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Can You Still Find True Love? by Fairview1(m): 12:11pm On Jul 07, 2024
I know it sounds cliché but can you? We are in a generation where men don't make the same effort they used to make back then; honesty has becomes so rare, we can easily ghost, breadcrumb people; we have so many trauma we tend to self-sabotage.

Do we still have hope in love? I'm F (27+) and honestly, I want to love and be loved, but seeing the relationships around me fail one by one, makes me sceptical....sigh**

Is it still worth it to take the risks?
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by nigmarelli(m): 12:36pm On Jul 07, 2024
Fairview1:
I know it sounds cliché but can you? We are in a generation where men don't make the same effort they used to make back then; honesty has becomes so rare, we can easily ghost, breadcrumb people; we have so many trauma we tend to self-sabotage.

Do we still have hope in love? I'm F (27+) and honestly, I want to love and be loved, but seeing the relationships around me fail one by one, makes me sceptical....sigh**

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Is it still worth it to take the risks?
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Templee333(m): 12:36pm On Jul 07, 2024
Do you want to be loved in the real sense of the word?
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Spagi(m): 12:37pm On Jul 07, 2024
Yeah in the indian movies love my foot

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Zonefree(m): 12:43pm On Jul 07, 2024
True love does not exist any longer, especially with a Nigerian girl. It's unwise to be in a relationship with someone because of LOVE.

LOVE is a word used by two fools to deceive themselves. To seek for true love is to seek for doom.

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by finallybusy: 12:51pm On Jul 07, 2024
Obinrin, we’re still waiting for your recent pictures in the other thread.

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Zonefree(m): 12:54pm On Jul 07, 2024
Templee333:
Do you want to be loved in the real sense of the word?
If you're looking for love, get a puppy or cat. True love comes from caring for a pet than caring for a woman.

Only women above 27 years are the ones searching for true love cos they've already exhausted their flower age whoring with the wrong men. They're now looking for demented men to accept their baggages in the name of True Love. A man in love is a man without a working brain.

Nigerian girls below 24 years don't bother about love because they're already busy spreading those legs like butter on a bread.


I come in peace.

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by muyico(m): 12:58pm On Jul 07, 2024
yeah! in Christ!
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Fairview1(m): 1:01pm On Jul 07, 2024
Zonefree:

If you're looking for love, get a puppy or cat. True love comes from caring for a pet than caring for a woman.

Only women above 27 years are the ones searching for true love cos they've already exhausted their flower age whoring with the wrong men. They're now looking for demented men to accept their baggages in the name of True Love. A man in love is a man without a working brain.

Nigerian girls below 24 years don't bother about love because they're already busy spreading those legs like butter on a bread.


I come in peace.

I don't think it's a wise thing to say. You should know that people's experiences are different, so making such hasty conclusion might prove you fatally wrong since you haven't lived everybody's experience.
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Fairview1(m): 1:02pm On Jul 07, 2024
Zonefree:
True love does not exist any longer, especially with a Nigerian girl. It's unwise to be in a relationship with someone because of LOVE.

LOVE is a word used by two fools to deceive themselves. To seek for true love is to seek for doom.


What's your definition of a Nigerian girl?
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Zonefree(m): 1:05pm On Jul 07, 2024
finallybusy:
Obinrin, we’re still waiting for your recent pictures in the other thread.
I'm sorry to say this, but, you're not seeing any recent pictures of her. She's approaching the Wall now . The greatest fear of every woman.

The years she took the photo in her dp, she wasn't creating threads asking why men don't approach fat and chubby women or why men don't love. She was busy experimenting different men, she had numerous men at her palms then.

Now, the wall is close, she's blaming men for not making same effort they used to make back then. Now, she wants to love and be loved.

Women always want to eat their cake and have it.


I do not come in peace any longer! embarassed

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Fairview1(m): 1:23pm On Jul 07, 2024
Zonefree:

I'm sorry to say this, but, you're not seeing any recent pictures of her. She's approaching the Wall now . The greatest fear of every woman.

The years she took the photo in her dp, she wasn't creating threads asking why men don't approach fat and chubby women or why men don't love. She was busy experimenting different men, she had numerous men at her palms then.

Now, the wall is close, she's blaming men for not making same effort they used to make back then. Now, she wants to love and be loved.

Women always want to eat their cake and have it.


I do not come in peace any longer! embarassed

Are you always this bitter, or did something triggered your aggression this morning? You can still make your point without insults.

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Zonefree(m): 1:26pm On Jul 07, 2024
Fairview1:


Are you always this bitter, or did something triggered your aggression this morning? You can still make your point without insults.
Where's the insult in my submission?

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by RealityKings: 1:37pm On Jul 07, 2024
All that is left is selfish intreat once you clock 23 years and above
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by eepeepook: 1:48pm On Jul 07, 2024
Zonefree:

I'm sorry to say this, but, you're not seeing any recent pictures of her. She's approaching the Wall now . The greatest fear of every woman.

The years she took the photo in her dp, she wasn't creating threads asking why men don't approach fat and chubby women or why men don't love. She was busy experimenting different men, she had numerous men at her palms then.

Now, the wall is close, she's blaming men for not making same effort they used to make back then. Now, she wants to love and be loved.

Women always want to eat their cake and have it.


I do not come in peace any longer! embarassed
I honestly don’t believe there are real women on Nairaland. At most, there’ll be chimpanzees here. OP is likely using a friend’s picture on “her” dp. I’ve come across many of such cases online.

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by dkidd: 1:52pm On Jul 07, 2024
Anything is possible when u know exactly what u want and u done ready. Most importantly ask God for guidance. Any other way na error cos this world and the people in it done bajè
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Mistral(m): 1:58pm On Jul 07, 2024
Fairview1:
I know it sounds cliché but can you? We are in a generation where men don't make the same effort they used to make back then; honesty has becomes so rare, we can easily ghost, breadcrumb people; we have so many trauma we tend to self-sabotage.

Do we still have hope in love? I'm F (27+) and honestly, I want to love and be loved, but seeing the relationships around me fail one by one, makes me sceptical....sigh**

Is it still worth it to take the risks?

Modern relationships often emphasize appearances or social status, but authentic connections still exist. It's important to focus on building meaningful interactions and being true to yourself. Authenticity can attract people who share similar values. Stay patient and open-minded; finding the right person can take time, but it's worth the effort.
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by TheFinesseKid: 2:05pm On Jul 07, 2024
Fairview1:
I know it sounds cliché but can you? We are in a generation where men don't make the same effort they used to make back then; honesty has becomes so rare, we can easily ghost, breadcrumb people; we have so many trauma we tend to self-sabotage.

Do we still have hope in love? I'm F (27+) and honestly, I want to love and be loved, but seeing the relationships around me fail one by one, makes me sceptical....sigh**

Is it still worth it to take the risks?
yes. It is. There's no greater feeling than knowing that someone loves you and got your back.

Im also looking for it despite all the negativity all around me. it is very possible if we can set outside love for materialism and lust, I guess
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by TheFinesseKid: 2:06pm On Jul 07, 2024
Fairview1:
I know it sounds cliché but can you? We are in a generation where men don't make the same effort they used to make back then; honesty has becomes so rare, we can easily ghost, breadcrumb people; we have so many trauma we tend to self-sabotage.

Do we still have hope in love? I'm F (27+) and honestly, I want to love and be loved, but seeing the relationships around me fail one by one, makes me sceptical....sigh**

Is it still worth it to take the risks?
yes. It is. There's no greater feeling than knowing that someone loves you and got your back.

Im also looking for it despite all the negativity all around me. it is very possible if we can set outside love for materialism and lust, I guess.

Are you in Lagos btw?
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by TheFinesseKid: 2:07pm On Jul 07, 2024
Zonefree:
True love does not exist any longer, especially with a Nigerian girl. It's unwise to be in a relationship with someone because of LOVE.

LOVE is a word used by two fools to deceive themselves. To seek for true love is to seek for doom.

wth!🤣 Chillax nau dude..
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by FRANCISTOWN: 3:18pm On Jul 07, 2024
eepeepook:
I honestly don’t believe there are real women on Nairaland. At most, there’ll be chimpanzees here. OP is likely using a friend’s picture on “her” dp. I’ve come across many of such cases online.
The OP is a man masquerading as a woman. Common sense should tell this to err'one

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by imagrg(m): 3:24pm On Jul 07, 2024
It died with Romeo and Juliet.

What we have now is Love simulated by money.
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by eepeepook: 5:58pm On Jul 07, 2024
FRANCISTOWN:

The OP is a man masquerading as a woman. Common sense should tell this to err'one
Ding, Ding, Ding. Accurate. Why do I even bother with these Nairaland boys in the closet.
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by meobizy(f): 6:02pm On Jul 07, 2024
Zonefree:
True love does not exist any longer, especially with a Nigerian girl. It's unwise to be in a relationship with someone because of LOVE.

LOVE is a word used by two fools to deceive themselves. To seek for true love is to seek for doom.

OP is male.
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by BigYash: 6:50pm On Jul 07, 2024
Something that will still expire ,even if you use mistake see at the beginning.. These days Relationships comes with personal interests,men are looking for sex and kids maybe,while women are looking for sex ,material things and money.. So if you go put your heart for table all in the name of lovina,your partner go use am do Suya o.. She go come add Cameron pepper..
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by AcadaWriter: 7:12pm On Jul 07, 2024
Yeah in the indian movies love my foot
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by Proserpina: 7:15pm On Jul 07, 2024
True Love exist but not the form we want. Most times people expect true love to be "butterfly in the belly " feelings , people expect true love to be an avenue to experience unmerited affection , endless care that flows without effort. Lol .

True love happens when two people are committed and devoted to one another. It takes genuine willingness and intentionality to make things work between partners. Yes you can find True Love if you are ready to make it happen.

You ditch your guy because he no turn up on your birthday, you dump your lady because she no know better style for bed yet you are shouting no True Love. Kwantinue . You just start. grin grin Make una dey manage your "Thrust Love" like that tongue

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by eepeepook: 10:12pm On Jul 07, 2024
AcadaWriter:
Yeah in the indian movies love my foot
Bot.
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by DevilsEqual(m): 11:53pm On Jul 07, 2024
meobizy:
OP is male.

Like u

That aside, of he's truly a male then he's a dumbo. How can a guy create multiple threads on love in just 24hours

Is he that lonely offline
Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by pansophist(m): 9:24pm On Jul 29, 2024
If you are a man, you sef will stop making effort.

You need to live life as a man for just one day, to see that most men are dead tired to being used as caricature.

You toast, organise date, pay for the date, then maybe ghosted after because she cant see the gentleman that you are, but judge you for things like height, depth of pocket, accent, and superficial things.

If one, two , three, four, five girls does this to you, you just give up. Some settle with soapy, some with olosho, some with flings, but that's just it.

You can argue that you are not like that, oya clap for yourself. But many if not most women are like that.

Men are tired.

Also, lots of men of this generation are accepting that they are not women spec, andhave accepted to just live their life solo until the woman who will appreciate them shows up.

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Re: Can You Still Find True Love? by pryme(m): 9:33pm On Jul 29, 2024
Fairview1:
I know it sounds cliché but can you? We are in a generation where men don't make the same effort they used to make back then; honesty has becomes so rare, we can easily ghost, breadcrumb people; we have so many trauma we tend to self-sabotage.

Do we still have hope in love? I'm F (27+) and honestly, I want to love and be loved, but seeing the relationships around me fail one by one, makes me sceptical....sigh**

Is it still worth it to take the risks?

love? you mean the mind virus?

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