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Confused:as A Man What Re The Signs We Re Dating The Right Person by famozine1: 8:06am On Jan 03 |
Good day nairalamders, one of the regrets that can hurt a man, for a very long time is dating/ marrying the wrong woman. I have no dating experience, as this is my first time in a serious relationship, as an adult, since I have no dating experience there re somethings I don't even know maybe it normal or not, sometimes I which I quit just to compare. sometimes I will just be scared not loosing the right person. my questions is for those that really understand relationship, beauty and body shape apart what are the signs that u re actually dating the right person bcoz I prefer to stay single rather than falling into a wrong relationship thanks |
Re: Confused:as A Man What Re The Signs We Re Dating The Right Person by psucc(m): 8:14am On Jan 03 |
Blindly go on on your date. You can't heed any sound counsel now that you're running after something. What if someone advice you to stay away completely, will you heed such? My dear go on with your 2025 decision. |
Re: Confused:as A Man What Re The Signs We Re Dating The Right Person by Peakdesign23(f): 8:26am On Jan 03 |
Aside beautiful body and beautiful face. Check her character, patience and tolerance. Is she homely? Is she ready for marriage and not wedding, is she lazy? Is she kind and God fearing? Sometimes people tend to pretend for a long period time if they're trying to achieve something and once they're gotten what they want they show their true colours. |
Re: Confused:as A Man What Re The Signs We Re Dating The Right Person by Jaycobbs(m): 9:03am On Jan 03 |
famozine1: ![]() First thing I'm going to ask you, why are you in this relationship? What do you hope to achieve from it? Did you get into a relationship just because you thought you're now old enough or cos your friends are into it? People want different things from relationship - sex, money, companionship, connections. You decide what you want from your relationship and ask yourself if you're getting what you want. I strongly believe that the essence of a relationship is to get married. If I can't marry a lady, I can't be in a relationship with her. I don't fancy the roller-coaster of jumping in and out of different relationships, getting heartbreak, carrying emotional baggages upandan and all that stuff. That said, before you ask yourself if you're dating the right person, ask yourself if you're also the right person to be in a relationship with. Lemme tell you something: you attract your kind. You'll likely attract someone who has similar values, and is on a similar trajectory of self development as you. Work on yourself, fix your character flaws, become a better person, improve your financial worth and self worth, and you'll attract high-caliber women of the same type. Real recognizes real. Don't be looking for a perfect woman when you still have a lot of growing to do. It simply won't work out. If you're also becoming a better person, you won't have the time or patience for people who've decided to remain backward. You'll naturally repel lower quality people. Beyond all this, you should know that dealing with women requires a truckload of patience. You might not be able to tell how good or bad someone is at the onset of the relationship, but there are little tests I like to set to determine a person's character. If you find a flaw they have, check if they're teachable and open to changing. Talk to them maturely and see if they listen. Learn how to resolve conflicts without putting her down. Master the art of great communication because this is the foundation of any good relationship. If you do this things, you'll have a wonderful relationship, and you'll be able to make any high quality girl fall in love with you. |
Re: Confused:as A Man What Re The Signs We Re Dating The Right Person by famozine1: 4:27pm On Jan 05 |
Jaycobbs:Wow u said it all thanks so much for breaking it down so easy |
Re: Confused:as A Man What Re The Signs We Re Dating The Right Person by famozine1: 4:29pm On Jan 05 |
Peakdesign23:This too deep it's takes a while to swallow dis 1 Like |
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