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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by MrsDot(f): 3:44pm On Dec 10, 2019
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by miraclebaby: 3:56pm On Dec 10, 2019
Limahgirl:
Good day mamas in the house. Please is bitter leaf soup safe during pregnancy. I'm in my early second trimester and a FTM. Before preggy, when I take biter leaf soup, it used to rumble my stomach. That's why I'm asking this question. I'm really craving for it, please don't ignore. Thank you.
We were told at antenatal that it's good. But in your case, since it rumbles your stomach on a normal day, you have to think twice lest it cause you diarrhoea. On another note, it's better if you cook it yourself as sometimes the way they cook it may make it react in the stomach. Be sure the cocoyam is well done and there's enough ogili in it.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Aitee1: 5:02pm On Dec 10, 2019
I came here to rant but with the kind atmosphere here let me carry my package jeje angry angry angry
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 6:26pm On Dec 10, 2019
nnekaike:
Good evening mama's.
Please is there any way of reducing weight gain during pregnancy,the way am just adding weight is too much.
The most painful aspect is the way people laugh at my weight gain,am really sad about it and it's affecting my health because am scared of eating and my ulcer pain keeps increasing.
kedu ka imere nne, let's chat,maybe I can share how I keep fit in this journey,
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 6:32pm On Dec 10, 2019
Orekegold:
Good morning mamas,

Please I had menstrual cramps with backache through out the night and my baby was kicking seriously during that period. It actually started with mild pains but it has stop now. And I'm 34weeks oh...

What could be the cause and should I run to the hospital.i'm a FTM please.
lol,guess u are January team, is just a sign that u are close, almost nine months,some call it false labor sign,so relax,still go and talk to the nurses.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by hapiness44(f): 6:40pm On Dec 10, 2019
Experienced Mamas please help me o.

I just had another small quarrel with hubby over my sudden low sex drive.

I am in week 11 and recently, I am too irritated to even allow sex, ' unfortunately' for me, boo still feels like during it almost everyday

On Saturday, we had sex, and I noticed bleeding ( not the first time, but this was very pronounced), pinkish intially and brownish later. I told him I need to start antenatal to be sure that it's ok to continue but he does not want to hear any of it.

This evening, ( I came home early from work was having serious side headache)he initiated it again and with all my body language he knew I was not in the mood. Right now he is angry and I actually feel for him. I have tried to read materials online to him but he obviously feels deprived.

How do I handle this house?.. We are just 6 months into marriage
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 6:57pm On Dec 10, 2019
tyhgfrdeswscbhf:
U can come here and jugde me as u want. I can't look down on my fellow woman predicament. Because I came from TTC thread as well, I contributed and I received alot from dat very forum. I equally know what we women are passing through everyday.


D lady in question is AS while her husband is AS too and she also complain about his sperm not been in good shape. Which I sald dat is a big problem dat she is d only person dat can advise herself. I know very well dat As and As is something serious.

Which everyone was against me and wat I said. I apologise mayb because of wrong chioce of words. I have apologise over and and over even though things are better left unsaid. if their is way I can retrieve those comments I can still do dat.


I now made up my mind that I will not comments on TTC thread again.


But for someone to come here and remind me of my mistake is wat I cannot take
if this is ur response,u said nothing wrong,and yes,As and As, unless God intervene,is bad combination, however it should not stop u from contributing when necessary,if u stop because of heat,then u are not too ready for this world lol! I have been bashed severally,will it stop me from saying something because some people feel is their right to intimidate another into silence.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 6:59pm On Dec 10, 2019
chiefboomite204:



Thanks Ma.... I heard about Lily and faith mediplex but we don't have the means... I am still hopeful here and praying as well for the bulging membrane not to rupture for now... thou I am on bed rest here and they were giving options of two to three weeks .... I don't know if my body can stay till then... And when I told them, my last menstrual cycle June 3rd ,they told me I should be 27 weeks 1 day today.... I just need prayer now and things to do to help myself for now so as for this water not to burst cos I was made to understand that cervical cerclage cannot be done again...
is well with u mama,God has answered u,just keep confessing the word of a God over ur life.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Liftedhands(f): 7:06pm On Dec 10, 2019
hapiness44:
Experienced Mamas please help me o.

I just had another small quarrel with hubby over my sudden low sex drive.

I am in week 11 and recently, I am too irritated to even allow sex, ' unfortunately' for me, boo still feels like during it almost everyday

On Saturday, we had sex, and I noticed bleeding ( not the first time, but this was very pronounced), pinkish intially and brownish later. I told him I need to start antenatal to be sure that it's ok to continue but he does not want to hear any of it.

This evening, ( I came home early from work was having serious side headache)he initiated it again and with all my body language he knew I was not in the mood. Right now he is angry and I actually feel for him. I have tried to read materials online to him but he obviously feels deprived.

How do I handle this house?.. We are just 6 months into marriage
You feel for him but those he feel for you? Anyways the low libido is normal for some in early pregnancy and can be improved with watermelon and evaporated milk solution, the bleeding is also common due to rupture of tiny blood vessels ( harmless as long as the blood flow isn't much and stops quickly). Let him know he needs to be patient with you and also put the baby into consideration. Also tell him to go slow and not rush you plus give you lots of pre-intimacy to set you in the mood and get you really wet to avoid too much friction. Your marriage is very young and I understand your husband's mindset on sex as a newly wed man. Try my recipe above and hopefully things will go smoothly from then on kiss

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 7:07pm On Dec 10, 2019
hapiness44:
Experienced Mamas please help me o.

I just had another small quarrel with hubby over my sudden low sex drive.

I am in week 11 and recently, I am too irritated to even allow sex, ' unfortunately' for me, boo still feels like during it almost everyday

On Saturday, we had sex, and I noticed bleeding ( not the first time, but this was very pronounced), pinkish intially and brownish later. I told him I need to start antenatal to be sure that it's ok to continue but he does not want to hear any of it.

This evening, ( I came home early from work was having serious side headache)he initiated it again and with all my body language he knew I was not in the mood. Right now he is angry and I actually feel for him. I have tried to read materials online to him but he obviously feels deprived.

How do I handle this house?.. We are just 6 months into marriage
lmaooo, u mean ur Heath is not ur first priority? should I call him insensitive? really I don't want to type all I have in mind,cus I might sound insulting, u better stand ur ground, wts the meaning of this crap��

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by hapiness44(f): 7:13pm On Dec 10, 2019
Liftedhands:
You feel for him but those he feel for you? Anyways the low libido is normal for some in early pregnancy and can be improved with watermelon and evaporated milk solution, the bleeding is also common due to rupture of tiny blood vessels ( harmless as long as the blood flow isn't much and stops quickly). Let him know he needs to be patient with you and also put the baby into consideration. Also tell him to go slow and not rush you plus give you lots of pre-intimacy to set you in the mood and get you really wet to avoid too much friction. Your marriage is very young and I understand your husband's mindset on sex as a newly wed man. Try my recipe above and hopefully things will go smoothly from then on kiss

Thank you Mama..
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by olabrinks(f): 7:15pm On Dec 10, 2019
Please rant oh. I like ranting it makes me feeling like I’m actually normal and I’m not going mad, something to relate to. Thanks lol
Aitee1:
I came here to rant but with the kind atmosphere here let me carry my package jeje angry angry angry

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by olabrinks(f): 7:20pm On Dec 10, 2019
I know he is being a little bit insensitive but let’s also try to put his feelings into consideration too. Men and women are not the same, men crave sex all the time. I think it’s about communication and coming to an equilibrium where both parties can atleast be okay and happy. Let’s not say because we are pregnant that we must completely disregard our spouses feelings. I also feel like she needs to see a doctor as bleeding after sex could be a medical issue.
Honeysweetest:
lmaooo, u mean ur Heath is not ur first priority? should I call him insensitive? really I don't want to type all I have in mind,cus I might sound insulting, u better stand ur ground, wts the meaning of this crap��

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Simsimz(f): 7:23pm On Dec 10, 2019
Rejoice04:


I just liked her post oh. Just reading this please I am not ready until 2021.
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Moaba(f): 7:56pm On Dec 10, 2019
Thank you. I appreciate.
hunniesuzie:
Pray, ask God for direction and wisdom to pick what is best and will play out best for you. Once you do that commit your decision into God's hands and make positive confessions.

Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by hapheey007(f): 8:31pm On Dec 10, 2019
Good evening my good people. I just stopped taking Pregnacare Original cos it's making me very sick and nauseous. Please which prenatal medicine do you suggest I switch to. I'm still in my first trimester.
Thanks.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tyhgfrdeswscbhf(f): 8:52pm On Dec 10, 2019
The way my baby move around since yesterday is so joyful


Can't believe I have started feeling something cool cool

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 9:23pm On Dec 10, 2019
olabrinks:
I know he is being a little bit insensitive but let’s also try to put his feelings into consideration too. Men and women are not the same, men crave sex all the time. I think it’s about communication and coming to an equilibrium where both parties can atleast be okay and happy. Let’s not say because we are pregnant that we must completely disregard our spouses feelings. I also feel like she needs to see a doctor as bleeding after sex could be a medical issue.
men craves sex all time,this is the reason we have many suffering women trying to risk their life just to satisfy them,I can't consider the feeling of such a man,love is all about sacrifice, tolerance,he saw his wife bleeding and he is still angry if she say no,haba!, I rather don't talk more

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by olabrinks(f): 9:33pm On Dec 10, 2019
That’s why I’m saying she needs to communicate with him so he can understand, and she also needs to understand that he has a high libido, and use patience to deal with the situation. Her bleeding is not a life and death situation ahbeg, it’s actually very common in pregnancy all she needs is slight medical attention if she is worried, I’m sure it’s nothing to be worried about. If you call it suffering all because you’re putting your partners feelings into consideration, which should be done on both ends, then I don’t know ohhh... I guess we’re all entitled to our own opinion anyways.
Honeysweetest:
men craves sex all time,this is the reason we have many suffering women trying to risk their life just to satisfy them,I can't consider the feeling of such a man,love is all about sacrifice, tolerance,he saw his wife bleeding and he is still angry if she say no,haba!, I rather don't talk more

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 9:39pm On Dec 10, 2019
is there no delete button here,I want to delete a comment,all I see is modify,quote,share.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 9:40pm On Dec 10, 2019
olabrinks:
That’s why I’m saying she needs to communicate with him so he can understand, and she also needs to understand that he has a high libido, and use patience to deal with the situation. Her bleeding is not a life and death situation ahbeg, it’s actually very common in pregnancy all she needs is slight medical attention if she is worried, I’m sure it’s nothing to be worried about. If you call it suffering all because you’re putting your partners feelings into consideration, which should be done on both ends, then I don’t know ohhh... I guess we’re all entitled to our own opinion anyways.
alright nne
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beyedew(f): 9:45pm On Dec 10, 2019
Honeysweetest:
lmaooo, u mean ur Heath is not ur first priority? should I call him insensitive? really I don't want to type all I have in mind,cus I might sound insulting, u better stand ur ground, wts the meaning of this crap��
Nne, you are talking about someone's husband oooo. O Chineke!

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tyhgfrdeswscbhf(f): 9:53pm On Dec 10, 2019
hapiness44:
Experienced Mamas please help me o.

I just had another small quarrel with hubby over my sudden low sex drive.

I am in week 11 and recently, I am too irritated to even allow sex, ' unfortunately' for me, boo still feels like during it almost everyday

On Saturday, we had sex, and I noticed bleeding ( not the first time, but this was very pronounced), pinkish intially and brownish later. I told him I need to start antenatal to be sure that it's ok to continue but he does not want to hear any of it.

This evening, ( I came home early from work was having serious side headache)he initiated it again and with all my body language he knew I was not in the mood. Right now he is angry and I actually feel for him. I have tried to read materials online to him but he obviously feels deprived.

How do I handle this house?.. We are just 6 months into marriage

If u are having bleeding right after u finish sex note dat is bad u need to quit sex for now


U hubby should understand ur point because u guys baby is in d center of d whole thing


Also there is other ways ur can satisfy ur hubby not necessarily through viginal.



Me and my hubby did not have sex for close to 3 months, because I had previous miscarriage.but I got ways to satisfy him

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Mylovelife: 9:59pm On Dec 10, 2019
Honeysweetest:
is there no delete button here,I want to delete a comment,all I see is modify,quote,share.


you cant totally delete a msg but can edit. Edit and put any symbol like a dot, then submit

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Lizme21(f): 10:20pm On Dec 10, 2019
I felt so miserable when i was taking pregnacare, from loss of appetite to bad taste etc. Why all those happened i cant say, maybe so many fakes are out there now... Cant say... I felt better when i changed to natal care by evergreen.. Ask your doctor first anyway because he sure knows what's best for you... N dont forget your folic acid... smiley

hapheey007:
Good evening my good people. I just stopped taking Pregnacare Original cos it's making me very sick and nauseous. Please which prenatal medicine do you suggest I switch to. I'm still in my first trimester.
Thanks.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by olabrinks(f): 10:29pm On Dec 10, 2019
YeH I think this is better instead of totally disregarding her hubby and putting him to one side. At least she can do that and still get the medical attention she needs without distractions. It’s all about coming to the middle where both people can be happy.
tyhgfrdeswscbhf:


If u are having bleeding right after u finish sex note dat it bad u need to quit sex for now


U hubby should understand ur point because u guys baby is in d center of d whole thing


Also there is other ways ur can satisfy ur hubby not necessarily through viginal.



Me and my hubby did not have sex for close to 3 months, because I had previous miscarriage.but I got ways to satisfy him

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by humbleme99(f): 12:01am On Dec 11, 2019
hapiness44:
Experienced Mamas please help me o.

I just had another small quarrel with hubby over my sudden low sex drive.

I am in week 11 and recently, I am too irritated to even allow sex, ' unfortunately' for me, boo still feels like during it almost everyday

On Saturday, we had sex, and I noticed bleeding ( not the first time, but this was very pronounced), pinkish intially and brownish later. I told him I need to start antenatal to be sure that it's ok to continue but he does not want to hear any of it.

This evening, ( I came home early from work was having serious side headache)he initiated it again and with all my body language he knew I was not in the mood. Right now he is angry and I actually feel for him. I have tried to read materials online to him but he obviously feels deprived.

How do I handle this house?.. We are just 6 months into marriage
to my little understanding, I don't think you should take this bleeding like a joke. I learnt a lesson from my first pregnancy. I was constantly bleeding after sex. Hubby was assuring me that all was fine but I knew he was saying that so he could continue to enjoy his thing in peace. To cut the long story short. I finally dragged myself to the hospital after almost two weeks of bleeding after sex. The doc was angry that I stayed that long. And the scan result showed threatened miscarriage. My dear, it took a lot of prayers and medications to save my angel. Today she is two years old. Although I do not wish such for you my dear but try and go the the hospital. You shall carry to term and give birth like a Hebrew woman. Amen

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 4:09am On Dec 11, 2019
Mylovelife:


you cant totally delete a msg but can edit. Edit and put any symbol like a dot, then submit
tns alot dear
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 4:11am On Dec 11, 2019
beyedew:

Nne, you are talking about someone's husband oooo. O Chineke!
is nothing really
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by chiefboomite204(f): 6:20am On Dec 11, 2019
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