TisaBone: There is this man that I am extremely interested in. I respected him, because he was able to bring himself out of the gutter, and free himself from the bondage of crime and jail and has become a successful businessman. He has a lot of ambition and drive, which I love , [size=14pt]as well as this magnetic power emanating from him[/size]. The attraction was definitely mutual.

Babzz:

Is that what you think a wife is? Mrs. Chima sounds like she never wants to get married.......

Mrs.Chima:


Thats a very good question.

Both groups are being bleeped/used by a doggish male-ho.

musawisdom: Walk away. Final answer, no 50-50, no fone-a friend

TisaBone:


Who cares that I'm talking about them? It's not as though they'll ever read it so what's the big deal? For all you know, they could have done horrible things to me,has it ever occurred to you that maybe they are bad people, and IM not the bad guy here? I get tired of people like you. You don't like me, you must come to my thread and tell me what you think of me? Don't respond to me at all then. Don't talk to me at all. LEAVE ME ALONE.

Secondly, there is a difference between thinking you are better than someone and knowing that a person is not on your level. A pauper and a rich man can't be friends. it will never work. the pauper will only bring the rich man down into the gutter with him/her. Now helping a person is another story. It is my christian duty to help, but I refuse to help someone who will not help themselves, so let them stay where they are at, which is at the bottom. Any person of substance will tell you the same thing. You have to surround yourself with like minded people. A Buddhist monk isn't going to hang around a den of thieves now will he?

Which brings me to my last point. yes I am on the forum seeking help, and I am listening, but i'm not going to take advice fro m someone who appears to be a profligate rake and libertine. At least that is how he has fashioned his internet persona. Do expect me to not comment on what I have observed?

jason2010: This sounds like some American type 5hit. Most niger guys in Nigeria do not have baby mamas (without being married) all over the place like that.

TisaBone: [quote author=TisaBone]you guys act like its some sort of sin to be attracted to someone. I am a woman mind you, with desires like any other woman. the key is, with God's assistance, I can and will control them. Also, what makes you think that I would ever allow myself to be alone with him?

TisaBone: you just want me to fail so you can say "i told you so",

TisaBone: which does nothing but give me the strength to push even harder, and fight with renewed vigor to do what it is that I say I will do.

TisaBone:

do you think being a Christian means I'm perfect? It means I'm trying to become a better person. and if you knew the 411 on my family, you would be thinking [i]them [/i]the bad people. I am working of forgiveness but it's a day to day struggle.needless to say, it doesn't matter what you think or don't think of me. kick rocks if you don't like what I have to say.



No, I don't enjoy heartache. That's why I'm reaching out to people for help on as what to do. it's a shame, but I don't trust the advice of my family.


and we are just in the friendship stage, because of course i have reasons to be wary. I have been praying on this, and I don't want to dismiss him as of yet because we all fall short of the glory of god. I want to get to know him a little more to see what he thinks of his past actions, and whether he is learning from his mistakes or not. not one of you on this forum is sinless or without fault! I know I'm not, and I'm woman enough to admit that.

Theblessed: [size=16pt][b] Terrible, Terrible, Terribl Mistake!

Young lady, if I were you, I'd do a BEN JOHNSON NOW, before it is too late and tears starts rolling down those beautiful cheeks!!! Please, please and please leave a sleeping dog alone to sleep jeje, jeje, jeje!!

Your infactuation with a married man will wear off soon and your eyes will open when he has finished damaging you as he'd damaged the other 3 women! And you want to be counted among his messed up conquests, do you??
Good luck, since you don't know what to do with you young life and great future ahead of you!

Well, before I give you a little piece of my heart let me ask - Have you a mother? Is your mother still alive and what did she say about all these?

Seems you hadn't told her yet! Obviously, she doesn't know or does she?? Please, listen to her - no one would love you more and better and take care of your interests, than your own MOTHER! Hmmmmmm!

Right, let's get down to business!

You want to entangle yourself in this messed up baggage, sorry!

This is a man that has HISTORY WITH WOMEN! Not one, not two, not three and now, you want to join the boat - WELCOME ON BOARD!!!! Terrible! Terrible! Get me right we all have history but this one is, endemic!!!!!

Young lady, if I were you, I'd leave a sleeping dog alone to sleep jejejejejeje!!

Yes, I said your infactuation will soon wear off and your eyes will open when he has finished damaging you as he did the other 2 loosers! I don't want to include the first woman in his life because hers seemed a real love for him - but the other two, saw what they thought is money, and comfortable life thus, dived with their heads first in and where are they, now?

As for you, what did you see and what are you getting out of this mess - CHAFFS!!! You pride yourself in eating left overs, do you? You're getting a someones LEFT-OVER, three times (LEFT-OVER X 3!!!)- gorit

And you want to join the excitement - to be counted among his messed up conquests. Good luck, since you don't know what to do with your young live and great future ahead of you.

Listen, look for someone of your own age or there about who has potential and, whom you can work together to create and build your own THREE TOWERS OF NEWYORK, ok! That's what you should be doing and not waiting for someone else's LEFT-OVER! So, stop looking for ready made because, it comes with a price!!

Imagine this Lothario has left these three women holding the babies and you think you won't be next In your dreams!

And you're here telling us what a good father he is, really So, what a child need from his father is Christmas presents only, abi?? Who does the school run, who does the hospital run and who cooks the meals puts them to bed at night, who deals with all the childhood night sicknesses etc, eh? Yoooooouu!!!

Shouldn't he be supporting their mothers with these needs? Look, his children need him 24/7 ok! You don't need him and certainly, he doesn't need you either - so tell him to go back to his children and be a proper father to them! DO IT, NOW!!

Obviously, he can't be doing all the above and more for all his children scattered all over the world with these 3 women when he's on top of you at night, would he??

Young lady, do a BEN JOHNSON now, before its too late for you !!!

Imagine, you want to ruin your life - to entangle yourself in this messed up baggage, sorry!

This is a man that has HISTORY WITH WOMEN! Not one, not two, not three and now, you want to join the boat - WELCOME ON BOARD!!!!

Excuse me, you think a leopard would change its spots for you Thinkc again!!! Abi, your own got DIAMONDS decorated around it?? Your eye will clear soon when he gets his claws on you - you will know.

Since, you're confused with his black magic charms that is holding you in bondage thus, not only making you blind and deaf but making you hate your own blood and flesh for voicing out serious concerns about this demon - it has also, made you believe he loves you and don't love the 3 Exes he left behind, let's believe that!

You sound educated but lack logical thinking to analyse the motives of this old wretch who wants to destroy another young heart for his own ego! In your mind, he's told you all the truth you need isn't it? Well, they say, 'there are 2 sides to every story' and you've only heard one so, you haven't really heard the truth from him - you're yet to discover your shock!

As educated as you seem, you do not sound as smart! Why not make enquries with his former beaus? Befriend them, take them out one by one - move smart! Then, you'd discover the truth about this LIAR! Obviously, all the three women can not lie about him. Failing that, set him up with a Private Investigation Firm and they'd screw his a r s e for you, do it now! They will check him up, right down to his village!

You see, they say 'To catch a thief use a thief' is a true saying therefore, to deal with a criminal, you not only use a criminal but you think like a criminal too - that's what I say! So, be smart!! Check him up!
He is a user, it seems perhaps, he's used those three women, to get his right of abode and other things in the West and where ever you met him and now he's got a base he's launching other motives.

Please listen, I don't know you but I am really angry with you - I don't want to hear/read anymore here, I just want you to do a serious BEN JOHNSON out of the claws of that messenger of satan's life right now - immediately now!

I don't know where you're writing from - but from the sound of things, it seems you're writing from the West. You see, many of these messengers of satan prowl around with black magic (juju) breaking into peoples lives and destroying it - taking what they want, which they did not work for and leave!! The Lord will destroy them one by by one - where could they run from his presence - no where!!

As a child of God you should not be messing with such a man - yes, everyone is a sinner and people try to repent from their sins by completely giving their lives to Jesus Christ and the apple of your eyes is yet to do so...when will he do it, in hell? He's a hard core and unrepentant criminal!!

In London, there are many of these evil men prowling about destroying families - lazy a r s e holes who do not want to work hard to raise the families they created instead, ride on other peoples back to do so - God would damn them, all!

Look around the mess he'd already made - three families have been broken and destroyed - children have been left abandoned with their mothers and their mothers families, left picking up the pieces he left behind as if that's not enough and now, he's moved on to you - you are his next conquest! Sorry for you, if you don't run away from this evil man! Come out of this emotional evil soul-tie now!

These evil men, are lurking about with charms that they use to mess up young girls, turn them against their family and then, devour them. You have to be a very strong Christian with Faith in God for it not to have effect on you!

Also, these evil men larch on Adult Laws - once you turn 18yrs of age - you can do what you want and parents have no more authority over you so, they larch on that law to destroy many young girls. But then, where do these young girls run to, in the aftermath? Obviously, to their families whom they rejected, abused and sold out in the first place. Shame really, shame!!!

Listen, if you don't get yourself out of this dangerous man's hand now, in the end you will leak the a r s e s of your Auntie and Cousin who are advising you, based on their knowledge, pain and experiences of such evil men yet, you are adamant and have the gut to curse them on their own mistakes which they are trying to prevent you from making but you're not seeing/hearing that - you'll learn!

Please, stop analysing the mistake of your Auntie and Cousin and focus on your life/future, and what you would do to stop/break this chain of mistakes women in your family make with men - that's what you should be doing and not checking whose own life is crocked and not working/progressing well in your family!

I leave you to it now - Good luck with your bounteous catch!

Hope it doesn't end up in tears just as the other three, sure their mothers did warn them and they knew it all, didn't they! [/b][/size]

davidylan:

this is a very silly post. The man has 4 kids from 3 different women. By the time he has finished paying child support what would be left for you and your own kids? My dear, you are too young to settle for someone else's sloppy seconds. Find your own man.