my friend,s fiancee who is 37 is pressurising him to marry her by next month èven though he has no money.i am proud to say i have been feeding this my friend for almost 2 years now n his fiancee is asking him to go for a bank loan to marry her.she sells akara and my friend is unemployed now.advice!!

Dis is super storyyyy...

Good investment. should take the loan. . .in no time profits 'll be rolling in.

Colateral- wife 2 be??

guy......if u need help, ask, stop using ur friend 2 bobo som pple.

take my friendly advise: (blank)

How can u friend get a loan when u said he is not working. Don't play with our mind here we re 2 old for ur noncense.

Joke section that way -------------------->

Why the hell would you go for a bank loan to marry a woman!....
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If u can't afford her! Seek for cheaper ones.... They are everywhere!

Marriage is a liability so it will be unwise to rent a loan in the bank.

Yes

Havent you heard of 'buy now pay later'

Dont come back and tell us your marriage is over even before it started!!!

Be wise!

bin gbagbo: my friend,s fiancee who is 37 is pressurising him to marry her by next month èven though he has no money.i am proud to say i have been feeding this my friend for almost 2 years now n his fiancee is asking him to go for a bank loan to marry her.she sells akara and my friend is unemployed now.advice!!

Taking a loan is like digging a hole to cover another hole. If someone can't afford the wherewithal for marriage, i wonder how he'll put food on the table thereafter.

my friend is still not coninced and wants to take the loan.

how does an unemployed person intend to take a long

I read the post then went up to check the OP's id. I saw it was bin gbagbo and i was like mtcheeeeeeew!

Who ever does that is a mad person.

i pitty u. if u want to do ur wedding, u dont need to spend all u have to do a day wedding. plan more for ur marriage not on wedding. marriage is for ever, while wedding is just for a day. do ur wedding with what u have. dont expect anything from anybody. u can take a little loan if u dont have money, but make sure u dont take heavy loan just for wedding. 150 to 200k should be enough for a wedding, anything morethan that, is a waste

Hahahahaahha oyo na ur third name oga bachelor. infact u are playing with Sanusi Lamido lol.

Must u get married? Why not just hang out with her as long as it takes? Marraige is just title,it has not to do with a cordial relationship

how do you intend to pay it back? By selling babies?

Na wa ooo

Even if u take the loan what will a jobless man use as collateral??

For you to ask this question that means you already know the answer. So after the wedding are they going to move into the Hall they used for the event? Will there be enough food left to feed them for the next 2 yrs after everyone has gone to their various HOMES? She must have to sell a lot more akara to pay off the loan o...... unless the new husband doesnt mind if she enters the streets and start hustling... GOOD LUCK.......

The lady is selling Akara and yur friend is unemployed.(Akuko Uwa)

Even Dust bin materials now make it to the home page,yipeee!

Na person wey no know the OP go contribute meaningfully to this thread,mstcheew.

Akara
You nnko??

rakumiii: For you to ask this question that means you already know the answer. So after the wedding are they going to move into the Hall they used for the event? Will there be enough food left to feed them for the next 2 yrs after everyone has gone to their various HOMES? She must have to sell a lot more akara to pay off the loan o...... unless the new husband doesnt mind if she enters the streets and start hustling... GOOD LUCK.......

They can have a very small marriage
You don't get into debt for marriage
Marriage is about happiness, not how big the marriage party was

daylae: Good investment. should take the loan. . .in no time profits 'll be rolling in.

Dude you sound like investment banker
The profit that will star rolling in are the kids, TOTO and unhappy home?

Of course he can if he as means (security, job, salary) of paying back with the interest as at agreed time, but it is not a wise decision except been pushed to the wall and when the marriage is planned n too late to call off, even at that. But if u must take a loan, it should be on your own personal conviction and willingness and not because somebody force you to?

This is madness of the highest order

Am guessing their IBO abi? Cos dir d only tribe who mke it mandatory to waste money in d name of marriage....

Better go to a registry n do what u want to do n move on wit ur life!