EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

So a man needs marriage before he has a woman and some kids?

Nawa for your reasoning oh

SocialJustice:
Look at you arguing for women even with their daily actions in relationships and marriage scare men away.

I personally don't see why I should be saddled with any woman. I want my kids too and that's it, she has all the freedom to fly as she wants.

I want a lot of kids too with diversity, one woman can't do it.

The average Nigerian man cannot afford a polygamous home in today's world. You are daydreaming. How many Nigerian men are solidly middle-class by the age of 35?

lol

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

only a man with low self esteem will think insuch a manner . Nigerian society is also to blame for such mentality, forcing young men and women that haven't reached financial peak to abandon their dreams all in the name of marriage only to end up struggling to cater for the children and enhancing poverty in the process

PerfectStranger:

No single man in his right senses that have seen disloyalty and shege in some women will be worried about marriage.

As a man, if you can't find a befitting and homely woman to marry, have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.

The problem with having your baby outside is that 1) the kind of woman who will willingly have a child outside of marriage is usually an irresponsible mother 2) you child has a higher probability of ending up wayward.

PerfectStranger:

have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.

And if the babymama gets married to another man in the meantime?

Just because you’re staying single doesn’t mean she’s obligated to do the same.

What happens if she gets married while raising your kids? Will you still be a present father to your kids even though they live with her and her new husband?

SocialJustice:
Look at you arguing for women even with their daily actions in relationships and marriage scare men away.

I personally don't see why I should be saddled with any woman. I want my kids too and that's it, she has all the freedom to fly as she wants.

I want a lot of kids too with diversity, one woman can't do it.

To you, there’s nothing wrong with this arrangement until the baby mamas you intend to have also have their other babies with other men. So you’ll end up having 3 kids with 3 different women and they also have other kids from other men.

Remember that you’re not the only man who wants several kids from several women for diversity’s sake.
One big happy village.

I don’t see the issue. Except that y’all dudes will still be the ones to cry about it

Poverty Alleviation Scheme to most especially in poor countries.

To pastors, church population growth scheme for commitment and futute income.

For others, making parents happy against personal inclination. At least wedding weekends are always fun.

For natural endurance experts, the struggle continues. No wahala.

EreluRoz:
As if the men we have are saints, modern men deserve modern women it's just that the other gender feels it's their birthright to bag a good woman no matter the kind of lifestyle they have lived. God blessed Adam with Eve and not Jezebel
God blessed Abraham with Sarah and not Delilah

So I'm saying that good men breeds good women, you can't eat your cake and have it.

Yep if you are the one spending millions to get married and will bring another able-bodied adult to your house to feed and take care of, you definitely have the right to seek a cool and homely woman.

EreluRoz:
She's right especially when you have crossed 30. Also no man is happy as a single man, he will also feel less of a man seeing his mates with wives and kids. So it's both ways and let's not pretend about it.

Keep deceiving yourself, when you finish you go inside.

cococandy:


To you, there’s nothing wrong with this arrangement until the baby mamas you intend to have also have their other babies with other men. So you’ll end up having 3 kids with 3 different women and they also have other kids from other men.

Remember that you’re not the only man who wants several kids from several women for diversity’s sake.
One big happy village.

I don’t see the issue. Except that y’all dudes will still be the ones to cry about it

You will expect them to love and appreciate the women that help them achieve this one big happy family. Alas we see them shame these women everyday. Despite not being active participants in the child's life.

Very confused dolts that promote models they have zero understanding of.

Yet you go dey call them dem go dey show themselves like TV...radarada

Natbrowny:


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pocohantas:


You will expect them to love and appreciate the women that help them achieve this one big happy family. Alas we see them shame these women everyday. Despite not being active participants in the child's life.

Very confused dolts that promote models they have zero understanding of.

What they fail to understand is that present day monogamy was started and enforced by them. Now they complain about it.

In the same vein, male centered polygamy can only work through cultural and religious oppression of women such that they are shamed or forced by family and religious institutions to stay with men who don’t think they’re worth being faithful to.

If we really let them achieve their dream sexual utopia without the application of female subjugation and slut shaming, na dem go cry.

Like the wise ones say, toto has no meter.

I’d strongly advise everyone to respect themselves and their chosen partners but they won’t listen to an evil feminist like me 🙂‍↔️

EreluRoz:
There are good women everywhere, but most of you are looking for good women in the clubs. Men are actually responsible for whatever you think women have become today, I'm sure we are not ready for this argument

I haven't seen a single woman that knows what the word accountability is , you ain't an exception

Very pathetic

EreluRoz:
There are good women everywhere, but most of you are looking for good women in the clubs. Men are actually responsible for whatever you think women have become today, I'm sure we are not ready for this argument

Keep passing the buck o sotigbo!

PerfectStranger:

No single man in his right senses that have seen disloyalty and shege in some women will be worried about marriage.

As a man, if you can't find a befitting and homely woman to marry, have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.

Under whose household will the child be under?

PerfectStranger:

No single man in his right senses that have seen disloyalty and shege in some women will be worried about marriage.

As a man, if you can't find a befitting and homely woman to marry, have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.

Totally, baby mamas all the way, who in their right mind wants to get married let aone to a Naigeerian woman.

Lovecode89:
When she married the wrong person, they wouldn't be happiness too

Women and accountability is like oil and water they never mix.

She married to the wrong.......... Meaning she is the right Una no dey ever get sense aswear.

The day you all start taking responsibility and accountability for your actions the day you start having a better relationship. In a woman's mind once there is a relationship between a man and a woman the man is always at fault no wonder women live in a delusional fantasy world

EreluRoz:
There are good women everywhere, but most of you are looking for good women in the clubs. Men are actually responsible for whatever you think women have become today, I'm sure we are not ready for this argument

Wnat is the definition of good women? What makes you think good women don't go to clubs? So going to club is what makes women bad? Did you know that some married women with children go to clubs also?!

You need some growing up to do. Seriously. You sound like a minor.


This Your so called argument is totally ridiculous.

PerfectStranger:

No single man in his right senses that have seen disloyalty and shege in some women will be worried about marriage.

As a man, if you can't find a befitting and homely woman to marry, have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.

You are just trying to sound woke. It's poor home training for a grown man or woman to claim singlehood for life because he/she could.npt find a partner out of over 8billion people in the world

cococandy:


What they fail to understand is that present day monogamy was started and enforced by them. Now they complain about it.

In the same vein, male centered polygamy can only work through cultural and religious oppression of women such that they are shamed or forced by family and religious institutions to stay with men who don’t think they’re worth being faithful to.

If we really let them achieve their dream sexual utopia without the application of female subjugation and slut shaming, na dem go cry.

Like the wise ones say, toto has no meter.

I’d strongly advise everyone to respect themselves and their chosen partners but they won’t listen to an evil feminist like me 🙂‍↔️

Na this kind topic dey give you orgasm, and your energy cum submissions are typically misguided. It has to be 'US vs Them'.

Feminist ìsonu!

So many ladies are Unmarried and are happy.

There are even ladies who reject rich suiturs with all their money.

Most men are unmarriageable because of bad character.

Money does not cover bad character.

Especially now that women can make even more money than men.

So tell me why they will say "I do" to you with your dirty stinking ugly character and face with all your money.

Anyways, Surrogacy clinics are opening up in Lagos.

Calitoscassius:
Wnat is the definition of good women? What makes you think good women don't go to clubs? So going to club is what makes women bad?

You need some growing up to do. Seriously. You sound like a minor.


This Your so called argument is totally ridiculous.

She's a minor in a big body that's all. All her comments are very childish

Shinjawestern:
"No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married"

Nigerian woman reveals.

How true is this?

We know na, dem think say them fit decieve us ni

Calitoscassius:
Wnat is the definition of good women? What makes you think good women don't go to clubs? So going to club is what makes women bad?

You need some growing up to do. Seriously. You sound like a minor.

EreluRoz is not a minor, just an adult with a warped orientation and pathetic thought process.

EreluRoz:
There are good women everywhere, but most of you are looking for good women in the clubs. Men are actually responsible for whatever you think women have become today, I'm sure we are not ready for this argument

Oga stfu. Even if men are responsible,are you not an adult? Can’t you make decisions for yourself? Don’t blame men for your greed and being lazy or unproductive.

Who in their right forking mind gets married thesedays? Marriage is a sham

omooba969:


EreluRoz is not a minor, just an adult with a warped orientation and pathetic thought process.

Like seriously!

cococandy:
are you a wild animal?

Tame tame tame

Yet men want to be the leaders. When by their own admission they lack self control and self respect

What do you mean by their own admission ? stop taking random opinion of individual male on the internet as the general opinion of all men.

The hall mark of a real man is self discipline and self respect, in fact serious women that know what they are looking for won't get involve with a man that can't respect himself and have discipline.

Zooposki:


Lol. Not every woman wants to get married o. She is just projecting, meaning she herself won’t be happy until she gets married. What do men bring to marriages apart from money, that is, if they even have the money?

Imagine someone looking for another person or institution to make her happy. Aunty, you came alone to this world and you will die alone. Learn to love yourself and let you make you happy. That is the ultimate nirvana of life.

I laugh when women say what do men bring to marriage apart from Money , only fulls will say this.

Reverse the scenario, take a survey and ask women what is their number one desire in men 99.99999% will say money then the question is if men bring the most important things you desire why then do you castigate what you desire that has been met?

Truly women don't really know what they want, the lovely dude beside you with a lovely personality who is within the middle class group you don't want him because to you he doesn't have money. 80% women fight for 20% of the richest dudes why is that so? There are plethora of interesting people around you but you don't see them before your most interesting attributes which is money isn't found in them then you open ur mouth to say men only bring money You can't approbate and reprobate at the same time.

When you start doing what men usually do without complaining like feeding a family for 20 years non stop and then you make that statement I will know you are very serious. Wetin you know if the money no dey u go fit do marriage, buy food, wig and all those unnecessary stuff u crave for in life? Person wey never work and earn money before they call money only nothing musa no go see for gate

If u arelooking for a wife avoid girls on snap chat and tictok...no say I no tell you..

SocialJustice:
I love that you handled the issue of 2 sides to a coin. Women were not created with testosterone naturally running through their veins, they got oestrogen, the feminine nature and care to tame the wild man.

Instead of taming their men and bringing balance to their lives, women also want to live the testosterone controlled life.

I wish them the best.

Interesting you know feminine nature than the female.. Keep in playing