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| Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by attilah: 1:34pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
My ex girfriend,whom I dated for five years and thinking of getting married to before things didn't work out between us,told me that she has being trying to get pregnant for her hubby but to no success.The reason why she called me to tell me has nothing to do with me coming to her aid to impregnate her,it was more about seeking advice from me cos even tough we separated we still best of friends and we confide in each other,I am deeply worried cos she has being living with her hubby for 2 years and half now and she's still trying to have a baby,I told her to see a doctor but she said that would make her husband think there is somthing wrong with her, since she cant go for medical check up without him knowing .pls Nlanders what can she do to get pregnant.She is a good girl and dosnt deserve all this trauma 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by Nobody: 2:27pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
Errm . . . . She cant go for medical check up without him? Says who? 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by nolongTing: 2:31pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
attilah: Stay out of her business - otherwise you will end up in big trouble. The worst thing you can do is get involved in other peoples love affair. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by Smilenw(f): 2:36pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
Abeg, your intentions would be good , but you are indirectly paving ways to wreck that woman's home. NO man would want his wife to confide their extreme private issues with another man (or woman), talkess of ex-boyfriend. Would you like your wife discussing your intimate life with her ex? Whether she called you to confide her worries or to seek your assistance, you should think twice before getting involved in her issues if all you genuinely want is her well being. As for their problem, it is for the man and his wife to sort out this issue. As a third party there is little you can do. You or for that matter nobody knows which of them or whether both of them has a problem. There are no shortcuts to get pregnant. If the normal techniques fail, you meet a doctor ! If she is so much concerned, she should have a heart to heart talk with her husband, and both of them should meet a good infertility specialist. 1 Like |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by Nobody: 2:43pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
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| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by attilah: 3:59pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
I guess you guys are right,when next she come calling I will surely tell her to talk to her husband and pray for her.cos that's the best I can do right now.plus I think she thinks am the cause of it cos she got pregnant for me twice while we were dating.I really wish her the best |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by attilah: 4:04pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
I guess you guys are right,when next she come calling I will surely tell her to talk to her husband and pray for her.cos that's the best I can do right now.plus I think she thinks am the cause of it cos she got pregnant for me twice while we were dating.I really wish her the best |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by Outstrip(f): 4:59pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
Hmm. So this is out of guilt. If she had two abortions then tha can definitely affect her ability to conceive especially when it is one of those illegal abortions done in someones boys quaters. It makes sense now why she does not want her husband to know that she is going for a check up. She has not told him that she had any abortions. I am not sure why you did not marry her since you knew you contributed to possibly destroying her womb. You have now made it another man's problem. Your friend should be patient. She will conceive I hope. I hope it is juts one of those things that happen and not as a result of any physical damage to her reproductive organs |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by Nobody: 5:12pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
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| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by Pennywise(m): 5:18pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
@attilah, I think you shld go ahead and do what you do. |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by r231(m): 5:22pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
Pennywise: ermmmm. . . whats that  Ujujoan: stranger  |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by Nobody: 6:09pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
attilah: My advice may come across as harsh, but I'll give it anyway. Mind your own business! If conception is really an issue for this couple, it could be either party's fault, or there may be no issues whatsoever, they could be trying too hard. Regardless, I'm sure your "ex" has female friends she can turn to not that she should, but a darn sight better than a biased ex-boyfriend. If you choose to meddle in a married couple's intimate business, you may be digging your own grave. I've got a feeling her hubby doesn't know about you, and would not pat you on the back for meddling. It won't help relations between himself and his wife either. If she contacts you again for advice, tell her politely you can't advice her. Don't even advice her to talk to her hubby, or a doctor, it's not your place to do so. |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by doctokwus: 10:32pm On Nov 06, 2011 |
Been a while I was impressed with responses to a thread.Am realy impressd here. @Op,stay out of a married friend's life,I tell u you don't know d half of d complexities involved in marriage& here u are talkin about one of d most if not d most sensitive issues,conception.Once u start having dis kind of feeling u are having now that u are a succour for ur ex,it develops frm there,she wi contnue seeking solace,comfort& advice frm u,it wi grow,bliv me;of course she wudnt feel d same bond wt her husb as wt u.When u now add dis unlit dynamite of she presently not bein able to conceive 4her husb,havin 2x taken in for u,she may one day decide to see if d problm is frm her or d husb,without going to a doc,by slping wt u,gbooza!D whole scenario may den bcome 2complex for either of u to control,if she takes in for u or not.I may sound like a fairy tale story teller,but life in d kind of setting u are in now is damn too complicated for u to understand how it may turn out& for gud or bad once an outside party comes in,esp an ex,it will always b seen by d other half of d couple as bad. Kp away frm her,@best tel her to sort it out wt her husb,or inlaws& never to involve u again,a word is more than enough for d sensible. |
| Re: Help! My Ex-girlfriend Is Finding It Difficult To Get Pregnant For Her Hubby by emmatok(m): 12:08am On Nov 07, 2011 |
Outstrip: +100 |
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