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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by Rexymania(m): 8:35pm On Nov 04, 2023
Ode, na woman life be that na, your money belongs to the both of you, while her money belongs to her

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by Ruke1989: 9:15pm On Nov 04, 2023
Zxcvbnmghtr:


1) Is it not his responsibility to provide?

2) Lots of men have ruined their wives for being generous and open hearted.

1) Only a damaged good-for-nothing housewife strongly holds your view number 1. Such mentality portrays a woman as just a birth machine, intimacy gadget and a liability to a man

2) I am forced to agree with you on the number 2, that you are now probably damaged. Hence, your number 1 view
Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by ExudeLoveToAll: 9:27pm On Nov 04, 2023
Medianna:
I don’t understand why he is disappointed.
She saving money or she giving him 5h from the money?
I’m still lost.
Did she steal his money?
Please I need answers

You don't need answers, you need comprehension skills .
Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by ExudeLoveToAll: 9:33pm On Nov 04, 2023
Zxcvbnmghtr:
It might be that she is being careful. Alot of men have ruined their wife's monetary base simply because she chose to be open hearted and generous.


Did you read what you wrote?

All the money men spend on their wife you can safely put from your assertion that a lot of women have ruined their husbands of monetary base simply because he chose to be open hearted and generous

A society where a man's money is deemed to be spent while a woman's money should not be touched and seen as a taboo isn't a society that encourages family togetherness. This is the reason I can't date a girl who doesn't share and give just as I do. Relationship or marriage isn't supposed to be parasitic but symbiotic.

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by ExudeLoveToAll: 9:40pm On Nov 04, 2023
Medianna:

Oh that’s the challenge?
If you notices where she brought it out from, you’ll know that it was a savings and probably she wants to use it for something else. Someone who doesn’t want to give you money will not even go through all the ‘neighbor’ streets talk more of coming back to give you.


You guys are pathetic.

Reverse the scenario if your answers aren't same then you have a problem.

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by NeoWanZaeed(m): 9:53pm On Nov 04, 2023
UptownVibes:
Let it slide ke.. He should learn from that scenario. Tell him to save for the raining days,because God forbids his business crashes one day,that's how the wife will start treating him.. So,he should not be doing everything for the wife from now on.. Let her work her ass out too,and he should learn to save,no matter how little..

My man... E go better for you. Your sense works 200%

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by StarRiderr: 10:33pm On Nov 04, 2023
The guy is still new on the game women with entitlement mentality your wife will have millions with her but pretends she don't have penny until she is convinced within her that you're in dieing need of that money she will now tell you let me borrow from my friend... fear woman
Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by kenedyx: 11:01pm On Nov 04, 2023
Zxcvbnmghtr:


One sided? undecided Is it not his responsibility to provide? And if he acts like she acted it will mean that he has had a not too good financial experience with her. But the reality still remains. Lots of men have ruined their wives for being generous and open hearted.

Just as it's her job to assist him.. whenever the case may be.

He should trek to work because he doesn't want to ruin his wife's life. Meanwhile, he's still expected to bring home his salary by month end for them to allocate. Okay, nice.

Maybe by "ruin the wife's life," you mean the man made her forfeit one money or the other she's been saving to buy the newest fashion or whatever, funny. Reality, how many men have fallen critically ill, utterly left incapacitated or even lost their lives while trying to be "generous" fathers and husbands? Were they wrong to be kind to their families?

Inasmuch a man knows his woman needs to be taken care of, there is never going to be room for that thing "entitlement".. it must go away and not only that, let her be appreciative, support him and do whatever she knows makes him happy.

Everybody will learn sha.

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by ikemesit4477: 11:31pm On Nov 04, 2023
stunnert:
she could have just gave him the first time he asked

Why do you women lie so much ?

Why lie that she had no money on her in the first place ?

Yet this guy hustle day and night to take care of her and their little baby
wish I can like this comment two times! Some women are terrible!

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by blacksam01: 11:33pm On Nov 04, 2023
superCleanworks:
He asked for TFare and she gave him. what is he crying for?

the cutny way dh acted to not uplift her husband from financial emotional stress but to add more to it...

telling him its from a neighbor keeps the burden on the man still...he could die of overthinking....the woman is selfish

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by Kobojunkie: 11:42pm On Nov 04, 2023
stunnert:
■ she could have just gave him the first time he asked Why do you women lie so much ? Why lie that she had no money on her in the first place ? Yet this guy hustle day and night to take care of her and their little baby
So because the money is in a shoe box in the room, you automagically assume it must be hers and she is lying? All this without your friend explaining anything to you? undecided

I sense your friend is bound to end up damaging his marriage if he continues befriending the likes of you. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by Zxcvbnmghtr: 11:58pm On Nov 04, 2023
ExudeLoveToAll:


Did you read what you wrote?

All the money men spend on their wife you can safely put from your assertion that a lot of women have ruined their husbands of monetary base simply because he chose to be open hearted and generous

A society where a man's money is deemed to be spent while a woman's money should not be touched and seen as a taboo isn't a society that encourages family togetherness. This is the reason I can't date a girl who doesn't share and give just as I do. Relationship or marriage isn't supposed to be parasitic but symbiotic.

You are not every man.

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by primeache: 12:05am On Nov 05, 2023
The money may not be his wife-s
He should discuss with her.
Her friend could probably be saving with her.

Oga use wisdom.

It happened where I l lived at one time, the lady was saving with my wife because she was not disciplined enough herself.

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by ukaface(f): 12:40am On Nov 05, 2023
stunnert:
So there is this guy whose store is close to my house, he usually comes around to fetch drinking water in my compound. We got along fine and I took him as my street junior bro ( He's married and I ain't )

Today he came around looking so dull and disturbed, I called him upstairs and asked what was wrong ( thinking it's issues with his biz ). With tears in his eyes he told me

He had woken up that morning without a single cash in his pocket and he had to get to the store in time. My guy asked his wife to pls assist him with Tfare, in which she swore that she has no cash with him but she will borrow from her friend who sells stuffs in the next compound.

She left for the next compound and didn't return for almost ten minutes before my guy decided to go check on her only to find her coming back inside without any cash in hand. With a worried look he asked her 'where is the money' only for her to reply that the money is inside their bed room which both of 'em just stepped out from

In total shock and disappointment he watched her go to her closet and brought out an empty shoe box in which she brought out a 500 naira note with more still in the box

I was short of words when he finished with '' bros how could she do that to me when I spend all my money on her and our daughter"

That’s why he Dey cry?
Did he ask his wife who has the money?
The wife finally gave him money Abi so what is the problem?
Him spending money on his wife and his daughter is his responsibility. He should rest

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by grandstar(m): 2:41am On Nov 05, 2023
PoliteActivist:


Why can't he simply take the shoe box from her?

World War 3 would commence!

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by PoliteActivist: 2:47am On Nov 05, 2023
grandstar:


World War 3 would commence!

World War 3 for where. One punch, lights out!

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by PoliteActivist: 2:57am On Nov 05, 2023
UptownVibes:

That's woman nature for you.. They don't give a fvck about men,they are in it for what they will gain.. It could be kids,marriage, fame,money,class e.t.c

So guys please be wise!

And what are men there for?
For what they will lose?
Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by PoliteActivist: 2:59am On Nov 05, 2023
StarRiderr:
The guy is still new on the game women with entitlement mentality your wife will have millions with her but pretends she don't have penny until she is convinced within her that you're in dieing need of that money she will now tell you let me borrow from my friend... fear woman

But this particular woman was HONEST. She could have pretended she indeed borrowed from friend. Instead she even showed him she had more. What a virtuous woman!
Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by YoungBlackRico(m): 4:27am On Nov 05, 2023
Dude she's a woman. Which kind cry baby be that one...?
Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by Rajman45(m): 7:20am On Nov 05, 2023
Some woman are like that, they believe a man should shoulder all the responsibility in the family.
U most pay back every penny Dem give/borrow u.

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by Kanixt(m): 7:59am On Nov 05, 2023
stunnert:
So there is this guy whose store is close to my house, he usually comes around to fetch drinking water in my compound. We got along fine and I took him as my street junior bro ( He's married and I ain't )

Today he came around looking so dull and disturbed, I called him upstairs and asked what was wrong ( thinking it's issues with his biz ). With tears in his eyes he told me

It's that the reason why he's crying? Because he ask a first time question and he didn't get the answer he want in that moment until 10minutes later, and still he came to you crying. Man with a daughter crying for that, he's not serious.
Leave him alone if not emotionally he will make you weak as well

He had woken up that morning without a single cash in his pocket and he had to get to the store in time. My guy asked his wife to pls assist him with Tfare, in which she swore that she has no cash with him but she will borrow from her friend who sells stuffs in the next compound.

She left for the next compound and didn't return for almost ten minutes before my guy decided to go check on her only to find her coming back inside without any cash in hand. With a worried look he asked her 'where is the money' only for her to reply that the money is inside their bed room which both of 'em just stepped out from

In total shock and disappointment he watched her go to her closet and brought out an empty shoe box in which she brought out a 500 naira note with more still in the box

I was short of words when he finished with '' bros how could she do that to me when I spend all my money on her and our daughter"

Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by stunnert(m): 8:52am On Nov 05, 2023
Kobojunkie:
So because the money is in a shoe box in the room, you automagically assume it must be hers and she is lying? All this without your friend explaining anything to you? undecided

I sense your friend is bound to end up damaging his marriage if he continues befriending the likes of you. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
What did you expect me to say to him ?
I have no experience in marital issues
Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by stunnert(m): 8:54am On Nov 05, 2023
candygist:


You won't be able to stay with a woman o
of cos, that's why I'm never getting married
Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by stunnert(m): 8:55am On Nov 05, 2023
Medianna:

Oh that’s the challenge?
If you notices where she brought it out from, you’ll know that it was a savings and probably she wants to use it for something else. Someone who doesn’t want to give you money will not even go through all the ‘neighbor’ streets talk more of coming back to give you.

I dig
Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by KosiGee(m): 9:03am On Nov 05, 2023
stunnert:
she could have just gave him the first time he asked

Why do you women lie so much ?

Why lie that she had no money on her in the first place ?

Yet this guy hustle day and night to take care of her and their little baby

Your friend isn’t mature and ready for relationship let alone marriage. Why making a mountain out of this mole hill? First, no matter how close you are to him, there are things he should deal with as a man in a relationship/marriage…this in my opinion isn’t one of such issues. He acted not just naive but petty and silly.

He shouldn’t have discussed this with you. You might be older than him but you are not married or experienced otherwise you should’ve advised him better. You didn’t but instead brought this to naira land to discuss and judge the woman.

If I may ask, how can a man wake up as you put it without a single cash in his pockets? Did the bundles in his pockets disappear while he was sleeping?? Just joking…but he should’ve discussed his situation the previous night with his wife…you don’t just wake up, feel frustrated and start begging for Tfare.

For the money in the shoe…..most of you are already judging the woman but what if this woman belongs to a group that runs ‘ISUSU’? What if she’s their treasurer? What if when this man asked for Tfare, she had gone to a group member to discuss that she wants to borrow some money off their contributions??

My mum was a treasurer for such group when I was 15. Things were hard for us but she was never tempted to touch their contribution, I once needed some money for something urgent, she didn’t have the money but she borrowed from their pot but she discussed this with two of her friends. She did put the money back in before it was needed.

Your friend coming to you because of this little thing isn’t right. He should be very happy that he’s got a wife that saves or trusted enough by her friends to keep their money.

When I saw the title of this thread, I thought your friend was a sissy man who was beaten up by the wife or she cheated on him with another man.

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by KosiGee(m): 9:14am On Nov 05, 2023
stunnert:
of cos, that's why I'm never getting married

Don’t wish yourself that. Pray that you make multiple times what your wife makes. If she earns N500k/month, work towards earning about N2.5m per month.
Let her money be hers. If she saved N1m, give her another N500k to put away.

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by Medianna(f): 9:39am On Nov 05, 2023
ExudeLoveToAll:



You guys are pathetic.

Reverse the scenario if your answers aren't same then you have a problem.
Lets be honest to ourselves,
There was no time someone ask you for money (you have it) and you said you don’t have right?
There was no time you deprived yourself from spending your money because of one or two reasons right?

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by Medianna(f): 9:42am On Nov 05, 2023
ExudeLoveToAll:


You don't need answers, you need comprehension skills .
You that have comprehension skill should know that I’m already confused so I’m seeking for clarification.
Mr comprehensive secondary school

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by superCleanworks(m): 10:30am On Nov 05, 2023
blacksam01:

the cutny way dh acted to not uplift her husband from financial emotional stress but to add more to it...
WTF language are you typing

so because I didn't tell you where I brought out money for your hospital bill YET i paid the bill, that makes me selfish?
Nice thinking.

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by dNortherner(m): 10:48am On Nov 05, 2023
Medianna:
I don’t understand why he is disappointed.
She saving money or she giving him 5h from the money?
I’m still lost.
Did she steal his money?
Please I need answers
I ain't surprised to see your comment with 15 likes. Wai I'm still lost. Lost na, ka ji mutun banza!

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Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by irepnaija4eva(m): 11:40am On Nov 05, 2023
adeememman:
IMO, he shouldn't see the wife as a bad person. Infact he should correct her with love and also encourage her cos it's hard to see women disciplined enough to save and not squander money on frivolities. It takes some level of discipline to have savings. she must've tried to sort the emergency elsewhere but since it didn't work she had no option than to break her bank. So in short try and examine what happened with an open point on view make u no use small thing scatter your home.

Nice one
Re: See What My Guy Wife Did To Him This Morning by ogbe88(m): 12:23pm On Nov 05, 2023
superCleanworks:


did she give him or not?

why was is standing there to see where she will bring the money from?
Oga rest. U talk too much.

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