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10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Iagos: 8:39am On May 18
This just happened to my friend now.
Fear women

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by immortalcrown(m): 8:40am On May 18
Not the first of its kind.

You quote the Bible after deceiving your mother. A prodigal son.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by condensedmilk: 8:43am On May 18
Effect of hard currency on Nigerian migrants in the UK

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by idahme(m): 8:59am On May 18
Men should know that women are hypergamous aka gold diggers if you put yourself in a position where a woman's status is higher than yours your relationship is practically over. They look up to another person whose social stats is more than theirs, this is the way majority of women think. Don't be the fool to be scammed this way, always develop yourself to an extent where the woman always sees you as her hypergamous entity that will come and rescue her out of her misery else she will leave you alone.

Don't you ever sponsor a lady to be the dependent, go your journey and establish yourself before thinking of how to bring family over if you can stand the risk ...

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Klass99(f): 9:32am On May 18
This story is not clear and your friend is so incoherent in his rants it induces a headache. How did he pass the IELTS exams with this kind of English he writes? Or was he exempted from taking it as a dependent? What is noice of battle? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️.

Modified to add: Why are these logical gender people quoting me in their usual fashion and M.O of insults na? grin You people say you are logical, is it not logical to communicate with clarity, so you don't leave people scratching their heads or wondering what you are going on about, like the original post?

If you read the topic of the thread and then read the original post itself it makes very little sense. I expected to read a clear account of what happened, why a marriage of 10 years ended, why he has to go back to Naija to join the kids (I thought the kids moved as dependents too) etcetera.

Our official language as a country is English, we are schooled in English Language from primary to tertiary education, our local newspapers are written in English Language, our national news is broadcast in English Language on most TV stations. The least we can do as a people is communicate in basic and simple terms that are clear and easy enough to understand.

I wasn't joking when I said that entire post induced a headache and I am still wondering how he passed IELTS. The British government shouldn't even be subjecting us to IELTS having colonised us and for the reasons I gave above, but people like the OP's friend give them cause to. And that is why mediocrity thrives as against excellence.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Creamypie(m): 9:41am On May 18
A simp has been dumped. Very foolish man

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by LexngtonSteele: 10:04am On May 18
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These breakfast stories are funny to hear as an outsider.

Devastating if you're the one experiencing it or paternity fraud.

Truth is, men can be wicked but our anger no dey last. We can shout but days or a week, we don move on.

But you see women ? They can bear grudges for years... the day she will pack from your house...

She will cook your favourite meal, fvck you your favourite style and you will return to find the house empty, surgically cleaned. grin

Happened to lots of men.

Even me, na so Beyonce leave me at face-me-i-face-you for Jay-Z in New York grin

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by kingthreat(m): 10:14am On May 18
Some marriages were never meant to happen. They keep deceiving themselves they can manage with each other and celebrate each anniversary as it passes. Imagine someone that has no good relationship with siblings they grew up with now having to cope with another person from a totally different background in the name of marriage. The question automatically becomes "how long"? But one day breakfast will be served hot and spicy.
We pray that day doesn't come on an evil day so we don't hear stories of husband finishes wife off with a skateboard or wife stabs husband with a screwdriver.

Please I am not against marriage. Its a beautiful thing. Just marry right.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Jeon(f): 11:02am On May 18
She did well, she didn't want to be harm like those women that passed away in their abusive relationships Just because they were the breadwinners and earning high than the men.


And I advise her to move far away from you or your friend .

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Emmanuel909090: 11:25am On May 18
Hmmm
Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by bukatyne(f): 12:06pm On May 18
LexngtonSteele:
grin

These breakfast stories are funny to hear as an outsider.

Devastating if you're the one experiencing it or paternity fraud.

Truth is, men can be wicked but our anger no dey last. We can shout but days or a week, we don move on. But you see women ? She can hate you, but force herself to moan for years when you're screwing... the day she will pack from your house...

She will cook your favourite meal, fvck you your favourite style and you will return to find the house empty, surgically cleaned. grin

Happened to lots of men.

Well, each gender has their 'strengths' & 'weaknesses'.

Besides, some men run parallel families/ relationships well cheesy

God deliver His children from the children of the devil.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by bukatyne(f): 12:07pm On May 18
@OP:

Your story no clear.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by LexngtonSteele: 12:13pm On May 18
bukatyne:


Well, each gender has their 'strengths' & 'weaknesses'.

Besides, some men run parallel families/ relationships well cheesy

God deliver His children from the children of the devil.

Yeah. I know a family friend who had 3 official children.

Not knowing that the yeye guy who pretends to be a Saint has sowed wild oats. He had 3 bastards as of last count. We know more will come out when he dies. cheesy

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by eweqwatr: 12:48pm On May 18
Mtshew, dependent husband for 10 whole years he kept depending?

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by W0t0w0toman: 12:48pm On May 18
Another one bites the dust...

The man na useless simp.

Death to all SIMPS..

Invest in a woman who is not loyal to you at your own risk....

Yamayama scatter the useless simp's smelly bald head

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by superlanny(m): 12:48pm On May 18
Una go dey use una wahala dey disturb us, when the good was going was I there, when una dey nack with raw passion was I there, when the love was the sweetest thing in the world was I there. Now e don cast you dey cry come disturb my peace, will you getaway and face your wahala.

So many stupid people out there

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Angelfrost(m): 12:48pm On May 18
Sigh... The signs were always there but you failed to see them.

Doesn't matter how many years the marriage has been, if he or she never truly loved you or cared for you, they will dump your ass once opportunity presents itself.

Never ignore red flags... Don't manage someone in a relationship, and definitely don't settle for less in marriage.


Many of una no wan hear word... Shine your eyes before you marry!

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Kobicove(m): 12:48pm On May 18
The UK happened to him!

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by house10studios: 12:48pm On May 18
Not new, divorce is d norm in 2024 can't wait to see what 2025 gat for us

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Praktikals1000: 12:49pm On May 18
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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by ehissi(m): 12:49pm On May 18
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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by BareFacedLies(m): 12:50pm On May 18
The man is a goat.

You know you're going as a dependent yet you convinced your mother to sell her most important asset in order to fund the trip.

Another man will start fuçking that your so called "Love of your youth" as soon as you are deported grin

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by TOPCRUISE(m): 12:50pm On May 18
Iagos:
This just happened to my friend now.
Fear women

My condolences to your friend. For wasting his Mother sweat on him by diverting it to his cunning heartthrob, Kindly soften his wounds by greeting him with continuous kPèlé tongue

He will heal.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by saphiere(f): 12:51pm On May 18
Poor men should not even get erection talk more of getting married.
I'd rather be a rainbow 🌈 person than marry a broke man.
HardBishop:

Imagine your own sex sucking your vagina clit... Woow
Isn't it better than being with the rapist gender?

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by Etizz: 12:51pm On May 18
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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by MrMcJay(m): 12:52pm On May 18
As a man, you should invest in YOURSELF FIRST. That woman you're helping today is still with you because you're in a position to help her. Once she leaves that position, she'll look for other men who can give her what you are unable to give her.

Men and women are wired differently. In matters of looks, money, age, education and class, men date downwards while women date upwards. Having a woman date downwards or sideways is abnormal.

Females only date those above them. They may manage to date those of the same level due to low demand for them but never date lower than them.

For the poor man struggling to take care of his woman so that she'll be well fed and won't look outside, it is the fresh skin of your well-fed woman that would attract the men who would take her away.

Hate me for saying the truth, it's simply evolution at play.

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by pongwa(m): 12:52pm On May 18
immortalcrown:
Not the first of its kind.

You quote the Bible after deceiving your mother.
In this life, you reap what you sow

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Re: 10 Years Of Marriage And 2 Kids, Wife Divorces Hubby Who Was A Dependant by CuriousCart(f): 12:52pm On May 18
bukatyne:


Well, each gender has their 'strengths' & 'weaknesses'.

Besides, some men run parallel families/ relationships well cheesy

God deliver His children from the children of the devil.

Now it's "each gender" but if the genders in the story were reversed it would be an all out attack against men. This is why I avoid conversations with my fellow women.

What she did was evil.
Period.

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