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"You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by officialwdhtvv: 1:58pm On Apr 02
You have no business relocating abroad if you’re 40 and above — Abroad-based life coach.

Take a listen to her reasons. Are they valid?

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McrGAqMWWi8

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5QnjJqypy8/?igsh=N3Uwdmg5dDRtZ3Yw

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Namaster: 2:49pm On Apr 02
Listened to a few seconds of the video and I can tell she's an IDIIIOT with bad intentions.

First of all, 99% of the People who travel abroad do NOT do it to make money. So the premise of her NONSENSE argument is flawed.

The amount of money that is needed to complete the process of emigration in Nigeria is MIND-BOGGLING! The idea that it's ONLY poor people looking for money that choose to travel to UK, Europe, USA, Canada, etc is just plain DUMB!

It's even dumber when you consider the fact that a 40-year old man is UNLIKELY to receive external support to finance his plans.

People who travel do it to get AWAY from the economic quagmire, political instability, infrastructural collapse and the general LAWLESSNESS that is the hallmark of the Nigerian society.

Put simply, people travel out to get a better quality of life for themselves and their families.

Anyone who thinks people are fleeing Nigeria to make money is just being DELIBERATELY obtuse.

She's advocating for staying in Nigeria and "looking for money in dirty places". She doesn't realize that all the money in Nigeria would make no difference if you fall sick and the hospitals do NOT have ordinary X-ray machine to help with the diagnosis.

For those reading this:

If it enters your body to leave Nigeria and you can afford it, LEAVE! Even if you are 99 years old, LEAVE!

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by joinnow: 2:54pm On Apr 02
Even 85 years old mama from Edo relocated to USA and was ask why... She said my pikin it's better to die over there and you will rest in peace.

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by ednut1(m): 3:01pm On Apr 02
There are people whose parents came to visit them or do omugwo in their 50s and 70s. They have refused to go back and are doing baby sitter work. Making money they could not see during their working years. Dey play 🤣

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Kelechi009: 3:19pm On Apr 02
ednut1:
There are people whose parents came to visit them or do omugwo in their 50s and 70s. They have refused to go back and are doing baby sitter work. Making money they could not see during their working years. Dey play 🤣

Those cases are far different, those ones already had kids in those countries. She is referring to 40+ newly coming to struggle from the beginning.

Any 40+ that travels abroad at that age is setting themselves up for failure.

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Kelechi009: 3:23pm On Apr 02
Namaster:
Listened to a few seconds of the video and I can tell she's an IDIIIOT with bad intentions.

[s]First of all, 99% of the People who travel abroad do NOT do it to make money. So the premise of her NONSENSE argument is flawed.[/s]

The amount of money that is needed to complete the process of emigration in Nigeria is MIND-BOGGLING! The idea that it's ONLY poor people looking for money that choose to travel to UK, Europe, USA, Canada, etc is just plain DUMB!

If it enters your body to leave Nigeria and you can afford it, LEAVE! Even if you are 99 years old, LEAVE!

This is False, majority of those I know travelled because of economic reasons & foreign passport. Stop spreading false information. The value of the money they spent is not a lot because inflation is killing the currency in Nigeria.

Travelling abroad helps people financially more than anything.

From 2011 to 2022, Nigeria remitted:

In total, the personal remittances received amounted to 20.13 billion U.S. dollars in 2022. A remittance is a non-commercial transfer of money by a nonresident worker, a member of a diaspora community, or a citizen with familial ties abroad, for household income in their home country

Reference: statista.com/statistics/1012368/remittance-inflows-to-nigeria/

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by ednut1(m): 3:27pm On Apr 02
Kelechi009:


Those cases are far different, those ones already had kids in those countries. She is referring to 40+ newly coming to struggle from the beginning.

Any 40+ that travels abroad at that age is setting themselves up for failure.
if you travel legally age is not an issue. I have fellow Nigerians with over 20 years experience from Nigeria working in the same place i work in Canada. They mostly came for MBA or followed their younger wife in migrating.

The a writing Nigerian person in his 50s still has strength to hustle even if na menial jobs.

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Kelechi009: 3:41pm On Apr 02
ednut1:
if you travel legally age is not an issue. I have fellow Nigerians with over 20 years experience from Nigeria working in the same place i work in Canada. They mostly came for MBA or followed their younger wife in migrating.

The a writing Nigerian person in his 50s still has strength to hustle even if na menial jobs.

Well understood, however I would never advise anyone to migrate in their 50s as It is not worth all the hustle & bustle.
In such cases, It's better to secure funding for their kids to move abroad instead.

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Nigerfine3: 4:36pm On Apr 02
Kelechi009:


Well understood, however I would never advise anyone to migrate in their 50s as It is not worth all the hustle & bustle.
In such cases, It's better to secure funding for their kids to move abroad instead.

You are very smart about it. We share same name oooo
I am planning coming back soon at early 50s. The mental stability of you working without fun isn't for everyone.
Is always a different stroke. I cannot advise anyone above 45 with good income to come abroad for a fresh start

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Caleb15(m): 4:57pm On Apr 02
Life begins at 40 ma

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by emelda86(f): 5:13pm On Apr 02
Dey play...

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Villa12(m): 6:18pm On Apr 02
I disagree

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by CoronaVirusPro: 6:18pm On Apr 02
Lies!

It all depends on your expertise and immigration route.

A 50 year old man with 30 years experience in Networking with desirable certifications will HIT the ground running.

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by theophorus(m): 6:19pm On Apr 02
Well, everybody dey find how to trend these days so it's understandable if people just dey talk anything without thinking.

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by vibemad007: 6:19pm On Apr 02
Coming from the species that let the husband sell all properties quit job so they can relocate, and they get there they start showing their true self.

Yes let me take ur advice 🤢🤢🤢

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Squirrel1(m): 6:19pm On Apr 02
See her fat head cheesy

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by phemmie06(m): 6:19pm On Apr 02
Please come back home

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by allthingsgood: 6:19pm On Apr 02
They wont hear

Japa mumus

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by ClearFlair: 6:20pm On Apr 02
Not true

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by FactBoyz: 6:20pm On Apr 02
sad
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by HitRun(m): 6:20pm On Apr 02
I don't know about UK sha, but a 40-year-old man who decides to come to the US and become a truck driver, for example, can comfortably work for 25 years and retire back home very very comfortably. Just get your family a comfortable apartment in a small relatively cheap town and go about your hustling.

Most people who run into trouble abroad may not have planned well.

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by allthingsgood: 6:20pm On Apr 02
CoronaVirusPro:
Lies!

It all depends on your expertise and immigration route.

Dont waste your time
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:20pm On Apr 02
A lizard in Nigeria cannot become an Alligator abroad.

It's not about the age, no matter how old you are.
Have a good mindset and pray for God's blessings and you will make it no matter how old you are when you get there....
Or no matter where you are.

BLESSINGS come ONLY from above......so says Our HOLY BOOK.

Cheers and all da very best for the future. ❤️

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by MANNABBQGRILLS: 6:20pm On Apr 02
ayandee:
not true in all cases. My husband and I relocated in our 40s and we like it here.

Each person's situation is different. There's no general rule for whether or not to immigrate. Everyone should do what works for them.

Just don't travel illegally. If you have PR visa or study visa, take the opportunity.
End of thread.
You've said it all.

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Treasure17(m): 6:21pm On Apr 02
Mtcheeew
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by ForValour: 6:22pm On Apr 02
Foolish talk.

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by MasterJayJay: 6:22pm On Apr 02
Una dey use nairaland to get traffic to una yeye videos, so that you can earn dollars from youtube.

La watch la bend.

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by Ayo25: 6:22pm On Apr 02
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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 6:23pm On Apr 02
officialwdhtvv:
You have no business relocating abroad if you’re 40 and above — Abroad-based life coach.

Take a listen to her reasons. Are they valid?

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=McrGAqMWWi8

https://www.instagram.com/reel/C5QnjJqypy8/?igsh=N3Uwdmg5dDRtZ3Yw
madam keep fuckin quiet. You have to return back to Nigeria for you to qualify giving such advice

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Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by id4sho(m): 6:23pm On Apr 02
Let the poor breathe abeg undecided
Re: "You Have No Business Relocating Abroad If You’re 40 & Above" Abroad-based Lady by WeirdAlien: 6:23pm On Apr 02
Lies!
Really what do these people gain by spreading misinformation?

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