victooman:
what should l do about the guy then?

You have no business with the guy, your business is with the lady you're dating and if you cannot get her to focus on only you then you should call it quits

Bliztzer:


Women generally sabi change mind without thinking deep. E good make person marry girl wey get proper upbringing than all this street girls. Them no get rules, and them no dey obey rules or abide by it.

Most girls out there are damaged.

Damaged by whom?

How did you arrive at this conclusion?

From which statistics?

Una go just dey talk rubbish

eventainment:
So your babe should not talk guys anymore she is dating you. So she should put all her eggs in one basket. If she is loyal to you but got guys as friends I don't think that is wrong. If she keeps just friends with her ex I don't see anything wrong. What is you fck up she should now start from stage 0 again. Common man, you can get married at 40 comfortably she can't. If you ain't married or engaged to her don't be wicked to block every option she might have if you fck up

bro this is no excuse,,, there are girls too throwing themselves at me that l keeps avoiding,, l can hit 40 too and find out l have chase out all the good women away in my life because of her ,, if she want to remain loyal let her do it,, l have ex's too and l thank God l told her this yesterday..
she called the guy to cut off any conversation with him,, and she block his number,, l will make innate and thorough investigation ,if l find out she is directly or indirectly talking with that guy l will end this relationship without bitting and eye lid,, there are many girls who kept their option open by dating 10 guys and are still not married today

SIMPonPatrol:


You have no business with the guy, your business is with the lady you're dating and if you cannot get her to focus on only you then you should call it quits

Thank u sir,, l have told her and l will be watching her..

advanceDNA:


Don't marry any woman thats is still emotionally attached to her ex....it almost doesn't end

...they are usually not happy and not totally connected with their husband in marriage

..the "what if" clause always remain in their mind....because to them, u are just an available person to marry .....not the real person their heart wants.....

thanks man,, but if l find out she have successfully disconnect herself from this so called ex should l give her another chance?

SIMPonPatrol:


Damaged by whom?

How did you arrive at this conclusion?

From which statistics?

Una go just dey talk rubbish

U think say na when things catch fire before then declare am " damaged".

I didn't say all the girl, I said most.

They are damaged by social media which has managed to glamorize abnormalcy as normalcy. Some of them are showing it openingly while some of them are pretending to be nice. Even the society is now applauding this decadence.

Today, men are marrying ladies they have no control over whenever they want exert any form of control she goes balistic, setting the entire house on fire. I know different men that tip toeing around their wife.

I have manage to tell some of them their problem but they keep telling me one thing " I am a woman" .our mothers were not like this, I don't know where this generation of girls are coming from.

victooman:
hello dear Nairalanders,, have been dating this girl for two years now and l am thinking of tieing the knot next year,, she has all the quality l want in a woman and l really love this girl...
When we meet she told me she dated a guy for six years in which her parents did not accept her relationship with him when he came for introduction,, l told her to make sure she have gotten over the guy before dragging me into something l dont know..
just yesterday night when she came to my place during love making a number was constantly calling her,, when l enquired she told me it was her ex calling l got mad and surprise she is still in communication with him..
l told her she have to make the decision between me and that guy now ,, long story cut short ,, she was begging that the guy was the one disturbing her and she called him in my present to tell him to stop calling her ...
seriously my trust for this girl is almost gone and l am seriously thinking on ending this relationship,, l need ur input my lovely Nairalanders.

If you marry that girl, you will cry for the rest of your life.

Itiskdg121:
If you yourself dated a girl for 6 years, won't you still have feelings for her?
Think about how many times they've had sex like at least 5 times a month, that is 5x12x6 = 360 sexual sessions, with probability of 2 abortions in all.

Bro, open your eyes wide. Marriage is not a joke Sir. Leave that girl and consider finding a virgin or a fairly used girl for a relationship.

Truth is bitter, but it's better than lies.

Op, listen to this guy. He's my son in whom I am well pleased.

If u think that a girl can easily forget a guy that banged her for six years then u are on a long thing.
Personally for me I can't even think of marrying any girl that dated a particular guy for good six years,she will always be emotionally tied to that guy even if u like kill yourself.

Truth of the matter is that that guy will sleep with ur girl any time opportunity presents itself nd ur girl can't resist it,six years no be child's play.

Magnoliaa:


A fairly used girl? Like you really typed that?

The one the op is about to marry is damaged beyond repair.
At least, a fairly used girl will be a bit better. He would enjoy her for about 3 years before another man start fvcking her in her work place.

Have you noticed that men who know what they're doing don't take non virgins serious? Not to mention a girl who has been fvcked for 6 years! Like six whole year!
God forbid bad things.

victooman:
thanks man,, but if l find out she have successfully disconnect herself from this so called ex should l give her another chance?

First let me ask you......how will u know she has no connection with the ex again?? What I mean is what' steps are you going to take to know that will make u conclude she is 10/10 with you

advanceDNA:


First let me ask you......how will u know she has no connection with the ex again?? What I mean is what' steps are you going to take to know that will make u conclude she is 10/10 with you

l want to install a tracker on her phone,,, her WhatsApp, Facebook and calls,, this alone will give the answer l need since the ex of a guy is not in Abuja

victooman:
l want to install a tracker on her phone,,, her WhatsApp, Facebook and calls,, this alone will give the answer l need since the ex of a guy is not in Abuja

Sense will not kii your jaré

Oh, sorry for wasting my time.
I just checked your profile.

Magnoliaa:


You're not not lying, but you're giving a stxpid opinion.

She's a girl who is not a virgin?
Or a woman who has had sex?

Wtf is "fairly used?" Women are not products. Or will you describe your mother/sister(s), if you have any like that?

Abi your own peenis gradually becomes corroded every time you have sex?

Itiskdg121:
Oh, sorry for wasting my time.
I just checked your profile.

Okay, and that has helped cured your misogynistic ignorance?

Magnoliaa:


A fairly used girl? Like you really typed that?

Lols, abeg borrow am English, but he spoke to reality though not properly phrased.

victooman:
Thanks bro,, honestly l fvcked her as much too,, all this girls are not just loyal,, finding another girl naa that will soon come with her wahala is demoralizing honestly..
But dont u think she is genuinely sorry for her to call the guy and ask him to end all conversation with her,, the guy is in Lagos and we are in Abuja ,, l am sure nothing have go down yet,, please l need ur input on this bro

Talking to her ex in what sense? is it hi, hello, good morning, etc? What's the frequency of their communication? Do they talk everyday? Once a week? Once a month? I still talk to my exes though, but sometimes it's like once a week or once a month.

Even though I'm in a relationship, I've never had any intention to sleep with any of them, no matter how Hot I am.

victooman:
Thanks bro,, honestly l fvcked her as much too,, all this girls are not just loyal,, finding another girl naa that will soon come with her wahala is demoralizing honestly..
But dont u think she is genuinely sorry for her to call the guy and ask him to end all conversation with her,, the guy is in Lagos and we are in Abuja ,, l am sure nothing have go down yet,, please l need ur input on this bro

There is no girl that's a saint bro. Don't mind these nairaland guys.

If you break up with her, then you will understand when you try to hook up with other girls.

Those girls will lack the major qualities your babe has and still be some cheats

Magnoliaa:


Okay, and that has helped cured your misogynistic ignorance?

If na Nigeria babe u are in trouble

Stay away from girls that has not gotten over her ex..e get why..I normally ask that question

victooman:
hello dear Nairalanders,, have been dating this girl for two years now and l am thinking of tieing the knot next year,, she has all the quality l want in a woman and l really love this girl...
When we meet she told me she dated a guy for six years in which her parents did not accept her relationship with him when he came for introduction,, l told her to make sure she have gotten over the guy before dragging me into something l dont know..
just yesterday night when she came to my place during love making a number was constantly calling her,, when l enquired she told me it was her ex calling l got mad and surprise she is still in communication with him..
l told her she have to make the decision between me and that guy now ,, long story cut short ,, she was begging that the guy was the one disturbing her and she called him in my present to tell him to stop calling her ...
seriously my trust for this girl is almost gone and l am seriously thinking on ending this relationship,, l need ur input my lovely Nairalanders.

okafors law no 1 is a deadly virus and from your story the woman is already infected

You are talking about your girlfriend still talking to her EX when even married men and women after many years of marriage are still in contacts with their exes. You had better focus until you're married and stop looking for trouble where there is none. To be honest, you may know even end up marrying the lady (girlfriend).🤔🤔🤔🤔

Itiskdg121:
If you yourself dated a girl for 6 years, won't you still have feelings for her?
Think about how many times they've had sex like at least 5 times a month, that is 5x12x6 = 360 sexual sessions, with probability of 2 abortions in all.

Bro, open your eyes wide. Marriage is not a joke Sir. Leave that girl and consider finding a virgin or a fairly used girl for a relationship.

Truth is bitter, but it's better than lies.

fairly used crack me up

victooman:
l want to install a tracker on her phone,,, her WhatsApp, Facebook and calls,, this alone will give the answer l need since the ex of a guy is not in Abuja

@victooman please, what's the name of this tracker you want to install?

How does it work?

And is it a free or paid resource?

Op,I swear I'm in the same scenario wit you....

But then again,you don't have any business with that ex of hers but your girl.............

She has the right to end the conversation with her once and for all........When my banny's ex was disturbing her, I learnt that she warned him to stop calling her.........

eventainment:
So your babe should not talk guys anymore she is dating you. So she should put all her eggs in one basket. If she is loyal to you but got guys as friends I don't think that is wrong. If she keeps just friends with her ex I don't see anything wrong. What is you fck up she should now start from stage 0 again. Common man, you can get married at 40 comfortably she can't. If you ain't married or engaged to her don't be wicked to block every option she might have if you fck up

. Guy just shut up abeg .

Is an ex another guy entirely? Someone whom they once both had feelings for each other and even dated for 6 lashing years?

Before you give an advice to someone,try and put yourself in that person's shoe and imagine if you can be able to take similar shiit

Lol. Na u and her ex go dey share her oooo.

Monitor her messages to read what they always talk about, better wise up before she carry ex pregnancy pin am for your head.

Before you know naso u go train person pikin.
Girl way u wan marry no get mouth to tell ex to stay away? To even cut off from him


NB: anyone is fre to text me . Let me show u how to read your partner's WhatsApp message directly on your phone.

Hold a token of 1k before u text me, you Wil pay before we start.
And if 1k too big please no bother texting me


My number is on my signature

Itiskdg121:
If you yourself dated a girl for 6 years, won't you still have feelings for her?
Think about how many times they've had sex like at least 5 times a month, that is 5x12x6 = 360 sexual sessions, with probability of 2 abortions in all.

Bro, open your eyes wide. Marriage is not a joke Sir. Leave that girl and consider finding a virgin or a fairly used girl for a relationship.

Truth is bitter, but it's better than lies.

💯

victooman:
thanks man,, but if l find out she have successfully disconnect herself from this so called ex should l give her another chance?

U no dey hear word abi? She will not disconnect because u asked her to. She should have long disconnected with him if u mean as much to her as she does to u. Leave now while u can. It's a lost cause. Else she starts lying to u and telling u what u need to hear only for the bond with her ex to get more exciting and secretive until they both decide what to do with u. Be wise!!!

2 years is enough to forget an EX, he is not an ex but a competitor. Dont ti any knot
Its risky

victooman:
hello dear Nairalanders,, have been dating this girl for two years now and l am thinking of tieing the knot next year,, she has all the quality l want in a woman and l really love this girl...
When we meet she told me she dated a guy for six years in which her parents did not accept her relationship with him when he came for introduction,, l told her to make sure she have gotten over the guy before dragging me into something l dont know..
just yesterday night when she came to my place during love making a number was constantly calling her,, when l enquired she told me it was her ex calling l got mad and surprise she is still in communication with him..
l told her she have to make the decision between me and that guy now ,, long story cut short ,, she was begging that the guy was the one disturbing her and she called him in my present to tell him to stop calling her ...
seriously my trust for this girl is almost gone and l am seriously thinking on ending this relationship,, l need ur input my lovely Nairalanders.

How long does it take to Knack? What if he came to Abuja? Bleep for a day and returns? You can never imagine what this gender can do. Take your time and dont rush anything with her. Its fair if a woman still talks to her ex. Its insane if a woman talks to an ex 2 years in another relationship

victooman:
Thanks bro,, honestly l fvcked her as much too,, all this girls are not just loyal,, finding another girl naa that will soon come with her wahala is demoralizing honestly..
But dont u think she is genuinely sorry for her to call the guy and ask him to end all conversation with her,, the guy is in Lagos and we are in Abuja ,, l am sure nothing have go down yet,, please l need ur input on this bro