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Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by silvertuke(m): 6:15pm On Nov 14, 2011
Do other African men complain about their ladies just like Nigerian men do? Like 80% of the topic I see here on Nairaland Romance section is about Naija babes and their Bleep up. Naija babes do this, Naija babes do that. Naija babes everywhere wetin self. So does it means that Naija babes na the worst/ badest in Africa? Naija babes prove these men wrong by changing your ways. The funny thing is that even if the ones here on Nairaland chose to be good, what about millions out there that don’t even know if Nairaland or other social networking site exist? Only Jesus can save.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by r231(m): 6:17pm On Nov 14, 2011
undecided
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by HighChief4(m): 6:29pm On Nov 14, 2011
In othewords, you are complaining too
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Tosinville(m): 6:39pm On Nov 14, 2011
Since other African country men don't complain about their women then Nigerian women need to change and stop being obsess with blackberry, recharge-cards, fast food etc cos majority of them are disgracing Nigerian men, one was stripped naked lately for stealing a blackberry phone and the video was all over facebook and i was so ashame, why al this over blackberry phone? can't you be yourself, must you be like some other girls? thats why i like Nigerian guys, they can use visafone, haier and their fellow guys will still understand unlike al these chicken brain girls.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Goldieluks: 6:42pm On Nov 14, 2011
As per the issue of other African country,it is the women who go on to complain about
their men,because a lot of these men are either sleeping with different women
or drinking heavily,so the reverse is the case.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by lindabon: 6:54pm On Nov 14, 2011
High_Chief:

In othewords, you are complaining too

i think he is.

Well, i think if all the men do is nag, then you will agree that both parties have issues. Most nigerian guys dating western women keep complaining about the womans over bossiness . .  bla bla bla, while those dating Nigerian women can't stop complaining about Nigerian women's materialistic nature . .bla bla bla. So i guess that majority of the Nigerian men are not normal sha.
Who says the girls don't want to complain about Nigerian men as well. Nigerian men and women have their issues. But most Nigerian man will rather complain and make excuses,  than share in the blame. All the ladies can do is to let them whine and keep deceiving themselves. If the men really think that absolutely nothing is wrong with them, then lets just allow them to enjoy their denial! Hopefully they will grow a pair!HOPEFULLY !
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by freecocoa(f): 7:28pm On Nov 14, 2011
At any little talk about why men bash naija women,asking for blackberry and recharge cards become what the men use as a weapon to defend themselves.
Now if you know you can't afford these things,why front like you will give her the world if she asks, when aking her out? Let these girls know you won't be able to give her these things,if she stays fine if she doesn't cos of that,you'll just know she was all about the material things anyways,its not as if its wrong for a lady to expect or get gifts from her man, but making it a must or the reason to stay with him is just wrong.
Men look well to know the gold diggers and stay the hell away from them if you don't want to be dug on.there are a million and one good girls out there,just locate and stay with them for God's sakes.
The ish with most of these men is that they want to have it sharp sharp with these girls who in turn see it as an opportunity to milk them dry,they don't want to be patient and do things the right way.if you can't afford to do what they ask,just don't,its not by force abeg.BTW this is related to what a poster above wrote.

@ topic,Bronzetuke love I don't know but it seems you are complaining when I haven't even asked you for a pin before.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by emofine(f): 7:36pm On Nov 14, 2011
Wow so some of you guys would go so far as to still make mouth about Naija women even in issue wey no concern us.

If - (keyword being if) other African men do not complain about their women then that serves to betray the character of Nigerian men more than Nigerian women.

If such is the case concerning other African men then maybe . . .

- They do not disgrace their women in public but may council them in private.

- They lay emphasis on the positive traits exhibited by their women.

- They do not seek solace and refuge on the internet.

- They do not complain 365 days in a year

or perhaps their women have taken up that role as the sole complainers undecided

Even though I believe some statements here is just to cause effect but just because Nigerian women have chosen to remain silent does not mean that some of you men are without faults (smh)
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by silvertuke(m): 7:48pm On Nov 14, 2011
freecocoa:

At any little talk about why men bash naija women,asking for blackberry and recharge cards become what the men use as a weapon to defend themselves.
Now if you know you can't afford these things,why front like you will give her the world if she asks, when aking her out? Let these girls know you won't be able to give her these things,if she stays fine if she doesn't cos of that,you'll just know she was all about the material things anyways,its not as if its wrong for a lady to expect or get gifts from her man, but making it a must or the reason to stay with him is just wrong.
Men look well to know the gold diggers and stay the hell away from them if you don't want to be dug on.there are a million and one good girls out there,just locate and stay with them for God's sakes.
The ish with most of these men is that they want to have it sharp sharp with these girls who in turn see it as an opportunity to milk them dry,they don't want to be patient and do things the right way.if you can't afford to do what they ask,just don't,its not by force abeg.BTW this is related to what a poster above wrote.

@ topic,Bronzetuke love I don't know but it seems you are complaining when I haven't even asked you for a pin before.

@Freecocoa My Love. Complaining abt Naija babes does not simply means all are involve in this Shit. Obviously I will exclude you from them because u have been a caring and loving babe to me, but I just hope things continue like this.

Tosinville link=topic=803395.msg9556285#msg9556285 date=1321292341:

Since other African country men don't complain about their women then Nigerian women need to change and stop being obsess with blackberry, recharge-cards, fast food etc cos majority of them are disgracing Nigerian men, one was stripped Unclad lately for stealing a blackberry phone and the video was all over facebook and i was so ashame, why al this over blackberry phone? can't you be yourself, must you be like some other girls? thats why i like Nigerian guys, they can use visafone, haier and their fellow guys will still understand unlike al these chicken brain girls.


I saw it too and I was so much disappointed. that is why I like we guys we fit use nokia 3310 as long as he dey fit call and receive. and na that same 3310 sharp guys fit still dey toast girl wen dey use BB, we get level shall.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Njgirl1: 8:20pm On Nov 14, 2011
the reason u dont see complaints about 9ja men here is that no 9ja chick is dumb enough to diss her father brother male relations and unborn sons all cause she wantS to get back at just ONEguy that treated her like crap duped her of her fathers money or turned her into a punch bag but as 4 9ja guys eg lefulefu and mrcork tellwisdom born2eff and 9ja wanabe 190 they will go to any lengths : diss their mums sisters female relations unborn daughters and most annoying of all beef their RACE AND CONTINENT in a public forum just 2 get back at a few 9ja babes that broke dia hearts
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by silvertuke(m): 8:56pm On Nov 14, 2011
Nj girl:

the reason u dont see complaints about 9ja men here is that no 9ja chick is dumb enough to diss her father brother male relations and unborn sons all cause she wantS to get back at just ONEguy that treated her like crap duped her of her fathers money or turned her into a punch bag but as 4 9ja guys eg lefulefu and mrcork tellwisdom born2eff and 9ja wanabe 190 they will go to any lengths : diss their mums sisters female relations unborn daughters and most annoying of all beef their RACE AND CONTINENT in a public forum just 2 get back at a few 9ja babes that broke dia hearts
Talk true.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by 195(f): 9:30pm On Nov 14, 2011
Nj girl:

the reason u dont see complaints about 9ja men here is that no 9ja chick is dumb enough to diss her father brother male relations and unborn sons all cause she wantS to get back at just ONEguy that treated her like crap duped her of her fathers money or turned her into a punch bag but as 4 9ja guys eg lefulefu and mrcork tellwisdom born2eff and 9ja wanabe 190 they will go to any lengths : diss their mums sisters female relations unborn daughters and most annoying of all beef their RACE AND CONTINENT in a public forum just 2 get back at a few 9ja babes that broke dia hearts

O[/i]RY undecided
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 9:47pm On Nov 14, 2011
God save us from hungry babes, hungry babes.Many naija girls are badly behaved, especially when it comes to dating matters, For the fact that naija girls are taking a lot of bashing on NL must mean sumffin, Imagine a girl I once went out on a date to the cinemas asking me after the date how much I'll give her that I must give her 2k that she needs money, I just gave her t-fare and my opinion of the girl just changed completely, Shame on Naija babes
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 10:19pm On Nov 14, 2011
I'm sure they do. Men from all over do it
however none more so then African American and Nigerian men.  tongue tongue

the most I've heard other African men say about their women is
they love drama but otherwise, there is still that level of respect.
they still will tell you in a heartbeat that they would rather go home
or find a woman from their country in the US to marry than a woman of
another nationality.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by emofine(f): 10:23pm On Nov 14, 2011
^^ A man who respects his women respects himself.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by tpia5: 10:24pm On Nov 14, 2011
its an internet thing.

many misogynists [for whatever reason] intentionally attack women using online media.

most of these people are in IT and scamming, and also into alternative lifestyles.


the attacks are specific to nationality and location.

eg on a nigerian site, their nigerian agents will attack nigerian women. Sometimes they are egged on by non-nigerian [and some nigerian] women who are working together with them either as relationship partners or otherwise.

on a white american site, their agents attack white american women.

and so on.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by 195(f): 10:26pm On Nov 14, 2011
MsDarkSkin:

I'm sure they do. Men from all over do it
however none more so then African American and Nigerian men.  tongue tongue

the most I've heard other African men say about their women is
they love drama but otherwise, there is still that level of respect.
they still will tell you in a heartbeat that they would rather go home
or find a woman from their country in the US to marry than a woman of
another nationality.

Mzdarkskin - can we please have s[i]e[/i]x today  smiley
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by tpia5: 10:26pm On Nov 14, 2011
these are not nigerian women:





Women bloggers seek to fight online misogyny, critics decry threat to free speech





Blogger and comedienne told TheDC that expressions of hate against women are all too prevalent online, but if there is one upside at least it demonstrates just how “widespread” the hate is.

“Germane Greer wrote many years ago that women have no idea how much men hate them. Well, thanks the Internet, now we do,” Smurthwaite explained. “And it’s a problem that needs to be faced up to. Many schools already teach students about the history of ethnic minority communities and the ongoing battle to end racism. Women’s history (herstory) should be compulsory for male and female students from an early age and young people should be encouraged to understand the issues that women still face in the home and the workplace.”



Read more: http://dailycaller.com/2011/11/14/women-bloggers-seek-to-fight-online-misogyny-critics-decry-threat-to-free-speech/#ixzz1dgLVnnEL
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Nov 14, 2011
emofine:

^^ A man who respects his women respects himself.

Darn skippy! grin grin Amen.

190_@:

Mzdarkskin - can we please have s[i]e[/i]x today  smiley

[size=3pt]no but you can bite me.[/size] tongue
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Njgirl1: 10:29pm On Nov 14, 2011
190 change ur nl name to mr lame come back racist
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by tpia5: 10:31pm On Nov 14, 2011
why do you think seun the site admin seems powerless to do anything about it?

because

1. the people behind it are very computer savvy. They include hackers, IT specialists, human traffickers [some of the threads are meant to entrap non-naija women and make them feel protective of the naija man targetting them, while others are a smokescreen. Unfortunately many of these women develop superiority complexes but na them sabi], etc.

2. Some of them control the purse strings of others.

3. blackmail could also be involved.


etc etc.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by 195(f): 10:33pm On Nov 14, 2011
MsDarkSkin:



[size=3pt]no but you can bite me.[/size] tongue

[size=3pt]Can i lick you down there embarassed embarassed[/size]
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Nov 14, 2011
some folks would make good screen writers for conspiracy/set up movies.
#thenegotiator.  tongue tongue


190_@:

[size=3pt]Can i lick you down there embarassed embarassed[/size]

tongue tongue
[size=4pt]abeg sky dive with a broken parachute from London Bridge.[/size] grin
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by tpia5: 10:36pm On Nov 14, 2011
this isnt a nigerian woman:





But what is it with the internet and misogyny?



We all need to take responsibility for our own behaviour online. What would your wife, girlfriend, sister or mum think if they knew you anonymously posted comments telling a woman they'd be better off dead, or should get back into the kitchen?

Within this burgeoning discussion, no-one is denying that 'trolling' online is exclusively directed towards women. Men definitely cop it, and yes, women troll women. Haters gonna hate (as they say). But what is clear, particularly when you take the time to read through the #mencallmethings hashtag and associated blog posts, is that women are subjected to a unique, and frankly, ridiculous level of abuse almost entirely based on their sex.



http://www.abc.net.au/unleashed/3659712.html


Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by 195(f): 10:37pm On Nov 14, 2011
Nj girl:

190 change your nl name to mr lame come back racist


sssssh my wife is around!  angry
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by 195(f): 10:38pm On Nov 14, 2011
MsDarkSkin:




tongue tongue
[size=4pt]abeg sky dive with a broken parachute from London Bridge.[/size] grin


[size=3pt]Are u shaved smiley[/size]
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Nov 14, 2011
190_@:

[size=3pt]Are u shaved smiley[/size]

[size=3pt]balder than snappia's head! tongue
btw she's trolling again. go clear them cobwebs
real quick. grin grin[/size]
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by seedord247(m): 10:46pm On Nov 14, 2011
MsDarkSkin:

some folks would make good screen writers for conspiracy/set up movies.
#thenegotiator.  tongue tongue


tongue tongue
[size=4pt]abeg sky dive with a broken parachute from London Bridge.[/size]  grin


Mrs. you fall my hand today. why will your waste you precious time dey rant with person wey be say

stretch mark has turn to tattoo in her body
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by tpia5: 10:47pm On Nov 14, 2011
na only stretch mark?

scar nko.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Nov 14, 2011
seedord247:

Mrs. you fall my hand today. why will your waste you precious time dey rant with person wey be say

stretch mark has turn to tattoo in her body


grin grin sorry bro. just teasing. cheesy
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by tpia5: 10:50pm On Nov 14, 2011
another characteristic of such people is they tend to reduce females to s.exual objects and find it very hard to have a non-s.exual online discussion with a woman.

many of them are heavily into p.orn and typically, post a lot of n.aked images of women online.

this doesnt necessarily mean they're straight however, but the p.orn is useful in ensnaring other men and keeping yet others addicted while they're being used for whatever they're supposed to be doing.

they also tend towards fatalism/nihilism when discussing relationships and/or the future, and often express fear or aggression in a knee jerk reaction when thinking or typing about females.

will also study their female counterparts as well.
Re: Do Other African Men Complain About Their Ladies? by 195(f): 11:01pm On Nov 14, 2011
MsDarkSkin:

[size=3pt]balder than snappia's head! tongue
btw she's trolling again. go clear them cobwebs
real quick. grin grin[/size]
[size=4pt]
U must be silly if you tink im going close to tpia's pubic area angry

Seriously i see you are shaved, wen are u shaving me again cheesy cheesy[/size]

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