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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by maasoap(m): 2:48pm On Jun 20
epainos:

Lol!

Will your parents manage your family for you? Very immature.

Go do research and see if she is really OK. Most Nigerian parents don't care after you have kids. PCOS is more than that. Most Nigerian parents are too selfish... all they want are grandkids. Are you a kid?

Anyway....read this:
https://www.healthline.com/health/pcos-diet#foods-to-avoid

Summary: Diet is the long-term strategy to fix most of these modern diseases. PCOS is mainly a hormonal imbalance caused by modernisation. Our grand parents knew nothing about it.

Let her stay away from sugar for just one month, and you will see more improvement in her. Yes, you didn't say how she is doing presently, but trust me... let her just stay away from sugar... stay away from carb. Just try it. Let her eat organic veggie, meat, milk, and eggs. Just try it. Not those rubbish eggs sold around....not those rubbish milk in cans and packs....

Stay blessed.

Our grand parents knew nothing about many things simply because their knowledge was limited.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Kelklein(m): 2:56pm On Jun 20
Update147:


How do you know if there is blockage.
My girl friend is having a similar issue, we have been battling with it for years now.
Initially she was not serious with it as she was comfortable with the idea of never getting pregnant.
We are 4 years together now and she has never conceived and not it's raising worries.
In her own case, she sometimes stays for 6 months without seeing her period.

What is her chances of ever conceiving ??

There is a test the gynaecologist would do on her.. it's called HSG (hysterosalphinography).. it's basically injecting some special kind of fluid inside her and taking an xray kind of image.. if the fallopian tubes are blocked, it would should on the image.. because the fluid injected won't reach the end of tube where the ovary is.. if the tube is free, the image would show it passing all the way.

It's a specialised test done only by experts in that field.. just request HSG.. they would understand.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Ulogwe1: 2:58pm On Jun 20
Seek for medical counsel.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by pikechukwu6(m): 3:01pm On Jun 20
Nonsense....This no supposed be in any page embarassed
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by lilyheaven: 3:19pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
I’m seriously thinking of this as well. I don’t want to be caught in any complexities
give her belle
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by epainos: 3:29pm On Jun 20
maasoap:


Our grand parents knew nothing about many things simply because their knowledge was limited.

Are you saying PCOS existed in their days? Lol.

I guess you are the one who simply knows nothing about many things simply because your knowledge is limited. If not, you will realise that science is going back to the exact things our grandfathers used in those days. Lol.

You better start updating your knowledge with 2020 to date innovation and discoveries, and then you will realise that .....wow....these are the ways of our grandfathers.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by turawaa(m): 3:31pm On Jun 20
There are different bills to be spend on maintenance after buying Brand New Car and Also with buying Accident car.

Funny Enough both Brand New and Accident car are Available at Same Price tag.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Augustine2244(m): 3:38pm On Jun 20
maasoap:
Many ovulate normally but still have problems conceiving grin grin grin
That's true oo! And it could be as a result of diverse factors.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Chasito(m): 3:38pm On Jun 20
Try give am belle, before you take decision
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Penboy: 3:42pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Is she in OAU?
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Lazenby007(m): 3:42pm On Jun 20
You definitely not matured
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Caleycash(m): 4:07pm On Jun 20
DonEd:
Or better still, get her pregnant while u guys are still dating.

That's if it's ur fear
Na the ultimate be dis!!!
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Caleycash(m): 4:10pm On Jun 20
Marvieduke:
If you truly loved her you won't have that thought of something may go wrong, I don't want to sound like because I am woman, well it's up to you to decide
Which kind nonsense blind love be dat??, what if she couldn't take in?, mtcheeww

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Juliearth(f): 4:24pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?





Since you have resolved to make her your wife. It is better not to divulge this to your parents. Since she is ovulating, she will certainly bear children.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Berankis: 4:42pm On Jun 20
Geniemoi01:


Let your parents know. Don't hide it from them. If you ever told her that one of your testicles got removed, but you still ejaculated, should she still remain with you? Ask yourself that question. She'll definitely have fertility issues. Don't let feelings blind you.
She may not have any fertility issues. After all women with the 2ovaries in place may still experience fertility issues.

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Berankis: 4:44pm On Jun 20
Geniemoi01:


Let your parents know. Don't hide it from them. If you ever told her that one of your testicles got removed, but you still ejaculated, should she still remain with you? Ask yourself that question. She'll definitely have fertility issues. Don't let feelings blind you.
She may not have any fertility issues. After all women with the 2ovaries in place may still experience fertility issues.
Telling his parents does not make any difference. They should simply understand each other, stick together and work together. Everything will be fine!

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by okewumi: 4:45pm On Jun 20
You don't need to tell your parent but to tell yourself the truth. One of the way is to impregnate her

I will not mention my wife case but we consulted gynecologist and he said everything was fine.
My wife was ovulating and this gave us more assurance.
After wedding, reality set in. No fruit of the womb. By the time you spend half of your income on different test, you will get sense and love will disappear after five years. If you love her and want to be sure impregnate her and fix your wedding for eight month
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by maasoap(m): 4:52pm On Jun 20
epainos:


Are you saying PCOS existed in their days? Lol.

I guess you are the one who simply knows nothing about many things simply because your knowledge is limited. If not, you will realise that science is going back to the exact things our grandfathers used in those days. Lol.

You better start updating your knowledge with 2020 to date innovation and discoveries, and then you will realise that .....wow....these are the ways of our grandfathers.

What would your, my fore parents probably know about PCOS? How would they even know there was something called PCOS? How would they even know that someone was suffering from PCOS? grin grin grin
Your forefathers would give births to 10 children and all of them would die in their infancy. They would struggle to have just a kid staying alive. That was how limited their knowledge was

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by GorillaApp(m): 4:52pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
That something may go wrong in the future
How old is she?
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Berankis: 4:55pm On Jun 20
LexngtonSteele:
I might sound a bit ruthless...

In Life, especially these days, don't ever stretch your neck for a spouse / partner male or female.

She wouldn't if the situation was reversed and you have fertility problems.

Pump and Dump her.

I personally know one "useful" girl with PCOS, can't cook, can't clean, she just wants a Prince Charming that will pay all her bills and she contributes nothing.

God forbid. I f*cked her and fled.
You don't know very little about life. Women are still more self sacrificing in marriages than men. With time comes in experience.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Exceptional300: 5:09pm On Jun 20
GorillaApp:

How old is she?
27
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by occfx: 5:12pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

Telling anyone won't change anything. If you too suffered together, you have to suffer till the end. No do yahoo to the innocent girl unless you no trust her past life. Marriage no be beans
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by godofuck231: 5:43pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
That something may go wrong in the future
i see you are an illiterate, so because you had an appendix operation it means she should not marry you abi?

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by fredagu: 5:50pm On Jun 20
IkeIgboNiile:
Op, it's obvious you're not ready for commitment because why are you worried about your parents when you should be worried about yourself.

You're the one who's about to commit and spend the rest of your life to the lady not them.
lady with one overy are you menting open your eyes to reality dont let that woman blackmail you into commiting to such tragedy
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by pusapou(m): 6:01pm On Jun 20
DonEd:
Or better still, get her pregnant while u guys are still dating.

That's if it's ur fear
I HAVE SEARCHED AND WAITED FOR THIS COMMENT!😂😂😂😂😂😂

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Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Boyooosa(m): 6:10pm On Jun 20
Make sure she gives birth for you before marriage
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Jamesoghie: 6:11pm On Jun 20
Get her pregnant before wedding. If she does not agree or gets pregnant before wedding. Call the wedding off.Am telling u from my experience now.If not u will tore the part am regretting now.Be warned
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by GorillaApp(m): 6:41pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
27
Not that old. She is still within the fertile bracket. But note that with one ovary gone, her fertility ratio has dropped
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Ravenna: 6:43pm On Jun 20
Geniemoi01:


Let your parents know. Don't hide it from them. If you ever told her that one of your testicles got removed, but you still ejaculated, should she still remain with you? Ask yourself that question. She'll definitely have fertility issues. Don't let feelings blind you.

Oil dey your head.

That lady will have fertility issues.

If she conceives and delivers safely, the child will be a sub-child.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by epainos: 6:46pm On Jun 20
maasoap:


What would your, my fore parents probably know about PCOS? How would they even know there was something called PCOS? How would they even know that someone was suffering from PCOS? grin grin grin
Your forefathers would give births to 10 children and all of them would die in their infancy. They would struggle to have just a kid staying alive. That was how limited their knowledge was
Thank God you know fertility was extremely high in their days. Case closed.
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by Perocom(m): 7:05pm On Jun 20
Exceptional300:
There’s this girl I have been dating for a couple of months now, we are planning on settling down soon. She was diagnosed with PCOS couple of years ago before I met her, had a surgery and one of her ovaries were removed. Though she still ovulates and sees her period, I am kind of worried if there will be any issues in the future.
My parents doesn’t know about her surgery yet. Should I tell them about it?

The girl is an honest person for telling you such a deep secret, some ladies whose womb have already being removed during a reckless abortion, would rather hide the secret and get married to you then when she cant conceive , she will be like "its God that gives children, God's time is the best", bla bla. Pls seek a professional advice from a Consultant Gynecologist, present her for diagnosis and you will be advised appropriately, not your parents. Your parents wont give you rational advice it will be an emotional one, trust me it will be that you let her go, they want to see their grand children. Lol, parent will always be parent. Not even any other member of your family should know, because the advise you will get will be unprofessional, irrational and emotional. Goodluck
Re: PCOS: Should I Tell My Parents About It? by clarion30(f): 8:16pm On Jun 20
Why not take her to see a gynae, she was sincere enough to tell you about it. Seek advice from a gynae not your parents.

Marriage never even start you don dey involve your parents.

If you really want to marry her, go see a doctor and discuss her chances of getting pregnant or you break off the engagement.

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