The fear of being used and discarded is one of the reasons why some Nigerian women demand money in relationships.

In general, Nigerian women are very supportive; they do not prioritize their partner's financial status or income. Once they have fallen in love, they are willing to support their partner through thick and thin. However, some women in certain parts of Nigeria, such as Lagos, are more demanding.

Lagos is an expensive city, and as a result, the lifestyle can be quite extravagant. There is an abundance of bars, clubs, and other nightlife options in Lagos compared to other cities, which has led to a culture where sex is overhyped and frequently demanded. If the emphasis on sex were reduced, the demand for money and other financial gestures would also decrease.

In Lagos, many guys prioritize sex greatly in relationships. Some even date women whom they don't perceive as their ideal spouse, solely because they need a sexual partner. A guy can utilize a lady as his girlfriend just to satisfy his sexual urges for up to six years, breaking her heart. Many women in Lagos are already aware of these tactics. That is the reason some choose to date men who can spoil them with material things, ensuring they gain something from the relationship. This way, they won't feel used if they happen to fall into such an unfortunate situation.

So, the money they collect in the relationship makes the relationship last forever? Stop defending rubbish.

Women that demand money in a relationship are the ones who see relationships as a means of income and cannot offer more than sex. In a simpler term, they are sex workers. Women who understand that relationship is for partnership and mutual support don't demand money in the relationship and don't offer only sex.

You are even contradicting yourself. Your caption says the fear of being dumped is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. A paragraph in the post says emphasis on sex is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. Stand one place nah!

Many rich men who lavished money on their women (wives for that matter) and never wanted to leave those women got dumped by those women. But you are here saying rubbish. As a matter of fact, which decent woman tries to substitute permanence with money in a relationship?

Op give yourself a hot slap

immortalcrown:
So, the money they collect in the relationship makes the relationship last forever?

You are even contradicting yourself. Your caption says the fear of being dumped is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. A paragraph in the post says emphasis on sex is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. Stand one place nah!

Read the caption again: the fear of being used and discarded.

Merry100:
Read the caption again: the fear of being used and discarded.

How does collection of money prevent the discard?

immortalcrown:
How does collection of money prevent the discard?

Why not read properly before commenting? It does not prevent the discard, it only ensures they gain something from the relationship.

Merry100:
Why not read properly before commenting? It does not prevent the discard, it only ensures they gain something from the relationship.

Why not point out what you think I didn't read? If I didn't read the post, how did I find out you wrote about emphasis on sex?

immortalcrown:
So, the money they collect in the relationship makes the relationship last forever?

You are even contradicting yourself. Your caption says the fear of being dumped is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. A paragraph in the post says emphasis on sex is the reason girls demand for money in relationships. Stand one place nah!

Olosho no dey always gree say she she be olosho...them go call am all manner of names just to make themselves feel better

Merry100:

Why not read properly before commenting? It does not prevent the discard, it only ensures they gain something from the relationship.

They must gain something ??

Lol...how u don't seem to notice U are describing prostitution and how prostitutes think baffles me...

advanceDNA:


They must gain something ??

Lol...how u don't seem to notice U are describing prostitution and how prostitutes think baffles me...

I don't encourage prostitution, I only stated the obvious.

So as long as it is free sex it is okay.

Merry100:

I don't encourage prostitution, I only stated the obvious.

So as long as it is free sex it is okay.

What u have been describing is prostitution using other words.....only women with prostitute mentality think or say "I must gain money so let me quickly demand so I don't lose"

Free sex?? What is free sex?? I nor get that english....can u please explain ma.??


What is free sex?? I don't get that english....

advanceDNA:


What u have been describing is prostitution using other words.....only women with prostitute mentality think or say "I must gain money so let me quickly demand so I don't lose"

Free sex?? What is free sex?? I nor get that english....can u please explain ma.??


What is free sex?? I don't get that english....

Prostitutes engage in sexual intercourse or other sex acts with different guys for money while girlfriend is a guy's regular female companion with whom he has a romantic or sexual relationship.

If a guy gives his gf money how is she a prostitute.

Merry100:

Prostitutes engage in sexual intercourse or other sex acts with different guys for money while girlfriend is a guy's regular female companion with whom he has a romantic or sexual relationship.

If a guy gives his gf money how is she a prostitute.

U have shifted goal post.... u have shifted to a guy giving his girl money...

U said girls demand for money becos they don't want to lose....And I said Any Girl that meets a guy or is in a relationship with such mind set has a prostituté mindset....

If ur boyfriend give u money...how's that's demanding?? U didn't ask so u can quickly collect and not lose......he gave u himself...

Please explain free sex??

Merry100:

Prostitutes engage in sexual intercourse or other sex acts with different guys for money while girlfriend is a guy's regular female companion with whom he has a romantic or sexual relationship.

If a guy gives his gf money how is she a prostitute.

Learn to ignore people. It's not everyone you reply. You've made a valid point.

It's sad that's the way the dating game works in this part of the world. Most women are prostitutes, something has to be exchanged for access to their love and concern.

advanceDNA:


U have shifted goal post.... u have shifted to a guy giving his girl money...

U said girls demand for money becos they don't want to lose....And I said Any Girl that meets a guy or is in a relationship with such mind set has a prostituté mindset....

If ur boyfriend give u money...how's that's demanding?? U didn't ask so u can quickly collect and not lose......he gave u himself...

Please explain free sex??

Whether a lady is demanding money from her guy or not as long as she is having sex with him, it is still called premarital sex. If a man wants to demand sex he should simply get married, he can't be using someone else future wife especially when he knows within him that he is not interested in marrying her.

Merry100:

Whether a lady is demanding money from her guy or not as long as she is having sex with him, it is still called premarital sex. If a man wants to demand sex he should simply get married, he can't be using someone else future wife especially when he knows within him that he is not interested in marrying her.

I'm tired madam....dialogue with u is hard....

Have a great night

advanceDNA:


I'm tired madam....dialogue with u is hard....

Have a great night

Good night my dear, it's past your bedtime.

@op today you go explain tire .... Shey na person force you to create this topic ni The way i dey see am even with evidence of wetin you dey talk you go still dey explain..

godgrace777:
@op today you go explain tire .... Shey na person force you to create this topic ni The way i dey see am even with evidence of wetin you dey talk you go still dey explain..

🤣 Shey na person force you to read my post ni, you self you go explain explain taya.

@ advanceDNA seriously you're a strong man for engaging with that fellow ...

I mean, how do you have a conversation with a fellow that keeps shifting the goal post like someone hawking gala on express ...

@OP...
Any female that thinks the way you described is a wh.ore ...

If a guy wants to have s.ex with you and you're not feeling it, you can simply say no ...

Wanting to "gain something" in exchange for s.ex is nothing short of prostitution ...

Clap for yourself

Fahvvy:
@ advanceDNA seriously you're a strong man for engaging with that fellow ...

I mean, how do you have a conversation with a fellow that keeps shifting the goal post like someone hawking gala on express ...

@OP...
Any female that thinks the way you described is a wh.ore ...

If a guy wants to have s.ex with you and you're not feeling it, you can simply say no ...

Wanting to "gain something" in exchange for s.ex is nothing short of prostitution ...

Gala hawker is not human being abi, dindinrin.

If a lady demands money from you, since it is so simple to say no you should be able to open your big mouth to say no, instead of coming here to bleat like goat on top my post.

Only a gigolo will date a lady with the intention of using her and dumping her. Show your intention stop deceiving ladies, it is as simple as that. It's still you people that will complain about a lady's body count.

I did not even encourage ladies to demand money from their boyfriend, I only stated the obvious and you are crying here like egbere.

Okoroawusa:
Clap for yourself

Pa pa pa pa pa.

Total crap...


If they need to be demanding, let them go demand from their father...

From Briffaults Law,it proofs that all women are wh.o.res..


Hardly,can a woman roll with a man without seeking to gain something..


99% of heterosexual relationships is a parasitic kinda association..

Where the man is the host and the vvoman the parasite.. Sadly,most men who ain't aware of female nature are happy in being the host..


W0e unto me if I ever be a host to a vvoman

Merry100:

Gala hawker is not human being abi, dindinrin.

If a lady demands money from you, since it is so simple to say no you should be able to open your big mouth to say no, instead of coming here to bleat like goat on top my post.

Only a gigolo will date a lady with the intention of using her and dumping her. Show your intention stop deceiving ladies, it is as simple as that. It's still you people that will complain about a lady's body count.

I did not even encourage ladies to demand money from their boyfriend, I only stated the obvious and you are crying here like egbere.

Calling me names and throwing shades still doesn't validate the trash you wrote up there ...

I suggest you try another approach ...

Fahvvy:


Calling me names and throwing shades still doesn't validate the trash you wrote up there ...

I suggest you try another approach ...

🤣Baba say nah name calling and throwing shades, just because your tiny brain can't comprehend a post doesn't mean it's trash.

Prostitution and fornication are intertwined.

Stay away from premarital sex