Ozegbe:

@good girl @sexkillz a friend of mine i discuss dis with told me that when i attend his wedding and regularly visit his home i will change my mind. I no there are lots of disadvantages but if i got my kids born with my Fluid not adoption they could be my companion, while taking care of sex urge once a while. I dont care about wat my family says abt dis i make my own decisions

freecocoa:

OP your last post sounds like you've already made up your mind,well its your life and choice but if you are genuinely looking for reasons to get married then there are many.

True that many marriages don't work out but another many do,if you find a good woman who you truly love and who feels the same for you,you should get married.

Marriage makes your more responsible as it curtails some of your excesses,there are certain things you did as a bachelor that you won't do as a married man.

Companionship,I actually laughed at you saying your kids could be your companion,you should know better what is meant by"companion"on this thread, a s3x mate doesn't necessarily fulfill the role of a companion cos it isn't all about s3x.

You also get a helpmate like the bible called a woman to her husband,true you can get help in training your kids but it would be a lot easier and better if done under one roof with both parents.

Please don't judge all marriages with that of people you know that went sour,some are like the ones made in heaven even with its fair share of trials,you never know yours may fall into this category. Goodluck with whatever you finally decide to do.

born2fuck:

Either you get married or not, will simply advice you that we are already on end time, 90 % of Nigeria boys smoke either Indian hemp,cigarette or drink alcohol, that put effect on brain works and make it work negatively and positively thereby creating menace on relationship and 90 % of our girls are simply LovePeddlers, either by brothel business, hang around the street or sleep around with different boyfriends in return for cash , both boys and girls now are in era of no one to trust,bad boys marrying to bad girls and giving birth to bad pickin have cause an increases in boko haram type of pikins,Mend types of pikins, OPC pikins and area boys everywhere , even banker take indian hemp to work and plan on fraudulent activity

Ozegbe:

Thanks @freecocoa i hope and pray that some how i find sumbody dat can make me change my mind, as of now i feel this way. I so much hate polygamy cos am from one. Does marriage on contract works in nigeria? And how can it help my situation?

born2fuck:

Either you get married or not, will simply advice you that we are already on end time, 90 % of Nigeria boys smoke either Indian hemp,cigarette or drink alcohol, that put effect on brain works and make it work negatively and positively thereby creating menace on relationship and 90 % of our girls are simply LovePeddlers, either by brothel business, hang around the street or sleep around with different boyfriends in return for cash ,[size=14pt] both boys and girls now are in era of no one to trust,bad boys marrying to bad girls and giving birth to bad pickin have cause an increases in boko haram type of pikins,Mend types of pikins, OPC pikins and area boys everywhere , even banker take indian hemp to work and plan on fraudulent activity[/size]

Ozegbe:

Am currently young and single. Only had 2 serious date/gf. Why i was going to work this morning i just kept pondering on this issue. Should i marry or just have maybe 2 or three kids and raise them up myself ( with help ofcourse). Now dont think am crazy, thr reason am thinking abt this is because of wats happening around me. My mum and dad got divorce wen i was 5( cant go into details) , my aunty recently got married to a guy she met in school and the guy is already tired because my aunty keep checking the his fone and messages leading to quarrel daily, for God sake the guy is banker and got friends and business associates. A man in my neighbourhood just left his house with 3 kids since a month now because he couldnt stand the woman anymore. This is just my own little story i know there arr a lot out there. I know that nobody is perfect but am thinking if the sole reason for marriage is kids, then why cant i go for the kids and dish that "marital war" called marriage. I mean be free to do watever u wanna do. I may be getting this whole idea wrong thats why am here to get more insight. Can u convince me why i should get married and not remain single. Pls dont insult me just throw more light. Thks for ur thoughtful and reasonable replys.

Mynd_44:

I believe in the same thing as the poster above me

Ozegbe:

thanks @mamalola and @hornipipe i dint force u to read it so dont call it crap. this is a forum where u interact with people about issues dat bother u. So if you have something to say just say it. thanks for your understanding

hornipipe:

itz either u marry or remain like d apostles ok, END OF THREAD NEXT!!

Ozegbe:

Should i marry or just have maybe 2 or three kids and raise them up myself ( with help ofcourse).