Hahjascho:
You need to review your definition of being 'Successful '.

Or how do you define Success?

You need to review your mentality of life...stop thinking everyone must think like you, life is relative, most of those dogmas and cliches you hold onto were proscribed by men like you. Free your myopic mind from being judgemental, as long as a vice doesn't affect society or you negatively, it's better you use that same energy and speak about more important things. People have habits, it's really not your business.

Blessedarethepe:

Guilty, regretful and sad for what reason?? I slightly disagree that people feel this way though.

So guys, SHARE if you feel this way after watching porn or masturbating. And LIKE if not.

We are talking about people who are addicted already (they masturbate excessively to porn). If you masturbate in moderation, you will also feel good and relaxed after the act which is healthy. But the problem is because masturbation is cheap, and easy to do coupled with easy access to different explicit porn videos most people over do it and get addicted. Assuming we are living in World where there is no porn, most people will not get addicted.
If you masturbate without porn let's say two times a day depending on ur libido you will be satisfied and it might even take you the next 2 or 3 days b4 doing it again which is perfectly fine. But if u masturbate to porn, you will always want more even after a few hours because of the unusual dopamine spike in d brain which was induced by the porn scenes you are watching.

Tzar:
I hope you know that no sexual activity for men is worse than masturbation/porn.
Men who do not ejaculate frequently (3times weekly) are over 50% more likely to suffer protrate cancer/enlargement and erectile dysfunction.

then get yourself a partner and have sex and not masturbation.

eazzzy1:
1. Some men have learnt of ways to please a woman from porn. Pleasing your woman is an ego boost.

2. Some men have been delivered from bad relationships because there is an option for sexual gratification.

3. Some men have been able to manage scarce resources because porn has deterred them from spending for sex.

4. Talking about people paying money for only fans, you have to have money to be able to afford only fans. Are you saying the people who waste their energies on masturbation still have the ability to be productive members of society?

5.If there was no porn, people will still masturbate. Before the wide spread of internet in Nigeria, people were masturbating to erotic books or the dvd poster of their favourite actress/actor.

6. Porn and masturbation are similar to activities like watching movies, music, sports etc. Eventually some people outgrow them, some don’t. These are leisure activities that wanes with responsibility and maturity in most people.

7. Unless you get to the point where you refuse to go to work just so you can watch porn and masturbate, there’s nothing wrong with you.

8. Your argument about porn destroying life is like saying garri destroys life. People have stopped working hard to better their lives because garri is cheap and they can afford it. I can say garri is a life saver, people are alive today because they can afford garri. It’s all perspective.

Thank You.

You are very well educated unlike the Pathetic illiterate Op trying to sound woke with his Ignoramus post.

Draslo:
I will try to be as brief as possible.

Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod. Masturbation is the most reliable instant gratification a person can achieve almost free of charge.

Has it ever occurred to you why porn is so goddamn free and accessible? Have you wondered why countries hardly ever blocked porn sites? How many people do you know that watch porn with VPN? The answer is a resounding 0! Even in the most religious Arab country, porn is free to access.

These days, on social media and almost every thread has a porn star or wannabe that will pollute the thread with their nudity, both men and women. The world just goes on like kids don't have access to this but you see that activity that brings life, the power to which we as humans don't fully understand, is being corrupted for the sole reason of making men weak. You sef think am now!

Men are now at their weakest. The elite are ensuring mean are weak sexually and mentally, two things the structurally define a man. You can imagine heading to apps like Bigo Live or Buzzcast only to find your average innocent next door girl live streaming her nudity and teasing men who in turn gift her money for visual gratification. I hear every day, more and more young girls are into this and weak men are financing this madness. It is impossible to be a registered member of these sites and connect your wallet or bank account to fund it to gift women money for flashing sensitive body parts without being a porn addict firstly. Same with Onlyfans and Allaccessfans for those abroad.

A lot of us are porn addicts but prefer to deny it or ignore the fact and be like "I watch porn, so? I go still dey watch am dey go". It is better to get your dopamine from other sources than masturbation. Every time a man orgasms, the energy release is 5 times stronger than a woman's. I'm not talking about flesh pleasures but pure energy. There's a good reason a woman can orgasm 5 times in one hour for the next 6 hours if she has a stallion guy or a sex machine. Women can masturbate for 3 hours if they're home alone. No man can try this. They will move his corpse out if he tries it.

Everything must be done in moderation with the application of wisdom. You might come online to call men simps but you yourself are a simp and you know it deep down. You're getting weaker daily and porn is ruining your cognitive function, your relationships, in fact, your whole life.

Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.

Fooolish Post filled with undiluted Ignorance.

MuMuOnBail:
Na wa ooo


I don't know why emphasizing more on men masturbation and shy away from women.

This women masturbate more often than men, even virgin girls that haven't had real sex masturbate too.

I have in numerous occasions caught women watching porn too (in a train and park)

They scrub their p*ussy with their middle finger while taking their bath, therefore end up pleasuring themselves.

Sometimes I wish I knew how to masturbate, it should have saved me a lot financially

Any small Konji I will start scrolling through my phone looking for the available side chicks or potential once to come and cure my Konji.
I will have to prepare her transport (to and fro), give my house help money to prepare her favorite when she decide to come (Or going to a eatery, or to a 3/4 star hotel), I must also prepare to surprise her with a gift she have been pestering me to get for her, this will trigger her to F*ck me Crazy and give me her best performance, and Also I will have to reserve Extra cash for miscellaneous after cumming.

Imagine jerking off with Victoria Cake's videos, I will save myself from all the stress and expenses.
The money will be sent to my Wonderful queen and wife, and my beautiful Angels in Sweden


Those that watches porn and masturbate don't know what god have done for them

The Adrenaline and Dopamine rush.

kals4luv990:
no be masturbation give you weak erection boss

Why you dey call the Fooool boss.

You should address him as a Foool that he is.

Friends Jesus Christ loves y'all and he want you to accept him as your personal lord and saviour by giving your life to Christ, believing in him and repenting of your sins.remember tomorrow might be too late. Shalom

Somebody has to entertain men apart from their wives and girlfriends

Hahjascho:
Hmn...there's a very thing line between moderation and getting stuck.

In fact, the assumed moderation is like a long time seed, potentially enough to wreck havoc.

They all have the same consequences whether short term or long term.

This talk no make sense... doctors will tell you moderate alcohol to unwind is healthy, moderate sex is healthy, no sex at all is bad for men... sometimes doing some things moderately keeps us happy and have other positive social effects.

Do you know that one of the problem of the north is the fact that they banned alcohol, most of the youths have nowhere to ease their anger, they use dangerous drugs, with makes people think negatively, while alcohol brings happiness albeit momentarily. Do you know how violent and intolerant the world will be without alcohol...those Muslim extremists are a ckear example...angry for no reason, pent up stress.

Coolboy009:
We are talking about people who are addicted already (they masturbate excessively to porn). If you masturbate in moderation, you will also feel good and relaxed after the act which is healthy. But the problem is because masturbation is cheap, and easy to do coupled with easy access to different explicit porn videos most people over do it and get addicted. Assuming we are living in World where there is no porn, most people will not get addicted.
If you masturbate without porn let's say two times a day depending on ur libido you will be satisfied and it might even take you the next 2 or 3 days b4 doing it again which is perfectly fine. But if u masturbate to porn, you will always want more even after a few hours because of the unusual dopamine spike in d brain which was induced by the porn scenes you are watching.

Not everyone is like this, you are using yourself to generalise about other's. I have seen hardworking people, successful people, go to strip bars and watch erotic and porn movies, they don't get addicted, I mean people in their 40/50s, they still function well.

Don't ask me what success means, as you did the last time, because every body with common sense knows what we mean when we say successful.

Coolboy009:
We are talking about people who are addicted already (they masturbate excessively to porn). If you masturbate in moderation, you will also feel good and relaxed after the act which is healthy. But the problem is because masturbation is cheap, and easy to do coupled with easy access to different explicit porn videos most people over do it and get addicted. Assuming we are living in World where there is no porn, most people will not get addicted.
If you masturbate without porn let's say two times a day depending on ur libido you will be satisfied and it might even take you the next 2 or 3 days b4 doing it again which is perfectly fine. But if u masturbate to porn, you will always want more even after a few hours because of the unusual dopamine spike in d brain which was induced by the porn scenes you are watching.

Not everyone is like this, you are using yourself to generalise about other's. I have seen hardworking people, successful people, go to strip bars and watch erotic and porn movies, they don't get addicted, I mean people in their 40/50s, they still function well.

Don't ask me what success means, as someone I mentioned did the last time, because every body with common sense knows what we mean when we say successful.

Oga, go and sit down.
Porn is not harmful. Addiction is. Just like addiction to anything.
Even addiction to prayer is bad, too.

The key thing is Consciousness.

DO EVERY ACTIVITIES CONSCIOUOSLY.

Too much of porn kills sexual abilities in men uote author=Draslo post=128839542]I will try to be as brief as possible.

Watching porn and masturbation goes together like peas in a pod. Masturbation is the most reliable instant gratification a person can achieve almost free of charge.

Has it ever occurred to you why porn is so goddamn free and accessible? Have you wondered why countries hardly ever blocked porn sites? How many people do you know that watch porn with VPN? The answer is a resounding 0! Even in the most religious Arab country, porn is free to access.

These days, on social media and almost every thread has a porn star or wannabe that will pollute the thread with their nudity, both men and women. The world just goes on like kids don't have access to this but you see that activity that brings life, the power to which we as humans don't fully understand, is being corrupted for the sole reason of making men weak. You sef think am now!

Men are now at their weakest. The elite are ensuring mean are weak sexually and mentally, two things the structurally define a man. You can imagine heading to apps like Bigo Live or Buzzcast only to find your average innocent next door girl live streaming her nudity and teasing men who in turn gift her money for visual gratification. I hear every day, more and more young girls are into this and weak men are financing this madness. It is impossible to be a registered member of these sites and connect your wallet or bank account to fund it to gift women money for flashing sensitive body parts without being a porn addict firstly. Same with Onlyfans and Allaccessfans for those abroad.

A lot of us are porn addicts but prefer to deny it or ignore the fact and be like "I watch porn, so? I go still dey watch am dey go". It is better to get your dopamine from other sources than masturbation. Every time a man orgasms, the energy release is 5 times stronger than a woman's. I'm not talking about flesh pleasures but pure energy. There's a good reason a woman can orgasm 5 times in one hour for the next 6 hours if she has a stallion guy or a sex machine. Women can masturbate for 3 hours if they're home alone. No man can try this. They will move his corpse out if he tries it.

Everything must be done in moderation with the application of wisdom. You might come online to call men simps but you yourself are a simp and you know it deep down. You're getting weaker daily and porn is ruining your cognitive function, your relationships, in fact, your whole life.

Tell me one reasonable purpose of porn if you can think of one.[/quote]

Evolutionism:


Go outside go find Job and work on your life.

Or start learning digital skills with your phone

Guilt can kill faster.
Get rid of it.
Get a job or learn a skill or outdoor hobby

PMO
Porn Masturbation Orgasm

Some times it may be easier to quit in smaller steps.

Especially for men, but for both sexes if you are unable to quite PMO, then try and quit the orgasm stage.

Porn with masturbation is still better than Porn with Masturbation and Orgasm.

Similarly Porn without Masturbation is arguably better than Porn with Masturbation.

Laurene:
But the dude is YOU!

I wish I am sat lucky sha, currently to find correct wife is like looking for needle in a hay sack....I am think of going the baby mama route sef , still doing some feasibility studies sha

Slizzords:
My own is worse, I have prayed, fasted and done everything. I have been watching porn and masturbating everyweek for the past 8years. Sometimes I feel like killing myself

If you learn to act that masturbation is human nature, you’d fine.

Young people, run away from .porn. I'm speaking from personal experience

Johnjustice:

Not everyone is like this, you are using yourself to generalise about other's. I have seen hardworking people, successful people, go to strip bars and watch erotic and porn movies, they don't get addicted, I mean people in their 40/50s, they still function well.

Don't ask me what success means, as someone I mentioned did the last time, because everybody with common sense knows what we mean when we say successful.

Where did I say addiction will make you unsuccessful? Addiction doesn’t mean you can’t achieve financial success. Some highly successful people in our society today are facing one or two addictions, that you don't know about. Some porn addict are paying thousands of dollars for nude on onlyfans and other platforms, they are not broke guys. You said you know some people who watch porn and are not addicted. Yes, it is possible, nobody said everybody who watches porn will get addicted. And you can not easily know who is addicted and who is not by merely seeing them, nobody will watch porn and masturbate to it in your presence. I was only trying to explain why people can easily get addicted to masturbation and porn and why it is difficult to quit.

So you also don’t know it is not all men that can deal psychologically with women who monetize sex directly or indirectly?
Only few women are decent enough not to demand financial gratification for sex, therefore most men resort to porn/masturbation for relief.

Coolboy009:
then get yourself a partner and have sex and not masturbation.

This is from Havard ‘ The scientists found no evidence that frequent ejaculations mark an increased risk of prostate cancer. In fact, the reverse was true: High ejaculation frequency was linked to a decreased risk.’
https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/ejaculation_frequency_and_prostate_cancer

More sources:

https://www.urologyhealth.org/healthy-living/urologyhealth-extra/magazine-archives/fall-2020/ask-the-experts-does-having-more-ejaculations-lessen-the-chance-of-prostate-cancer

https://www.mintstl.com/blog/can-sex-lower-the-risk-of-prostate-cancer

Please what is your source?!

Hahjascho:
This has already been debunked my verified professionals and doctors. Not true.

Low information societies are always the cesspit of religious indoctrination. This is always closely correlated with a natural tendency for hypocrisy and inescapable backwardness.

I would hope this lecture helps reduce the rapid population growth from excessive breeding. There is no single reason why Nigerians are hungry today other than the fact that they produce nothing but have increased their mouths 13 TIMES OVER in the last century, from a mere 17 million in 1922.

People who take the time to post persuasions like this with no substance to reason on usually are troubled and looking for a release

Johnjustice:

You need to review your mentality of life...stop thinking everyone must think like you, life is relative, most of those dogmas and cliches you hold onto were proscribed by men like you. Free your myopic mind from being judgemental, as long as a vice doesn't affect society or you negatively, it's better you use that same energy and speak about more important things. People have habits, it's really not your business.

You feel really attacked and thereby, defensive.

I do not judge anyone but just expressing my views. Truth they say is bitter.

Johnjustice:

This talk no make sense... doctors will tell you moderate alcohol to unwind is healthy, moderate sex is healthy, no sex at all is bad for men... sometimes doing some things moderately keeps us happy and have other positive social effects.

Do you know that one of the problem of the north is the fact that they banned alcohol, most of the youths have nowhere to ease their anger, they use dangerous drugs, with makes people think negatively, while alcohol brings happiness albeit momentarily. Do you know how violent and intolerant the world will be without alcohol...those Muslim extremists are a ckear example...angry for no reason, pent up stress.

Ok sir.

Ezeifeduba:
Young people, run away from .porn. I'm speaking from personal experience

leave them they go learn in a very hard way

What did I understand from this now

Absolutely Nothing.

Omo talking about porn and masturbation, I won't lie it truly do destroy life. I have a friend I will say,he loves porn so bad that he can't go a day without watching and masturbating. He started this when he was 17 and now he is 33 and can give his woman kids

Omo being a human is hard.[/quote]

Just look at what our youths are defending. Something they should be abhorring and doing away with.

Let the supporters of porn come and tell us if they'd be okay with their kids, wards, or siblings pleasuring themselves or watching porn.

The two acts are sinful and no same mind should go near them.

Be in control of your emotions, not the other way round.

May God help our innocent little ones so that they don't become prey to the evil our sinful generation is championing. Amen.