jay bee:

Why don't you just make my job easier by going ahead to tell me what a guy needs to do to have Nayah by his side
What makes Nayah weak?
We wanna learn

PS: We want specifics or case scenarios

Nayah:

Baslibon the fact not all NL female didn't reply doesn't mean she's wrong, since each time people talking about Nigerian women as goldiggers and so on the same replies appear, it's just that this question has been viewed and reviewed so many times, as for me liabilities are shared as I told
My favorite kenyan Pendo lot of kisses anyway

Nayah:

lol Who wants to know what do you mean by "we want to know" lol

Basildon1:

I am observing not judging based on the frequency of  female responses. There are lots of topics that get repeated daily on NL - even some where it is OBVIOUS that the poster is winding up the readers and yet i see females literally rip the thread apart on the regular!

Environments are different, outside of Nigeria,u can impress a hot girl simply by your approach, convo, going to a local restaurant  for a cheap  meal and cheap drinks while getting to know her better. It doesnt matter that u live in a house share, use a bus pass and carry a shyt fone.

THIS DOES NOT WORK IN NIGERIA! Just a fact - no criticism, A smart guy understands it is better to hate the game, not the player.

jay bee:

Me me me me

pendo89:

Hello nayah, JB can u please impress first.

Actually I have come to believe that and its good to know. It answers the many questions I have always had about nigerian culture.
The thread was actually directed at guys so I really wanted to hear from the men. Am sure I sound like a broken record to some girls and men alike but like I said am not trying to defend any gender.Its a very open question.
Aim was to make men understand that winning a woman is not hard and you dont need to go out of your way to do it.
If you understand 'female speak' then its very easy.Some men have admitted that they can do that.I support that and call them real men.
Any man who flashes a wallet to impress and any lady who is impressed by wallet first is simply losing it cz you miss out on good quality men.
Unfortunately IT DOESN'T WORK IN NIGERIA.

Basildon1:

Dont get me totally wrong. I am not saying splash cash and hope it covers up for the qualities that you lack as a man. Just saying[b] the combination is needed is Nigeria. Females require a level of comfort to take it to the next level of considering your heart's conten[/b]t (at least with the current generation[b]). A banker will not date a plumber in Nigeria no matter how good his heart is.[/b]

pendo89:


Again I know I sound like a broken record but I hold on to that whether it works in nigeria or not.

Nayah:

Be creative!  

Pendo89 what Basildon has said is his opinion, even though many of them would agree I know some Nigerians, and born out there completely different, the same problem as usual!: It's all about making good choice and take your time to select a good person

jay bee:

How do i get creative without spending? I am really scratching my head her ya know


Wouldn't i have to spend some cash If i have to come visit you in France?
Wouldn't that be impressive as i'm leaving my domain to come woo you?

Admit it, excessive is not encouraged but a lil spending is the norm. What we ought to be talking about is what amount of spending would impress the ladies.

Basildon1:

No u dont sound like a broken record. Your points are very valid, hopefully u see my point too. A breakdown will be long 

jay bee:


How do i get creative without spending?
Does your mind need an expensive makeover? Brains are God given. Use that mind to warm up Nayah. Picture a blank mind with a fat wallet> disaster.

Wouldn't i have to spend some cash If i have to come visit you in France?
Of course you would! But the reason you are going there is cz u impressed her in the first place and she invited you.See the difference? you dont have to spend if shes not impressed.

Wouldn't that be impressive as i'm leaving my domain to come woo you?
Yep thats okay.You are attracted to her to the extent of wanting to leave your domain. That feeling supercedes the amount you spend on travel.

Admit it, excessive is not encouraged but a lil spending is the norm. What we ought to be talking about is what amount of spending would impress the ladies.
I think you need to ask 'what other qualities do i possess as a guy that would make a lady fall for me before she even knows my worth.

MRbrownJAY:

Pro01 has made some valid points, as usual, but there is ONE fundamental issue here: WE (men) are the root of this problem.
you see, some chiefs/senators/big men/gov looters etc are quick to showers some gal (half their age) with expensive gifts. this gal will get accustomed to this kind of "attention", so she goes around and now demand for such "attention" from every guy she meet. now, sadly,  the next guy she dates may be poor but he will do everything to try to act like these rich gentlemen, KNOWING FULLY WELL that he aint go it (thats his silly ego). THIS is the problem here, the fact that most Nigerian dont want to admit that they are NOT as well off as these guys, admitting that they are COMMON. . . . . and therefore that will keep these "part time ashis" believing that their company has a price tag.

who are we kidding? these women talk to each other and therefore the word has done the round already, and now, any two bit skank believes that she should be rewarded with gifts and money too, in order to be in a r/ship.

if your friend told you that there was a new system to make quick easy money LEGALLY, wouldnt you all go along and join that system? thats what these women are doing, thanks to men who have more money than sense (or those that are willing to eat garri for a whole month, just to pay for some thief's BB).

the solution to this is very simple: it doesnt matter how many of these gals beg, if WE (men) all decide to NOT pay these "criminals", hunger (and no money for BB subscription) will have them RECONSIDER!

so brothas, join me this weekend for the "WE NO GO PAY-KEEP YOUR STINKY TOTO" rally, and let's put an end to this nonsense!

pendo89:

Deep stuff. But I understand now. I blame the society and the pressure it puts on girls.Some things as you rightfully said are a cultural phenomenon.
What to do? just live life.
I will reserve my thoughts here because am foreign and therefore cannot pretend to know the nigerian culture more than you.You can see my mind wasnt on nigeria but the world as a whole, but people will always refer to the society they live in rather than make a general conclusion.
Its funny cz where I come from the mens outcry is 'women have become too independent they no longer need the men' .
I think they got fed up of being pampered and taken care of and so they are doing everything possible including men's work to become independent.
It's more proud to say you are doing all by yourself rather than say some guy is taking care of you.It makes you lose value in the face of your friends when you are depicted that way. Crazy how societies behave.
At the end of the day I always say,if you allow the society to shape you at times you will die a miserable person. Not all things cultural are beneficial.

oluface:

na war o

jay bee:

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How do i impress Nayah aka sweet potato 

MRbrownJAY:

Pro01 has made some valid points, as usual, but there is ONE fundamental issue here: WE (men) are the root of this problem.
you see, some chiefs/senators/big men/gov looters etc are quick to showers some gal (half their age) with expensive gifts. this gal will get accustomed to this kind of "attention", so she goes around and now demand for such "attention" from every guy she meet. now, sadly,  the next guy she dates may be poor but he will do everything to try to act like these rich gentlemen, KNOWING FULLY WELL that he aint go it (thats his silly ego). THIS is the problem here, the fact that most Nigerian dont want to admit that they are NOT as well off as these guys, admitting that they are COMMON. . . . . and therefore that will keep these "part time ashis" believing that their company has a price tag.

who are we kidding? these women talk to each other and therefore the word has done the round already, and now, any two bit skank believes that she should be rewarded with gifts and money too, in order to be in a r/ship.

if your friend told you that there was a new system to make quick easy money LEGALLY, wouldnt you all go along and join that system? thats what these women are doing, thanks to men who have more money than sense (or those that are willing to eat garri for a whole month, just to pay for some thief's BB).

the solution to this is very simple: it doesnt matter how many of these gals beg, if WE (men) all decide to NOT pay these "criminals", hunger (and no money for BB subscription) will have them RECONSIDER!

so brothas, join me this weekend for the "WE NO GO PAY-KEEP YOUR STINKY TOTO" rally, and let's put an end to this nonsense!

jay bee:

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How do i impress Nayah aka sweet potato 

MRbrownJAY:

very simple: get on the Eurostar and get yourself over to France for a "friendly" weekend. that will surely show her that you mean business. . . . . . .  and possibly get her to open her LEGS. . . .  . . . .  sorry i meant to write her HEART, lol!

MRbrownJAY:

very simple: get on the Eurostar and get yourself over to France for a "friendly" weekend. that will surely show her that you mean business. . . . . . .  and possibly get her to open her LEGS. . . .  . . . .  sorry i meant to write her HEART, lol!

jay bee:

Crazy crazy MrBJ
Naah is a very busy lady
Meanwhile, i need low down on eastern europe gigs, Me and some mates wanna do a weekend away. Any pointers will be best appreciated

jay bee:

Can i hire u pendo as my publicist?
U sure have a sweet mouth  

jay bee:

Crazy crazy MrBJ
Naah is a very busy lady

Meanwhile, i need low down on eastern europe gigs,  Me and some mates wanna do a weekend away. Any pointers will be best appreciated

MRbrownJAY:

as busy as she may be, if you happen to be in Paris, i am sure she will find time to meet you for a friendly drink under the Tour Eiffel (or even show you the beautiful city). it would be AGAINST her NL friendly persona not to.

it depends what you guys are after:
if you want to party, cheap drink and a great city to visit with great women then Prague is the best place to go to ( i even have a friend i can hook you up to so she can show you the place  ) if you are serious about Prague send me an email, i may even get you a studio flat to stay at for free (if it is available)

if you guys want to be neck deep in women, Latvia is the place to be, although a "donation" may be required before scoring lol.
also i have always found Poland to be great/cheap  (the further away from Warsaw the better), and Budapest to be overrated (although the women over there are something else).

You seem to know me better
now you should also consider SCANDINAVIA: Denmark/Sweden to be precise, you will thank me later!

MRbrownJAY:

Pro01 has made some valid points, as usual, but there is ONE fundamental issue here: WE (men) are the root of this problem.
you see, some chiefs/senators/big men/gov looters etc are quick to showers some gal (half their age) with expensive gifts. this gal will get accustomed to this kind of "attention", so she goes around and now demand for such "attention" from every guy she meet. now, sadly,  the next guy she dates may be poor but he will do everything to try to act like these rich gentlemen, KNOWING FULLY WELL that he aint go it (thats his silly ego). THIS is the problem here, the fact that most Nigerian dont want to admit that they are NOT as well off as these guys, admitting that they are COMMON. . . . . and therefore that will keep these "part time ashis" believing that their company has a price tag.

who are we kidding? these women talk to each other and therefore the word has done the round already, and now, any two bit skank believes that she should be rewarded with gifts and money too, in order to be in a r/ship.

if your friend told you that there was a new system to make quick easy money LEGALLY, wouldnt you all go along and join that system? thats what these women are doing, thanks to men who have more money than sense (or those that are willing to eat garri for a whole month, just to pay for some thief's BB).

the solution to this is very simple: it doesnt matter how many of these gals beg, if WE (men) all decide to NOT pay these "criminals", hunger (and no money for BB subscription) will have them RECONSIDER!

so brothas, join me this weekend for the "WE NO GO PAY-KEEP YOUR STINKY TOTO" rally, and let's put an end to this nonsense!

mekaboy:

" A BIRD AND A FISH CAN FALL INLOVE BUT WHERE WILL THEY LIVE " ?