La Parisienne:

My dream is to drive a Mercedes very soon and my man will definitely pick up most of the tab.

La Parisienne:

I just love the feeling of being pampered

La Parisienne:

^^^Go back and read where I said I love to work hard and earn my money. That I want him to buy me a Mercedes or anything else doesn't mean I don't make my own money, I just love the feeling of being pampered by my man. As long as I'm being reasonable and he agrees to it, that's all that matters. Your opinion makes absolutely no difference.

Jeez, stop hating. It's not my fault that my man is a gentleman and he loves taking care of me.

La Parisienne:

^^^Go back and read where I said I love to work hard and earn my money. That I want him to buy me a Mercedes or anything else doesn't mean I don't make my own money, I just love the feeling of being pampered by my man. As long as I'm being reasonable and he agrees to it, that's all that matters. Your opinion makes absolutely no difference.

Jeez, stop hating. It's not my fault that my man is a gentleman and he loves taking care of me.

joudini:

If your dream is to drive a mercedes, shouldnt your first concern be on how to strive to make it come true by yourself. Dreaming to have another person buy you something is not a dream but a wish.

Just saying but it kinda has a link to what the poster postulated.

La Parisienne:

^^^Like I said ealier, I can stand on my own so it doesn't matter if anyone will falter or not. And if my man wants to take care of me, what makes you think your opinion has any credibilty?

I know you prefer a woman that will take care of you and not the other way round, hence your craze for older independent women. Call me whatever you like, yours is worse.

La Parisienne:

^^^Go back and read where I said I love to work hard and earn my money. That I want him to buy me a Mercedes or anything else doesn't mean I don't make my own money, I just love the feeling of being pampered by my man. As long as I'm being reasonable and he agrees to it, that's all that matters. Your opinion makes absolutely no difference.

Jeez, stop hating. It's not my fault that my man is a gentleman and he loves taking care of me.

dabrake:

la parisienne, i had this female friend in my 100L i loved so much as a sister. we were close to the piont that people thought we were dating. i had guys approaching me then 'cause of her but . . . then, we spent alteast 10hrs daily together, i spent cash on her anyhow just to make her always happy. one day, i was in her room when i started looking for my phone. i collected hers to dial my number if it would ring. was so suprised when i dialled it and MAGA 6 popped up on the screen. till date, she do not know what went wrong between us . . . till date, i just cant spend money on a girl. if a girl i trusted took me for a maga(not that i had intention of dating her), how then can i spend with joy without having the feelings that my 'un-interior-motivated' spending won't give me a bad name?

sauer:

If you can stand on your own, why not do just that? Why look forward to being "pampered"? "Pampered" is the word here, and in case you don't know it's quite to the extreme of "taking care of someone". I wouldn't expect a reasonable woman to desire "pamper". Not that I have anything against you or against those who wish for such inconsiderate attention. But apparently, it's irreconcilable with reality and is at best done away with for the benefit of mutual understanding between man and wife.
Of course, I'd desire a woman who'd take care of me, just as I will her. Equal measures is the word here. But for one to do it more than the other certainly speaks less of the receiver!

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mamalola19:

op r u not an mod?
men of nl are d most dependent murder fkers
u shld help them to get out of this place n work
lots of people spend their entire day here
i wont be surprise if u r always online to
the women are
not the issue here
how do u reconcile grown men that her glued to nl
from morning to night
dt shld be ur main concern
its the easiest thing to pick on the ladies everytim
the truth is most of the nl men are spineless men
wtf how d bleep d u expect to make ego when u sit ur lazy ase on nl
this topic is fu cked up
advise ur fellow men here instead
this topic is an opportunity to let out steam
deprived murder fkers
r u not the hustler married to a white
if its u, dt explains y u r part of the lazy bones who live on nl

[quote author=mamalola19 link=topic=886364.msg10339104#msg10339104 date=1331024153]
op if u were so dependent
there would be no time to create this fu cking topic
big boys spend their time wisely
or at least on real life luxury
dt is worth the while
jobless nl men

Zilja:

? If this poster posed this question, then is it not the mentality of the Nigerian women to seek after men to take care of them? Not saying all, it must be based on the maturity level of the women or should I say "girl". What is the age group is he speaking of?

There has been several post about women in relationships for "money"  My thought is "this must be a culture thing" and not a individual thing. 

I was brought up to be independent in everything I do. I don't generally look for any man to do what I can do for myself.

Do the Nigerian women want that?

You got money; me too. . . . .  lets put it together.

Zilja:

? If this poster posed this question, then is it not the mentality of the Nigerian women to seek after men to take care of them? Not saying all, it must be based on the maturity level of the women or should I say "girl". What is the age group is he speaking of?

There has been several post about women in relationships for "money" My thought is "this must be a culture thing" and not a individual thing.

I was brought up to be independent in everything I do. I don't generally look for any man to do what I can do for myself.

Do the Nigerian women want that?

You got money; me too. . . . . lets put it together.
Complementarity, that's what love means to me