Serious responses only please!

I met a beautiful girl In january of this year- I actually just wanted some fun but now i've fallen n love with her and im considering getting serious (actually her parents n siblings all know us 2gether n every1 around me including my siblings thinks we r getting married) but i have concerns.
1. She's 10 years younger and just starting school
2. She told me she got deflowered at 14 n has had 2 abortions-says one was mine

I appreciate her being open to me n i've i tried hard not to think about it  but most times when i begin 2 think about her (i have her pic as my desktop background so i look at it all the time), i see her getting deflowered in my imagination n i wonder if she still  has contact with this person, i have a feeling d person is around me n would always joke with his friends that my wife (if i marry her) was his prey. I also fear that having been deflowered that early she may have slept with many ppl including some that i may know.

I know this is all wrong cos i've had other women 2 but I hav never thot about this concerning any other girl i have dated, i just didnt give a damn what they did b4 or what they were doing. But how can i make this feeling go?. I love her and i have no doubts she loves me 2 n isnt cheating on me

if you have no doubts, then forget about this negative thoughts n the dirty past n move on.
it will do u no good. live ur life to please ur ownself n ur maker but not to please humanity.
other than that, people might end up making wrong choices publilcy n crying in our closet.

if you love this girl as u claim, then move on. past is in the past(self explanatory) ya dig?

@ poster you need to see a psychologist

eeh Swoosh,what exactly is your problem?? since two of you r in love??
At least she told you about her past,^{see why some girls don't wanna reveal deep truth about their past.}
Listen bro,with the way you are thinking which ain't healthy at-all,you r gonna have problems in your relationship.Let love conquer all and forget about awakening a long gone dead Ghost.Whats up with u n the other guy anyway?? u don't kno him so why sniff in2 imaginary closet?, i don't want to b'liv u r the overly jealous types who get anxious 4 no just reason.Feed love into your soul to erase all them bad thoughts.^{Not a soul feeder them thots u hav u know.}
And by the way how old r u?? don't be dating no underage girl aight?  

Takia

The only thing I see here is Jealousy, and d only reason that can make one jealous about his/her lover is when u keep thinking d other person is better than u or u dont measure up.
Jealousy to me, is a complex, the earlier u conquer it, the better.

So remove that jealousy, that fear in ur heart and move on with ur girl, d world is all urs

diva-niga, good advice

joey82, how far now? long time

ziddy, u think so

Dude you need to see a Dr and fast
Better still try some mills and boons . . . or whatever they call it now.

You find a girl thats honest and you are here misbehaving. You know what give me her number.

How many hones girls are there in the world. That girl probably loves you thats why she's being sincere. And personally, i've heard of much worse.

Stop being childish jare. meanwhile havent i seen this elsewhere?

Easybaby:

[color=#990000]@efuah,councillor go fit you o
how bodi now? . . .hope, you dey change oil

body fine o, by HIS grace. am counselor, yeah, u n zignor shd come to my office incase i need me.
the fee is tolerable

@efuah,
I'm cool, just took some time off to celebrate Nigeria's independence.
How's ur hubby n pretty baby boy.

I fear the girl o! . Disvirgined at 14.Go ahead, nothing dey happen. She will just produce babies that will get disvirgined at 5 for you that is if she can still make babies after two murders.

Easybaby:

efuah, no problem, we'll surely come.

ok i will b waiting

Joey82:

@efuah,
I'm cool, just took some time off to celebrate Nigeria's independence.
How's your hubby n pretty baby boy.

they r fine o, thx for asking

Joey82:

The only thing I see here is Jealousy, and d only reason that can make one jealous about his/her lover is when u keep thinking d other person is better than u or u don't measure up.
Jealousy to me, is a complex, the earlier u conquer it, the better.

So remove that jealousy, that fear in your heart and move on with your girl, d world is all urs

I love your Reply Joey, Thanx
n Thanx 2 all of u

How may i remove this post please. I;ve got what i think i need

u're welcome @poster,
Just that u can not remove the post cos it might b beneficial to some other persons. We chat here to learn 4rm each other and as easy baby rightly said, "the post is no longer urs it is ours" only the almighty Seun can remove it if he has a reason at all.

Easybaby:

The post is no longer yours, but ours . . .you cannot eat your cake and have it

lol

sho, the guy talk say he don do, abi u wan over-analyse d matter?

oga, abeg carry ur post go. good luck with ur girl

swoosh:

How may i remove this post please. I;ve got what i think i need

@ poster-So u hav recieved healin shape shape eh, ^{R u sur??} This Nairaland Panadol extra solution strong o.
Good for u man. wish u luck.