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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Amayabor1: 10:37am On Jan 03
But you have been eating his money. If you reject him tomorrow and he decides to kill you, people will start blaming him.

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Lindajames1010: 11:09am On Jan 03
lol
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by jattopeter(m): 11:25am On Jan 03
I swear , somebody that has nothing to contribute to the growth of the family, a Parasite , some men deserved to be flogged for them to receive sense.
Illegal1:
omoh.........all dis useless nigeria grls slf with their wahala..


person wen dem wn even manage slf go jst dey form commando ontop notin..


any way sha,nah the man(simp)i blame

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by progressb4andno: 11:25am On Jan 03
Xosh:

John the security man that was disgraced by a chat he posted online trying to shame a lady that rejected him offline after sending a pic of his useless dick to her.
His other accts are Bintabisiriyu2, omonnaeast and the rest.
Click his profile he's the one with all the account he's following.

Recently he was begging Jewessgratitud3 to teach him how to deactivate his multiple accounts and she turned him down.

A cursed dirty soul that murdered his own mother,how do you expect his life to be?

A very useless old failed human being.

A product from a broken home.

Hahahaha, jeon is that you?
Wow, so it's because of the ordinary post that's making you explode on me like this?
Wow, my dear i never knew you were this pained oh, anyways the truth must be told about you and that's it.
You can keep crying my dear, you pain is my joy, your tears is my tea.
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by progressb4andno: 11:28am On Jan 03
Xosh:

John the security man that was disgraced by a chat he posted online trying to shame a lady that rejected him offline after sending a pic of his useless dick to her.
His other accts are Bintabisiriyu2, omonnaeast and the rest.
Click his profile he's the one with all the account he's following.

Recently he was begging Jewessgratitud3 to teach him how to deactivate his multiple accounts and she turned him down.

A cursed dirty soul that murdered his own mother,how do you expect his life to be?

A very useless old failed human being.

A product from a broken home.

Jewessgratitud3 nne, are you seeing this people?
If to say you have helped me now this person wouldn't have been saying this thing.
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by nairamaniac: 11:54am On Jan 03
Op Animegirl. Make Love to him only in the dark. You would start developing attraction and love for him with time
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by timisquare82(m): 12:03pm On Jan 03
Are you sure it's not your family deities that's twisting his face in your presence so that you will not get marry early? Please find out first before you chase him away.

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by ogawisdom(m): 12:07pm On Jan 03
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.


Don't marry a man you don't find attractive please it's not worth it except he is a billionaire sha
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Exceed15: 12:16pm On Jan 03
Cut it off now!
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Shugavee(f): 12:56pm On Jan 03
jattopeter:
Funny like if you had anything to do with him , you will come out and tell us. Pls tell us another story joh.
she wanted an advise on a topic and i gave her, it’s not about you seeing it, you can pretend you didn’t see it and move on with your life

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Shugavee(f): 12:58pm On Jan 03
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Nickymezor(f): 1:19pm On Jan 03
OP follow your heart but then you should have been honest with from the onset. Leading him on for long ain't good.

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by malvisguy212: 1:25pm On Jan 03
Olayinka8793:
she made it clear she didn't love him bla bla bla. Did she made it clear to us here or to the mugu man?
She coulda made it clear to the man and cut him off rather than wasting his time and money and finally deciding that she don chop the mugu enough and it is time to finally get rid of him. Nonsense greedy thief
this is a very simple matter. there are situation in life that we ought to imply common sense...my brother, if the girl did not love him, the man did not need her to say it openly, the sign are there. he should have seen it before and run.

I blame the girl also, but again I must commend her, because if it's other girls, they don't care about love, they will just sold themselves for money, afterall they can still cheat.

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by malvisguy212: 1:27pm On Jan 03
Fahvvy:


I also made it clear that "if it's a deal breaker for her, she should tell him off and prolly seek the face of God on the matter if she's a believer" undecided...

I guess you're too "bright" to see that undecided...
True. however there's tendancy of greediness in human that they wouldn't mind compromise there faith in other to get more money.
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by DiamondNimi(m): 1:27pm On Jan 03
You're right
superintendents:
madam nothing like he can't let go, tell him the bitter truth,the earlier the better,stop wasting his time and his spendings

angry sad
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by reddingtonblack: 2:29pm On Jan 03
Tynaclem1:


Sir/ Ma read her post carefully, she has only being "rude" to the man which some men see as initial gragra before the woman mellows down. I doubt she has clearly and specifically told him she wants nothing to do with him if not he's not stupid he would have left her alone.

The op is not being honest with her self and she sees him as a mugu all because of his money. If she really wanted him out of her life he would be gone by now.

That a man is generous to a woman financially doesn't mean he should be taken for Granted or as father Christmas. He is just part of the already dwindling population of men who still believe a woman should be pampered, showered with love, care and money and treated right.


When you say she as only being "Rude", is it until she pour hot water or Acid on the man before you consider it a "rejection"

We men make so much mistakes, forcing love and begging for love where none exist then later we cry and blame women for the repercussions, i see it a lot & it get me upset

There is a clear disparity btwn when a woman is doing initial gra gra and when she resent a man, if a woman should resent a man even if the man is blind frm birth he must see it, but some men are cursed naa that thing wey go kill us gan gan we go wan carry.

I think actions are bigger than words, if a lady reject you with her actions it is even more valid than words, Men are just fools generous to a woman whereas the same man will have relatives he can't dash common 5k

On many occassion i have seen men just text my babe asking for account number and i don't pity such men that think they can use money to bait/trapwomen ... woes unto all the foolish Men that believe only a ladies deserved to be cared for, your mama dey village they cook with firewood buh you dare send 50k to a gurl to take a cab

Did she ask him for money, last year how many of your male friends or uncle just send you money without asking, don't even bring generosity into these

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by reddingtonblack: 2:34pm On Jan 03
Amayabor1:
But you have been eating his money. If you reject him tomorrow and he decides to kill you, people will start blaming him.


IF a man see a basket and decides to be fetching water into it why blame the basket

Gurl wey you dey send money everytime, she doesnt call you except yu call her, your house she no know and even to hug her naa war ... what more signs do you need to know she does not like you

No be everytime we go just dey blame & castigate women, i see these shit alot and we men need to sensitize ourselves spend your money where you are wanted/craved

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by achimendy(m): 7:28pm On Jan 03
Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.




Tell him straight to his face that you don't like him. And Stop acting like a coward and also running like a fugitive.
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by truthhurts2: 7:31pm On Jan 03
Blitzking:

Tell the man u don't love him and if he doesn't back off disgrace him openly reduce him to a piece of bread in the public u are forcing him to have sense and to find a girl worthy of his affection..but make sure you later don't regret your action becos dem go fuuckkk u tire b4 u find Mr right or last last end up as baby mama or with one riff raff.
It is 'before she finds Mr'.... pls don't add 'right'. Because, the probability of her finding Mr right again is as impossible as man entering the SUN.


I wonder why my wife agreed for me grin

Because she be like ayrra star while I be like Segun arinze grin grin
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by JayPeeOham: 9:00pm On Jan 03
Little21:
How long as he been courting you?
You know feelings grow with time, so just try to give it sometime and if it still doesn't work out for you, just let go.

Your happiness comes first, just do whatever makes you happy. It's your happiness after all not someone's else.

Oga women's feelings do not grow with time, if she isn't into you then she isn't!

She'd only end up cheating on the man if she should eventually settle for him.

A man's love for a woman can grow especially if the woman is beautiful and not vice verse.
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by theforemost: 3:47am On Jan 04
superintendents:
madam nothing like he can't let go, tell him the bitter truth,the earlier the better,stop wasting his time and his spendings

angry sad


And leeching the innocent man
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Little21: 8:41am On Jan 04
JayPeeOham:


Oga women's feelings do not grow with time, if she isn't into you then she isn't!

She'd only end up cheating on the man if she should eventually settle for him.

A man's love for a woman can grow especially if the woman is beautiful and not vice verse.
So your argument is that a woman most love you first and if she doesn't, she will never right?

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Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Adext4sure(m): 1:51pm On Jan 04
How the man take get ur number, biko? undecided
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by JayPeeOham: 6:33pm On Jan 04
Little21:

So you argue that a woman must love you first and if she doesn't, she will never right?

A woman's love doesn't grow, if she doesn't love you she never will!

I am not talking about likeness or infatuation 😍
Re: Please, I Need Advice What Can I Do In This Situation. by Konjiboii: 5:18pm On Jan 05
superintendents:
madam nothing like he can't let go, tell him the bitter truth,the earlier the better,stop wasting his time and his spendings

angry sad

She don probably chop the man money to stupor and dey fear to reject am make baba no break her head.

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