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Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 8:29pm On Jan 23, 2012
There are some many guys out there nowdays that just have no patient for virgins. Teaching them, the awkwardness the first time, the blood they just don't want to deal with all that. Infact they see it as an outdated concept. Most men just want an experienced woman in the bedroom that will sex them up like there's no tommorrow. The whole virgin thing is just a big turn off to them.


So here's my question to all them men out there, is dating/marrying a virgin a big turn off nowdays?

Please is not by force to post in this thread, look around there are so many threads, if you have nothing better to say, just read along out get out. Thanks
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Osama10(m): 8:44pm On Jan 23, 2012
I don't think any man would be very proud that his wife to be has slept with other men.

So that concept is not outdated to me.

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Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by bekay911(f): 8:48pm On Jan 23, 2012
Nope i think dats d best thing dat will happen to any man.

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Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by amuukwu1(m): 8:50pm On Jan 23, 2012
bekay911:

Nope i think dats d best thing dat will happen to any man.

not to me.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Jan 23, 2012
Osama10:

I don't think any man would be very proud that his wife to be has slept with other men.

So that concept is not outdated to me.

Interesting!


I actually had a conversation with one of my male friend two days ago and his respond actually make me to open this thread.


I supposed he must have slept with a virgin, he is totally against the ideal. He just finds it to be a whole lot of work and difficulty especially on the first night. That being said, he says he don't want a slut either, but he want someone with experience not someone who will just be like a dead meat in the bedroom. grin grin I had a massive argument with him.

I know seeing/learning and actually doing it are two different things but no one is totally in the dark when it comes to sexuality nowdays.

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Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by freecocoa(f): 9:02pm On Jan 23, 2012
Amu ukwu.
Now I understand your moniker,its not even advisable for you to go near a virgin.



@Topic,I don't think its outdated,forget most of these men claiming,they secretly long to be the first for any woman they end up marrying.

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Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by amuukwu1(m): 9:03pm On Jan 23, 2012
rokiatu:

Interesting!


I actually had a conversation with one of my male friend two days ago and his respond actually make me to open this thread.


I supposed he must have slept with a virgin, he is totally against the ideal. He just finds it to be a whole lot of work and difficulty especially on the first night. That being said, he says he don't want a slut either, but he want someone with experience not someone who will just be like a dead meat in the bedroom. grin grin I had a massive argument with him.

I know seeing/learning and actually doing it are two different things but[b] no one is totally in the dark when it comes to sexuality nowdays[/b].


Reading about it is totally different from actually practising it. Practice they say makes one perfect.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by amuukwu1(m): 9:05pm On Jan 23, 2012
freecocoa:

Amu ukwu.
Now I understand your moniker,its not even advisable for you to go near a virgin.

You mean?
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by xynerise: 9:07pm On Jan 23, 2012
Being a virgin does not guarantee ur virtuous qualities. Therefore its kind of outdated.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by xynerise: 9:09pm On Jan 23, 2012
Being a virgin does not guarantee ur virtuous qualities. Therefore its kind of outdated.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by bekay911(f): 9:10pm On Jan 23, 2012
No mind em, sum dudes dat yearn to marry virgins r alredy 2nd class materials, which means dat we women r being cheated atimes.
Regardles of dat i dnt think marrying a virgin is stressful cos dey will adapt to d situation. Some already knw abt dese stuffs all dey r waiting for is d right tym n place
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 9:10pm On Jan 23, 2012
amu ukwu:


Reading about it is totally different from actually practising it. Practice they say makes one perfect.


Offcourse is almost like reading how to drive and actually sitting down behind the wheels for the first time and trya to control it. Offcourse it ain't great the first time, but after some practices, you eventually become good at it and even end up getting your licence.

That being said sir, if you don't mind what is it that you don't like/wouldn't wanna marry a virgin? Just being curious.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by claremont(m): 9:10pm On Jan 23, 2012
Personally, I would stay the hell away from virgins, based simply on the erroneous notion they have that their virginity places them at a higher pedestal as compared to non-virgins. A virgin is simply someone who still has a hymen, it doesn't translate to being a better person than a non-virgin.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Idowuogbo(f): 9:10pm On Jan 23, 2012
Roki d whole concept aint oudated its still very much practiced.However its takes a controlled Man to date a virgin for a long period without making a move to unleash,d logo going about now is tested and trusted tbh.Now dat said most guys might say marrying a virgin is an ultimate goal for dem,but most also want a freak in dier sheets.I don't think its a turnoff but rada a challenging task for the mind.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jan 23, 2012
I am a virgin and i will love to marry a virgin as well.

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Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by dayokanu(m): 9:15pm On Jan 23, 2012
Outdated.

Being a good girl goes beyond having a hymen.

What do you say about Vaginal virgins but anal expressway?
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jan 23, 2012
Idowuogbo:

Roki d whole concept aint oudated its still very much practiced.However its takes a controlled Man to date a virgin for a long period without making a move to unleash,d logo going about now is tested and trusted tbh.Now dat said most guys might say marrying a virgin is an ultimate goal for dem,but most also want a freak in dier sheets.I don't think its a turnoff but rada a challenging task for the mind.
Simply well said.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 23, 2012
dayokanu:

Outdated.

Being a good girl goes beyond having a hymen.

What do you say about womanly virgins but BehindBased expressway?
Virgin na virgin. tongue tongue tongue tongue

On a more serious note, I am talking abt the traditional virgin here that hasn't had any of her hoes pentrated.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 9:21pm On Jan 23, 2012
^^^Well said mayhaps. @dayokanu, love that. You know, a babe once told me she has made up her mind to stay away from sexxx, and yet she said the best she could do for me was a$$hole. I was pissed off, and said i dont play that. . . .

Aye, i forgot, i am a virgin on this thread. I hope to find a virgin on this thread to marry?? Any volunteers?

@topic: this is an excellent topic. Please guys - virgins and non-virgins, please say your minds o jare.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 9:22pm On Jan 23, 2012
rokiatu:

Virgin na virgin. tongue tongue tongue tongue

On a more serious note, I am talking abt the traditional virgin here that hasn't had any of her hoes pentrated.
So how do we verify that the a$$ h0le has not been tampered with? It is just my word against hers??
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by freecocoa(f): 9:25pm On Jan 23, 2012
@Amu ukwu,what does your moniker mean? Answer that and I'll tell you what I mean.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by amuukwu1(m): 9:31pm On Jan 23, 2012
freecocoa:

@Amu ukwu,what does your [b]moniker [/b]mean? Answer that and I'll tell you what I mean.

i don add 1 plus 1, now I know what you mean. Na there you think reach chai, u don spoil o cheesy cheesy
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 9:33pm On Jan 23, 2012
Now tell me this, what of a virgin that has had serious finger-Zap.i.n.g but the H is still intake?? The fact that it has not swallowed a cucumber live does not mean the pu$y is still a virgin??
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by bekay911(f): 9:35pm On Jan 23, 2012
Frecocaine easy jare.
Virgins r evrywhere if u look well. Btw y r ui guys searchin for virgins wen 99% of u guys r non virgins.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jan 23, 2012
wtf? i am a virgin o, abegi. Now tell me, how do i look at a girl and know she is a virgin without doing the rooster-test?
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by freecocoa(f): 9:40pm On Jan 23, 2012
*dhtml:

A babe once told me she has made up her mind to stay away from sexxx, and yet she said the best she could do for me was a$$hole. I was pissed off, and said i dont play that. . . .

That girl is a very big slutt,like wtf? Isn't the a$$hole supposed to be more painful than the front hole?so in her mind she's a virgin o.mscheeew.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by amuukwu1(m): 9:44pm On Jan 23, 2012
freecocoa:

That girl is a very big slutt,like wtf? Isn't the a$$hole supposed to be more painful than the front hole?so in her mind she's a virgin o.mscheeew.

Just na, just na you don call am slut shocked  shocked how u carry know say na slut  u don meet her before, abeg easy with the language. cool cool
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by freecocoa(f): 9:51pm On Jan 23, 2012
amu ukwu:

Just na, just na you don call am slut shocked  shocked how u carry know say na slut  u don meet her before, abeg easy with the language. cool cool
leave talk joor,How she go gree do behind but won't do front?Abegi the girl don do go far.


@Bakery,wetin I do?


amu ukwu:

i don add 1 plus 1, now I know what you mean. Na there you think reach chai, u don spoil o cheesy cheesy
Yes na,my brain is sharp,I gree I don spoil but you spoil pass me.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by MrsChima1(f): 9:55pm On Jan 23, 2012
Wifey!

I respects those who wait until they say I do, however I can understand if those who don't wait!

Trust me the temptation is a mofo! When he gets out the shower with that water glistening all over his chiseled body and the snake just hissing and growling. I don't remember the rest. embarassed

I understand if those get caught up in the moment! (whistling off the thread)
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 9:58pm On Jan 23, 2012
Seriously, a virgin biatch is more like it.

@topic, i happen to know the story of another virgin who just before marriage got disvirgined and discovered that her husband cannot satisfy her sexually. Our paths crossed and. . . . .fast ward. . . .yeah, Poo does happen.

For me, on a serious basis now. Whether the girl is a virgin or not DOES NOT MATTER. It is the woman behind the kitten that i am after.


@topic: all the virgin babes on nairaland are corrupt. Different from the virgin girls from my village.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Jan 23, 2012
Like a certain onila wey dey watch poki poki film even when she claims the poking disgusts her. And yet, she will be claiming virgin. . . .abegi. Virgin for mind abi for body??
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by slimyem: 10:00pm On Jan 23, 2012
@topic,to a lot of people in this age and time,its outdated.
only a few still think it counts for something.

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