Kobojunkie:
I don't follow any of them, nor do I really care much for their tales, but even I find something wrong with a man declaring the year his child died a "best year". How many minutes did he spend in the "best year" mourning the child?

oh wasnt you



must he complain like you? if he tells you his problems can you solve them? nothing wrong with what he said . and his reaction is expected because it’s getting to a normal trend to insult him. what he’s doing is not new, she’s not the first to have such emotional stress in africa. if she wants to go let her go biko. not all these in the fence stuff she’s doing

Nonexisting1:
Yul may be handling the situation like a bomboy but you see that May, she has a very bitter soul. One look at her in all their videos, you'll easily notice what I'm saying here. She is the insatiable type with very hardened victim mentality. Only God knows the kind of Shege she was giving Yul that made him consider upgrading his sidechick to a second wife. Men don't usually do that with clear eye. Bad wife has always been the reason most of the times.

Don’t mind the liars second wife is always juju. she should go in peace and end it.

vislabraye:

WHich reasonable person would come out to say 2023 was his best year after losing a child ?
Shugavee, Nonexisting1, Liliantalks. Kobojunkie

*Politeness*
A star child for that matter. The only reason for that statement has to be to stick it to the mother.
How HEARTLESS can a person be!!

Kobojunkie:
So she has no right to speak out about her own year and what? Some of you no get better for your lives to do at all.

na you no get anything to do for your life to even be here complaining say people no get weyti to do for life . nobody force you here.

may knows exactly what she’s doing

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
A star child for that matter. The only reason for that statement has to be to stick it to the mother.
How HEARTLESS can a person be!

so he should be saying negative things about himself to make her happy? what kind of enemy of darkness be that

Shugavee:
oh wasnt you .... and his reaction is expected because it’s getting to a normal trend to insult him. what he’s doing is not new, ....

Toor! OK ooo!

Liliantalks:
so he should be saying negative things about himself to make her happy? what kind of enemy of darkness be that

*Politeness*
There is NO PAIN in the world that approximates the pain of a mother losing a loved child. She'll rather die herself ten times. It takes a truly HEARTLESS husband to have hatred enough to stoke that!

PoliteActivist:

*Politeness*
There is NO PAIN in the world that approximates the pain of a mother losing a loved child. She'll rather die herself ten times. It takes a truly HEARTLESS husband to have hatred enough to stoke that!

shoke what? is he saying he is happy he died?

they should return bride price and divorce in peace. he’s talking about his own life not his, and it’s social media. you expect him to be crying all the days of his life to make her happy. that’s the victim nonsense that’s becoming annoying

Liliantalks:
shoke what? is he saying he is happy he died?

they should return bride price and divorce in peace. he’s talking about his own life not his, and it’s social media. you expect him to be crying all the days of his life to make her happy. that’s the victim nonsense that’s becoming annoying

*Politeness*
What would you have said if, after Ifeanyi died, Davido (now with another woman) came out to announce that was the happiest year of his life? Won't you say there is something INHUMAN about such a person? There are things you just don't do. He could have kept quiet. He could have said he made most money. But happy? It can only be directed at one person and it demonstrates total HEARTLESSNESS!!

Liliantalks:
i feel may is using the fact she’s a female to manipulate the public to keep insulting yul edochie and i understand why he’s getting annoyed by it. leave the marriage and move on with your life, or be a first wife and let’s hear word, Enough!! last year was your worse year but you have been galavanting and having endorsements no remorse in your actions but want to be the one keep playing victim. May is not the first to be in a polygamous marriage, or leave a marriage she doesn’t like.

Let see where she’ll meet a single man with no woman in his life, with her four kids.

Madam move on with your life

a year he lost his son, the idiot came out to say its his best year. Like WTF, na May type that one

vislabraye:


Men are allowed to speak. I totally agree with you. Did you listen to Emeka Ike's trouble with his wife ?
He got the sympathy of the public. In fact, many eyewitnesses spoke on his behalf. Truth is that Emeka Ike's was hardly at fault. He was a responsible man who loved and took good care of his family.
Can you compare that to Yul ? WHich reasonable person would come out to say 2023 was his best year after losing a child ? You have to be sensitive. What would his other children think about him ?

The kind of nonsense these boys support on Nairaland all in the name is gender solidarity is just mind blowing.

ednut1:
a year he lost his son, the idiot came out to say its his best year. Like WTF, na May type that one

read through i can’t retype for every one

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
What would you have said if, after Ifeanyi died, Davido (now with another woman) came out to announce that was the happiest year of his life? Won't you say there is something INHUMAN about such a person? There are things you just don't do. He could have kept quiet. He could have said he made most money. But happy? It can only be directed at one person and it demonstrates total HEARTLESSNESS!!

Social media people so if he decides to date someone else it a problem ? because of chioma. judy and yul were already together before the boy’s death, they have two kids already, so he shouldn’t be happy forever till may allows him to be happy. nonsense talk.

etrange:


The kind of nonsense these boys support on Nairaland all in the name is gender solidarity is just mind blowing.

it’s not gender solidarity but common sense, y’all are the ones supporting wrong for gender solidarity

Liliantalks:
Social media people so if he decides to date someone else it a problem ? because of chioma. judy and yul were already together before the boy’s death, they have two kids already, so he shouldn’t be happy forever till may allows him to be happy. nonsense talk.

*Politeness*
What has what we are discussing have to do with being together or being happy or two kids?? We are talking of what he SAID and the fact it could only have been heartlessly directed at one person!
If, God forbid, someone very dear to you dies, and your wife (without any prompting whatsoever) comes out to announce she just had the happiest year of her life, is she human??

faxana:


You're defending somebody who posted a dancing video with his second wife a week after his son's death?
Oh my God!

Oh your God, on a matter wey no concern you?

Are you this jobless? Why are y'all so emotional like this?

Husband and wife dey fight and you are taking sides? E go clear for your eyes soon!

vislabraye:


Men are allowed to speak. I totally agree with you. Did you listen to Emeka Ike's trouble with his wife ?
He got the sympathy of the public. In fact, many eyewitnesses spoke on his behalf. Truth is that Emeka Ike's was hardly at fault. He was a responsible man who loved and took good care of his family.
Can you compare that to Yul ? WHich reasonable person would come out to say 2023 was his best year after losing a child ? You have to be sensitive. What would his other children think about him ?

Hmm.. yul can be childish at times For the wife she should learn to move on and be happy. This life is too short to live in bitterness.

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
What has what we are discussing have to do with being together or being happy or two kids?? We are talking of what he SAID and the fact it could only have been heartlessly directed at one person!
If, God forbid, someone very dear to you dies, and your wife (without any prompting whatsoever) comes out to announce she just had the happiest year of her life, is she human??

i’m a lady. and i and my husband are still together, i’ll know exactly why he’s saying that .

Liliantalks:
i feel may is using the fact she’s a female to manipulate the public to keep insulting yul edochie and i understand why he’s getting annoyed by it. leave the marriage and move on with your life, or be a first wife and let’s hear word, Enough!! last year was your worse year but you have been galavanting and having endorsements no remorse in your actions but want to be the one keep playing victim. May is not the first to be in a polygamous marriage, or leave a marriage she doesn’t like.

Let see where she’ll meet a single man with no woman in his life, with her four kids.

Madam move on with your life

If the leaves the marriage of the second wife no go sweet again lol

Liliantalks:
are you comparing emeka ike to yul? i’ll pick yul any day anytime over a wife beater.. how foolish can one be to think people are expected to put their problems on social media to know their pain. i see it as him being grateful for what he has achieved and not making people concentrate on his shortcomings. there is nothing he said that was bad.

Stop believing what you hear on social media, were you there When he was beating her? Women uses every possible means to bring down a man

faxana:


Have you ever seen May say anything bad about Yul?
He's always the one dragging her on social media. There's o reverse psychology in what May is doing. She's not being manipulative. Heck! She doesn't even do as if Yul exists.

Yet she posted the opposite of what he posted, just immediately after he posted. Manipulating her misguided fans to attack yul as usual. Let her drop his name and leave asap, me I don tire for her. Regina Daniels is 6th wife and very happy, yet she's not happy being 1st wife. Oya go na mbanu. He committed no crime picking a 2nd wife hope you know that? Let her go and be happy, that's my own

Liliantalks:
i’m a lady. and i and my husband are still together, i’ll know exactly why he’s saying that .

*Politeness*
A fellow lady. So u ought know better!
Please regale us. God forbid, your favorite child just died, your husband just moved in with a second wife. Then, without prompting, he came out to announce to the world he just had the happiest year of his life. Regale us: why EXACTLY would he be saying that?

lordnkem000:

Yet she posted the opposite of what he posted, just immediately after he posted. Manipulating her misguided fans to attack yul as usual. Let her drop his name and leave asap, me I don tire for her. Regina Daniels is 6th wife and very happy, yet she's not happy being 1st wife. Oya go na mbanu. He committed no crime picking a 2nd wife hope you know that? Let her go and be happy, that's my own

*Politeness*
He actually committed a "crime". The "law" in a Christian wedding is no other wives. Ned is a moslem. Comparing apples and oranges

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
He actually committed a "crime". The "law" in a Christian wedding is no other wives. Ned is a moslem. Comparing apples and oranges

Oga he committed no crime at all. Which christian law be that? Abegiiiii

lordnkem000:

Oga he committed no crime at all. Which christian law be that? Abegiiiii

*Politeness*
Stop supporting what's wrong for who knows why. Church-wedded men don't go about marrying second wives. Give examples. Who else in his extended family, including his own father?
But that's not even the issue here. The issue is announcing same year his family's star son died as happiest year of his life!

PoliteActivist:


*Politeness*
Stop supporting what's wrong for who knows why. Church-wedded men don't go about marrying second wives. Give examples. Who else in his extended family, including his own father?
But that's not even the issue here. The issue is announcing same year his family's star son died as happiest year of his life!

He had a right to announce anything that suits him please. Not everyone chose to dwell on their loss, some only focus on their gains, my gf is an example. So maybe he didn't want to dwell on his loss, so she had to say the opposite knowing her fans will attack yul for that. That lady is toxic and it's clear. I like her alot, so I'll advice she leaves the marriage completely if she's not okay with polygamy

lordnkem000:

He had a right to announce anything that suits him please. Not everyone chose to dwell on their loss, some only focus on their gains, my gf is an example. So maybe he didn't want to dwell on his loss, so she had to say the opposite knowing her fans will attack yul for that. That lady is toxic and it's clear. I like her alot, so I'll advice she leaves the marriage completely if she's not okay with polygamy

*Politeness*
You are not being fair. Do you know losing a beloved child drive some mothers almost insane and they never fully recover? It is not the type of pain you stoke with heartless announcements. Different if he were with her. The statement was directed at her! What he's announcing in effect is "all those years I was with you mean nothing to me, being with another woman has made this the happiest year of my life, and even losing a star child mean nothing to that happiness!"
And you're insisting we clap for him!

PoliteActivist:

*Politeness*
A fellow lady. So u ought know better!
Please regale us. God forbid, your favorite child just died, your husband just moved in with a second wife. Then, without prompting, he came out to announce to the world he just had the happiest year of his life. Regale us: why EXACTLY would he be saying that?

and you assume he’s saying that because his son died? are there not other things he’s doing with his life? if may hates him so much , she should return the bride price, he’s married to a new wife , it’s not new news in africa. if she’s so frustrated by the whole situation, she should leave the man

lordnkem000:

He had a right to announce anything that suits him please. Not everyone chose to dwell on their loss, some only focus on their gains, my gf is an example. So maybe he didn't want to dwell on his loss, so she had to say the opposite knowing her fans will attack yul for that. That lady is toxic and it's clear. I like her alot, so I'll advice she leaves the marriage completely if she's not okay with polygamy

that exactly what she did, she enjoys social media bullying him , she doesn’t want him ever to feel happiness, that’s enough to tell me , that home was not a happy one.

Qatar2022:

Stop believing what you hear on social media, were you there When he was beating her? Women uses every possible means to bring down a man

oga relax for her son to affirm it he definitely did it. wife beaters are everywhere.you don’t expect a couple to keep cameras in their houses to post on social media to make y’all belive. he’s not even confident enough to deny it.

Zaheertyler:

If the leaves the marriage of the second wife no go sweet again lol

abi o!! the hate self will make them stay together to prove them wrong.

Liliantalks:
and you assume he’s saying that because his son died? are there not other things he’s doing with his life? if may hates him so much , she should return the bride price, he’s married to a new wife , it’s not new news in africa. if she’s so frustrated by the whole situation, she should leave the man

*Politeness*
You said you'd know exactly why your husband, now living with a another woman, would say the year your beloved son suddenly died was the happiest year of his life. That "exactly why" is what we're waiting to hear