A shameless and disgraceful trend observed nowadays among some of our Muslim brothers and even Muslim sisters, is the practice of discussing intimate bedroom and sexual secrets with friends and acquaintances. Sometimes, these discussions take place in the presence of even relative strangers without a care in the world. Such is the handiwork of shaitaan that at times, ostensibly learned, pious and somewhat respectable people tend to do this.

This type of dirty conversation takes place when people are idle and engaged in futile pursuits. Having nothing better to do, they engage in dirty talk, giving a reflection of what lurks inside of them.

These talks normally take place at club houses, during fishing and camping trips, card-playing sessions, billiard and pool games, golfing sessions, on journeys, etc. People relate with relish the finer details of their private doings, sometimes in a very boastful manner, before others. Sometimes, a person describes the delicate parts of his wife’s anatomy before others in such a crude and revealing manner, he figuratively ‘strips’ her before others. In this way they are actually able to ‘see’ his wife with the mind’s eye.

These dirty ways are the net outcome of the accumulated filth of the west’s shameless culture that has found its way into the life and homes of Muslims. The heavy deluge of pornographic material in the form of blue movies, magazines and novels, and now, internet-based pornography, in the life of Muslims has contributed towards these shameless practices. May Allah cleanse all Muslims of this spiritual rot and moral muck.

This type of immodest practice has no place in Islam. There is no room for such dirty ways in a religion that preaches modesty and purity in every facet of life. Imaan is the very epitome of hayaa (modesty). “Imaan is modesty through and through” (Hadith)

When modesty departs from the life of a person, it is feared that Imaan will follow shortly, Allah forbid! Muslims need to protect and promote the culture of modesty at all times in order to safeguard their Imaan. Such unsavoury practices are the very antithesis of modesty and shame.

There can be a terrible outcome to this. People listening to this graphic description become attracted towards the woman being described, sometimes with a bit of exaggeration. They may not be experiencing the same sexual gratification in their own lives, so greed and lust gets the better of them. A pass is made at the woman, which is sometimes successful. One thing leads to another and finally the marriage is ruined, resulting in endless misery, heartache, disgrace and sin for all involved. Allah protect us!

The following Hadith ought to act as a strong warning and a deterrent to those guilty of this. Abu Saeed Radhiyallaahu Anhu reports that Nabi Sallallaahu Alayhi Wa Sallam said: “The worst person in the eyes of Allah on the Day of Qiyaamah is that couple who have an intimate relation with each other and the man then reveals the (bedroom) secrets to others” (Muslim).

Lordbinsmar:
First, I openly reject all the rubbish proclamation we una make me do. Ala no be God and I no believe for am.

Second make una try dey reduce all una bombing and terrorism all around the world.

Naa bedroom matter una carry for head.

Craze pipu

Lordbinsmar:
First, I openly reject all the rubbish proclamation we una make me do. Ala no be God and I no believe for am.

Second make una try dey reduce all una bombing and terrorism all around the world.

Naa bedroom matter una carry for head.

Craze pipu

Geesarki:


Why are u so obsessed with Islam that u must comment on issues that do not affect you. You rarely see a Muslim commenting on other religions thread.

TheChameleon:


I'm going to be really frank here. The mods can ban me later but believe me my advice is 💯

You're the fool here. You guys have complained for years about the declaration.

Seun the owner has ignored your pleas / complaints / whining.

The declaration doesn't even last for more than a week I think.

So what's the big deal ?

With this kind of mindset, it's impossible to succeed in life. You might think I'm insulting you but maybe in 20 years you will understand

Iweakbro:


Terrorists

TheChameleon:


Your name describes you well. You will always be weak.

Iweakbro:


Lol by your hypocrisy. My stay in Abuja and Kano opened my eyes to the depth of hypocrisy. Always setting laws for the gullible to follow, yet you guys would never adhere. Duns

Lordbinsmar:
First, I openly reject all the rubbish proclamation we una make me do. Ala no be God and I no believe for am.

Second make una try dey reduce all una bombing and terrorism all around the world.

Naa bedroom matter una carry for head.

Craze pipu

AntiChristian:
That's as a result of the continuous promotion of shameless woke videos and cultures both online and offline!

And Muslims are attracted to such!

May we not suffer in the barzakh for this and other crimes! Aameen.

Let's all make amends!

Ishilove:

You don't need to be religious to have common sense. Discussing the intimate activities your indulge in with your spouse with outsiders is because of lack of sense, and not because of western culture.

TheChameleon:


Weak comeback. Just like your name. Always weak. Weak shall you be.

Iweakbro:


Your religion is just like your moniker.

TheChameleon:


Suggestions for your 2nd and 3rd monikers :

Weaker and Weakest.

Ekrenji:
Prophet Muhammed did the same thing. He had sex with his wife and told his companions about it. If he did not tell them, they would not have known that he went to have sex with Zainab when he left their midst


Sunan Abi Dawud 2151
Jabir said “The Prophet (ﷺ) saw a woman so he entered upon Zainab daughter of Jahsh and had intercourse with her. He (ﷺ) then came out and said to his companions and said to them “A woman advances in the form of a devil. When one of you finds that he should go to his wife (and have intercourse with her) for that will repel what he is feeling.

asaajuomo1:


In the hadith you quote, did the Prophet (SAW) discussed woman anatomy?

Ekrenji:
Prophet Muhammed did the same thing. He had sex with his wife and told his companions about it. If he did not tell them, they would not have known that he went to have sex with Zainab when he left their midst


Sunan Abi Dawud 2151
Jabir said “The Prophet (ﷺ) saw a woman so he entered upon Zainab daughter of Jahsh and had intercourse with her. He (ﷺ) then came out and said to his companions and said to them “A woman advances in the form of a devil. When one of you finds that he should go to his wife (and have intercourse with her) for that will repel what he is feeling.