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Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Angelfrost(m): 10:27pm On Jan 02
Softmirror:
This topic is for men wetin concern woman with masturbation.

Lol... Women actually masturbate as much as men do. grin

Even in marriage, they do it more.

They simply don't make a meal out of it like guys do.

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Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Mentcee(m): 10:29pm On Jan 02
ArcSEMPECJ:


Laugh wan kee person here grin grin grin grin grin

Your assertion on the names are LEGENDARY and you are a HERO.....
You can't go to HELL as you are not an ANUS because you are RICH not like the poor Taiwo anyway...

Our darling daddy was not mentioned ....he should be jubilating by now .... 😂

Thanks
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Mentcee(m): 10:30pm On Jan 02
Thundafireseun:



Body Dey pepper you too much ooo ….

Lol 😆
Another idiot ignored
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Nnamdipapa(m): 10:35pm On Jan 02
This ugly guy
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Silentgroper(m): 10:42pm On Jan 02
PussyPunisher:
Why do people waste their time on masturbation when there is pussy everywhere
cause the girls would use the pussy their advantage..

Some do it to get their head straight so they don't become vulnerable to the opposite gender
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Sobalim: 10:43pm On Jan 02
Mentcee:


Is he still alive?

I miss that guy like hell.
I also feel Slawormir!

But those fools that go by Seunmsg, Madridguy, the bloody Richtaiwo, the retarded Legendhero, the shameless lovechild Yarimo and the worst of 'em all Hellinues!

Bastards.


Nwamaikpe is serving a long ban. He will be back this year
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by fitinwell: 10:44pm On Jan 02
Kobojunkie:
There is no such thing! undecided

Then you haven't experienced life...,
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Silentgroper(m): 10:45pm On Jan 02
Softmirror:
This topic is for men wetin concern woman with masturbation.


Na woman masturbate pass ...
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Kobojunkie: 10:59pm On Jan 02
fitinwell:
✓ Then you haven't experienced life...,
What a convenient lie you lot tell yourselves. Don't you ever get tired of them? undecided
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Brilliancepower: 11:27pm On Jan 02
LoneSoldier:
Masturbation has it advantages oh let me list them..

• Reduces stress

• with your mind you can Bleep any girl you solemnly
desire.

• Less budget as what you need is your hand and
(Vaseline,pomade,soap,lubricant,olive oil,cooking
groundnut oil, and any rubbable stuff you can get your
hands on except soda soap grin)

• Infection free, there is no chance of contracting
HIV/AIDS or any life threatening disease since you
won't be sleeping with the opposite gender carrying
such a disease...

Your forgot to add bad luck that comes with sleeping with a lady that slept with a ritualist.
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Riskymarvelous(m): 11:43pm On Jan 02
I just do am finish dis evening aswear
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by VicM6: 11:54pm On Jan 02
Na where the 180 millon enter bdat ..all dos ramdom girls don collect thr share as usual.
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by CodeTemplarr: 12:25am On Jan 03
Trying muffle out his N180m scandal?
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by TossTos(m): 12:51am On Jan 03
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Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Afolue(m): 1:47am On Jan 03
DestinedForGrea:

I would never count myself blessed and feel any sense of good about masturbating. It is the worst thing that has happened to me.

I'm a very intelligent person (I don't mean to brag please); a critical and an analytical thinker. I'm pretty sure of this, because I know what I can produce when I take my time to do something that requires mental performance. But you know what? I can only function at this level when I'm on my own, and at my own pace and comfort.

A lot of people think I'm not smart; just slow and clueless all the time. They don't say that but they act that way towards me. Though their thoughts are wrong, the way I act and speak sometimes gives that impression.

I'll tell you why I'm saying all these. I was never like this. I noticed that these traits developed slowly and fully came out a while after I exposed myself to pornography and masturbation. My confidence dropped drastically, the once very social and outgoing 'me' became socially anxious and introverted. I won't say much from here, but this same thing is what a lot of people dealing with masturbation are facing.

Fornication, masturbation, alcoholism, gambling, amongst other bad habits are not to be toyed with. I hope someone who's considering going into one or more of these habits reads this and makes a u-turn. The consequences are dire, and not everyone gets out of it.
I don’t agree with you. Tis why I say you speak for yourself. Adding other vices/habits to it is like mentioning things you do other don’t. Mind you, your list of sin can’t be others same lists. Not all who masturbate watch porn. Why do you keep hiding fornication, that is worse than all that you mentioned. Nothing wrong with masturbating, it has no negative scriptural backing or medical consequences. God and doctors has never pronounced it negative in quotes anywhere in history. Better masturbating than fornicating. What ever self esteem you are mentioning here has nothing to do with another person, it a personal problem to deal with, if it’s get too much on addictive grounds that’s where one should take caution but still you haven’t hurt any one. Every act on self, is never a Sin! Quote me anywhere. It takes two (2) to tangle. Read the ten (10) commandments, if it’s not between you and God, it you and a partner or you and your parents, or God and idols. It takes 2 to tangle. Any self indulgence is never a sin, anyone that decides to destroy self on self-indulgence is his or her own cup of tea. You can’t like someone more than his or her self! Who told you that drunkards will go to hell.? They could keep sleeping in gutters, urinating on self for all they care grin. What makes it sinful?If one writes exams and decides to fail willingly, is that a sin? No! The person is simply punishing self willingly by repeating classes… who that kind person epp..? but if the person decides to cause another to fail, he will be severely punished. So use this to understand life’s phenomenon! That is how God works as well.

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Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by RealityKings1: 3:52am On Jan 03
rattlesnake:
me wey don do am twice 2025 already

Just twice? You naa still amateur grin
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Boc007(m): 4:38am On Jan 03
You become a servant to what you fix your eyes on.
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by tballeyy(m): 7:05am On Jan 03
AllenSpencer:
Money is my own addiction and I cannot just stop it. Always craving for more money. I barely have 1000 Naira in my account.

At the touch of money, I am already thinking of what to invest in.
spiritual issue b dat
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by LoneSoldier(m): 7:27am On Jan 03
Brilliancepower:


Your forgot to add bad luck that comes with sleeping with a lady that slept with a ritualist.

cheesy
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by LUCASC(m): 7:30am On Jan 03
Masturbation is a psychological problem, I was once into it, what verydarkman said is basically true.
How I overcame that act was, I made a final decision sometime mid last year to stop masturbating finally, I can tell you it's not an easy decision.
At first I was excited I went weeks without masturbating and porn, but after a month it was like hell on earth to me, it took me about 3 months to recover from that sh$t.
Quiting porn is not an easy decision but it pays on a long run if you make a decision from your heart to quit masturbation and pornography.

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Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Kinzo0917(m): 7:33am On Jan 03
zedman1:
Lol, I miss that guy. Guy graduated with a masters in sacarsm from space or somewhere very strange.


Where is he?

Has he left Nigeria?

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Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by DestinedForGrea: 7:41am On Jan 03
Afolue:
I don’t agree with you. Tis why I say you speak for yourself. Adding other vices/habits to it is like mentioning things you do other don’t. Mind you, your list of sin can’t be others same lists. Not all who masturbate watch porn. Why do you keep hiding fornication, that is worse than all that you mentioned. Nothing wrong with masturbating, it has no negative scriptural backing or medical consequences. God and doctors has never pronounced it negative in quotes anywhere in history. Better masturbating than fornicating. What ever self esteem you are mentioning here has nothing to do with another person, it a personal problem to deal with, if it’s get too much on addictive grounds that’s where one should take caution but still you haven’t hurt any one. Every act on self, is never a Sin! Quote me anywhere. It takes two (2) to tangle. Read the ten (10) commandments, if it’s not between you and God, it you and a partner or you and your parents, or God and idols. It takes 2 to tangle. Any self indulgence is never a sin, anyone that decides to destroy self on self-indulgence is his or her own cup of tea. You can’t like someone more than his or her self! Who told you that drunkards will go to hell.? They could keep sleeping in gutters, urinating on self for all they care grin. What makes it sinful?If one writes exams and decides to fail willingly, is that a sin? No! The person is simply punishing self willingly by repeating classes… who that kind person epp..? but if the person decides to cause another to fail, he will be severely punished. So use this to understand life’s phenomenon! That is how God works as well.
Thank God for the sound scriptural knowledge that I have and the liberty to attend a local church with sound doctrine. If not, I'd have been deceived by folks like you.

Firstly, the fact that a word or a concept wasn't explicitly used or stated in the Bible does not necessarily mean that God approves of it or doesn't. The words "masturbation" and "pornography" were not used in the Bible, but that doesn't make them practices that God approves. The point is, they are against God's design for man. God designed man to please himself sexually with his spouse alone, not himself or anyone else. Anything besides that is a sin. Sex in itself is not a sin, but doing it the wrong way is.

Let's focus a bit on masturbation. Why is it that, to masturbate, a person needs to come in contact with sexual content (either by fantasizing or consuming illicit sexual information in the form of pornography)? That in itself is a perversion of God's original intention for man's sexual needs and satisfaction.

Anything that you do that inflicts harm on you or someone else is a sin. God did not plant those things in the earth you created, then why would you think it's okay to do them? A man drinks himself to stupor, sleeps and wakes up in a gutter, a person fornicates and ends up contracting diseases or conceiving a child inadvertently, and you say those things are not sins? I don't know if you go to church or not, but either way, you're under strong deception. Masturbation, fornication, pornography, drunkenness, as well as a host of others have a general effect -- to destroy their victims (in one way or another).

Back to masturbation, I'll reiterate, it has ZERO benefit and a ton of disadvantages; a few of which I mentioned in my previous comment. I'll charge you to ask at least ten people who are struggling with masturbation and want to get out, what it has done to them. I bet you, you'd get the same response I shared here. In fact, VDM who shared this video said the same thing. If you think there's nothing wrong with masturbation and other addictions, then serious questions need to be asked concerning your supposed faith in God and His word.

I'm a child of God, but I've struggled with masturbation even before I became His. I can tell you that He's helping me deal with that nonsense and restoring me to the person I ought to be -- His child. You won't understand, unless you renew your mind. I pray you do.

Peace!
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Kucoin: 7:45am On Jan 03
Bmaster:
but on a serious note,Nature ain't fair to many people.

How would you want a cripple,blind and the deaf and dumb to cope sexually,knowing quite very well that the new breeds of girls otherwise known as Gen-z's don't look their way.?

See as you dey reason. Like a serious disable person wishing yo marry me will go after swim Omo wobe
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by DestinedForGrea: 7:56am On Jan 03
LUCASC:
Masturbation is a psychological problem, I was once into it, what verydarkman said is basically true.
How I overcame that act was, I made a final decision sometime mid last year to stop masturbating finally, I can tell you it's not an easy decision.
At first I was excited I went weeks without masturbating and porn, but after a month it was like hell on earth to me, it took me about 3 months to recover from that sh$t.
Quiting porn is not an easy decision but it pays on a long run if you make a decision from your heart to quit masturbation and pornography.
Congratulations! Yeah, it's worth it.

If you don't mind, can you share the negative effects that masturbation produced while you were at it?
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Olaolar(m): 8:08am On Jan 03
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You’re coming up. Have made mine thrice
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by Crafteck1: 8:16am On Jan 03
AllenSpencer:
Money is my own addiction and I cannot just stop it. Always craving for more money. I barely have 1000 Naira in my account.

At the touch of money, I am already thinking of what to invest in.

Pele... Elon musquito
Re: Verydarkman Advises On Masturbation Addiction by LUCASC(m): 8:41am On Jan 03
DestinedForGrea:

Congratulations! Yeah, it's worth it.

If you don't mind, can you share the negative effects that masturbation produced while you were at it?

Some negative things were-

Being weak all the time, and always feeling sleepy.

Lack of sexual pleasure, you don't always enjoy real sex, erectile dysfunction.

At some point my confidence level starts degrading.

The way I look at women then, and the way I look at women now is different.

Loosing the ability to concentrate on things.

Those were few things I was battling with then.

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