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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by AllahOfBlood: 9:40pm On Jan 02
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.


He spent generously

I pity the simp
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by anslemarinze52(m): 9:43pm On Jan 02
That was how one useless girl scammed, say all manner of things both real and unreal for me to pity her. Which i definitely did.
At the end I realised I was being used, I counted the loss and deleted her number. After about 4 months she messaged me again and we talked a bit but I still didn't save her number.
Lol..lol.
May God help them

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by reddingtonblack: 9:45pm On Jan 02
Tynaclem1:


Seeing his face makes you angry but his pocket doesn't abi? Why then did you accommodate his financial generosity in the first place if you know you never wanted to have anything to do with him? That's not nice.

If you were in your mid or late 30s I doubt you'd be talking about face and height but in the end it's your choice. Throw away a good man, who takes care of you, tolerates you and treats you well.

Pls find a way to let go of him since his physical attributes are a deal breaker for you. I just hope he will be this good and nice to the next girl he meets despite your attitude towards him.

P.S next time if you know you don't like a man don't eat a dime from him, reject his gifts and don't give him bad attitude abeg so you don't ruin things for the next girl.



If the man decides to flaunt his money in her face you can't blame the woman, sometimes we Men can be so foolish when it comes to pussy matter ... even when red flags is as obvious as traffic light at maryland round about

A gurl that is angry just seeing his face will definitely put up rash behaviours that should trigger a rethink in the man's head but some men think "Money" supercedes everything

Men that ignore red flags deserves whatever heartbreak they see, as long as the lady made it clearly she is not interested chop his money naa god sent father xmas
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by osayuwamwen(m): 9:45pm On Jan 02
One thing I will advise you as a married man from experience is if he does not smoke and doesn't drink, and he's not a dwaf asin like akin and pawpaw and he has a good source of income to carter for you and you sure his intentions are genuine my sister don't think twice accept him, na money they run marriage forget all this your heart fantasy that will disappear within 1year in marriage, marry peace of mind not fine face and height, people wen they better and more beautiful than you they go shilo they pray for watin u they regect so
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Newton2024: 9:46pm On Jan 02
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

What will happen if he knows your parents?
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by anu3: 9:47pm On Jan 02
Tynaclem1:



P.S next time if you know you don't like a man don't eat a dime from him, reject his gifts and don't give him bad attitude...
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Dshocker(m): 9:47pm On Jan 02
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.


You don't like him & you've been leading him on, by collecting his gifts & money.

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by mamaafrik(m): 9:50pm On Jan 02
I ju Just hope that is not a Yoruba man because if he is,That are the silly mistakes Some people make that makes the ex lock up their womb or jazz them
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Johel(m): 9:52pm On Jan 02
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.



Tell him you do not want him, and Anything he does or gets afterwards he'd take accountability for it.
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by CherokeeDeAss(f): 9:53pm On Jan 02
Man cannot kill himself undecided
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Sleekfingers: 9:53pm On Jan 02
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.



How old are you?
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by okoroemeka(m): 9:53pm On Jan 02
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

stop been childish and face reality,the man loves and worship you which is a bonus advantage to you,just marry the poor bloke you will later develop love for him

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Zidoh(m): 9:53pm On Jan 02
superintendents:
madam nothing like he can't let go, tell him the bitter truth,the earlier the better,stop wasting his time and his spendings

angry sad
Gbam!! That's just it ......
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by anu3: 9:54pm On Jan 02
osayuwamwen:
One thing I will advise you as a married man from experience is if he does not smoke and doesn't drink, and he's not a dwaf asin like akin and pawpaw and he has a good source of income to carter for you and you sure his intentions are genuine my sister don't think twice accept him, na money they run marriage forget all this your heart fantasy that will disappear within 1year in marriage, marry peace of mind not fine face and height, people wen they better and more beautiful than you they go shilo they pray for watin u they regect so

Well, physical attraction matters, bro... Money/wealth gets boring too. Having to be with someone you're not physically interested in can be a huge burden for so long. Imagine you marrying an old hag because she's rich... That's it.

You want someone you'd be happy to see everyday even if others think differently...

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Zidoh(m): 9:55pm On Jan 02
Shugavee:
my dear don't go for what you don't like, no matter what , make sure anyman you date or give your body to is a man you like, money and care is important but he should be someone you like. I don't take this for granted.

There was a man who wanted to marry me also , very single , very generous and rich tho he had matured kids cause he's an advanced man, many women would be so happy to have him considering how rich he was but i didn't just find him attractive , i tried my best but i just couldn't have sex with this man , he literally feed me, gave me weekly allowance and other things I needed, i tried but i just couldn't . Now we don't talk like we use to but I'm so happy I made that decision upon all the pressure inside me. Don't force yourself
Glad this is coming a lady 🙏💗
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by onunwa21(m): 9:59pm On Jan 02
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

How old re u?
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by RonuThings(m): 10:00pm On Jan 02
😎

Just Negodu 🙄

Ladies of nowadays are becoming something else 🤔

After eating a man's money and wasting his time, you now remember he's ugly 😏

Marry a Nairaland lady at your own peril 🥱

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Okechinwadike: 10:01pm On Jan 02
time will come when you will look for that type or even worst you will not see and will not still see all this useless people advising you here. GOLD IS ONCE A DIRTY OBJECT na hand clean am oooooo. tomorrow now you will start to disturb God for husband in Shiloh NONSENSE AND ATTRACTIVE

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Pat081: 10:03pm On Jan 02
akube34:
I don’t understand. Should she marry someone she is not attracted to? See the first is attraction. Others come second
Hmmmmm if Remi Tinubu thinks like this she will not be Nigeria's First Lady today nobody knows tomorrow and she knows that the man is not attractive but she can b taking his money ooooh

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by okerekingsley90: 10:04pm On Jan 02
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite ; ;DD my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.


Nothing wey person no go see

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Solofresh2: 10:05pm On Jan 02
Vinnie2000:


Not all Ladies are Crazy for Wealth, like Regina Daniel and her mother. undecided

There are still lots of simplified ladies in this Country
who are NOT much into Gold-Digging or having Craze for Money and Fashion! sad smiley

Just SHINE your eyes well to see them. smiley
You see why these girls get used and dumped. This is the reason why men use and dump girls like this OP

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by okerekingsley90: 10:08pm On Jan 02
grin grin
Gadafii:
Regina Daniel’s can’t relate because the man involved is a billionaire

If this same man is in the league of Alh Ned Nwoko you no go talk all these things


Women self
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Shugavee(f): 10:08pm On Jan 02
Little21:

Why are you yelling on my mention?
Think whatever you want none of my business.
I said how long has it been? It's not like it's the girl that fall in love, it was the man for Bleep sake. So if she doesn't love/like him at first no p.
She may with time, or when someone says they like you do you automatically like the person back? It grows with how the person treat you. But if she doesn't feel anything for him at all, she should let him know so he can look for his wife elsewhere.

And whose wife is cheating on who? At least try too read thorough before jumping on my mention.
That’s the expression of trying to put up with someone, you would think with time , so you keep being with the person till your realize you can’t do it
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Papayaayasager(m): 10:10pm On Jan 02
Menopause calling you like Tinubu is calling mainland Pablo

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Shugavee(f): 10:10pm On Jan 02
dalass:


Some of you should understand that some guys though not all, don't want to take NO for an answer. If you tell them no a million times, they still believe that somehow their persistence will make you change your mind.... This is a very annoying attitude. If you don't collect things, some just dump it at your door step like it's for you and they don't want it back, do whatever you want.

Physical things are important too... Some have body/ mouth odour grin grin, maybe ugly and short like this guy. The guy prolly wants his offsprings to have better chance in life by marrying a tall and fine lady but na Dem dey get strong genes and theri kids will look short and ugly like their dad... It is well.

Besides, a lady can't possibly say yes to all suitors. Even birds and other species have specs, e.g lionesses who follow the strongest etc

OP, prayerfully choose your future partner. The guy fit look handsome self when money and care hit him well grin grin grin
funny you grin
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Pat081: 10:10pm On Jan 02
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

You sound like someone who will run away, if he is handsome and rich after some time something bad happens to his face you will run away from him God will save us from ladies like you and
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by obesse: 10:11pm On Jan 02
Dey play!
The man face and height dey annoy you, but the money wey E dey give you no annoy you!
Angel Michael Sabi your name and address ooo!
grin
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by okerekingsley90: 10:12pm On Jan 02
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

dkidd:
Forget what anyone says. If u don't find him appealing enough or ur not proud with the way he is i suggest u abort mission before u make both ur lives miserable. No need to run from ur community na. Just clear am how em dey go that it can't work because u don't see a future with him and don't mention his looks oo. I done laugh no be small grin
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Pharaoh4rin(m): 10:12pm On Jan 02
Fahvvy:


If there's one thing that marriage has taught over the years its that, the things that makes it work aren't physically based - it's character based (majorly) undecided...

No matter how fine your spouse is...
No matter how good a se.x stylist your spouse is...
No matter how rich or how good a cook your spouse is, their character or a lack of it can make marriage feel like hell undecided...

[b]This is not say physical attraction isn't important, but in the big scheme of things and in the long run, physical characteristics doesn't hold water as compared to character undecided...
[/b]
I'm not saying she should marry against her wishes or her "spec", nahhhh, that's her prerogative undecided...

All I'm saying is that she pays more attention
to what will be the most significant in the long run - and blimey, physical characteristics is not it undecided...

You seems to be talking out of experience.

My remaining 3 girlfriends are something else: two are
One of them is extremely beautiful but she smokes
The 2nd person is equally as beautiful as Ini edo but she's dirty,
The third one from the north is not as beautiful but has the best shape in the world. She has the character, respect for herself and a thoroughbred but she's not as beautiful as d other two. With what you said, I may have to rethink, cus I'm a cruisechamp and I don't know... I don't know...
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Usmanovic95(m): 10:14pm On Jan 02
osayuwamwen:
One thing I will advise you as a married man from experience is if he does not smoke and doesn't drink, and he's not a dwaf asin like akin and pawpaw and he has a good source of income to carter for you and you sure his intentions are genuine my sister don't think twice accept him, na money they run marriage forget all this your heart fantasy that will disappear within 1year in marriage, marry peace of mind not fine face and height, people wen they better and more beautiful than you they go shilo they pray for watin u they regect so

Your advise is quite a mature one and I agree with it to some certain degree.But what I feel is that if OP doesn't find the man physically appealing don't you feel she will cheat on him with people with her desired sex appeal. And
her Marriage could be affected if she gets caught in the act.
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Shugavee(f): 10:14pm On Jan 02
Fantazy:


Hadn’t been you were not a gold digger, you wouldn’t have collected those things from him knowing fully well that you cannot be with him no matter what. But you kept collecting and you think karma is not real. Dey play
well at first you would be willing to try and see if with time it would work out but it didn’t

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Shugavee(f): 10:16pm On Jan 02
Emma1Oj:
This is one of the reason why most guys find is easy and attractive to use you ungrateful things for ritual.

You don't like someone and you were busy consuming his resources.. if that man lay curses on you it will be so effective without mercy. Even has the gut to type here.

He isn’t a broke man like you my dear, by now he has made x100 of what he spent on me.

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