hu Come de quote Bible, naa??

Having a crush on somebody is feeling not easy to let go.

I remember one of my female colleagues who won't let me be.

so some days back she came to my office while I was on Nairaland

and saw the starement iice said about radiant and me she got so furious

that it was cos of Radiant that I have not been giving her face and what happened

in my office was better imagined than experienced. Till this day she has not uttered a

single word to me so much so that other colleagues have noticed. My point is that we do

not crucify this lady  but advice her so  that she does't do something drastic because that

there is a thin line between love and hate. love not achieved turned to a passionate hatred.[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color]

Playf, u're in a serious situation and u need to be very careful. He's married and u need to respect that fact, what do u think his wife will do if she finds out what u have in mind, put yourself inher shoes. Just take your mind off him and concentrate on your job so as not to lose your integrity(if u have one) if u can"t still concentrate, then u"ll have no choice but to resign from there.

Sleeping with married men or married women can be sweet at timesbutitisverydangerous,and God will not forgive youfor committing Adultery.

But sincewearein a civilizeworldI sujest you walk up to himand let himknowbefore you do something stupid.

Is not a sin to love something but is asin to love amaried man and want to sleep with him.

Watch and pray.

cheers

Is not a sin to love someone but is a a sin tolove and want to sleep with a married woman or man, tell him how you feel about him a let him knowbefore you dosomething stupid.

cheers

Telling him how u feel is a wrong step.

As u said, he is seperated.

Telling him this might just AWAKEN THE SLEEPING TYGER

You dont want to do that, do you?

Not after all this orishi-rishi advice


Get focused, pray about it, and maybe one SUPERboy might just come to the rescue to ask for ur hand

Hey Nairaland users, check out this other post in the GENERAL section today from the same play

Quote from: play on Today at 2:41:36 PM

I am have been frieends with this chic in my school, for sometime now.we live together, read together even are in the same department n year.
she is very very pretty, and we are quite close . the problem is evry time i see her,i want to do things that you do only with the opposite sex.
don't get it wrong am straight, but am beginning to have problems, with my sexuality everytime i see her. i try with all my might not to try to touch her but,
men e no easy.
am thinking i should ask her out,
am not sure if she bi, or dyke
help me.

if una like make una abuse,
all i want is advise, what do u suggest Huh

sHE has to be a very playful to_t

play or no play,you must be MAD-totally INSANE, for you to have affection towards a married man,to the extent you thinking of marrying him.
read this---you will DIE and go to HELL soon!!!!!!!!!

Wow!!

Just now, now, Admin or someone has sharply removed that post from play in the GENERAL section about
her present LESBIAN-feelings for her classmate in school

I wondert which time she went back to school from working

Yeye

Let me ask again,, If falling in Love is a normal thing to do,, why do you think its impossible to fall in love with a married man?Love does nt ask why and who, Its very Easy to fall in Love with a married man or woman so,, just find a way out to handle it inorder not to create havoc,, well, only a few people will understand me,,

Taibabie and Play!
Una be de same person? abi you have divisioned yourself into twice?
Well, I have one simple advice for you. Don't do it!
Why? What goes around comes around!! Question: If you go out with another woman's husband, what moral justification do you think you would have to cry out to God if another chic goes out with your husband when you are married?
It's not bad to have a crush on somebody. To be frank with you, I wish to sleep with almost every beautiful woman I have met.
Thinking of him ain't bad, but doing it is another thing altogether.
God help you. Be strong. You mustn't leave the job. Just leave the crush!!

oh girl - fok the daylight out of him so dat him go leave him wife com pack meet u for house - wetin. Upon dat - u need to cook am love soup wey him go lick forget him wife - no be so?

hi every one, this is gbeboy reporting for duty, concerning this thread, my simple advice is that what goes around also comes around, or better still what is good for the goose is also good for the gander, whichever one you choose, the choice is yours.

well girl i think you are hallucinating cos he aint your man and you think you have a crush on him well to me it is scarcastic and hillarious, girl wake up and face reality some one first you to get him but still dont loose hope cos there is a man out there for you who is willing to flourish you with love and tenderness you never expected

please does anyone know the title of this song that was played in the nigerian movie titled "A million tears". The lyrics of the first verse goes:
you were the treasure that i seek
you were close to me and i did not know
the love that i seek for many years
was right beside me
yet i couldnt feel it
when i close my eyes
i see you coming to me my girl

My Point:

You may love him, fantalise about him, do all sorts of things, BUT NEVER EVER SLEEP WITH HIM.

Never put yourself in a position where you could sleep together.

With time, you will love and appreciate him as a friend and elder brother.

Wish you well.

@poster,

Well, you're not married, so you want your own man, but this one is taken. Go look for another man - guys plenty!

taibabe, play, whatever name u choose to go by , all i can say is 2 b forewarned is to b forearmed . A crush is stuff which we all get to experience but the fun is been able to outgrow it so that later u can look back and laff over it. i remember i had a crush on tope whilst in jss3, and years later after university, tope and i looked back and laffd over it. it wuz fun, she actually said she ddnt know and maybe i should av told her but i liked it beta the way it turned out,  married men or women (for guys with their own crush too) should b STRICTLY off limits,  u hear? else u ll end up sad o!!!! and gbe boy, its now wats good for the goose is good for d sauce!!!

take a look @ it as ur husband n c if u can take it

kenosky,thanks for that observation

yes o

[size=16pt]Play, so what are u going to do next with all your LESBIAN AND HUSBAND SNATCHING SKILLS NOW?

Would'nt u tell us how u discovered u have become a Bi-sexual

STORY TELLER![/size]

GOOD DAY EVERY ONE,
I WANT TO APPRECIATE EVERY ONE FOR HIS/HER REPLY TO THIS PARTICULAR MESSAGE BUT THEN WE MUST ALL UNDERSTAND ONE THING THAT THIS PARTICULAR CHAPTER OF THE FORUM SEEMS TO BE SENCITIVE AND WE SHOULD BE CAREFUL WITH THE STATEMENTS WE MAKE.
I WILL LIKE TO APPRECIATE THE LIKES OF ANNEY/AISHA/OKPONMOKO/ AND THE LIKES OF OTHERS WHICH I COULN NOT MENTION THERE NAME, THEN FOR THE REST WHO TENDS TO BE HARSH WELL I ALSO UNDERSTAND BUTI WANT YOU ALL TO ALSO UNDERSTAND THAT SHE ADMITTED SHE NEEDED A HELP THAT IS WHY SHE HAS BROUGHT HER CASE THIS FAR, AS FOR SUGARBABE THANKS YOU MA FOR YOUR EXPERIENCE.
I HAVE COME TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN TO BE VERY SENCITIVE/FRAGILE THEY NEED SURPORT ESPECIALLY SOME ONE THAT HAS ALREADY ACCEPTED HER FAULT.
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@ Play,

I will only advise you to let time pass. You're probabli nt in love but in 'lust'. I have been in similar situation before, only that d guy in question wasn't married but he was equally attracted to me. I have since left the office we worked together. I thought i loved him until i gave masef some brain n made use of ma head. I couldn't stand our 'only' subject of discussion for the short time i let go of my reasoning-his escapades with different women. My advice to you is: try to control those feelings n in a short while, u will be glad you did. 1 good strategy is 'always remember d guy is married'. It will work. Note: I didn't sleep with neither did i go close to his house d short period. I disciplined masef.

from talibabie

That's as frank and good as an advice can get.

Thank you talibabie.

GOOD DAY EVERY ONE,
I WANT TO APPRECIATE EVERY ONE FOR HIS/HER REPLY TO THIS PARTICULAR MESSAGE BUT THEN WE MUST ALL UNDERSTAND ONE THING THAT THIS PARTICULAR CHAPTER OF THE FORUM SEEMS TO BE SENCITIVE AND WE SHOULD BE CAREFUL WITH THE STATEMENTS WE MAKE.
I WILL LIKE TO APPRECIATE THE LIKES OF ANNEY/AISHA/OKPONMOKO/ AND THE LIKES OF OTHERS WHICH I COULN NOT MENTION THERE NAME, THEN FOR THE REST WHO TENDS TO BE HARSH WELL I ALSO UNDERSTAND BUTI WANT YOU ALL TO ALSO UNDERSTAND THAT SHE ADMITTED SHE NEEDED A HELP THAT IS WHY SHE HAS BROUGHT HER CASE THIS FAR, AS FOR SUGARBABE THANKS YOU MA FOR YOUR EXPERIENCE.
I HAVE COME TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN TO BE VERY SENCITIVE/FRAGILE THEY NEED SURPORT ESPECIALLY SOME ONE THAT HAS ALREADY ACCEPTED HER FAULT.


thank alongside others who gave advice, ur blessed.
as for the name callers, its evident how shallow u r. as said earlier,stop the condemanation nd give advise.

my dear sister ,let me just give it straight to u that u are carrying an ignited dynamite in your hand  which u have to get rid of before it explode in your face.lusting after another woman husband will only bring shame and pain to u.
God wil provide your own husband for u. "FI OKO OLOKO SILE" leave another woman husband
a word is enough for the wise

Please take your hands, feet, feelings and everything off him. He is married for goodness sake so please let him be.

If you are still attracted to him then that is lust cause he is married already and you wont want to be a second wife. Moreso, you might be called an intruder you know for invading someone's wife.

Please let go of that feelings and attraction and concentrate on your job, you've got a great future ahead of you and an handsome guy waiting out there to walk you down the altar so please dont loose it.

Take care.

@ Poster
Sweetheart I kno that feeling,i think, i said THINK o! You may be suffering from a lack of good SCREWING
But then u can get it anywhere fashi d bossman, u are only getting emotionally dependent on him cos u come in contact everyday and on those red alert days when he's the only male around.Find a neutral Dude and dont build d crush any further, it will only complicate future relations when the bobo nice comes.

@Play

Your spellings are appalling and you are referring people to a Dictionary? which you couldn't even spell correctly. Take your own advice; Use a dictionary.

Concerning your married boss its obvious you have made up your mind what you want to do unfortunately no one has said want you want to hear.

A word is enough for the wise!

Leave him alone or else, Or maybe you should consult a physcian to give you a good medication

In actual fact its not always the best especially a married man. Though initially there will always be Joy BUT at the end its always a Civil War and Third World War.

My simple advice, HANDS OFF!!! & GET URSELF A NICE CUTE GUY

Gal 6:7 Don't be misled; remember that you can't ignore God and get away with it: a man will always reap just the kind of crop he sows! (TLB)

If you steal another woman's husband, the devil will surely pay you back with interest.