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Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 12:41pm On May 14, 2006 |
Old Glory: You better dont believe in that document. People that have $60,000 in Eastern Europe is countable! Since they allow them to join Europe, they have flocked every nooks and cranies of United Kingdom. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by OldGlory1(m): 2:31pm On May 14, 2006 |
Akolawale How then are they getting here? You make some outrageous statements sometimes. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 8:13pm On May 14, 2006 |
Old Glory: Oga, don't be angry with me o, "pele ma binu" I thought you say in your post #85 that i came to this thread to seek popularity. "Twinkle It is obvious that he does not know about the UK, and was just hoping to get some attention which he has now received. You should notice how quiet he has been since his last post. I am still hoping to hear how he explains this one. " Which one of my statements is Outrageous? |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by sage(m): 8:37pm On May 14, 2006 |
I dont know 4 u guyz anyway, but i am enjoying like here in the U.S. Those who want fuffilled life in Naija can stick there. When i am not in school I make money here many more times than bankers in Naija who stay from 7am to 10pm on there jobs and drive bank cars and get bank money in order to pay 4 their rent. @ Kola, going abroad is not madness. I think its a reflection of what is currently obtainable in both places. I beg to differ when u say that life abroad is not really better. From personal experience, it is and resoundingly so. I will be the first though to tell anybody that is really really comfortable in Naija not to leave if he does not have all his stuff straight. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 3:11pm On May 15, 2006 |
sage: I came to this thread to just comment and go, Sports is my area of speciality, but to my suprise he was accusing me of NOT knowing UK, and that i am seeking popularity. I wonder for him! One of the things that drive me mad is misinformation, an Elderly man in my Church was talking to few people after the service lamenting on the poor pay of Nigerian Professors, he said they earn #10,000 as Salary, i was mad because this is pure misinformation, i disregard yoruba culture of respect and told him that its not true. I hate such thing. Now back to you, I am not saying "Life is not better", i said "Life is not really better". Two simple question sir: 1) Who told you they take loan to pay rent? 2) It may be true that you were well paid but how much is your overhead per month? Please calculate the percentage. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by OldGlory1(m): 5:18pm On May 15, 2006 |
Akolowale You do Ibadan, and i will do Chocolate City. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by bigbumper(f): 9:10pm On May 15, 2006 |
The high influx of people of Eastern European into the UK, is simply due to the fact that they can earn in one month on minimum wage, what would take them around eight months in their country. People don't pay[/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][/color][color=#990000][color=#990000][/color] $45,000 or $60,000 or whatever upfront, it's like when you go to places like Republic of Benin or Togo to procure an house help for a paltry sum, the only difference is that these gangmaster ship your child to work abroad in brothels and the like, and seize these girl's travel document in the process and threaten the girls and their family and charge them these exhorbitant figures, meaning that these girls have to work for ther rest of their life to pay off these debt (just like those girls shipped from Nigeria to Italy). Call it what you like but an escort who works for such gangmasters would be lucky if they smell £30 per day out of the £150 plus an hour that their client forks out to their housemother, it is only those escort who don't have a tag around their neck and work for "reputable" escort agencies that can command such large amount. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by sage(m): 9:29pm On May 15, 2006 |
@ Kola 1 No itz allowances. 2 Well during the summer months, at the end at least il have a cool $3,500 -$4000 ( i am talking about what i saved) in the bank for a period of 3 months as a student. Now thats more than 500,000, much more than a full time worker would get in 6 months, not to talk of a student. If the guyz in the telecom industry and banks in naija can work for over 12 hrs a day just to earn 1/3 of what i, a student can earn in my holidays, i dont think il ever complain of working my ass off since i work about the same amount of hrs that they do. But truth be told, even though its a lot better, if u are illegal, u are in for a hot bath |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by OldGlory1(m): 9:58pm On May 15, 2006 |
Sage You are right. If you Illegal here, it is a whole new ball game. But even Illegal immigrants are willing to leave their countries to come over here and try their luck Illegals Include many thousand of Nigerians, Ghanaians, Mexicans,Ethiopians ETC. There are about 11-20Million Illegal Aliens in the USA today(Bear Sterns). Bush has a big speech tonight, let us hear what he has to say about the Bill in congress right now. Sage you are exactly right though! Sage $4000 = Naira 600,000. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 12:28am On May 16, 2006 |
Old Glory: Ibadan I wont say anything now. sage: Thank you, people with Visitors visa BEWAREEEEEEEE! sage: $4000 during the summer months of about 3 months abi? Definitely, that must be a full-time work. I believe, in the western countries, foreign student are not allowed to work full-time during term-time. Now, out of your $4k: 1) How much is your Gas and electricity bill; 2) How much is your bus/Train pass? 3) How much is your rent within that period? I am not saying Abroad is not better, overhead nko? |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 12:31am On May 16, 2006 |
big_bumper: American man call it $2000 a day. Imagine! |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by OldGlory1(m): 1:24am On May 16, 2006 |
Akolowale You are too funny. Big bumber lives in the UK right? You are truly a unique character. By the way, Sage said he would have $4000 in his account after 3 months. That i am sure, if you read it means he would have paid his bills already. I guess you must be living in a "Bubble". When you have money in your account, it means you must have paid your taxes. But i guess he will have to email his bank account statements to you. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 2:15am On May 16, 2006 |
Old Glory: I get BB right. Dont speak for sage. £30 in UK but $2000 in United States na wa o. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by OldGlory1(m): 3:17am On May 16, 2006 |
Kola We are going in Circles. I will have to say that i am not going to change your mind and vice versa. So i guess this is it for me. Peace! |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by bigbumper(f): 4:32pm On May 16, 2006 |
@loverbwoy You misquoted me claiming I said everyone lives on minimum wage and then try to justify your point with your friend who earns a paltry £8.50 per hour as an "alabaru" The topic is "Is life REALLY better abroad"? NOT "Is life better abroad"? The answer to the former is HELL NO, while the answer to the latter is YES, EVENTUALLY. You are the one who needs to take more than a cursory look at the topic. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by LoverBwoy(m): 5:06pm On May 16, 2006 |
I agree i went off topic for a bit i didnt misquote u!! just emphasising not everyone is doing minimum wage [sub]£8.50 n hour for a student is not paltry!!! he is not a proffessional worker he is meant to be studying[sub](23yrs) but he is working full time[/sub][/sub] to add to that- being able to work however "paltry" the wages are -lessen the burden of the parent Anyways let others in on this topic -im done If life is really better in nigeria people should stay and if life is better or really better abroad,,,,,,,, |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by LoverBwoy(m): 8:14pm On May 16, 2006 |
David posted this at the initial stage no one seem to care This is "life" in Nigeria |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by bigbumper(f): 9:21pm On May 16, 2006 |
@loverboy I didnt misquote u!! just emphasising not everyone is doing minimum wage If that is not misquoting, I never said everyone WAS on minimum wage so there is no need for you to emphasise JACKSHIT. £8.50 n hour for a student is not paltry!!! he is not a proffessional worker he is meant to be studying[sub](23yrs) but he is working full time[/sub] WHATEVER!!! NA you sabi. One minute he doesn't have papers, the next he's meant to be studying to add to that- being able to work however "paltry" the wages are -lessen the burden of the parent I never meant paltry in that term, and contrary to lessening the burden of his parent, like most cases, he probably is the breadwinner of his family, and has to send part of his wages home, increasing his own burden, which in most cases, makes life not really better abroad. I agree i went off topic for a bit Anyways let others in on this topic -im done My dear, I did not even realise you went off topic, my bone of contention with you WAS that you butted in, misquoted me and then still could not get it through your head that i was not addressing you If life is really better in nigeria people should stay and if life is better or really better abroad,,,,,,, That should probably have been your only contribution to this topic, instead of nitpicking,,, END OF,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 9:23pm On May 16, 2006 |
big_bumper: Thanks for enlightening them @Loverbwouy What are you pointing at? |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 9:29pm On May 16, 2006 |
big_bumper: I noticed the lapses, i jost ignored it for peace. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by LoverBwoy(m): 9:32pm On May 16, 2006 |
well he can't keep up with the fees !! do i have to go into details! if u read the previous post i mentioned his papers aint straight!! @Loverbwouy the opposite of what your pointing at obviously! |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 9:46pm On May 16, 2006 |
LoverBwoy: Go into the details, we are here but dont mention the name. This is not witch-hunting, quite a lot of people are enjoying our argument. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 9:54pm On May 16, 2006 |
So you are complainning about Naija's health system. Yes, Uk's NHS is better than naija. I agree 100% But Nigeria's Doctor are far better. Nigerian doctors dont need to read up book in the presence of Patient before prescribing drugs. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by sage(m): 11:07pm On May 16, 2006 |
@Kola The total that i make (esp from internships) about $6000. With housing already provided u can save up to $4000 or more in those 3 months. If i compare it to the days that i was in the University in Naija, il ask myself if i ever saved anything near 30,000 during the holidays not to talk of 600,000. I had to be dependent on my parents. Here after 2 summers of work, u can have ur car fully paid for and itz urs, no parents money in it and guess what------ u might not even be 22yrs yet. If girls in NNaija Unis had 1/10 the opportunities available here, the Aristo maintality would go down. N/B The amount recieved for Internships and Summer jobs differ so it all depends. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by sage(m): 11:35pm On May 16, 2006 |
Il relate one of the experiences that i had the first day i came into the U.S to illustrate the grave difference @ Kola U once told me u saw a pothole in France. I can bet u its no longer there(at least that particular one). If u drive on the roads of eastern nigeria, and come back 5 years later, the potholes u saw b/4 are guaranteed to be deathtraps. When i first stepped into a luxurious Bus in the U.S, i sat besides a Nigerian. When the bus started moving, i asked the guy why the hell there was no policemen on the bus even though we were not searched b/4 we got in. I asked him what they would do if they encountred highway robbers. Guess what? The guy almost fell out of his seat laughing. He asked.do you think u are still in naija? Here people travel for five days on the road with ABSOLUTE peace of mind. That particular day i didnot believe it and my mind was not at rest mainly because i had all my money with me, IMAGINE TRAVELLING IN LUXURIOUS BUSES DAY AFTER DAY IN NAIJA WITHOUT THE THREAT OF HIGHWAY ROBBERS KILLING AND MAIMING PEOPLE. IMAGINE TRAVELLING FROM LAGOS TO MAIDUGIRI THEN TO SOKOTO AND THEN TO PH ON CLEAR 4-6 WAY LANES THAT ARE LOVELY AND SMOOTH. THIS IS ONE OF THE THINGS I LOVE ABOUT THE WEST UNDOUBTEDLY I once travelled to the Northeast (Boston side) here and encountred one or two potholes when i was going, guess what? on my return trip, it had been taken care off. Potholes are not allowed to enlarge here. Kola, we can outline the issues one by one and in almost everything, th west is way better, and resoundingly so |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by sage(m): 12:04am On May 17, 2006 |
Nigeria can only be classified as a third world country for the following reasons. 1. Mains electricity supplies are erratic or non-existent in most parts of the country. 2. There has never been provision for any form of social security, unemployment or retirement benefits to most Nigerian citizens. 3. The streets are strewn with mountains of trash in most major Nigerian cities as municipal trash collection is effectively non-existent. 4. It is possible to break the law and sometimes even get away with murder simply by bribing the Nigerian Police. 5. The innocent often wind up in jail or get summarily shot for failure to bribe Nigerian policemen. 6. Armed robbers very commonly lay siege on residential neigborhoods FOR HOURS AT A TIME in many Nigerian cities, without police response. 7. Federal and state highways in Nigeria are pock-marked with massive craters that constitute death traps to motorists. 8. Nigerian state-run hospitals are under-funded, under-staffed, housed in run-down buildings and lacking both equipment and reliably safe pharmaceutical drugs. 9. Dead bodies are a common sight on the streets in metropolitan areas as well as in plain view along major highways. 10. Vehicle safety codes in Nigeria are non-existent, and vehicle smog emmission controls entirely unheard of in Nigeria. 11. In Lagos, Nigeria's commercial hub, there exist TODAY pedestrian over-head bridges in such disrepair as to have rotted clear through, leaving gaping holes through which unwary pedestrians do regularly fall 50 feet into traffic below. 12. The number of Nigerian metropolitan areas that are served by a centralized drinking water supply can be counted on the fingers of one hand. I would be very interested to hear from anyone who feels that ANY SINGLE ONE of the above twelve points does not on its own classify Nigeria as a third world nation, or who feels that any one of the above twelve points contains an exaggeration or lie. I culled this from another thread in this site just to illustrate the diffrences that can only be described as a great divide. Its just to illustrate to those aking that question, which in itself is a joke of a question |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Akolawole(m): 8:39pm On May 17, 2006 |
@Sage. Nobody is disputing that Naija is the third world country. Thank you. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Javid: 9:42pm On May 23, 2006 |
I suppose life is better financially, however, you do have to pay more to live adequately. Internationalworkpermits.com assists in the migration issues, but once in the UK you will find that accomodation and employment is quite bouyant, so good luck with that. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Metroman(m): 7:36pm On May 24, 2006 |
The ISSUES OF LIFE ARE NOT ONLY MATERIAL I obviously agree that in Nigeria things don't work. And there is so much anguish and pain everywhere you look. But one thing strikes me - THE NIGERIAN PEOPLE. They are the heroes of the day. My friends a lot of Nigerians are toiling honestly and that is why this country has not broken down. Go to the classrooms, clinics and some offices. You will see them. Diligent and Incorruptible. Never giving or taking bribes. Just and True. My parents are amongst them. I hope to be amongst that number in a few years (I am a 5th year Medical Student). I believe in GOD and He alone will judge the wicked that pull down Nigeria everyday by reaping where they did not sow. Bribing, Stealing and Looting in the name of Government. Back to our question, if the issue of life was related to only having $6000 in 2 summer holidays, good roads, great houses and a lot of pleasures, then our answer will be YES, But fortunately or unfortunately, Jesus said, ", a man's life does not consist in the abundance of his possesions, ". Many people abroad are still unhappy despite the fact that things work. There is so much depression, so much addiction to booze, cigarettes, hemp and other mind-altering drugs that tend to make people forget their sorrows. Do you know that in Nigeria, there are less than 100 psychiatrists. But in the US, psychiatry is the 4th largest specialty with numbers being well over 10,000. A recent survey showed nigerians to be the "happiest people on earth". I don't believe it fully but it may have an element of truth Don't you see that the answer to this question. I think it is the response to your environment that determines if it is better or worse. Can't you see that the answer to this timely question is not easy? Thanks for reading. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Ndipe(m): 1:40am On May 25, 2006 |
I agree with your discourse, Metroman but with reservations though. The survey about Nigerians being the Happiest people in the world received mixed reviews. My friend was asking me how people could be happy when they have not been paid salaries for months and went on a tirade on the challenges associated with living in Nigeria. I accepted the survey and I know that I was happier living in Nigeria than living in America. However, the dimension might change, because back home, I lived under the care of my parents. Over here, it is different, so if my parents were in the states, that probably would be a different scenario. On the subject of psychiatrists, even as a medical student, you should be aware that people do not keep statistics back home. I am even surprised that there exists a data of psychiatrists back home. Insanity is a taboo in Nigeria that is very rarely discussed so those afflicted with such problems are kept under lock and key in their household to prevent a scandal. People do have mental problems back home, but sometimes it countered with prayers. Strong family network which is gradually disintegrating back home keeps people from being despondent. Yankee is different. It is a dog eat dog world here, but the amenities do ameliorate the situation. At least if you are jobless, you may qualify for unemployment benefits which is alien in Nigeria. Nevertheless, I will pick Nigeria over any other place in this world. It is very unfortunate that our politicians have messed up our country, thus prompting people to seek refuge in foreign lands. |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by Hotstepper(f): 2:15am On May 25, 2006 |
@Metroman , true talk, i like ur confidence , let time be going cuz since u at at enugu, i go meet up with u diz xmas, i presume u go 2 unec |
Re: Is Life Really Better Abroad? by auxtino17: 1:05pm On Oct 04, 2006 |
DISNEY I FEEL YOU, NO MIND DEM, DEY ARE JUST BEING SENTIMENTAL ABOUT THIS ISSUE.YOU CANNOT COMPARE AMERICA WITH NIGERIA FOR ANYTHING LETS BE SINCERE TO OURSELVES 4 ONCE. You have said it all whereever you are just make the best out of it. Let someone not because he/she is not willing to travel go on discouraging people who want to do so. No light, no water, no good road, no food, no , the list goes on and on. Obasanjo and his friends are enjoying themselve stealing, loathing and pointing accusing fingers on themselves.My people anywhere wen let person stay make e stay as long as he dey see his daily bread dey chop. But i belief the worst thing dat can happen 2 someone na if he e no c breakfast let alone a square meal. How many ppl dey c 2 times chop daily |
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