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If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by seunoladele: 4:06pm On Sep 25
If he didn't pick your call the first time, assume he is busy, the second time, assume he is away from phone -probably in the toilet or on an emergency.

If he didn't pick the third time -assume he is sleeping. If he didn't call back latest the following day and you know he is alive, hale and healthy.

END THE RELATIONSHIP and never look back.

No one gets too busy to pick the calls of someone they love and respect. Thank you!

© Seun Oladele

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by JOACHINpedro: 4:37pm On Sep 25
I no dey o! shocked

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Gbadugbakun(m): 4:55pm On Sep 25
seunoladele:
If he didn't pick your call the first time, assume he is busy, the second time, assume he is away from phone -probably in the toilet or on an emergency. If he didn't pick the third time -assume he is sleeping. If he didn't call back latest the following day and you know he is alive, hale and healthy. END THE RELATIONSHIP and never look back. No one gets too busy to pick the calls of someone they love and respect. Thank you!

© Seun Oladele,
talktoseunoladele@gmail.com
Facebook: Seun Oladele
Girls do this a lot. Why are you attacking guys?

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Haydens: 8:55am On Oct 01
Then what advice do you have for guys that girls to that to ?

Cos 99.100% women do that a lot.

Mine is that if I call you once and you no Pick I'm deleting and blocking your line straight up, I don't care how busy you are that will make you not to pick my call, even if you are about to cross the road simply stop at the middle of the road and pick my call, that's how important that i am to any girl that i consider to have one or two with.

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by WhatIf: 8:55am On Oct 01
The same apply to Ladies and Women.

Three times is even too much........once I call you twice, and you didn't pick up the call nor call back, I no dey call you again until you call me. Shikenna

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by EreluRoz: 8:55am On Oct 01
Call once and if he didn't pick, ignore his existence and sleep off on him when he eventually calls or chat

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Fiscus105(m): 8:55am On Oct 01
I think this behaviour is more prevalent among female gender than guys, most especially on Facebook or WhatsApp.

Nevertheless, immediately you notice your partner is putting up such behaviour, just know, it's time to move on, unless you like to be dating yourself going forward.


This has been the most effective way to end relationship amicably in recent times.

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Lordbinsmar: 8:56am On Oct 01
grin

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by helinues: 8:56am On Oct 01
grin

Twice is the normal one for me, third time should be emergency.

No response sometimes is also an answer, so no need of calling again. Whenever the person come back from Pluto, I'll wait

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by free2ryhme: 8:56am On Oct 01
seunoladele:


© Seun Oladele

na una sabi

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by SlavaUkraini: 8:56am On Oct 01
With your constant billing, why would he pick your call... ?

You nor get Papa ?

Call your father, he go answer you.

If you see another girl dey Bill your Brother anyhow, you go like am ?

All these Parasites with their useless entitlement mentality.

See....

If you call me 4 times, I nor answer you, end the relationship...

There are many fishes in the River

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Vawulence120: 8:57am On Oct 01
Trash

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by ThiefnubuBandit(f): 8:57am On Oct 01
Which kain small pikin matter be this?

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by kheny12(m): 8:57am On Oct 01
How do this make the frontpage undecided

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by free2ryhme: 8:57am On Oct 01
seunoladele:


© Seun Oladele

you have mental health problems to have come up with this sickening assumption

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by SimpleDan3: 8:57am On Oct 01
Characteristics of a Nigeria girls.

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by MANNABBQGRILLS: 8:57am On Oct 01
Reading

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by ThiefnubuBandit(f): 8:57am On Oct 01
Who be this mugu up there? ^^^^

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Exceed15: 8:58am On Oct 01
I don't double call or double text .
Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by bekpo(m): 8:58am On Oct 01
I always get so busy that I seldom pick my calls, that doesn't mean I don't value and respect my woman. It's just for my woman to understand my busy and tight schedule. However, I called when less busy.

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by ATEAMS: 8:58am On Oct 01
It’s okay to take breaks. It’s okay to do something simply because you have to. Don’t allow for the rush of the day to burn you out. Please take time for yourself. -

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Deicide: 8:58am On Oct 01
Call way day always come with biling

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Ttipsy(f): 8:58am On Oct 01
Yes
Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Skty: 8:59am On Oct 01
Una still de do relationship for this jagaban era?

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Fiscus105(m): 8:59am On Oct 01
helinues:
grin

Twice is the normal one for me, third time should be emergency.

No response sometimes is also an answer, so no need of calling again. Whenever the person come back from Pluto, I'll wait


Meanwhile, if such fellow is in distress, or perhaps her phone got stolen or loss.

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by DamnnNiggarr: 8:59am On Oct 01
shocked

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by Lanretoye(m): 9:00am On Oct 01
End the relationship and never look back,don’t even bother to know what is happening or the reason he is not picking,after them don take you collect 3points…if someone is owing you and you called for a day without response,just forget about the money and move on.

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by MimiSheWrote(f): 9:00am On Oct 01
Ummm nope. Ladies, don't be too fast if you really love your man. Sometimes, people's reluctance to answer phone calls isn't about you, but rather deeply rooted psychological issues. They might love and care about you, but struggle with phone conversations due to anxiety, past traumas, or sensory sensitivities.

Rather than assuming they're ignoring or avoiding you, consider having an open and empathetic conversation with your partner to understand their perspective. Ask gentle, non-judgmental questions to uncover the underlying reasons behind their phone inavoidance.

Some potential questions to explore:

- What makes you feel uncomfortable about phone calls?
- Is it related to a past experience or anxiety?
- Do you feel overwhelmed by the sudden, immediate nature of calls?
- Would you prefer alternative communication methods, like texting or video calls?

By actively listening and seeking to understand their emotional needs, you can:

- Strengthen your connection
- Find alternative communication channels that work for both
- Build trust and empathy

Remember, effective communication is key to resolving misunderstandings and nurturing a healthy relationship.

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by frankman365(m): 9:00am On Oct 01
But your gender can't do without men for feeding and all ... that's why they hang on

I see people in toxic r/ships and are still in it. Most of them ladies can't provide for themselves,so they tolerate every nonsense.

As a guy, I call twice... I expect the girl in question to reply my call. If it doesn't happen, then goodbye.

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by techbro1: 9:01am On Oct 01
If he’s not picking your call, stop calling him

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by bluepreek(m): 9:01am On Oct 01
undecided
The earlier the eve's gender know and realize that men are always busy,the better for Dem ......Cuz how can you just end your relationship with me simply because I was too busy to pick your calls,just for a week? undecided

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Re: If The Guy Is Not Picking Your Call... by RollinTNDA: 9:01am On Oct 01
A Stupified Mumu Simp don drop quote

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