u know he/she is lying when he/she claims she/he is a friend cos u av read it all in his/her mail.he/she doesnt know u av his/her mail password.how do u confront him/her?

he/she. him/her. himself/herself. boy/girl. Argh!!

like for real, am even confused reading it. is that supposed to be a puzzle or what?

Seun and 2fine, y'all are just being funny! I laughed really hard, but in truth, let's see what to do, I have been in the very same situation before, but the dude and i had actually exchanged passwords. I confronted him mouth to ear ( that is, on the phone, because he was in another state and we could not meet face to face). And of course he dnied it. But i knew what i had seen, and i was not to be taken for a fool.

I loved him alot, so i hung in there a little while. But then it got worse and i decded i was worth more, i had to leave his ass ( even though the sex was rhe best ever).

So i left the dude. And ran head-on into a worse situation. I am seeing this guy who is married, but he doesn't know i know he is married. But there's more to that, some complications.

anyway, the original plan was just to tell you to leave that guy/girl. ( he/she, him/her, girl/boy). You know you deserve better. - or, do you?