Ordinarily i hate any form of homo sexuality,infact it disgust me,till i met this girl recently online,we got talking and we realised we lived not too far 4rm each other, as usual i took it to the next level and i bleeped her,4rm my keen sense of observation i noticed she was a hardcore lesbian,i was patient till i gathered enough evidence and confronted her,she dint deny it,she was so shocked and she started crying,asking me how i knew her deep secret, ordinarily i did not plan to have any emotional attachment to dis girl but right now i am confused,i am not sure but i think i feel sometin for her,we talked recently and she promised to change her ways,please i want to know how i can talk sense into her head and make her change her ways??is it possible??what kind of things can i say to her??thanx

@Chelsea for some strange reasons i cant understand the rate of lesbianism in PH is on the steady rise, many PH guys like me not only have to guard their babes from other guys but also 4rm their fellow girls, its pathetic, i just want to convince her to give up her old ways

Try and talk to her and find out her reason for indulging in such. let her be open to u so u will know how to help her out. show her love not hate

@Chookym she gave the same old reasons,-sex with a guy hurts,a guy will sleep with her and dump her,the same reasons they keep using to confuse and recruit small girls into their dark acts

poster

you are barking up the wrong tree if you are trying to change someone's sexuality. Imagine a gay guy trying to convince you a straight man that you should be gay. How would that make you feel?
if homosexuals disgust you, i think you should dump her now before you get in too deep and then get hurt when she runs into that woman who knows how to eat her kitty.

Changing her is a futile pursuit

i totally agree with omega.

you don't choose who you feel attracted to. homosexuals have not chosen to be homosexual. and they can do nothing about it apart from pretending they're not because people expect them to be straight. you cannot convince anyone because this is not a decicion you make. either you're straight or you aren't.

Bleep her very very well . She'll come to see there's nothn as sweet as flesh

@Omega&Kambilla she wasnt born that way,she started in her all girls secondary school so why cant she change??dont tell me u believe that crap that some humans are born gays,

dadicvila:

@Chelsea for some strange reasons i cant understand the rate of lesbianism in PH is on the steady rise, many PH guys like me not only have to guard their babes from other guys but also 4rm their fellow girls, its pathetic, i just want to convince her to give up her old ways

am telling u my broda. . . .there are lots of them out there in porthacourt. . .if u see a girl on facebook probably from there you will see that her ''Interested In''

and someone wanted to know the best btw mixed sex schls and same sex schls, OP, the best you can do is to get her to stay with you for 3 months while you ring the engine constantly, as she will unconsciously forget what lesbianism was like,

What a Thread!

dadicvila:

@Omega&Kambilla she wasnt born that way,she started in her all girls secondary school so why cant she change??dont tell me u believe that crap that some humans are born gays,

This part is way bigger than you so my advice is to leave that part alone for another day as Scientist, Pastors, Common men etc have all debated that, trying to come out with a suitable answer which seems impossible. So like I said just forget it and concentrate on the girl,

If you truly believe she was introduced to it by someone, and you care and feel something for her. Then spend more time communicating with her. Find out her first time , etc Find out if she's ever been with a guy and how the relationship was, Show this girl love and compassion but not condemnation and if she was truly introduced to it by other girls, with your love and compassion you will win her over, but Do not ever Condemn her or tell her how Evil it is, forget that part of it, Wish you success

op,you cant convince her to change her sexuality.
She chose that path herself and the only person who can help her to stop towing it is herself!
Dont even start to waste your energy.
If you aint feeling her that way,walk!

slimyem:

op,you cant convince her to change her sexuality.
She chose that path herself and the only person who can help her to stop towing it is herself!
Dont even start to waste your energy.
If you aint feeling her that way,walk!

Is that you on your profile pics? If yes, you look really cute!

dadicvila:

Ordinarily i hate any form of homo sexuality,infact it disgust me,till i met this girl recently online,we got talking and we realised we lived not too far 4rm each other, as usual i took it to the next level and i bleeped her,4rm my keen sense of observation i noticed she was a hardcore lesbian,i was patient till i gathered enough evidence and confronted her,she dint deny it,she was so shocked and she started crying,asking me how i knew her deep secret, ordinarily i did not plan to have any emotional attachment to dis girl but right now i am confused,i am not sure but i think i feel sometin for her,we talked recently and she promised to change her ways,please i want to know how i can talk sense into her head and make her change her ways??is it possible??what kind of things can i say to her??thanx

huh? bro, you dont like lesssbians? are u gayy?

Lenny5000:

Is that you on your profile pics? If yes, you look really cute!

no.that isnt me.
I'd pass on the compliment.
Thanks though!

slimyem:

no.that isnt me.
I'd pass on the compliment.
Thanks though!

OP.  slimmyem is way much uglier.  She looks like Mike Tyson in Mini sket (no OOfeinsese)

I chose to married a man. It was my choice.

She is not your problem. Move on

As long as you can guarantee her an explosive cum everytime you guys screw, maybe, just maybe you stand a chance of converting her. Long shot though.

Mavor:

As long as you can guarantee her an explosive precipitate everytime you guys screw, maybe, just maybe you stand a chance of converting her. Long shot though.

Men I tire for nairaland censorship ooo. Complete rubbish, Wetin come be precipitate?

Mavor:

Men I tire for nairaland censorship ooo. Complete rubbish, Wetin come be precipitate?

Roflmao!!


@ OP

Why would you want to change a lesbian?!

I am also a lesbian, would you want to change me as well?

Kill all homos but please let the girls be.

I guess she's bi[séxual], if she's into both sexes. Inked_Nerd done said it all, you can't change one's séxual orientation but if she's really into you, she might stuck to you for a while plus the girls might be doing something right which the guys aren't doing, so you might wanna explore that too.

Lawd have mercy,Gays and atheist have infiltrated and finally taking over Nairaland, @Nerd i have heard You,4rm your comment its obvious you are a lesbian queen,spare me that crap about sexuality,its like other bad habits like stealing and smoking,if a girl really wants to stop she can,its all about personal decision and a strong will, anyway tanx 4 taking tym to bare your mind, @All tanx 4 ur insights

@Mrs. Chima I've been dogging you all o'er NL.
Those are my nuts. Kindly gimme back my nuts. Thank you.

poster if you really believe what you're saying:

then go on trying to change her. good luck to you!

@Omega&Kambilla she wasnt born that way,she started in her all girls secondary school so why cant she change??dont tell me u believe that crap that some humans are born gays,

believe whatever you want to believe. homophobia is the problem you have. i don't care who people sleep with. and I don't believe I have any influence who people feel attracted to. unlike you.

I don't think she is telling you all the truth. it's because she knows you are hostile to homosexuals. in fact, I believe she is bisexual. like it or not. but don't come crying when you discover that you're not enough for her.

and yes, I believe people were born either straight or not. of course they don't discover it in their childhood because children have no sexual desires. you discover who you feel attracted to later on. like everyone!

do you think anyone anywhere prefers to be homosexual? I don't think so. if they had a choice they would choose the easy way. being straight because then they wouldn't have to put up with the pressure society puts on them. but this is not a choice you can make. I know you will never understand it. like most people don't. I am straight but I hprefer to be tolerant and let people live their lives. it's not us to judge. it's GOD!

Oh and on @Topic, I'm not gonna comment. It's obviously clear @OP is one selfish sumbitch.

I can see that 95 percent of the replies are from unbelievers, you have forgotten what is called morality and holiness you all are saying crap about personality who cares if it hurts her with a man then she she become a sister in catholic and not marry, that settles the case, and not hide under that excuse and perform immorality that you can't come out clean with even in the USA.