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Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Itwas: 12:47pm On Dec 04, 2024
I love your wife sir,she is one in a million
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by letitrainnow(m): 12:48pm On Dec 04, 2024
“Remember always that you have not only the right to be an individual; you have an obligation to be one. You cannot make any useful contribution in life unless you do this.” – Eleanor Roosevelt
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by pocohantas(f): 12:50pm On Dec 04, 2024
BoldBrainz:


You've made sense today. Means there's still hope for Nigeria to get better.

Make your own sense and let the future of Nigeria be dependent on you. I never asked you put that burden on me. 🤝

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Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by letitrainnow(m): 12:50pm On Dec 04, 2024
“It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.” —E.E. Cummings
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by BoldBrainz(m): 12:52pm On Dec 04, 2024
pocohantas:


Make your own sense and let the future of Nigeria be dependent on you. I never asked you put that burden on me. 🤝

We won't even make the mistake of putting the burden of raising a broiler, on you. I'm just delighted that you're at least starting to have some semblance of sense. That's one less problem for the society to deal with.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Mrfeel: 12:53pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
you married her so you can use her to oppress people?
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by pocohantas(f): 12:54pm On Dec 04, 2024
BoldBrainz:


We won't even make the mistake of putting the burden of raising a broiler, on you. I'm just delighted that you're at least starting to have some semblance of sense. That's one less problem for the society to deal with.

I don't have any semblance of sense. If you have sense, you won't even think I have any. ✌️
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by BoldBrainz(m): 12:56pm On Dec 04, 2024
pocohantas:


I don't have any semblance of sense. If you have sense, you won't even think I have any. ✌️

Oh, my mistake then. I was too quick to presume otherwise.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by pocohantas(f): 12:58pm On Dec 04, 2024
BoldBrainz:


Oh, my mistake then. I was too quick to presume otherwise.

Too dull would suffice...
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by YoungBTCxchange: 12:59pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
So if someone beats ur boy and u are unreachable, ur wife can not help or atleast call Police or someone to go and help ur boy out ?


That's sad.
leave this people most of them don't have sense, empty brain everywhere, they can't think because they are not in your shoes they just talk anyhow.
Female soldiers are adorable then go and marry one now who is stopping you people from marrying them
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by YOUNGELDER1(m): 1:01pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
bt dey will look into it eventually...


I don tire for marriage sef... after na pregnancy lie she take hold me enter marriage.

How she take tie you oga?

No be you fu ck am give am belle?
When you de fu ck you no know say belle fit enter?

Belle enter you no wan marry am.
No be only tie.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by BoldBrainz(m): 1:01pm On Dec 04, 2024
pocohantas:


Too dull would suffice...

Too dull to presume otherwise? And that makes sense to you? Quite evident, you're still swimming in that pool of know-nothingness.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by ucbenjamin696(m): 1:02pm On Dec 04, 2024
As a barrack boy & an X-boy,my dad was a MP,my siblings military .....believe you have a nice wife... She juz no wan use her uniform intimidate anybody
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by EngrEssien: 1:02pm On Dec 04, 2024
Give me her contact pls
Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by pocohantas(f): 1:03pm On Dec 04, 2024
BoldBrainz:


Too dull to presume otherwise? And that makes sense to you? Quite evident, you're still swimming in that pool of know-nothingness.

Nothing makes sense to me. Not even your rants. Open mouth waaa. Online Einstein. 😂

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Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by blazepascal(m): 1:06pm On Dec 04, 2024
pocohantas:
I must commend your wife.
You want her to go fight your battles and when she is caught, the narrative would be how women were not created to handle power.


The police is there for civil cases.
Go call them.

imagine yourself in that situation....put your self in his shoes....don't just come hear and type rubbish
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by G0Oodharddick: 1:06pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
a wife supposed to support her husband. Even if she doesn't want to go, y can't she call police for the boy on my behalf or even handle the situation since I was unreachable that moment.

U married a military woman and you want to control her? Lol. U Never serious.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by toluleke(m): 1:11pm On Dec 04, 2024
The woman is wise but married to an ID iot.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Jozilinn: 1:14pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.
What did your boy do in the first place oga just be mature, problem with some Nigerian men you don't value marriage, women but want everything to yourself look at what you are even saying self your friends are laughing at you right because let me guess you told them or you called her in their presence, font grow up be there causing issues here and there.

You have a wife that respects you normally soldiers are not supposed to be going around solving disputes in the Society. They're national security agencies for safe guarding the nation from terrorist and other related government jobs. The police is your friend get a good police officer that will be helpful to you.

Pity her okay now you are saying all these if problem dey now you go abandon her right did you know how she managed to get that job, the state of her family, forced pregnancy is it not yours did she get herself pregnant.

Just go if you want to I hope your next wife is a lawyer that you would be calling to take your issues to court. You don't want to hear her own points, you just want to boast around with your friends who are just like you after they will say our leaders are bad while citizens are better.

If person like you enter political position walai people go dey go missing anyhow where is your sense of reasoning not everything about you need people forcing you to know the truth.

God bless your wife! God bless the few people in force that don't use family to oppress people in Nigeria 🙏
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by royalfly(m): 1:17pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.

She is a good woman and the kind that I value. Some people don't know what they have sha. On conclusion, she is a very reasonable person.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Johans2023: 1:18pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
your friend was wrong. Your wife is doing the right thing.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Judolisco(m): 1:20pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
we need more of your wife type in Nigeria
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by BoldBrainz(m): 1:20pm On Dec 04, 2024
pocohantas:


Nothing makes sense to me. Not even your rants. Open mouth waaa. Online Einstein. 😂

Who even composed that first comment for you😂? Dork.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by royalfly(m): 1:22pm On Dec 04, 2024
luminouz:
This thread disgusts me. Not only how the men responded like he-goats and never considered OP side but how men that speak against emotional abuse are made fun of.

He clearly needs help and y'all men(I skipped the girls because of their emotional nature) are making fun of him?

Na men dey do men

This is another perspective, he can have a reasonable conversation with her and find out why she is like that but I mean she comes off as submissive and I see no abuse but sincerely, the emotional abuse towards men are overlooked. I mean so much overlooked... truly women are no 1 when it comes to emotional abuse but no seem to care because he is a man. Experienced
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Johans2023: 1:23pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
nice because she is making my friends to laugh at me for not being able to call her during emergencies
if you no belong you no belong. If you are a military personnel you will understand why your wife is doing that.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by Forumobserver12(m): 1:23pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
bt dey will look into it eventually...


I don tire for marriage sef... after na pregnancy lie she take hold me enter marriage.

So you actually married she’s an Army officer and not because of love?

From your own account of events, I can say that you married a responsible/matured woman, probably more matured than you are..

I don’t see any reason why you should be worried, constitutionally army does not settle civil disputes, so next time when you have issues, report to the nearest police station and live the innocent woman out of it..
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by pocohantas(f): 1:24pm On Dec 04, 2024
BoldBrainz:


Who even composed that first comment for you😂? Dork.

Stop crying, bro.
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by georgeakins: 1:25pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
d boy was bullied and nearly killed...



U don't know how this feels. I already called her mother, it not a difficult mata, na to refund me introduction money make she go marry man wey she go dey control.

Am just waiting for her off.

I don dey find opportunity to leave am since, this is just a perfect opportunity to leave her. After all it was a forced marriage.

Carry your stupid and fabricated story commot here.
We have better things to think about in Nigeria.

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Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by maziude: 1:28pm On Dec 04, 2024
luminouz:
This thread disgusts me. Not only how the men responded like he-goats and never considered OP side but how men that speak against emotional abuse are made fun of.

He clearly needs help and y'all men(I skipped the girls because of their emotional nature) are making fun of him?

Na men dey do men


You are part of the problem. You are using emotions to justify a wrong.

If he needs help, there are people called police and a place called a law court.

The army’s purpose is not to solve personal problems or personal vendetta.

Y’all are quick to scream ‘human rights’ if it was someone else being bundled by the army.

Stop the hypocrisy .

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Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by ukaface(f): 1:29pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
Of course she is right
Why would you by pass police force to bring in a soldier
Na Una Dey spoil Nigeria

Because your wife Dey army any small kasala now you go wan use your wife to shine

Do the right thing
Don’t use your wife for your personal gain

And what is the job description of soldiers sef?
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by ukaface(f): 1:30pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
nice because she is making my friends to laugh at me for not being able to call her during emergencies
You for marry police instead
Re: My Wife Is An Officer But She Doesn't Involve Herself In My Affairs by MrJames007: 1:30pm On Dec 04, 2024
Ringstonermasks:
My wife is an army officer. A lieutenant. But she is very reclusive and always love dodging any misgivings even concerning me



I had issues with someone months ago, i called a friend that was a Sergent in thesame barrack to help me out, my wife heard d issue later and was against it. It was a serious matter later on.

We even had issue with someone from our area , and she told me to call the Police and that it not in her place to interfere.

My boy was attacked by someone, he called her to report and my wife warned him to not try it again.

She wasn't like that until we got married. Somehow this thing is irritating me cos it depressing. I discussed it wit a friend from her rank that told me it was unusual that she was supposed to help me out.
Police is there. undecided

Nice one from her.

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