I have an American Lady who is older that me with about 15years . She wants to help me to come to America. But since i don't have a basic University Education she wants us to use the K-1 Visa. The K-1 Visa is a visa that allows an alien fiance(e) to an American citizen to enter into the States and marry his/her partner within 90 days.
  Please i am so confused, but this is a very golden opportunity to leave as a come from a very humble background and really needs to hustle and help my family. As a matter of fact she would have started the process already but i told her to hold on because i hadn't made up my mind. I swear this is crazy.

Suggestions are welcome.

Thanks.

I am new here, though i do visit nairaland every now and then to get hot news thread but i just became a member because i really want to know what you guys here think. And who is this swallu?

How did u guys meet? 419?

Okay then,SWALLU is the expert in cases like yours,you can check threads with that moniker as the author,by the time you are done reading them,I'm sure you'll get your answer.

we met on facebook. That was in Sept 2010. She has visited 2x last year

@freecocoa How do i get the thread from SWALLU?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria?action=profile;u=803179;sa=showPosts

Swallu is well informed and would throw some light into your dilemma or would be fortune

Visa! visa! visa! marry ur granny and get American visa

^^^
It's as easy as that

^ U mean u did it

^^^
Yeah I married your Granny and became you step-grand father. Now kneel when you greet me spoilt brat.

Why the insult? did i call u a name? do you think u know me or wat? braggart now get the hell outa me ok

Hey no offence. Just making a joke geez

Ok but am not a brat am a full responsible adult. Anyways cheers!

@ topic: is she a nlder?

OP
Don't do it. . .

^^yeah cos. if it sounds too good to be true then it is 9/10.

and i hate to put us American girls out there but SOME of us have that "i did for you, and will remind you ALL the time" mentality. Where you would practically be in her debt forever lol because she brought you to the "promise land" .

Now i see why some guys do engage in what may appear to be green card relationships. it's not right but i just had a thought and i can see how it happens. sometimes the women do make the possibility of a relationship, IMPOSSIBLE.

^^
True.
Maybe I'd even support if he's doing it out of love.
But it' so obvious he's only doing it to get out of Naija

Love or no love the guy should do it

i call this the era of another "green card lottery". now not the US government in charge, but the people - time is changing and people are randomly pursuing the full measure of their happiness without any caution. ask yourself, would you pay an agent 800,000 naira to disappear or fly on the much coveted wings of a desperate american granny. I call this second slavery or emotional enslavement, where the slave masters really dont have to travel the sahara to get the slaves, but can do that in proxy with the facilitation of the US embassy cited in those catchment areas.

Don't do it. Pray to God to Bless you with your own resources for your travel to that country. In the end you shall only reap what you sow.

swallu where are you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Enters d tread with my crystal ball,roll it up and down,shakes head,*repeat sequence thrice*thanks d oracle,then face d desperado:''op,you are embarking on a journey of no return''. I see two short guns in that woman closet. Be careful with your smart moves''.
Turns away mumbles,dis children of nowadays are something else.

godsonboy:

I have an American Lady who is older that me with about 15years . She wants to help me to come to America. But since i don't have a basic University Education she wants us to use the K-1 Visa. The K-1 Visa is a visa that allows an alien fiance(e) to an American citizen to enter into the States and marry his/her partner within 90 days.
  Please i am so confused, but this is a very[b] golden opportunity [/b]to leave as a come from a very humble background and really[b] needs to hustle and help my [/b]family. As a matter of fact she would have started the process already but i told her to hold on because i hadn't made up my mind. I swear this is crazy.

Suggestions are welcome.

Thanks.

I will answer you from 2 points of view

You want to marry someone who you have never met,only online chatting, who is 15 years older and probably Fat?
   
1.Dude, you dont love or like her so why do you want to marry not even wanting to know her better to see if you want a relationship or not.

2. Guy, we are Nigerians, stop trying to claim a gentleman in the eyes of us all. You want to hustle to help your family and its in USA. its okay, go and  marry and help your family.
For you to post this i must commend you, afterall you could have done what you wanted and none of us here would have known about it.

Except you lack confidence and abilities to succeed in life, you can play the drama.

OP think of your future.Will your parents be happy when you bring back a very fat ugly white woman 15 yrs older than you as your wife to be?
Will u be comfortable if your friends laugh you behind your back when you bring an old cargoe like that back to nigeria as a wife?
Will you be able to look at your kids in the face and tell them u married their mummy for green card?
And what sort of a father will your kids make of you when their mummy told them that their lazy daddy jumped into a boat from africa for america and married her for the green card then left her high and dry.My friend please weigh your options clearly before you end up like this clown below me.

@op If swallu see dis thread u no go like ur self. Wait and c

Go for her and stop whinning