Clevagal:


Stfu! Y’all want submission and all that but run away from providing. Is it not the sole responsibility of the man to provide for his family? While the woman takes care of the home?
If them call man..you self go come out. SPITS

Where is it written that it's the sole responsibility of the male to provide for the female? Feminists will fight you o 😁

Bluntemperor:


She is right to move away from you!
The reasons being advanced by you is not legitimate in Marriage!
Do you know that some marriages are blessings in disguise, because the moment you say I do,God Supplies becomes overwhelming!
Not the way you want ' until you have N5M- 10M no Marriage.
Na wao for Children of this days!
For real Marriage is Spiritual and is over to God,not you!

Una still get this reasoning for 2024? Haba!

Women asked for 50/50 relationship, now they don't want it again

I agree that two poor people coming together to be a couple should prepared ahead for marriage not wedding but 10m is too much to start with and is not about having such amount in reserved. You duo should have a blueprint and business plan that can generate a good revenue because the 10m you've in reserved if is not well prepared for that, na that woman go help you ruined everything


Women are so complicated, I was saving my little income in preparation for my wedding, after wedding the savings mode change because I was having opening mind with my woman, nobody teach me before I flew back to my former saving mode. Disclosing 25% out of the 100% I've at hand, at the end is going to be a win win for both of us but Dem no go allow you save if you no apply wisdom

WarrenP:
I’ll go straight to the point, she has been disturbing me to legalize our relationship since last year. I couldn’t take it anymore so I decided to let her know what I have I Mind.

I told her before I will wed her, we both need to have 10 million as reserve in an account for emergency. She brings 5m while I also bring Mine.

I do want a secured future for the both of us but she no dey reason with me. Always complaining age is not on her side.

She don vex leave my side since morning telling family and friends that i have been wasting her time.

I’m wondering if I did anything wrong

You don't love her and don't want to marry her. What is the issue about money? What is N10million naira? You are selfish and it's true. If age is not on her side, it's understandable.

She have her hidden plans, if she want it badly let her do the needful

muyico:
must d wife contribute to family warfare? Which mean d man isnt man enough, man must cater 4 all his family needs! I didnt knw ur religion? But paul said a man dat cant cater 4 his home/family! Unbliver is better dan him!

Yet women get all the jobs nowadays! This is one reason why we have many unmarried working class ladies especially in Igboland. They get empowered with jobs while many men are left jobless! Because of mindset like yours above, most of these working class ladies find it difficult to get married because they can't stoop to marry guys they're financially better than. So, y'all should continue in your unreasonable views. Eventually, our society will become littered with many unmarried and bitter women!

Maybe then y'all would realize that it was never in the society's interests to financially empower the female gender while leaving the males jobless

drmikeadams:
. Una no go keep person

Lol, the guy na economists and perhaps into forex 😆😆

muyico:
must d wife contribute to family warfare? Which mean d man isnt man enough, man must cater 4 all his family needs! I didnt knw ur religion? But paul said a man dat cant cater 4 his home/family! Unbliver is better dan him!

The truth is that I wonder the kind of men we have nowadays. I am a man not married either but the kind of conditions they gave ladies are very strange. A man is the head of the home and you must take responsibility to whatever is going on there. How would a woman respect you when you are telling her to share bills with you. That guy is not close to getting ready to marry.

gassbee:
if u as a guy no get shishi, then free her for her to go meet person wey dey serious n get shishi, u cant keep tying her down n wasting her time all in d name of relationship

Wait?? How is she tying her down?? If she has planned to marry without shishi.....she should have looked for Dangote or otedela right from the start..... U don't tell an average guy he's wasting ur time...when u sef no get shi shi to make marriage work

Women and victim....a woman will not have alternative...she will claim someone is tying her down....

advanceDNA:

U are talking rubbish.....u pple don't read bible urself in contex...u just quote what others say when they are trying to force a narrative..

....Paul never said "if a man cant cater for his family all "alone" ....he was addressing lazy pple that do not work, busy bodies that bring nothing home to their family...

There is no where in the bible men are told to bring all the money and food, and pay rent and women only are supposed to fvck and born......go and read ur bible well...women work, they even work in farms....except in rich setting like queen esther, and other wives of rich men with servants

There is no textbook for marriage.....if u meet a man that is rich...then u enjoy urself and dont bring anything...

If u meet a man that is average..then be ready to be a team layer..not that u will be putting pressure on a nother woman's son and be quoting bible becos u don't wanna do anything

🤣🤣🤣 like team "his money is our own and my money is my own".women and manipulations.they save their money and buy latest iphone to pepper there friends while the innocent man struggle with all the bills of the House and to even change new cloth na wahala.I hail our ladies and there manipulative ways

You are not ready to get married, so let her go to find better prospects. You already feel she is stuck with you or has no better choice hence your spewing crap to her.

DeLaRue:
A lot of men have allowed things they read from unserious men on social media, usually from American rap and street culture adherents, to distort their views in such a damaging way.

What kind of love is it when you have to sit your future partner down and say you must each contribute N5m into a deposit account before marriage can happen.

That's a transactional relationship. How long can a marriage built on such faulty foundation last.

Where there is love, such thinking simply don't happen.

Just let the lady be. Your action was cold, nasty, inconsiderate, and hurtful.

I just hope this is fiction

I think the point is why would a babe be disturbing a man about marriage when she doesn't have any plan whatsoever, you just want a man to do everything for you, it doesn't make sense to me. So u nor get anything to contribute but u dey disturb person for marriage, because na man make e kill im self becos e wan marry. Even if I'm a billionaire she would contribute something, so she would understand the essence of hard work. You cannot just stay idle and just be eating, make good use of yourself as a woman.

If anything happens to the man you married to, the next you start seeing the woman sleeping around just to cater for her family. I like hard working women with SENSE......I don't need a woman's money but she must make good use of herself.

[quote author=Zonefree post=129868706]
She deserves to make money not a better guy.

After spending years with her current guy(the OP) with steady lashing, you now want a better guy for her with her deep ranged kpekus?

Better guys deserve independent virgin girls not broke non virgin and used girls.


I come in peace.

CASE CLOSED.

Lol, you should have told her from the beginning so she doesn't waste a single minute with you as it should be.

muyico:
must d wife contribute to family warfare? Which mean d man isnt man enough, man must cater 4 all his family needs! I didnt knw ur religion? But paul said a man dat cant cater 4 his home/family! Unbliver is better dan him!

I can see. You still dey vex for your dad because your mum carried everything. Bro, you can't do it alone o. That's why it's called marry. To marry is to join two separate entity to become one

Zonefree:

She deserves to make money not a better guy.

After spending years with her current guy(the OP) with steady lashing, you now want a better guy for her with her deep ranged kpekus?

Better guys deserve independent virgin girls not broke non virgin and used girls.


I come in peace.

Guy, zamfara crazy dey your head. Virginity is not everything though. In this case however, he must marry her, his conditions are useless because that guy looks like someone that cannot muster 1m in bulk 5 years from today. But if this is the style he wants to use to change woman, we will join this one that is approaching menopause to place a curse on him, and nobody should come begging us years from now.

muyico:
must d wife contribute to family warfare? Which mean d man isnt man enough, man must cater 4 all his family needs! I didnt knw ur religion? But paul said a man dat cant cater 4 his home/family! Unbliver is better dan him!

Chief mumu simp.

This is one the numerous foolish mumus causing hardship for men.

No be every man come life come suffer like you abeg. Men need to enjoy and be pampered too.

Stingy man mentality

WarrenP:
I’ll go straight to the point, she has been disturbing me to legalize our relationship since last year. I couldn’t take it anymore so I decided to let her know what I have I Mind.

I told her before I will wed her, we both need to have 10 million as reserve in an account for emergency. She brings 5m while I also bring Mine.

I do want a secured future for the both of us but she no dey reason with me. Always complaining age is not on her side.

She don vex leave my side since morning telling family and friends that i have been wasting her time.

I’m wondering if I did anything wrong

Do you really think #10m is enough to secure the future for the both of you and your children? When do you think you will be able to safe that amount of money? What's preventing her from bringing her own part of the money?

This Op na scammer
He has seen a helpless and desperate lady he wants to rip

WarrenP:
I’ll go straight to the point, she has been disturbing me to legalize our relationship since last year. I couldn’t take it anymore so I decided to let her know what I have I Mind.

I told her before I will wed her, we both need to have 10 million as reserve in an account for emergency. She brings 5m while I also bring Mine.

I do want a secured future for the both of us but she no dey reason with me. Always complaining age is not on her side.

She don vex leave my side since morning telling family and friends that i have been wasting her time.

I’m wondering if I did anything wrong

Remember that someday, you will have a DAUGHTER i can’t say more than this

ozo13:
🤣🤣🤣 like team "his money is our own and my money is my own".women and manipulations.they save their money and buy latest iphone to pepper there friends while the innocent man struggle with all the bills of the House and to even change new cloth na wahala.I hail our ladies and there manipulative ways

No mind them....Me I don't even understand women sometimes...If u are dating a very rich guy...then u can be saying he's wasting ur time because nothing should be stopping him...

How can u be dating an average guy and u will pressuring his life, that he's wasting ur time.

Them nor dey drag man make e marry....if he jam woman wey make am feel like the future will be good even if he's not anywhere close to being rich..marriage go happen...

But u go dey use ur money buy iPhone, wig, ordinary to visit me, u go first ask me for Uber, on ur birthday u go bill me die........on my birthday,u go still bill me die....u come dey say I dey waste ur time bah! .......no be you dey waste my own time and money

Dem sabi form victim pass anything

Zonefree:

She deserves to make money not a better guy.

After spending years with her current guy(the OP) with steady lashing, you now want a better guy for her with her deep ranged kpekus?

Better guys deserve independent virgin girls not broke non virgin and used girls.


I come in peace.

Wait ooo like this ehn you sef want a virgin? What of those prostitute you've been patronizing who do you want to leave them for?

Talk true if you sef see virgin won't you tell her to go that she deserves somebody better and not a brostitute like you?

TheFreshVanilla:
10M? It's obvious you're not serious with her. She deserves a better guy. Another reason why broke guys shouldn't enter relationship. Most are time wasters.

Of course he is tired

How can a woman bring 50%

Why are you the man,the head of the family

There's a reason why we use isi agu as a symbol not the widely worn isi odum

WarrenP:
I’ll go straight to the point, she has been disturbing me to legalize our relationship since last year. I couldn’t take it anymore so I decided to let her know what I have I Mind.

I told her before I will wed her, we both need to have 10 million as reserve in an account for emergency. She brings 5m while I also bring Mine.

I do want a secured future for the both of us but she no dey reason with me. Always complaining age is not on her side.

She don vex leave my side since morning telling family and friends that i have been wasting her time.

I’m wondering if I did anything wrong

The truth is that you are not ready to marry her, you are just using her as sex_toy.....using marriage to trap someone that sacrificed all to stay with you. Don't think you will get away with it....you_will pay dearly when you least expect it.

WarrenP:
I’ll go straight to the point, she has been disturbing me to legalize our relationship since last year. I couldn’t take it anymore so I decided to let her know what I have I Mind.

I told her before I will wed her, we both need to have 10 million as reserve in an account for emergency. She brings 5m while I also bring Mine.

I do want a secured future for the both of us but she no dey reason with me. Always complaining age is not on her side.

She don vex leave my side since morning telling family and friends that i have been wasting her time.

I’m wondering if I did anything wrong

You are a criminal demanding 5m from a lady you want to do fake marriage with

richforever123:


As a man do you expect the wife to contribute 50/50 and still respect, cook and clean for you? Think about it as a man you are meant to cater for majority of the family needs, women are not designed to provide security for the man, it is the man's job, while she nurtures, cooks and cleans. if you go to most homes where the woman is the main bread winner, there is always chaos, the man is always highly disrespected, even if you marry a virgin it is same thing, if you want your wife to bing 50/50 then you should be ready to cook and clean to and not always have the final say, that's just fact

Who respect help when it comes to financial matters.

You stupid men your EGO is your biggest problem and the other gender are using it to their best advantage by showing you fools fake respect, fake love and affection. Nonsense.

The other never like you. It's just your resources that they care about shikena. That's why you fools cry like babies when they outrightly show you pepper

Nobody ever talks about what a man deserves.
Why would she say that the man wasted her time?
Was the man not also spending his own time with her?

There is nothing wrong in asking her to contribute 5m to a joint account. She wants to reap where she didn't sow financially.

Shalom

Remman:
who else noticed this is fake story?

Op, for the records i know. Read your write up 7 times if you think no one would figure it out.

Nonsense fake news.

Clevagal:


Stfu! Y’all want submission and all that but run away from providing. Is it not the sole responsibility of the man to provide for his family? While the woman takes care of the home?
If them call man..you self go come out. SPITS

Sharaap there stupid girl.

No be una fault. Na nigeria useless fooolish apes who call themselves men give una mouth to dey talk rubbish. Very useless people.

This na the main reason why the corntree no gree move forward. Na toto and oko matter full una useless empty heads.

I been wan talk say your head no dey correct, but i no wan break Naira land laws. How is a Fiancée disturbing you for marriage again? You weren't ready when you proposed? I hope she dumps your ass