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How To Know When She Is No Longer Interested by adewunmioladele: 12:09pm On Sep 17, 2024
Ever found yourself paddling a canoe where your partner won't even splash a toe in the water? That's a little like being in a one-sided relationship: you're doing all the work while they're just catching fun by watching!

And have you ever found yourself in the final scene of a romantic movie, scratching your head, wondering if the love story is heading for a twist or a full stop?

It's crucial to spot the signs of romantic disinterest to prevent a solo voyage of wasted time and emotional energy.

The ability to unravel the subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) cues, will help you to navigate your way to clearer skies and calmer seas—or at least save yourself from an impending storm.

Realizing her loss of interest early enough will help you to protect your feelings and save you the heartache of watering a dead plant.

It will also save your precious time. Why should you be building castles in the air when you could be constructing a solid foundation elsewhere?

This write up is like your love detector, designed to pick up the signals that might indicate your leading lady is ready to exit garden of love.

1. SHE LETS THINGS SLIDE:
When a lady is no longer interested, she will let things slide. It’s much like allowing the sleeping dog to lie.

She will begin to take things easy with you. Ecstasy has jumped out of the window for her. She is trying to cool down the temperature, turn off the gas before letting go of you

She will withdraw all her emotional inputs and entanglements with you before bidding you good bye.

Please take note, once a lady is emotionally out of a relationship, she is finally out

2. SHE PUTS HERSELF IN A FORGETFUL MODE:
She forgets your birthday. She forgets your daily or weekly schedules or time out together. She forgets to say thank you for the gifts you gave or sent to her.


She forgets to introduce you to her pastor, friends or parents. She forgets to tell you she is travelling.

She forgets you pray together at the time you both normally do. She forgets to find how your weekend is going to look like.

Ultimately, she is trying to forget you and everything that has to do with you; such that when she is properly out of the relationship, you are properly forgotten.

She is trying to let go of the memory of you before finally letting go of you.

3. SHE IS BEING OVERCAUTIOUS:
Anyone who throws caution in the wind in a relationship has been ill-advised. However, over-caution is another extreme that needs to be clearly examined.

When she is overly cautious of the amount of information she is giving you about herself, then she is already giving the relationship a re-think.

When she begins to censor and filter things about her she gets across to you. She can’t be transparently open to you any longer.

She answers your questions with indirect and vague answers with no clarity.

When this happens, she is few steps away from the relationship you thought belong to both of you.

She is beginning to withdraw back into her shell and very soon, she is going to crawl away, slowly, steadily but certainly.


4. SHE IS VERY NORMAL WITH YOU:
Her smiles are normal. Her feelings are normal. Her desires are normal. Her opinions are normal. There is normal about a blissfully enjoyable relationship.

Your feelings for each other are supposed to be above normal. Your desires for each other should be above normal. Your desire to be in the company of each other should break normal boundaries.

She should be feeling on top of the world about her relationship with you. The moment her excitement cools down slowly to normal something is cooking underneath.

She asks you fewer but shallow questions. She is getting passive in the relationship. The things that should bother her or raise questions in her don’t even get her attention any longer.

Gradually, she will move from being normal to being formal with you. These are withdrawal symptoms are you will need to be detective of them so you will not be caught unaware.

Finally, while it's tempting to view these signs through rose-colored glasses, misinterpreting them as mere mind games, it's critical to approach the situation with maturity and respect.

As hard as it is, start preparing yourself for the possibility that this relationship has probably run its course. A void denial and face what’s really going on.

Adewunmi Oladele © 2024

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