My boyfriend started acting funny last month.it all started with a certain project, that he had to do a presentation about .I understood that he needed some alone time to really focus cos it was a big deal to his company and all that .in a space of a week,he stopped calling and then stopped picking my calls(that really really hurt my ego).am so confused as to the present development .I know the relationship is over if we are to go by his actions but I just want closure,I just want him to tell me what I did or said wrong to deserve this silence treatment?.

Ok, give me his number lemme ask him why he stops picking your call.

Goldieluks: Ok, give me his number lemme ask him why he stops picking your call.

Thieffffffffff!!!! U wan help am begin file koboko abi?

@op
Jam joor! Give him anoda 3yrs to dial d correct number.

Y worry wen u know d reason....... Send him text msgs, he will respond 2 it.

fateavon4u: My boyfriend started acting funny last month.it all started with a certain project, that he had to do a presentation about .I understood that he needed some alone time to really focus cos it was a big deal to his company and all that .in a space of a week,he stopped calling and then stopped picking my calls(that really really hurt my ego).am so confused as to the present development .I know the relationship is over if we are to go by his actions but I just want closure,I just want him to tell me what I did or said wrong to deserve this silence treatment?.

One thing about guys is that they surprise the more you get to know them. I suggest you give him space. U want closure? He's gonna need one too. Sooner or later, he's gonna pick up that phone and call. For the mean time, live your life and he'll see what he's missing. Cheers

ExponenTal,that's the problem...I don't no the problem .I hv searched my conscience and I just can't place my fingers on anything .obviously,I hv flaws but he was cool with them and he wasn't even into looking at my flaws,he just wanted me to b myself and be happy .it was the major reason y I fell in love wt him in the first place.
@ goldie,very funny....thanks for the Thot...

joeydozzy:

One thing about guys is that they surprise the more you get to know them. I suggest you give him space. U want closure? He's gonna need one too. Sooner or later, he's gonna pick up that phone and call. For the mean time, live your life and he'll see what he's missing. Cheers

thanks,joey.but it's not so easy.....but am trying

fateavon4u: My boyfriend started acting funny last month.it all started with a certain project, that he had to do a presentation about .I understood that he needed some alone time to really focus cos it was a big deal to his company and all that .in a space of a week,he stopped calling and then stopped picking my calls[b](that really really hurt my ego)[/b].am so confused as to the present development .I know the relationship is over if we are to go by his actions but I just want closure,I just want him to tell me what I did or said wrong to deserve this silence treatment?.

Uh-oh! I just had an insight.

ArQueBusieR:
Uh-oh! I just had an insight.

really?,when?

fateavon4u: thanks,joey.but it's not so easy.....but am trying

I'm not saying its easy but its simpler than u think or you just looking for an excuse and he's gonna use that against you

The guy don get new baby. Go babalawo, i hear he don dey use advanced technologies like gps to track boyfriend snatchers

spikes C: The guy don get new baby. Go babalawo, i hear he don dey use advanced technologies like gps to track boyfriend snatchers

@ spikes,lmao,u fit dey correct .....bT I no fit go babalawo ooooo....e never reach that level...e no go reach that one.

fateavon4u: @ spikes,lmao,u fit dey correct .....bT I no fit go babalawo ooooo....e never reach that level...e no go reach that one.

Amen. But seriously, there's really something pulling his mind. Not just work, its not possible to be just work. Maybe, yes, he's having problems at work but not because he has somany things to do. Do you know that when a workaholic wants to rest a while, the first ppl he thinks about is his loved ones. If he doesn't think about you, he doesn't miss you so as to call or even text...hmmmm...na babalawo all the way ooo

On a second thought, maybe he's just playing you to see how you react, men love doing that, infact, Spikes loves doing that

But not for long, if you keep a girl lonely and away from you for a long time, she'll hate you...thats a fact
So, how long has this been happening

@OP- mu ch che che che che. Project indeed.

He is presently working 'hard-on' that project right now.

U don reach d end of ur usefulness. . can i continue from where he stopped?

Cases like these make me question if women are really more complicated than men....
Everything's all good..and before you know it,poof!..they start acting up!
@Op,hang in there a little while...send him a text message once or twice so it doesnt seem like you care less...watch his reactions and if they don't appear promising,find closure within yourself and walk away!
Hard but you'll survive!

Will it be wrong if you go visiting him?

Look 4 d vcd-d rulez of engagement.

spikes C:

Amen. But seriously, there's really something pulling his mind. Not just work, its not possible to be just work. Maybe, yes, he's having problems at work but not because he has somany things to do. Do you know that when a workaholic wants to rest a while, the first ppl he thinks about is his loved ones. If he doesn't think about you, he doesn't miss you so as to call or even text...hmmmm...na babalawo all the way ooo

On a second thought, maybe he's just playing you to see how you react, men love doing that, infact, Spikes loves doing that

But not for long, if you keep a girl lonely and away from you for a long time, she'll hate you...thats a fact
So, how long has this been happening

good morning spikes,can't stop laughing...so u r a drama king?...

Its been 2wks since he started this drama.

no1madman: U don reach d end of ur usefulness. . can i continue from where he stopped?

lmao...very funny...u Too make sense...let me think abt it,ok?

and why should he pick your call

Odunnu: Will it be wrong if you go visiting him?

odunnu,good morning.I have thot about going to see him(going against my polices of going to people's homes unannounced).what of if I end up being em-brassed for one reason or the other,which leg I wan take comot from e house?....that 3hrs bus ride home will be filled wt crying and buying of handkerchiefs......but thanks for the post.
@ slimyem ,thanks a lot for the encouragement.

Op have u tried calling him with another number??..

Getting embarrased and having it sorted out is much better than the suspension you are in?

Odunnu: Getting embarrased and having it sorted out is much better than the suspension you are in?

I swear you get time. How old is the OP?

We don't just act funny, there must be something you said that really shocked him to the point of loosing interest in in you. Women and their mouth.....check the way you guys communicate before now, I m sure u ll know where you use your tongue wrongly

its either u did something wrong, or you are sort of too clingy or very possessive, especially the clingy part.Some guys dont like clingy babes, its irritates them.Give him some space, like say a week.Dont call, text of flash him, let him be, then after a week try a simple text msg.If he responds,fine! if he doesnt, find ur way.Take care.

OP abi u no sabi fakk! Or are u of the opinion dt its no sex till marriage? Cos if I'm ur bf, i'll just barr ur line or blacklist it

I suggest you ignore him till he comes around. He may really be busy trying to concentrate on his project/presentation and your calls may be distracting him or he just wants to use this episode to send a message to you that he is tired of the relationship. Some people never get the nerves to face their partners and tell them it is over.
As someone suggested, just get on with your life.

fateavon4u: good morning spikes,can't stop laughing...so u r a drama king?...

it keeps the relationship fresh,fun and interesting. Relationships is all about adventures.

fateavon4u: Its been 2wks since he started this drama.

2weeks, hmmm, thats enough time to say, 'hey, i think i don't gbadu this boyfriend girfriend thing anymore'.
Well, just give him space, text him once a week for maybe 3weeks and then drop the guy, seriously.

Kai.. D guy don chop clean mouth. Obviously he has seen a beta chick.. Kai poster! Your casefile has gone to the archives. Take heart. Men are wicked ''SMH"