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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by tete7000(m): 10:48am On Aug 22
jorion:


When you don't have sufficient evidence to back up your arguments, you turn to insults.

Sometimes, shit happens and a child pops up. People bear children out of wedlock all the time.

IF A WOMAN DOES NOT WANT TO END UP A BABY MAMA, SHE SHOULD ONLY HAVE SEX WITH DECENT MEN WHO ARE WILLING AND AVAILABLE TO BE FATHERS AND NOT JUMPING FROM ONE IRRESPONSIBLE DICK TO ANOTHER WILLING TO HELP FOOT HER BILLS.

As long as the man is in the child's life and caters to the needs of the child. THERE'S ABSOLUTELY NOTHING WRONG WITH IT.
Your opinion, you are entitled to it. Mine too, I am entitled to it and I am not withdrawing what I earlier wrote.
Mistakes can happen and they remain mistakes. That they happen doesn't mean they should be used to redefine what is normal.
Once people begin to use mistakes to justify abnormalities, their sanity is already being altered with. Every child needs to grow up under the same roof with father and mother, and everyone who genuinely loves a child should strife to ensure that no child is deprived of this benefit.

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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by jorion(m): 10:52am On Aug 22
tete7000:

Your opinion, you are entitled to it. Mine too, I am entitled to it and I am not withdrawing what I earlier wrote.
Mistakes can happen and they remain mistakes. That they happen doesn't mean they should be used to redefine what is normal.
Once people begin to use mistakes to justify abnormalities, their sanity is already being altered with. Every child needs to grow up under the same roof with father and mother, and everyone who genuinely loves a child should strife to ensure that no child is deprived of this benefit.

You no get talk. If you wan preach, go the RELIGION section.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by EreluRoz: 10:54am On Aug 22
Tallesty1:
Eve is a curse to Adam and all of us.

She's not a blessing
Delete this comment
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by tete7000(m): 10:55am On Aug 22
jorion:


You no get talk. If you wan preach, go the RELIGION section.

Moral to you is religion. You know anything about conditioning in psychology? Have you ever read ethics in philosophy? Most of you are illiterates thinking you know something about things you know absolutely nothing about.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by jorion(m): 10:55am On Aug 22
EreluRoz:
Delete this comment

Why should he delete something true because it makes you uncomfortable?
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by jorion(m): 10:57am On Aug 22
tete7000:


Moral to you is religion. You know anything about conditioning in psychology? Have you ever read ethics in philosophy? Most of you are illiterates thinking you know something about things you know absolutely nothing about.

Ok, Mr ethics. What of women who are in abusive marriages? Should they die in such marriages because of the children?

THIS IS SIMPLY AN ETHICAL QUESTION.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by tete7000(m): 11:04am On Aug 22
jorion:


Ok, Mr ethics. What of women who are in abusive marriages? Should they die in such marriages because of the children?

THIS IS SIMPLY AN ETHICAL QUESTION.

You have suddenly jumped from making categorical statement about people being free to having children outside wedlock to a advocate of women caught in abusive marriage. If you want me to talk about abusive marriage, you need to first make categorical statement about where you consider an ideal place for a child to grow, a divided or a united home? When we have agreed on this, then we can talk about anomalies that can arise in the course of human existence. Mistakes should never be used to define what is ideal... Never!!! Only confused minds use mistakes to redefine norms.

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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by jorion(m): 11:09am On Aug 22
tete7000:


You have suddenly jumped from making categorical statement about people being free to having children outside wedlock to a advocate of women caught in abusive marriage. If you want me to talk about abusive marriage, you need to first make categorical statement about where what you consider an ideal place for a child to grow, a divided or a united home? When we have agreed on this, then we can talk about anomalies that can arise in the course of human existence. Mistakes should never be used to define what is ideal... Never!!! Only confused minds use mistakes to redefine norms.

You dull o, I swear. Your argument is that a man must be with a woman because of the child(ren). I am simply telling you that there are a range of circumstances where that is a NO NO.

If you can't get a simple argument, STOP TALKING ABOUT ETHICS BECAUSE YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT IT.

I have told you that there are a whole spectrum of REALITIES but your strong head wants to take ONLY ONE.

NA PEOPLE LIKE UNA DEY ABORT CHILDREN. YEYE
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Holluwhakemmy(f): 11:11am On Aug 22
luminouz:

No you are not. Stop lying. Nah you wan marry oh
You will wail tired continue
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by tete7000(m): 11:14am On Aug 22
jorion:


You dull o, I swear. Your argument is that a man must be with a woman because of the child(ren). I am simply telling you that there are a range of circumstances where that is a NO NO.

If you can't get a simple argument, STOP TALKING ABOUT ETHICS BECAUSE YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT IT.

I have told you that there are a whole spectrum of REALITIES but your strong head wants to take ONLY ONE.

NA PEOPLE LIKE UNA DEY ABORT CHILDREN. YEYE

I definitely know who is dull between the two of us. It can't be me, never. It is surely you who doesn't know the difference between an ideal and a circumstantial situation.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by jorion(m): 11:21am On Aug 22
tete7000:


I definitely know who is dull between the two of us. It can't be me, never. It is surely you who doesn't know the difference between an ideal and a circumstantial situation.

Hahahahaha. I grew up in the streets as well as amongst oil workers. Nothing you fit tell me or know about life.

As long as you are not a robot and have money, women will come for you. In those circumstances, shit happens.

YOU LIVE IN YOUR FANTASY WORLD OF TELEMUNDO WHERE A SINGLE GUY SEES A SINGLE GIRL, FALLS IN LOVE AND BEAR CHILDREN.
DON'T WORRY, NA THIS SAME NAIRALAND YOU GO COME CRY.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by tete7000(m): 11:25am On Aug 22
jorion:


Hahahahaha. I grew up in the streets as well as amongst oil workers. Nothing you fit tell me or know about life.

As long as you are not a robot and have money, women will come for you. In those circumstances, shit happens.

YOU LIVE IN YOUR FANTASY WORLD OF TELEMUNDO WHERE A SINGLE GUY SEES A SINGLE GIRL, FALLS IN LOVE AND BEAR CHILDREN.
DON'T WORRY, NA THIS SAME NAIRALAND YOU GO COME CRY.

Now I can read through your story and I understand why your mind is conditioned to think the way it does.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by jorion(m): 11:33am On Aug 22
tete7000:


Now I can read through your story and I understand why your mind is conditioned to think the way it does.

CONTINUE ON THIS PATH O. I LOVE IT. AT SOME POINT, YOU WILL END UP ON THIS SAME FRONT PAGE AND I WILL BE HAPPY TO COMMENT ON YOUR MATTER.

Na guys like you na women dey like for as back up or to pin belle for him head.

NO SAY I NO WARN YOU
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Tallesty1(m): 11:41am On Aug 22
EreluRoz:
Delete this comment
It is what it is
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by MetalJigsaw(m): 1:47pm On Aug 22
PerfectStranger:

My parents time wasn't as bad as this generation. No one is normalizing abnormalities, these days women's orientation about the whole relationship and marriage stuff has changed and we men have also adjusted the rules too,no one wanna be a simp.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by MetalJigsaw(m): 1:53pm On Aug 22
janeedema:
Is marriage the goal, or is it about finding the right person to marry? Because the truth is, there are countless married women who are deeply unhappy.

While I hold marriage in high regard, I firmly believe that if a woman isn't content while she's single, she'll never find happiness in marriage. This is often the root cause of many marital problems.

Too many singles rush into marriage, expecting their spouse to fill a void within them. They put off their own happiness, only to feel even more frustrated when their partner falls short of their expectations.

Marriage isn't about completing you—it's about complementing who you already are. If you can't feel whole as a single person, that emptiness will follow you into marriage.


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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by MetalJigsaw(m): 1:55pm On Aug 22
DrFunmisticGlow:
So you destroyed a woman's destiny for your freedom.
Your statement answers the question from the topic.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by EreluRoz: 2:27pm On Aug 22
luminouz:


If being baby daddy and being in your child's life and catering for him/her is bad, I don't know what you will call men who run away after giving girls belle and never care or cater for the child.
Luminouz rest in Jesus name. You can never justify and normalize irresponsiblity. Everything is wrong with having a child outside wedlock, babydaddy and babymama is the highest form of irresponsiblity of this present generation. keep coining suitable names for it. Babydaddy ko babydaddy ni

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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Nefort: 2:32pm On Aug 22
PerfectStranger:

No single man in his right senses that have seen disloyalty and shege in some women will be worried about marriage.

As a man, if you can't find a befitting and homely woman to marry, have your baby outside, do your child support,train them and live a peaceful and drama free life.
Stop sounding like men can do without women. Men need women as much as women need men.

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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Nefort: 2:35pm On Aug 22
PerfectStranger:

My parents time wasn't as bad as this generation. No one is normalizing abnormalities, these days women's orientation about the whole relationship and marriage stuff has changed and we men have also adjusted the rules too,no one wanna be a simp.
So men are the ones have haven't changed their orientation? Yes women are responsible for everything wrong with the world. Nonsense.

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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by tete7000(m): 2:58pm On Aug 22
jorion:


CONTINUE ON THIS PATH O. I LOVE IT. AT SOME POINT, YOU WILL END UP ON THIS SAME FRONT PAGE AND I WILL BE HAPPY TO COMMENT ON YOUR MATTER.

Na guys like you na women dey like for as back up or to pin belle for him head.

NO SAY I NO WARN YOU

We see life from our lenses formed and shaped by our backgrounds and experiences.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by luminouz(m): 3:49pm On Aug 22
DrFunmisticGlow:
Its bare minimum effort. It's scraps. Simple!!

It's emotional neglect. Not putting your eggs in one basket is not applicable in marriage. Family/marriage is not like your investment portfolio where it is better to diversify your assets. Marriage and family is like a garden where you give your best in your plot/ acres of land to yield your fruit. You can't go and garden some of your seeds in one acre of bush in the east, a plot of forest in the south, a hectare of savanna in the north. Your resources will be spread thin and the yield won't be high. (Please note that I am talking of substinence and not commercial farming which is diiferent)

Men think that marriage benefits the women, they fail to consider that women invest emotional labor and take root and nuture her children in her bosom. She doesn't have children scattered with their different husband's and even If she does, they stay with her so that she can take root in their lives and nature's them how she can.

Baby mamas and wives are like trees and baby daddies are like tumbleweeds in this scenario. Children will look after and see a parental figure in whosoever establishes ROOTS and stay in their life for the good times and bad be it a mom a dad or a grandparent.
I don't agree with you. It's that simple. Most men are realizing that too.

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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by luminouz(m): 3:49pm On Aug 22
Holluwhakemmy:
You will wail tired continue
Ma'am...e don do. Na new day be this... Find someone to marry you but it ain't gonna be me. Simple

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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by luminouz(m): 3:51pm On Aug 22
EreluRoz:

Luminouz rest in Jesus name. You can never justify and normalize irresponsiblity. Everything is wrong with having a child outside wedlock, babydaddy and babymama is the highest form of irresponsiblity of this present generation. keep coining suitable names for it. Babydaddy ko babydaddy ni

You can rest in Amadioha's name. Irresponsibility is coined by you lots when you wanna get married and are looking for who to use as your retirement plans. Men benefit nothing from marriage. Men are waking up from that shiit. You will remember my post when shiit hits the fan

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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Holluwhakemmy(f): 3:55pm On Aug 22
luminouz:

Ma'am...e don do. Na new day be this... Find someone to marry you but it ain't gonna be me. Simple
Who will marry a SIMP like you self
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by jorion(m): 4:04pm On Aug 22
luminouz:


You can rest in Amadioha's name. Irresponsibility is coined by you lots when you wanna get married and are looking for who to use as your retirement plans. Men benefit nothing from marriage. Men are waking up from that shiit. You will remember my post when shiit hits the fan

Thank you for not falling for the EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. You are a real man

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Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by sureteeboy(m): 4:41pm On Aug 22
Danmisra:
Men and women are designed naturally to marry before they can attained complete happiness in their lives.
Since marriage is a union of two genders, each spouse is giving roles that suits them, since marriage is lifestime journey.
But the moment one of the spouse either man or woman decides to go beyond his/her responsibilities and rights , the tends to be negativel consequences, no matter how you how little.
Our parents, forefathers and mothes understood ,that's why the lived a nice life.
But am sorry to say today some men are lazy and not men enough to carry responsibility, then the stylishly say that men to must contribute, you must bear in mind if the a woman contribute she will disrespect you because it's your job you pushed to her so you must received the backlash.
There is nothing bad when a women helps financially but not regularly or a must.
Lastly, the way you conduct yourself that the kind of spouse you will get, God is not wicked.
Nice words 👍🏾. Especially the fifth and last paragraph. Whatever a man/woman sows is what he/she's going to reap.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Watcharena: 4:56pm On Aug 22
EreluRoz:
There are good women everywhere, but most of you are looking for good women in the clubs. Men are actually responsible for whatever you think women have become today, I'm sure we are not ready for this argument
we have seen women that were picked from churches and mosques they dress decently but they're as bad as hell
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by DrFunmisticGlow: 5:41pm On Aug 22
luminouz:

I don't agree with you. It's that simple. Most men are realizing that too.
I also don't agree with you. You are allowing a hurt human being to raise a hurt human being to justify your conscience and evade full responsibility for your actions. It is not as if divorce laws in Nigeria favor women. If you were abroad, I can understand if a regular man shies away from marriage, but as a nigerian man, you have no fvcking excuse.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by DrFunmisticGlow: 5:46pm On Aug 22
MetalJigsaw:
Your statement answers the question from the topic.
No not necessarily. Marriage is the best outcome for most people. But it is not in everyone's destiny to end up married neither is marriage for everyone. Some people's purpose in life can also be derailed by Marriage

Imagine if mother Theresa was barefoot and pregnant in her husband's house, or Joan of arc.

We should stop shaming people who choose to stay single.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by DrFunmisticGlow: 5:49pm On Aug 22
janeedema:
Is marriage the goal, or is it about finding the right person to marry? Because the truth is, there are countless married women who are deeply unhappy.

While I hold marriage in high regard, I firmly believe that if a woman isn't content while she's single, she'll never find happiness in marriage. This is often the root cause of many marital problems.

Too many singles rush into marriage, expecting their spouse to fill a void within them. They put off their own happiness, only to feel even more frustrated when their partner falls short of their expectations.

Marriage isn't about completing you—it's about complementing who you already are. If you can't feel whole as a single person, that emptiness will follow you into marriage.


you are right. Marriage is two whole people not two halves. Even the Bible says seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things shall be added.
Re: "No Girl Is Genuinely Happy Until She Gets Married" - Nigerian Lady by Rejouir: 6:18pm On Aug 22
Zooposki:


Lol. Not every woman wants to get married o. She is just projecting, meaning she herself won’t be happy until she gets married. What do men bring to marriages apart from money, that is, if they even have the money?

Imagine someone looking for another person or institution to make her happy. Aunty, you came alone to this world and you will die alone. Learn to love yourself and let you make you happy. That is the ultimate nirvana of life.
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