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Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by blueteeth: 2:28am On Feb 03, 2012
i'm 21 and still a V.thing is almost all ma fwends hav sex indiscriminately,infact dem don dey do since sec school till we enta uni.normally i follow dem to our joint in sch(motel) where dose small small s.lots get banged carelessly for #500,we drink,do every every,but i still don't see maself f.uc.kin dose stinkin' w.ho.res or anyother girl.My point is d way dey took it when dey found out gave me funny ideas.i've even imagined havin' s.ex wiv ma girlfriend but i can't see maself doing it.isn't it supposed to be a good tin?, because it's beginning to look funny(gay)to ma Gf.Or should i just wait till ma urge allows me to?
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 2:33am On Feb 03, 2012
It is only a slut who has long sold her self image will have the hand to come to a public forum to write some rubbish about Virgins just to improve herself image. Virgins are still cherished in all culture  grin. Stop hating hoes; if you try harder your daughter might not be as bad as you people  cry.

My grandma is Virgin, my mom is too, and my next to be wife here in state is also a virgin. She is in Med school.

So, stop hating and change leaf
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by fabj1(m): 2:57am On Feb 03, 2012
In d midst of dis countries faith n fate, u're bringing this up. Chai! undecided
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:13am On Feb 03, 2012
Virgins my foot! Virgins are overrated! The virgin thing is making me sick. I would be the last person to take a virgin in - seriously speaking. I would rather be with a girl who knows a lot about sex and can stand the test of our love. Not the one after first experience know what she has been lacking for long and would like to play around a little.

Virgins are meant for Muslims not for me!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:16am On Feb 03, 2012
all4naija:

Virgins my foot!  Virgins are overrated! The virgin thing is making me sick. I would be the last person to take a virgin in - seriously speaking. I would rather be with a girl who knows a lot about sex  and can stand the test of our love. Not the one after first experience know what she has been lacking for long and would like to play around a little.

Virgins are meant for Muslims not for me!

You are a fool! I am a Christian, Roman Catholic to be precise, and virgins are still cherish. Only a hoe will marry you like you've said looser. Virgins have always been cherished ask your grandma even if she happened to be a hoe  grin

Besides that, Virgins are still cherish in African culture idiot. Why not go join your fellow Westeners and Bleep your way till you marry. A brainwashed Negro thinking that all Western Ideology is the supreme.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:19am On Feb 03, 2012
^^^^
Dude, are you on substance? That is for me! I don't need any virgin,PERIOD! Virgins are awkward! You can go ahead and worship them that is your own life man!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:21am On Feb 03, 2012
For your info, I am not a virgin and neither is my sister due to environment. But I would have been much happier is she is still one.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:23am On Feb 03, 2012
donedy:

It is only a slut who has long sold her self image will have the hand to come to a public forum to write some rubbish about Virgins just to improve herself image. Virgins are still cherished in all culture  grin. Stop hating hoes; if you try harder your daughter might not be as bad as you people  cry.

My grandma is Virgin, my mom is too, and my next to be wife here in state is also a virgin. She is in Med school.

So, stop hating and change leaf
Dream on looser! Hehehe . . . Don't act as if you know her so well. M.o.r.o.n!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by playahP(m): 3:23am On Feb 03, 2012
Through out my life, ive never seen a virgin or been with one. Na only for mouth we hear woman talk she is a virgin.
Personally, i cannot and will not settle down with a non virgin.
I went to university and i see all sorts of nonsense kids do their, i cant stand the thought that my wife to be was yanshed by Guys,
no way.
virgin or nothing
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:25am On Feb 03, 2012
donedy:

For your info, I am not a virgin and neither is my sister due to environment. But I would have been much happier is she is still one.
Grow up, dude! You are speaking as a drunkard would! You are entitled to you views. Those are mine!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:26am On Feb 03, 2012
all4naija:

Dream on looser! Hehehe . . . Don't act as if you know her so well. M.o.r.o.n!

Fool! we are from different places alright. You have no life based on the way you are talking. it's only a looser will say he will maryy a hoe like you suggested  grin. I don't have to argue over her on a forum with an mentally challenged idiot like you  lipsrsealed
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by kizito96(m): 3:27am On Feb 03, 2012
I have friends that married virgins but regretted it. When they come in, they become very submissive, but as time goes on, and as society demands, based on friends around her, they start telling her stories of their escapades, she feels left out and want to try something new, in the process they begin to compare their latest experiment with their husbands, some of them seem to catch up with lost time so as to belong, especially if the husband is the old school type who only knows the missionary system. Most men regret ever having a virgin for a wife. However i did not marry a virgin but her approach to sex is frustrating. On my own, i have learnt to live with it.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:28am On Feb 03, 2012
playah P:

Through out my life, ive never seen a virgin or been with one. Na only for mouth we hear woman talk she is a virgin.
Personally, i cannot and will not settle down with a non virgin.
I went to university and i see all sorts of nonsense kids do their,  i cant stand the thought that my wife to be was yanshed by Guys,
no way.
virgin or nothing
 shocked   cry   cry Just for you! You need to face reality check! I am sorry for my insulting language!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by nenginengi: 3:31am On Feb 03, 2012
Being a virgin is a biological state not a state of mind. its not really any indicator of personality. That being said, I feel waiting till you are married is a very good idea. I'm a 27 year old girl, I am due to be married at the end of the year and I am a virgin. My fiance is very patient and more than willing to wait. I truly believe he is with me because of who I am, not "what" I am. In other words I would like to believe that he would still be with me if I wasn't a virgin.

My advise though to people who are waiting, keep waiting, it saves you a lot of trouble; I realise that a lot of the heartache my friends have gone through, I haven't cos I avoided dating till I was old enough to make decisions about marriage.  It's your principle, if you meet a man/woman that isn't willing to wait, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you;; its simply means he/she isn't for you.

My 2 cents.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by playahP(m): 3:33am On Feb 03, 2012
virginity connotes discipline, it connotes heightened state of conscience awareness.

Yes i want a virgin.
Its not because she is a virgin, its because i can trust her yes and her no.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:33am On Feb 03, 2012
donedy:

Fool! we are from different places alright. You have no life based on the way you are talking. it's only a looser will say he will maryy a hoe like you suggested  grin. I don't have to argue over her on a forum with an mentally challenged  like you  lipsrsealed
You said your sister was hole and you said you were not a virgin either! Dude, are you for real? Get your head check and live with it . Yes, I need no virgin. Whatever you called it,HOLE, as long as she can be a good and loving housewife I would marry her. You are just being an abominable thwart!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:41am On Feb 03, 2012
playah P:

virginity connotes discipline, it connotes heightened state of conscience awareness.

Yes i want a virgin.
Its not because she is a virgin, its because i can trust her yes and her no.

Go and live in Arab world! You guys know nothing about virgins! It doesn't connote discipline it connotes flaunt and hypocrisy! Please, your heightened state of conscious of awareness is not a matter of virginity based on fear of something(usually religion indoctrinations)it is a level of how much knowledge you have acquired about something. Please, spare me your ignorance in this regard.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:48am On Feb 03, 2012
all4naija:

Go and live in Arab world! You guys know nothing about virgins! It doesn't connote discipline it connotes flaunt and hypocrisy! Please, your heightened state of conscious of awareness is not a matter of virginity based on fear of something(usually religion indoctrinations)it is a level of how much knowledge you have acquired about something. Please, spare me your ignorance in this regard.

Why are you hating . Is like everyone in your house are whores  cry. Africa has more virgins than Arabs so shut the bleep up. Virgins are African thing, LovePeddler like you are Western thing
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:50am On Feb 03, 2012
donedy:

Why are you a such an . Is like everyone in your house are whores  cry. Africa has more virgins than Arabs so shut the bleep up. Virgins are African thing.
You make me wanna cry, dude! Please, are you for real or just exercising your ignorance? Believe it you know nothing about virgins!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by obowunmi(m): 3:52am On Feb 03, 2012
can y''all stop getting personal and discuss the issue at hand or vamoos the thread. angry angry angry
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 3:56am On Feb 03, 2012
¨^^^
I would rather vamoose the thread than arguing about matter that leads nowhere!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Princek12(m): 3:57am On Feb 03, 2012
virgin ko, virgin atlantic ni
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by playahP(m): 4:05am On Feb 03, 2012
all4naija:

Go and live in Arab world! You guys know nothing about virgins! It doesn't connote discipline it connotes flaunt and hypocrisy! Please, your heightened state of conscious of awareness is not a matter of virginity based on fear of something(usually religion indoctrinations)it is a level of how much knowledge you have acquired about something. Please, spare me your ignorance in this regard.


Everybody is entitled to their opinion.
Why are you taking it personal
I wouldn't trade word with you over the internet.
If you think that virginity is hypocrisy or something borne out of fear, then i dey laff oooh.

THE BEST GIFT MY WIFE CAN GIVE ME IS HER VIRGINITY!!!!!
NO MATTER WHAT SHE DOES TO ME, I WOULD ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT THIS WOMAN KEPT HERSELF THROUGH OUT HER LIFE JUST FOR ME.
I PLACE HIGH VALUE ON VIRGINITY.
IT IS A VIRTUE.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 4:11am On Feb 03, 2012
playah P:

Everybody is entitled to their opinion.
Why are you taking it personal
I wouldn't trade word with you over the internet.
If you think that virginity is hypocrisy or something borne out of fear, then i dey laff oooh.

THE BEST GIFT MY WIFE CAN GIVE ME IS HER VIRGINITY!!!!!
NO MATTER WHAT SHE DOES TO ME, I WOULD ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT THIS WOMAN KEPT HERSELF THROUGH OUT HER LIFE JUST FOR ME.
I PLACE HIGH VALUE ON VIRGINITY.
IT IS A VIRTUE.
Dude, I intended not to reply you but your ignorance was patronizing! Yes, for some virgins it is bore out of flaunt and hypocrisy due to the society they live in. You can laugh yet your argument is laughable!

That's why women can easily fool somebody like you. There is medical/surgical solution for that if virgin is your problem!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by shulzy(m): 4:13am On Feb 03, 2012
hmmm,rokiatu nice topic. Actually that concept or idea is not outdated. The problem with the society is first the stereotypical attitude of people believing that there are no more virgins out there.Most guys dont believe that we have female virgins out there anymore and this is based on personal research. Most guys from interaction would want to be the first person to disflower a lady but are they ready to wait till after marriage?no is the answer. During undergraduate days,i do ask my male friends questions for instance if i see a group of about 10 or more ladies together that if they (my friends)believed that there are virgins among the ladies standing or sitting but there responses are always on the negative,which goes for the larger society too. But guys i can sincerely tell you that among every 15 ladies standing or sitting together at a given time,there is the probability that 7 are still virgins. 1 funniest thing about them is that when discussing issues of sex,they tend to be leading in the discussion more than the experienced ones.holla. From personal research as undergraduate.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 4:15am On Feb 03, 2012
all4naija:

Dude, I intended not to reply you but your ignorance was patronizing! Yes, for some virgins it is bore out of flaunt and hypocrisy due to the society they lived in. You can laugh yet your argument is laughable!

That's why women can easily fool somebody like you. There is medical/surgical solution for that if virgin is your problem!

Why are you such a brainwashed negro thinking that these Western culture fits you. The facts you are a man-LovePeddler or most folks in your family are hoes does not mean others should follow your foot step.

Virgins will forever be cherished!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! grin
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by usask4life: 4:16am On Feb 03, 2012
Strange people. La wah ooo. I can take some bullshit from my wife if I married her as a virgin. I knw virginity isn't a criterion to love a woman but for her to be principled enough to keep it for her husband places her at a level above non virgins. Seriously, I can do anything for my virgin wife ooo. Imagine, me, being d only buddy that have gone in there? She has no reason to compare or stuffs. Infact, we shouldn't be discussing this issue cuz virginity is d most expensive and most valuable gift and respect a woman can give to her husband.
Imagine on d night of ur honeymoon, ur wife starts with d doogy style, u go fear naa. Say wetin? She fit don knack knack men tire.
Comparing it with a naïve girl in bed who would be shy and looking u in d eyes to do ur thing, Be honest, who would u respect most? Its left for u to teach d lady d rudiment of coitus and from then henceforth, u can knack till death does u part,
I MUST marry a virgin and no offence to those who lost theirs already.
Shallom!!!!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 4:19am On Feb 03, 2012
donedy:

Why are you such a brainwashed negro thinking that these Western culture fits you. The facts you are a man-LovePeddler or most folks in your family are hoes does not mean others should follow your foot step.

Virgins will forever be cherished!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! grin
Dude, don't quote me again! You are very ignorant!Negro and Western culture is your problem not mine! Live your life dude! I have nothing to do with virgins,Period. Can you get that into your Zap.i.n.g brain? How many times do I have to remind you of that, F.O.O.L?

Yes! western culture suites me because it is what I am used to. Go back to your dirty culture as well as defining a good woman as based on virginity. Well, You are speaking out of the abundance of your stupidity!
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 4:22am On Feb 03, 2012
all4naija:

Dude, don't quote me again! You are very ignorant!Negro and Western culture is your problem not mine! Live your life dude! I have nothing to do with virgins,Period. Can you get that into your Zap.i.n.g brain? How many times do I have to remind you of that, F.O.O.L?

Then stop quoting and stop attacking people who cherish what is good  grin. You have been talking shiit about virgin in all your post that a mark of a hater
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Nobody: 4:23am On Feb 03, 2012
^^^
shocked shocked shocked

*shaking my head*
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by Princek12(m): 4:25am On Feb 03, 2012
playah P:

virginity connotes discipline, it connotes heightened state of conscience awareness.

Yes i want a virgin.
Its not because she is a virgin, its because i can trust her yes and her no.


To the contrary, being a virgin at an old age connotes lack of opportunity, hormonal imbalance, socially dysfunctional individual, and possibly a circumcised punny.
Re: Is Waiting Until Marriage An Outdated Concept? by honeric01(m): 4:30am On Feb 03, 2012
all4naija:

^^^
shocked shocked shocked

*shaking my head*

you are sounding very bitter, is there something you're not telling people about virginity and you?

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