the question is do u want to marry him cos if so, ur pastor is not obligated to deny both of u saying healing must come first. its not biblical nor is it godly. if the church is the issue go to another church or do court and traditional wedding.
both of u have to decide if u want eachother regardless of the health issues and go to God in prayers. don't reveal his status to anybody not even his family. its not necessary and no good can come from it

jaz: the question is do u want to marry him cos if so, ur pastor is not obligated to deny both of u saying healing must come first. its not biblical nor is it godly. if the church is the issue go to another church or do court and traditional wedding.
both of u have to decide if u want eachother regardless of the health issues and go to God in prayers. don't reveal his status to anybody not even his family. its not necessary and no good can come from it

Thanks.

Just be sure you're not marrying him out of pity, or because you feel sorry for him. Marriage is not by obligation; it's a choice to be freely made. A broken engagement is far better than a broken marriage. If you decide you truly still want him and trust him enough to spend the rest of your life with him, fine; go ahead. If in your heart of hearts you just know it's not what you want, there'll be someone else perfect for him. Don't be afraid to walk away.

lareine:


He gives them a date. And the date elapses and he gives another. Sometimes he refers them to me. Yea I'm not obligated to wait but I feel for him too. And won't it be like I never loved him if I leave?

Keeping such a status hidden for that long was deceitful to me.
Make sure you don't marry him out of pity.I think the family should know too.

PurestBoy:
When they told you to stop shagging you refused to listen...Now see where it ends now.

thats harsh