SAFO: Nothing wrong with flirting unless it gets outta hand and you can't control it.

Jus like when u shayo, do it in moderation.

OP

Get a guy from Ireland or Germany, they are are good flirt buddies.

Are y'all still arguing in this day and age?

That is so yesterday. If someone doesn't agree with your point of view
just pull out your gun and silence him/her FOREVER

Ask Texans for advice. They have perfected the ART.

@OP, going by your earlier topic, seems like you're sex-starved or you
simply like the thing too much. Just wait out the six months or get a
intimacy gadget, but don't go cheating on your hubby.

@OP: shame on ur akamu head. first of all, marriage is for young ladies, not GIRLS. secondly, escaping or hiding from marital dispute by flirting is like using a fire extinguisher charged with petrol! Thirdly, theres no such thing as harmless flirting...it usually progresses to cheating. you dont have to believe me, but in case u decide to go ahead, be my guest ewu!

MLS12: Hi NL. I am a married young girl. I would like to have a divided attention like flirting online to ease the tension in my home each time me and my hubby has a misunderstanding.

I'm a married bachelor and I'm sometimes bored. So I need some1 to interact with online

If you decides to dance with the devil,you must be prepared for his dance steps.

I can mke it more interestin if u wnt.Dere's no harm in havin fun out of it,interestd let me knw.[color=#990000][/color]

Flirt wit me na! Yeye girl as if dats d way to cool tension in marriage

oluks05: Flirt wit me na! Yeye girl as if dats d way to cool tension in marriage

I don't know y u guyz r being hard on da gurl. yes she is totally wrong but atleast she came out nd said it. some ppl harbor things like this in mind nd go tru wit it. she came on here asking for opinion nd everyone iz throwing stones at her. i bet the ones throwing stones have done worst nd still have the audacity to say something negative. if u r goin to give advice then give it with respect and love. bcuz none of ya'll r purfect. mschewwwwwwww!

MLS12: Hi NL. I am a married young girl. I would like to have a divided attention like flirting online to ease the tension in my home each time me and my hubby has a misunderstanding.

Be careful though!

I'm a married bachelor and I'm
sometimes bored. So I need some1 to
interact with online

I agree that it's wrong to just go spanking her for having such thoughts, but i also admit that crucifixtion is the first thing that comes to mind when one is confronted with a case like this.

A married woman trying to flirt is like trouble wey dey sleep iyanga go wake am. Be warned!!!

Hmmmm! please note that the men who flirt online are experts. It's just a matter of time before they get their hands on your thighs then beyond. Your innocent flirt would meet a desperate pervert lurking online to mess up your mind and your life.

In summary - if you like your self dont even start.

pls flirt with me, we can both quench the fire when it breaks out

Mrs.Chima:
OP

Get a guy from Ireland or Germany, they are are good flirt buddies.

Akata
Tell me you have bedded them all

you are a disgrace to ur family. why marry in the first place. you must be cheating ur husband b4.

why did you call it flirt instead of cheat.

You can't eat your cake and have it.

i know your intentions are good but there are many other ways to deal with the situation. I am a doctor and i counsel married folks all the time, its about conflict resolution. I can teach you how to mange conflicts.

@ op put urself in ur husband's shoes. wat if u catch him doing the same(flirting online wit other ladies), how would u feel? i think u r not interestd in ur marriage or probably bored cos if u were busy managing the home and being a good wife. u wouldnt think of flirt. get busy my dear.

the fear of God is the begining of wisdom . flee fornication and adultery , cos it is what comes out of a mans heart and express tro the mouth that makes him or her unholy .
u are lucky to get marry act like a virteous woman,who helps in buiding her home because habit is easy to form but hard to break.
Finally be warned"u cannot servd 2masters at a time "
use ur common sense b4 it bkoms 2late and a part of u.
take k of ur only God given husband,feel free to communicate ur feelings,tots and emotions wit him.
and the devil (flirting spirit)wil flee

i think we should stop being judges and be less critical of what she is saying
most people use nairaland or all other social network as a form of distraction and that's why some remain anonymous.
it gives you an opportunity to express yourself and get advice without really exposing who you are and so what happens in your home remains private to even your closest friends.

I am married and have a relative who has been married for 10yrs yet her husband has slept with her less than 30times (not exaggerating). she is so bottled up and i advised her to start blogging in an anonymous name so people can share their experience and offer solutions which she can choose to listen to or not.

The key thing in marriage or all aspects of life is to fear God, that way no matter what or how close you get to people, you wont cheat. it takes a lot of discipline though.

I practiced flirting( actually i mean being close to the opposite sex and sharing issues with them) for years before marriage without cheating on my girl friend. now that we are married i don't see myself falling because i fear God not just because i love her.

So to flirt(sometimes we need this distractions) you must be disciplined and fear God.

concentrate on giving her good advice and not insults, so her life can be better

zignor: you are a disgrace to ur family. why marry in the first place. you must be cheating ur husband b4.

why did you call it flirt instead of cheat.

you are terrible and if a woman would make a bad mother(i may be wrong) cos you are not critical and see things from one view, yours alone
its only when people express themselves that you know what they are going through and advice else you would never know their thoughts and its only the actions you would see when it is too late to do anything about it.

instead of wasting your time flirting online,why not use it to work & improve your grammar. U are just a cheap LovePeddler looking for dikS online.

adabeke12:

I don't know y u guyz r being hard on da gurl. yes she is totally wrong but atleast she came out nd said it. some ppl harbor things like this in mind nd go tru wit it. she came on here asking for opinion nd everyone iz throwing stones at her. i bet the ones throwing stones have done worst nd still have the audacity to say something negative. if u r goin to give advice then give it with respect and love. bcuz none of ya'll r purfect. mschewwwwwwww!

she didn,t ask 4 opinion
https://www.nairaland.com/newpost?topic=902587&post=10488635

IYA NGBALI: instead of wasting your time flirting online,why not use it to work & improve your grammar. U are just a cheap LovePeddler looking for dikS online.

Did u say grammar?u re so funny.so u tink u speak well.one or 2 typing errors is wat u re pointing at.

^^ ma'am
v u decided on wat u wanna do?

Dyt: ^^ ma'am
v u decided on wat u wanna do?

Hw can I decide?when 95% of dem re rainin insults on me.

cmon
i understand ur plight so well cos v bn dere
jst ignore d insults
pick d ones u find valuable
n den weigh it wit wat u had on mind
n den c if truly u can do it
d choice s all urs

breezy047:

Akata
Tell me you have bedded them all

Not yet Malaria ape, they are waiting on your tender arse. Mick said he owes you N20, cheap ho.

dont start a fire you cant put out!

Mrs.Chima:
OP

Get a guy from Ireland or Germany, they are are good flirt buddies.

So Mrs. Chima with all ya holy holy na de advise wey you fit give small pickin be dis ... Na wah oooo

zignor: you are a disgrace to ur family. why marry in the first place. you must be cheating ur husband b4.

why did you call it flirt instead of cheat.

If I was cheatin B4,y do u tink I would come 2 nairaland for opinions.mind you am one of d most beautiful girls in my dept in sch,dis is my 6th year(final year)so if I wanted 2 cheat I would ve slept wit a thousand guys.Do u read well?pls read over my posts again,and 4ur question,I love my hubby dats y I got married