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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by OBIDIENTNAIJA: 4:16pm On Dec 08, 2023
This idiot should get out. You have lost your relevance.

Gold digger. Living off hardworking women.

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by OkCornel(m): 4:16pm On Dec 08, 2023
Hmm
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Ewedegubbler: 4:16pm On Dec 08, 2023
this mumu dandawudu. either he is busy trolling igbos who are far ahead of him or he is busy giving silly family advice when he himself couldn't keep one...
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by 2buffagain(m): 4:17pm On Dec 08, 2023
Foodqueen:
The man should just learn to shut up.

Just say you have a vulture/scavenger mentality when it comes to marriage.
Na your type the wise men of today avoid.

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by AncientAlien(m): 4:19pm On Dec 08, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't disagree with what everyone is saying, in fact I agree that the groom shouldn't be burdened with the responsibility of financially supporting his in-laws, but the wife should also not be expected to perform certain responsibilities towards her in-laws.

When they visit, they should cook for themselves whenever the wife is busy, for she's not their chef... And if one of the groom's parents gets sick and needs 24/7 care, the groom should care for his parent to good health, for his wife wouldn't have signed up to be a nurse when she agreed to get married to him.

What do you think guys? grin grin grin
Table shaker Mrs Omokri grin
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by SayNo2SmallPrik: 4:20pm On Dec 08, 2023
OBIDIENTNAIJA:
This idiot should get out. You have lost your relevance.

Gold digger. Living off hardworking women.
Na Special assistant to former President Jonathan you Dey call Gold-digger?? Na the woman dey dig am no be him dey dig them oo
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by tollyboy5(m): 4:20pm On Dec 08, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't disagree with what everyone is saying, in fact I agree that the groom shouldn't be burdened with the responsibility of financially supporting his in-laws, but the wife should also not be expected to perform certain responsibilities towards her in-laws.

When they visit, they should cook for themselves whenever the wife is busy, for she's not their chef... And if one of the groom's parents gets sick and needs 24/7 care, the groom should care for his parent to good health, for his wife wouldn't have signed up to be a nurse when she agreed to get married to him.

What do you think guys? grin grin grin
For the food aspect, a wife is expected to cook for all visitors

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by mastermaestro(m): 4:21pm On Dec 08, 2023
Very easy to spot irresponsible men. This internet loafer thinks being a man is just about possessing a penis. Bloody sissy! Take care of your in-laws as much as you can.

For your information, there are many men who care for nobody but themselves, yet poverty lives with them.

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Pootle: 4:24pm On Dec 08, 2023
not in nigeria
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Kossyso: 4:25pm On Dec 08, 2023
Ogo bu chi onye! If God bless you, bless people around you.

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by vaxx: 4:25pm On Dec 08, 2023
babyfaceafrica:
Reno Omokri has revealed that looking after in-laws is not a man’s responsibility.

He said the fastest route to pov£rty is marrying a woman who believes her family is also your responsibility. From time to time, you can help only if you can afford it. But, accepting a duty to look after in-laws is not responsibility. It is stupity! Any girl with that type of mentality is a liability. And her family will result in your instability,

https://instablog9ja.com/2023/12/08/looking-after-in-laws-is-not-a-mans-responsibility-it-is-reno-omokri/


Is he right or wrong?

I want to be bless to the level of taking care of my inlaw . It is what I personally wish for myself

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by spiSeyi: 4:25pm On Dec 08, 2023
Especially on the in-laws of evening newspaper angry
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by AncientAlien(m): 4:26pm On Dec 08, 2023
ednut1:
any lady that is the first daughter with struggling parents and siblings. I no dey near there
but love is blind. You might be addicted to such person.
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by pocohantas(f): 4:27pm On Dec 08, 2023
I agree with him. Keep this energy when the man brings his sick parents for the wife to tend to. And also understand why more women are beginning to prioritise work. They have to take care of their parents.

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by NwokoloOwa: 4:28pm On Dec 08, 2023
Offpointng:
Especially after spending heavily on Bride price and all you'd now hear my family are also ur family. Scam.

Sweetheart your family can never be my family. Never.

How much really is the bride price? Some of us spend way more than the so called bride price on our side chick. So what's the fuss about bride price?

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by sharone21(f): 4:28pm On Dec 08, 2023
mastermaestro:
Very easy to spot irresponsible men. This internet loafer thinks being a man is just about possessing a penis. Bloody sissy! Take care of your in-laws as much as you can.

For your information, there are many men who care for nobody but themselves, yet poverty lives with them.

Thank you my husband.

Oversabi kills the sweetness of marriage..... Haven't we seen inlaws who go the extreme for their son inlaws eg selling their properties to raise business capital for them or to add to it?

Anyway, everyone knows how to handle things, anybody that likes listen to all nonsense from media.

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Hezmatosky: 4:31pm On Dec 08, 2023
Reno are you back from Dubai? Abi u no go? Upon all ur mouth tongue
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 4:33pm On Dec 08, 2023
Even when she's busy
tollyboy5:

For the food aspect, a wife is expected to cook for all visitors

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ednut1(m): 4:34pm On Dec 08, 2023
AncientAlien:
but love is blind. You might be addicted to such person.
never
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by 4ward4: 4:35pm On Dec 08, 2023
Just why Evey family look forward in having a Male child, if you don't have one , adopt one .
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Emotionss: 4:35pm On Dec 08, 2023
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Samantha124:
I don't disagree with what everyone is saying, in fact I agree that the groom shouldn't be burdened with the responsibility of financially supporting his in-laws, but the wife should also not be expected to perform certain responsibilities towards her in-laws.

When they visit, they should cook for themselves whenever the wife is busy, for she's not their chef... And if one of the groom's parents gets sick and needs 24/7 care, the groom should care for his
parent to good health, for his wife wouldn't have signed up to be a nurse when she agreed to get married to him.

What do you think guys? grin grin grin

All this conditional conditional is for weaklings and pussywhipped men.

Them know born any woman that I used my money marry to come and be giving me conditions in my own house.

As long as I was the one that paid the bride price my wife is required to care for my parents if I so wishes.

She can't refuse it.

Secondly as far as I fulfilled ALL the requirements from her parents, my authority overruns whatever claims her family claim to have over her until ststed otherwise my me......


Weaklings making you guys think you are more than what you are originally meant to be.

A helper .

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by happney65: 4:37pm On Dec 08, 2023
Onyiiobi7735:
Reno is very right this time around.No man marrying from a particular family is responsible for carrying the burden of the in-laws.He should not emotionally blackmailed into becoming the meal ticket of his in-laws.
Some in-laws are very excellent at emotional blackmail of the men marrying their daughters,but smart men won't fall for it.

Na mumu Men dey fall for it under the guise of "I am a responsible Man yen yen yen". If I get and anybody is in need at my in-laws,if I get extra,no big deal I can help.

But it isn't my responsibility at all . Because I know some wey no get yafunyafun and them dey manage and dey pay heavy bills for their inlaws. On top wetin?

Abegi

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Karemarealty288(m): 4:37pm On Dec 08, 2023
Nice2023:
If u have money treat ur in laws well...and if u don't have many of them will understand better.



Don't mind Reno that never had a decent and normal marriage.

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by tollyboy5(m): 4:37pm On Dec 08, 2023
Samantha124:
Even when she's busy
It depend on what she's busy with.
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by soil4soil(m): 4:38pm On Dec 08, 2023
He is 100% right. That is not your family and it is not your responsibility to shoulder the problems.

Your family is your partner and the children.

Abraham did not shoulder Sarah's family responsibility

Isaac and Rebecca face and build their own family

Jacob did not shoulder any wife's family responsibility

Stay focused and build your own family with your partner.

And when your children also get married let build their own family too your responsibility is not their own to carry.

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Sermwell(m): 4:38pm On Dec 08, 2023
pocohantas:
I agree with him. Keep this energy when the man brings his sick parents for the wife to tend to. And also understand why more women are beginning to prioritise work. They have to take care of their parents.
How many women tend to the sick parents of thier husbands? Just dey Play!!

Women that can't even tend to themselves, and need thier husbands to take care of them?

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Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by ItisWell22(f): 4:40pm On Dec 08, 2023
mastermaestro:
Very easy to spot irresponsible men. This internet loafer thinks being a man is just about possessing a penis. Bloody sissy! Take care of your in-laws as much as you can.

For your information, there are many men who care for nobody but themselves, yet poverty lives with them.

🙏
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Nobody: 4:40pm On Dec 08, 2023
If she says she's busy, she's busy... You're not expected to decide for her the same way she wouldn't be deciding for you to support her parents financially.
tollyboy5:

It depend on what she's busy with.
Re: Looking After Inlaws Is Not A Man Responsibility - Reno Omokri by Crafteck1: 4:41pm On Dec 08, 2023
Its not your responsibility doesnt mean you shouldn't do it but means you are not obligated to, hes right... Abi na handicap una dey marry wey no fit care for hin parents?

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