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Should I Tell Her? by Curiouscity(m): 4:19am On Aug 05, 2024 |
Good morning my people. I will try my best to summarize my plight about my "friend". Background For almost 15 years I have known this lady. I think she is in her mid 50s. I knew her through a mutual friend. We used to chat about lots of things. She appeared down to earth. She used to tell me about her then relationship, and even sought my help (during her separation/divorce) in some ways I could. She is intelligent, outspoken, and loves helping the less privilege. I used to call her a good friend. But in the last 7-8 years, she has turn a 'Voltron' of the 3rd wave of feminism. For her, every man with any masculine characteristics is toxic. All fathers are deadbeats, and abusive. Every woman who appears to be happy in her marriage is abused and suffering. Men are to be used and dumped. She popularize the statement "Don't listen to men! And don't listen to women who listen to men" on all her social media handles. She also turned agnostic/atheist (or would I say anti-christian). Most of her religious followers left her. I doubt if I can call her my friend any more. The Problem She has 3 handsome sons (23, 26, 31). When she started making her vitriol against men public on her social media handles, I asked her if she would recommend the type of women she is encouraging modern women to be to her sons. She said that she doesn't care. If any of the sons "do anyhow with any lady" he would "see anyhow", or better still they should "upgrade". Recently, she has complained like 3 times that the sons have "ghosted" her. The one in UK stopped talking to her about 3 years ago. The two that lived with her have moved out, and she doesn't know where they live, neither do they pick her call. She basically cried few days ago, that she has no child. I felt like telling her that her adult kids may not see her as a role model in a lady they may be interested in marrying. That if every lady listens and acts based on her views, her sons won't marry or have a peaceful marriages. That the kids may not comfortable in the way she demonizes their father, even when the man has seen them through universities. Should I tell her or mind my business? |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by alphaNomega: 4:25am On Aug 05, 2024 |
fake story Go and protest 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by MaziObinnaokija: 5:13am On Aug 05, 2024 |
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Re: Should I Tell Her? by nifemi25(m): 5:25am On Aug 05, 2024 |
Go and protest first.... Nairaland Elders were busy handling protest now.... Bring your friend matter after the protest then the nairaland elders will gives you appropriate advise |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by cadet222(m): 7:05am On Aug 05, 2024 |
Go over and nack feminism out of her body. |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by muyico(m): 7:12am On Aug 05, 2024 |
she need therapy?? in traumatic state since all d while! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by AngelicBeing: 8:04am On Aug 05, 2024 |
alphaNomega:Haha 😂 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:48pm On Aug 05, 2024 |
She should have adopted a female child years ago, I truly do not know if a woman who has boys only, plus a failed marriage can be happy. If she had at least one daughter, she would be happy. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Mariangeles(f): 4:58pm On Aug 05, 2024 |
If your story is true, then the only thing you need to tell her is that she needs to heal from all her hurt, and that only God can truly and perfectly heal her ( heart, soul and spirit). |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Curiouscity(m): 12:24am On Aug 06, 2024 |
Mariangeles: She doesn't believe in God anymore. She even mock people who do. How do I start such a conversation? I will try. |
Re: Should I Tell Her? by Curiouscity(m): 12:27am On Aug 06, 2024 |
LilMissFavvy: Coming from a lady, I am inclined to believe you. I don't think she would be willing to do that at this present stage of life. |
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