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'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Gistmedia10: 12:52pm On Jun 12
A father shared a golden rule of life with his son, advising him to avoid taking on unnecessary responsibilities in his relationship.

“Don’t make yourself a parent to your girlfriend,” he cautioned. “Don’t take responsibilities that are not yours.” shocked

The father's wise words aim to guide his son in navigating the complexities of romantic relationships and maintaining healthy boundaries.


Was he right?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHZiTP-OmeQ

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by FreeStuffsNG: 12:57pm On Jun 12
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time.

When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. That's the role children put their parents o.

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by EmperorCaesar(m): 1:00pm On Jun 12
Thats right!
But most of the time, the boy will be quick to forget the advice as he keeps consuming twitter contents where some clowns are trying to redefine the role of a boyfriend in a girl's life, plus the amount of dummies he has as friends would determine if he would still follow this advice or not

Raising a boy child aright would do us all a lot of good than some incessant 10000advice from the parents and siblings that tends to fly off at the sight of thick thighs cheesy cheesy

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by LordIsaac(m): 1:08pm On Jun 12
UK men would have benefited from this counsel: “Don’t sharpen a spear that does not belong to you, because one day, it might be used on you!”😊

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by SyrusdeHansome(m): 1:25pm On Jun 12
FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.
The man advised his son abt acting as a father to his girlfrnd nd u`re here writing abt husband/wife relationship. Nsuto inawang idom?

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by KingEarnest(m): 2:46pm On Jun 12
FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.
Dey play. When see finish enter, that's when you will understand.
Women want to rely on their man NOT to be relied on.

What you typed looks good on paper but is not the reality.

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by kalufelix(m): 3:19pm On Jun 12
ORIENTATION..101

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Zaccshegzy(m): 3:19pm On Jun 12
FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

It said girlfriend not wife, read to understand.

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by FreeStuffsNG: 3:26pm On Jun 12
Zaccshegzy:


It said girlfriend not wife, read to understand.
Smh. You are not beholden to a girl who is your friend, especially platonic, what he is implying made no distinction between altar- bound relationships and even platonic relationships, if you are wise and starts with the end in mind, you will know relationships that will likely make a wife out of your special relationship with a girl. To that special girl, you will at some point in time be her 'parent' likewise she to you.

BTW, you don't need to understand for now. Serious relationships take commitments and sacrifice and those two are the essential ingredients in parenting so anyone telling you that you will not make exceptions for that special one is not being realistic.

Love , when you really fall in love, will make you trusting and vulnerable. If you're not then you are not in love. Maybe you are suggesting that he tells his son to never fall in love with a girl niyen.
Check my signature for free stuffs!

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Joy2dworldxyz: 7:55pm On Jun 12
I no understand o

See what Tinubu and APC has brought upon Nigerians!

Nsuto mpo inam owo ntom?

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Kingpele(m): 7:56pm On Jun 12
Hahaha Hahaha Hahaha....prov24: 27 advised men do not build a house (get close to relationships) until you are sure you are earning a living...this is what he should have advised him...boys spend money to impress girls...that guy will just steal your money and flex with girls in the name of relationships

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Kobojunkie: 7:56pm On Jun 12
FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh. There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too. When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.
That na rubbish abeg! The moment you begin parenting your spouse, you cease to be a married couple and become a parent/child situation! That should not even occur for any reason. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Emeskhalifa(m): 7:57pm On Jun 12
As a young man, pls focus on your finances. Leave serious relationship for those wey don secure their future.

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Grace001: 7:57pm On Jun 12
Correct. Tell him
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by dibunotion(m): 7:57pm On Jun 12
Wahala
Girls girls girls everytime

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Jimmur(m): 7:57pm On Jun 12
He still wouldn't listen. Potential simp

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Chucks184(m): 7:58pm On Jun 12
Gistmedia10:
A father shared a golden rule of life with his son, advising him to avoid taking on unnecessary responsibilities in his relationship.

“Don’t make yourself a parent to your girlfriend,” he cautioned. “Don’t take responsibilities that are not yours.” shocked

The father's wise words aim to guide his son in navigating the complexities of romantic relationships and maintaining healthy boundaries.


Was he right?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oHZiTP-OmeQ
I support this advice 💯

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by ILoveNG: 7:58pm On Jun 12
It's unfortunate that social media often glorifies unrealistic relationship expectations. While it's important to show your girlfriend love and support, remember that some responsibilities aren't yours to bear. Set healthy boundaries and prioritize a genuine connection with her, rather than trying to live up to societal pressures.

Some know this, but some will learn this the hard way.

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by inoki247: 7:58pm On Jun 12
Lol person wey dey advice him son fit du pass that for him mama....

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Tradepunter2: 7:58pm On Jun 12
FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

Very nonsense write up.... Please how does the nonsense you have written correspond to the advise of a father to a son...... The problem is beyond help

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Kobojunkie: 7:58pm On Jun 12
Zaccshegzy:
■ It said girlfriend not wife, read to understand.
Whether girlfriend or wife, do not become a parent to her for any reason. You are not her parent and are never meant to become any such. grin

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by tremilatre(m): 7:59pm On Jun 12
FreeStuffsNG:
Smh. You are not beholden to a girl who is your friend, especially platonic, what he is implying made no distinction between altar- bound relationships and even platonic relationships and if you are wise and starts with the end in mind, you will know relationships that will likely made a wife out of your special relationship with a girl. To that special girl, you will at some point in time be her 'parent' likewise she to you.

BTW, you don't need to understand for now. Serious relationships take commitments and sacrifice and those two are the essential ingredients in parenting so anyone telling you that you will not make exceptions for that special one is not being realistic. Love , when you really fall in love, will make you trusting and vulnerable. If you're not then you are not in love. Maybe you are suggesting that he tells his son to never fall in love with a girl niyen.

Broski, all this your shalaye is off point and off topic. Don't hide your misrepresentation of a father's advice in long winding talk. The advise is clear and simple.
If you want to simp, do so and advise your son accordingly.

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Testimony1988(m): 8:00pm On Jun 12
True talk.

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by abibun: 8:01pm On Jun 12
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FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by kennyz247(m): 8:01pm On Jun 12
Good father indeed
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by o123456789(m): 8:01pm On Jun 12
This is a candid advice from father to son. I advertised for Cyber security training here on Nairaland and only males responded and paid. Till date only few females have consulted me on Cyber security. I discovered that most females see relationship as occupation, and poverty alleviation scheme, which is wrong.
Finally it should be noted that when a wise child hears a father giving a good advice to his child, he will quickly copy and save and use the free advice. Simps over to you!!!

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by SatoshiX: 8:01pm On Jun 12
Word!!! 💯

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by datola: 8:02pm On Jun 12
Are they South Africans?
Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by opeldavid: 8:02pm On Jun 12
FreeStuffsNG:
All these theory sef. Smh.

There's no way you will not both fill the roles of parent to each other at some point in time. When the man is at his lowest ebb, he will first explain his predicaments to his wife and will rely on her for a measure of parental nurturing and vice versa for the wife too.

When spouses are celebrating milestones, the most important person they look out for in the audience is his or her spouse. Thats the role children put their parents o.

Pls don't be mischievous.
Don't twist it. The father said girlfriend not wife.

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Re: 'Don’t Make Yourself A Parent To Your Girlfriend - Man Advises His Son by Matheusmartin: 8:02pm On Jun 12
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Relationship na waste of time.
That's the lesson hidden in all these longggg episode

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