Hi everybody,i need ur advice,am a girl of 2oyrs.i have been out wit dis guy 4 bout 4yrs but i can count d num of times i see him within dis yrs,he barely cal me,if i dont cal,he wouldnt cal,he doesn't even cal again n i haven't seen him 4 over 8mnth,i snd txt msgs but he never replys.my prob now is that i can stop thinkin bout him,though i av oda toasters,i cant imagine myself goin out u wit any

of them cos i think am unfaithful 2 him since he hasn't call off d relationship.(am using my cousin's username).what should i do!

at 20yrs you have a long way ahead of u, you have got to be strong girl , how old is your man ? he might not truly understand or ready for your sought of commitment. a man is meant to love you & show it ,not treat you unloved, it's not right , find a time to call him and ask him to truly tell you the truth about how he feels about you let him realize how you feel about the whole situation, and use this as a wisdom "when u r in a tight corner let the other man talk , listen hard enough and you'll see the weak spot",

well at 20 yrs you are at your prime age when everything matters to you! am just 24 and have been there before honestly you will feel so chocked up and empty. what i can advice is that try as much as possible to forget him and make sure you are always occupied with your self that you wont be bored. make friends, go to parties and try and meet new fellowS.
i tell you if you don't care about him anylonger he would COME over. try and look good and be your self!
guyz are not worth dieing for BEWARE!

My guess is you're one of the few Nigerian girls who remain faithfully and hopelessly in love - which is very good [wish I had someone like that] _{* sighs wistfully *} .

You're probably scared of sitting down with him and having a heart-to-heart talk about your feelings for each other. I can assure you that this is the best way to do it. If he says he no longer loves you, it might be painful but at least he isn't going around pretending toand you'll be clear on that. You should start out by asking if you've offended him in any way before asking the "do you still love me?" question.

Finally, if he breaks your heart by admitting he no longer loves you, it helps to cry about it later if you feel like doing so [don't bottle it up]. Give yourself time -- I'm sure one of those toasters just might get lucky.

Hello guys!i am d girl that used d username Lolyd,my cousin's username.dis is mine.wanna say a big thank u 2 dos dat adviced me,u ve really saved a soul.tanx 4 ur contribution.i feel like a big load has been lifted off me.tanx

the gu-y is probably seeing some other chic you better call it quits[ i doubt it'll have any effect on him]

keep trying to get his attention

Chic,better 4get about dat home boi may be dere is a new catch out there watering him wit luv.forge ahead with woteva u r doing. But then,i can fill ur broken hrt,wow.

Jiggy101:

Chic,better forget about that home boi may be dere is a new catch out there watering him wit love.forge ahead with woteva u r doing. But then,i can fill ur broken hrt,wow.

Since its been almost 3yrs since the last post, i would think she would have forgottten about him by now.

Its a pity that you don't have something reasonable to do than to be thinking about a good for nothing guy. Sisi, wake up its already day break.