As a single, mature guy who's used to his own privacy & personal space, I plan to have my own private room when I get married and only spend bedroom time with my wife when we need to get romantic with each other. I don't see myself sleeping day and night in the same room with a woman cos I value my personal space so much...

I've always wondered how ladies would feel about having different rooms in their matrimonial home. Would most ladies take this with an open mind or would they feel the man doesn't love them?

Ladies I need your sincere opinions on this!

Women wahala too much For peace of mind,and for the sake of your sanity as a man,I think building a strong barricade between a couple should be the best option to ever be considered....

Bro, you're definitely not alone on this....Most times,I keep wondering too,if I can ever cope being under one roof with a woman . But just like it,Women are a necessary evil .........We need them in our lives even tho some of them are completely worthless

santaclaws:
As a single, mature guy who's used to his own privacy & personal space, I plan to have my own private room when I get married and only spend bedroom time with my wife when we need to get romantic with each other. I don't see myself sleeping day and night in the same room with a woman cos I value my personal space so much...

I've always wondered how ladies would feel about having different rooms in their matrimonial home. Would most ladies take this with an open mind or would they feel the man doesn't love them?
Ladies I need your sincere opinions on this!

There's going to be rooms for temptation and other activities to thrive.

Also, you don't have to let cold nights take a better time with your wife.

You don't have to only get around her when there's konji.

What about cuddle nights? Games night? Gossip nights? Praying moments and all of that?

You won't even know your wife better if you keep her arms length away from yourself.

As a woman and an introvert, I really wouldn't mind having separate bedrooms because even I sometimes could use some space every now and then.

But my husband can be very clingy in bed and he's a touchy feely type... At first I found it to be a bit too much, but with time, I learnt to love and understand his love language... Now I enjoy every moment of it and I get to have my me time when he's doing his night shifts, but I still enjoy his presence either way.

In order to make it work, you have to understand each other and make compromises... But if you still want to have separate bedrooms, then talk to your partner about it before you guys start discussing about marriage plans.

Samantha125:
As a woman and an introvert, I really wouldn't mind having separate bedrooms because even I sometimes could use some space every now and then.

But my husband can be very clingy in bed and he's a touchy feely type... At first I found it to be a bit too much, but with time, I learnt to love and understand his love language... Now I enjoy every moment of it and I get to have my me time when he's doing his night shifts, but I still enjoy his presence either way.

In order to make it work, you have to understand each other and make compromises... But if you still want to have separate bedrooms, then talk to your partner about it before you guys start discussing about marriage plans.

Thanks for the deeply informative comment.

Actually, it's one of the things I'd love to discuss with my fianceé, but knowing how women sometimes overthink, I have concerns that it may be seen as a red flag or that one has a hidden agenda...

If you can't be able to open up to her now and hold deep discussions together, then trust me, it will only become worse once you get married because marriage experts always say that a marriage built on lack of communication is prone to disaster.

If you talk with her now and she doesn't agree, while you're also not able to compromise, then you'll be faced with a very difficult decision to make.

santaclaws:


Thanks for the deeply informative comment.

Actually, it's one of the things I'd love to discuss with my fianceé, but knowing how women sometimes overthink, I have concerns that it may be seen as a red flag or that one has a hidden agenda...