of something that affected him so much, even to the point of narrating everything down to a T.

Shebi the case went to court? He should revisit his case file or ask the police for the detail again if he has forgotten.
All this stress to prove what point
What was told to me is what I’ve narrated
And I should ask frank to open this wound that is now healing does that make any sense to you?
Aunty it’s somebody’s true life story we can either learn from it or not

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Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 8:15am On Oct 26, 2023
Magnoliaa:


If you didn't you'd give a substantive proof of your claims.

You have said the 'mastermind' is a popular person on Twitter. Give up her name if you feel like protecting the identity of your friend.
I don’t know this lady never have I met her not to talk of her twitter handle.why would I ask of a thing like that from a person she hurt indirectly??
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by BOSSkesh(m): 8:16am On Oct 26, 2023
Magnoliaa:


And this proves what exactly, lmao?
That it’s people I know very well So I don’t see any reason why I would make it up
It happened that’s all I know
Re: My Good Friend Frank And His Dilemma by Magnoliaa(f): 8:27am On Oct 26, 2023
BOSSkesh:
All this stress to prove what point

To prove your thread isn't a ploy for grounds for misogynistic infestation!

You say it's not a women-bashing thread, but when the men start gathering here, what do you think they'll be doing?

What stress? Asking for a name is stress? Really?

What was told to me is what I’ve narrated
And I should ask frank to open this wound that is now healing does that make any sense to you?

😂😂😂😂

Now I know you're just a joker. You say person narrate story to you, for over 2 hours, all by himself, without prompt, but you asking a simple question about the woman's name is what will open his healing wound? Really?

Or think about it this way; tell us the name of this Facebook group so that fellow immigrant men can watch out for it and see if their wives are members of such a group.

By the way, did the wife meet the baddie on Twitter or in a Facebook group?

Your shared your friend's most intimate and painful details to strangers online, but asking for the name of a popular influencer, according to you, is where you draw the line? That is what will open a wound, not you doing messenger for story wey dem nor send you?

Aunty it’s somebody’s true life story we can either learn from it or not

We ain't learning shit here, not if I can help it, because 'like a compass needle that points north, a man's accusing finger always finds a woman.'

Substantiate your story!

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