domack99:

I want to believe that she is not cheating on you yet and i pray that the guy on the text message is not her first luv or else you are in deep poo!!!
All that shows is that you have not win all her heart you still need to try further if u can and then take time to study her and notice her words. Never ask her if she love you because if she does she will certainly tell you when u are least expecting.
Also i will advice u dont rush into marriage with her untill you get a clear signal.

Agybabe:

@poster take it easy. Try and win her heart totally, she might love you but you have not given her reason to be wholeheartedly. Make her realise you are better of her other b.a.s.t.a.r.d.s if you love her. The text on her phone is bad but beat the guy to it. Let it be you she is referring to. Work it out. You can hardly know if she cheating except if she wants you to. That is the little i can say for now please.

pro01:

Unfortunately, ignorance is not quite as blissful as you make it seem. Certainly wouldn't be nice for you to be walking around confidently as Suliya's Bf/husband, only for your neighbours and friends to be scoffing at you behind your back about how're you're a mumu and how your 'trusted' Suliya is a generous donator of her punana to xyz guys. The problem is that overly trusting and supposedly 'secure' cuckolds are always the last to know, because they had been living in a delusion of blissful ignorance and baseless confidence, which made them shut their eyes, ears and nose to the harsh reality on ground.

pro01:
From what I have observed severally, the most trusting and blissfully ignorant dudes are ALWAYS the most cheated upon.

slimyem:

hello??
I have a hole btwn my legs not a d1ck

pro01:

Unfortunately, ignorance is not quite as blissful as you make it seem. Certainly wouldn't be nice for you to be walking around confidently as Suliya's Bf/husband, only for your neighbours and friends to be scoffing at you behind your back about how're you're a mumu and how your 'trusted' Suliya is a generous donator of her punana to xyz guys. The problem is that overly trusting and supposedly 'secure' cuckolds are always the last to know, because they had been living in a delusion of blissful ignorance and baseless confidence, which made them shut their eyes, ears and nose to the harsh reality on ground.

The major reason why most men would commit themselves to one woman - and shoulder her wahala (financial, material and emotional) is the expectation of some sort of possession and exclusivity to her affections/body. Otherwise, you wouldn't mind marrying/dating and taking care of a known LovePeddler/promiscuous woman would you? Imagine being blissfully ignorant of the fact that you're the 'monkey' wey dey work, while another 'baboon' somewhere dey chop? No nau, haba. It's certainly better to know  abeg, so that you would take appropraite measures. From what I have observed severally, the most trusting and blissfully ignorant dudes are ALWAYS the most cheated upon. Freely given trust is often taken for licence to miisbehave: that's human nature.

It's better for you to know, just don't let her know that you're trying to know - lest she works extra hard to cover her tracks. If she's truly innocent and worthy of trust (cos trust must be earned, not freely given), then any trap you set for her would catch nothing. As the saying goes, a clean conscience fears no accusation.

ashiri1:

IF U ARE A BIG BOI, YOU WUD HAVE HER ROLLING ON THE FLOOR AND BEGGING TO BE NUMBER 1.


JUST HAMA WELL FIRST THEN U GO SEE 7 CUTE AND MATURED LADIES FIGHTING TO SIGN U UP. TRULY

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lmaooo [quote author=jidewin link=topic=789320.msg9422318#msg9422318 date=1319633790]
She wrote "I'L ALWAYS LOVE U'to another guy and posters are here talking about trusting her, hehehe I can't laugh,what's there to trust when heart is not there even at least 75%.ol boy you are learning and this thing youngsters call love,I call it game. When you are ready to settle down and you know you are ready,the girl who will stay with you will show,as long as you are compatible and can tolerate eaxh others excesses.make friends,reduce intimacy and don't take all relationships to heart.

Czar-Chris:

True talk, but remember that chick that is over humble my actually be using your"BIG BOI" money to be training another guyman.

Simply put there is no telling unless you want to die before your time, (believe me I've been there). I just rely on that Don Juan instinct which every player must have to survive. Once I have that nagging feeling that something is just not right, either she is over nice that day, more caring than usual, psychologically drawn away, not calling as usual, just anything out of the ordinary. But players please no girl is alone, a lady is alone if she wants to be alone not that there is no one out there admiring her "no matter" how ugly she is . So what's with the cheating stuff, you two ain't married yet so don't blame a player if he makes a hit. If your worried about cheating then put magun for her.

jidewin:

She wrote "I'L ALWAYS LOVE U'to another guy and posters are here talking about trusting her, hehehe I can't laugh,what's there to trust when heart is not there even at least 75%.ol boy you are learning and this thing youngsters call love,I call it game. When you are ready to settle down and you know you are ready,the girl who will stay with you will show,as long as you are compatible and can tolerate eaxh others excesses.make friends,reduce intimacy and don't take all relationships to heart.

B.Rosewood:

Well well well. What I'm about to say applies to reasonable men alone. My rule is this: if you suspect that she's cheating, then she is most definitely cheating. You don't need evidence; your intuition is more than enough.

They all have different styles to go about cheating but there is always one constant amongst all women all over the world: they exhibit the same pattern (symptoms). Eg: phone hiding, hiding their wall on facebook, sheepishly laughing when asked to clarify a suspicion, etc.

A man true to himself should always know when a woman that he is involved with lies to him. You don't have to challenge every lie but you should know when she's lying. And also, he should always know even before she cheats even in you are in different countries.

As for what she 'defence' (what she said about the other guy having a different type of love for her), she's a lying NaughtyWoman. Excuse my language but it is the truth. She's two-timing you. All what she said is bullshit. I bet she was laughing in a funny way while she was saying it. And truly you don't have to ask anyway. You already read the text yourself. What further proof do you want? I say again, your intuition/instinct is all you truly need.

Also get this: no single girl sees any one man exclusively. She has atleast one other man somewhere that you may or may not know about. Of course they all claim otherwise, but it is A LIE. And I can't blame some of them because some guys are twerps.

Dump her before she dumps you.

Peace.

totorimi:

Well my only message here is NEVER YOU EVER TRUST A WOMAN no matter who she may be. Do what you can and live your life dont poke nose into her life if you dont wanna die of heart attack. See, hear, but turn the other way for your dear life. Many have gone for been too nosy with girls. Give love as if you are a fool but please dont pry into their lifes' 'cos you will see plenty especially if you have attached so much confidence in the babe. Speaking from experience though.

Orikinla:

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kimberluge:

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Love is based on mutual trust and respect.if you dont trust her,the relationship is not worth it.